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Archived questions from: August, 2011 (see latest in Big Questions category)

Big Questions: Help and advice

Guys: How To Have The "Swagger " Walk

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4597 days ago

31 August 2011 (M) - So we've covered how to talk and present yourself in from of women, so the last thing I'd like to share is how to have a swagger walk. Enjoy! --------------------------------------------------------------- When it comes to attracting a ...

I want the husband and family. Am I too old now?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 4614 days ago

31 August 2011 (F) - I am 27 and my partner of 4 years has just left me for a younger woman. I was meant to get married to him and have a family and no near my 30s I find myself single. Is it too late for me to have the husband and kids? ...

Am I a tart?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4613 days ago

31 August 2011 (F) - I feel awful about myself at the moment .. can I ask your opinions, honest answers appreciated. I feel like a complete tart ... I met a guy a year ago we had a couple of nights fun (no sex) just stupid really I had recently become single and suppose ...

Why do women often settle for the nice guy over great sex?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 4613 days ago

31 August 2011 (M) - Why do women who are very in need of a solid sex life, settle for men who are not the most sexual? I have seen so many couples lately in my circle of friends where there is a definite mismatch in sex drives, or in some cases, even sexual ...

Why am I getting "No" so often? What are the requirements to work as a Lap Dancer?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4614 days ago

31 August 2011 (F) - Hi, I need some advice as to if I'm just not good enough to get the work I want to do. I hate my job and so am leaving in few weeks and I've decided to lapdance for a while till I figure out what I want to do. I'm degree educated and can talk to p...

Mixing business with pleasure?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4615 days ago

31 August 2011 (F) - I have been working with a guy for 2 years, we knew each other breifly in middle school and so have become friends. Our lunches are at the same time and have always shared relationship woes and given each other advice. When we both were single after ...

How do I ask my boyfriend if he sees himself married again?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4614 days ago

31 August 2011 (F) - I have been dating a great guy for 7 months now. I am 43 and he is 46. I have been divorced for 5 years and he for 10. We really like each other a lot. We have a lot in common. We like each other's kids. We get along well and have good ...

I think my boyfriend is in jail. What do I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4614 days ago

30 August 2011 (F) - I haven't heard from my LDR boyfriend in 12 days. First off I'll tell you a bit about our relationship. We started talking online 5 years ago but we just met and started dating in January of this year. He lives in the US and I live in Canada but we ...

Married woman feeling very guilty over feelings for a married man, how do I get rid of these feelings?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4589 days ago

30 August 2011 (F) - i have a male friend who is married and we have been friends for over 4years. I am married also, happily, and that is why i am very confused as to why i'm having such feelings for this man. We have never done or said anything inappropriate or menti...

Has he fallen out of love with me? Is he just putting up with this because its easier than breaking up?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4615 days ago

30 August 2011 (F) - I have been with my boyfriend over 6 years now, hes 28 im 24 we have lived together for a year. He has become distant, doesnt make much effort these days, i also found a text on his phone saying to his friend 'Any excuse to get away from the missus ...

I cant stop sleeping around when I'm drunk!

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4284 days ago

30 August 2011 (F) - I have a very embaressing problem. I cant stop sleeping around when Im drunk. In the past month, Ive gone out a couple of times and got absolutely plastered, pulled some bloke and took him back to mine. I have sex with them then I kick them out. In ...

How am I ever going to trust him again?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4599 days ago

30 August 2011 (F) - I recently asked what I should do regarding my partner of 5yrs who was texting another girls for sex first of all thanks to every one who helped. but now my new thing is I've agreed to stay together but can't stop thinking about it how am I going to ...

She wants an abortion but I disagree! What can I do?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 4607 days ago

30 August 2011 (M) - Ok so I don't know where to start.. I recently found out that the girl I've been seeing is pregnant with my child. The problem is she does not want to keep the child she wants to get an abortion and I strongly disagree with her! What can I do for ...

Is it normal to only want a really attractive woman? Or am I just disillusioned with an unreal fantasy?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4615 days ago

30 August 2011 (M) - okay I don't wanna seem shallow or anything of the sort but I have a dilemma ive been facing for a good while while in the dating world. Since as far back as I can remember I always pictured my self with a beautiful woman and lately ive been finding ...

Friends with benefits has been going on for more than a year and a half, could it be more?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4615 days ago

30 August 2011 (F) - Wondering if you all could help me with a situation I'm having with my "friends with benefits" if it was that serious. It's more of a f*ck buddy relationship because we weren't friends at the time we met. Anyway, we've been going on for more than ...

Should I tell him his fiance is cheating?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4616 days ago

30 August 2011 (F) - I've recently started a job that placed me in a friend of a friends home as a housekeeper/caregiver, full time. my employer (let's call her S) is just a little older than me and engaged with 2 children. her fiancé, J, is away working often for weeks ...

Should I talk to my guy's parents about his behavior?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4616 days ago

30 August 2011 (F) - Hi My boyfriend seems to have anger management issues and I was wondering how would I teach him that acting agressive towards a woman is wrong? I had considered telling his parents or perhaps letting it be known to a few of our friends but then...

My girlfriend got emotional when I told her I wanted to join the military.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4615 days ago

30 August 2011 (M) - Hey everybody in in a bit of a situation with my girlfriend. I'm considering a career in the US army or air force and when intold her she just Bursted into tears and told me that if she lost me. She would he losing the person who actually cares ...

What's the real reason my boyfriend doesn't want me to get out of the Navy?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4615 days ago

29 August 2011 (F) - this is a situation me and my boyfriend are going through: we've been together off and on since march 2010. i got pregnant by another guy while we were broken up and just had the baby. i'm in the navy and i don't think it's for me. i live in ...

Family pressures made my boyfriend end our relationshp.

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4322 days ago

29 August 2011 (F) - can anyone tell me why in lebanon and the middle east there is a bad attitude towards an older woman with a younger man. is it the same throughout all of the middle east or mainly in lebanese society. my relationship of 2 yrs has ended because my ...

Is my fiancé gay?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4615 days ago

29 August 2011 (F) - I don't want to seem naive asking this question, but I'm afraid my fiancé is gay? He's slowly admitted to me certain things about his past that makes me question this. He's never had sex with a man or been in a relationship with one and say...

Six years and he still won't set a date??

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4616 days ago

29 August 2011 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been together for 9 years, we have been engaged for 6. We do not live together, in fact we only get to see each other maybe once or twice a week because of his work schedule. I love him so much and he says the same. But we ...

My child found a porn video!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4616 days ago

29 August 2011 (F) - Please somebody help me I need urgent expert advice! I just walked in on my 6 year old son watching a porn dvd. The dvd was one my boyfriend gave me for a laugh lastweek, I tossed it in the back of a draw without looking. I left my son watching ...

What help is available to give us some support? My Step son is terrorising the family with his behavior.

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4615 days ago

29 August 2011 (M) - This is very long but there is no way to shorten it. I have been in this relationship with my GF for 3 1/2 years now. She has both a daughter (8yrs) and a son(11yrs). My relationship with the daughter couldn't be better. It's the step son. H...

Am I bi-curious, or something more?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4614 days ago

28 August 2011 (F) - I know there have been other posts like this but... My problem is that recently I have found that to get in the mood for sex with my boyfriend of two years I have started to imagine myself being with another woman. And it really gets me in the m...

Co-worker is jealous and has low self-esteem and is harassing me

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4436 days ago

28 August 2011 (F) - Dear Cupid, this is not a love question but I believe I will get good answers from the great people in this site. I lecture at a university for the past 4 years, my position currently is such that I am most junior; Teaching Assistant. My job is on ...

Leading a Happier Single Life

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4617 days ago

28 August 2011 (M) - I'm exhausted from overanalyzing and despairing about the tendency for love to just randomly fall into people's lives, and how this random occurence has never happened for me, and how there isn't much I can do if it never does, because attraction ...

How can I kick the habit of swearing?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4617 days ago

28 August 2011 (M) - How can I kick the habit of swearing? I feel very bad mannered and want to kick the habit alltogether but how? I feel guilty everytime I swear but I need to learn to control my language before it comes out. I find it really difficult becaus...

My friends say I am losing my dignity. How do I get over being rejected by him? I am beside myself with grief.

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 4616 days ago

28 August 2011 (F) - Hi, I'm 31 and have guy issues. Oh yes...as always!!! i wake up with (Everyday) what feels like a knot in my stomach and feel like I'm about to be sick as reality of what has happened hits me. I thought I met the perfect guy and his very good lo...

How can I tell him? Have I lost him forever? Or could I make this work?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4617 days ago

28 August 2011 (F) - So there's this guy i feel in love with. We went to high school together we both recently graduated in may. He left to go to another state for college. There was no time nor room for a relationship. I don't think he wants to do a long distant ...

How do I tell her I am truly really faithful ? And avoid her getting mad at me again?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4617 days ago

28 August 2011 (M) - I need help I know a guy at my age still had hormones and can't help but to notice a pretty girl. I have a girlfriend of 2 years and she can't stand it if I so much as look in a direction of another girl. She says her friends have boyfrien...

Do I support her in her wish to work in the porn industry? OrI find reasons to help her decide against it?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 4606 days ago

28 August 2011 (M) - She says she wants to do porn.. my fiance is a very beautiful woman however due to her past (abusive mother and a father who was never there) she has almost no self esteem and because of that was often taken advantage of by men when she sought l...

Ladies, aged less than 30, would you date a guy even if he isn't ''FUN''?

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 4615 days ago

28 August 2011 (M) - Would you consider a relatively young male to be dateable even if he is a 180 degrees from the hard party bad boy persona? I am not saying that I am weak, nor that I can't stick up for myself and who I care about. I simply have no interest in ...

How do I get over the put-downs and insults, rather than feel hurt by them?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4617 days ago

28 August 2011 (F) - I met a guy almost a year ago who came on very strong. At first I was not interested in anything serious as he said he didn't want kids. But, he then changed his mind, and really came on heavy with saying he was in love, he wanted to be with me, ...

He's been talking to other girls. should I let go of him or stay because of familiarity?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4616 days ago

28 August 2011 (F) - My fiance and I have been together for more than a year and a half. I love him dearly and would move mountains for him, and for a while, I believed he felt the same. He was my first, and I was hoping my last. But now our relationship is on the rocks ...

Is it me? Does my attractiveness make people not take me seriously?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4617 days ago

28 August 2011 (F) - For some reason, nobody takes me seriously. For reference, I've heard from my friends that I have a fairly, ahem, attractive face and body. I've been told I'm very pretty and have quite the voluptuous body. And I'm not trying to sound arrogant or ...

Can you please help give me some clarity? Because I am drowning in all these relationship troubles.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4617 days ago

28 August 2011 (F) - Okay I have many issues with my relationship but I will bring up one at a time and see what we can figure out solutions. First off I am a 30 year old female in a 8 year relationship with someone who is 1 year older than me. He has 3 kids and I ha...

Do I believe my boyfriend or my friends who claim he cheats, and they hate him for it?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4616 days ago

28 August 2011 (F) - What should i do with my boyfriend who my friends hate?! I have a boyfriend who my 8 best friends don't really like. They have heard numerous rumors about him cheating on me and texting girls weird things in the past 7 months that we have been dati...

I enjoy having sex with my male cousin. Should I be so scared about others finding out?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4602 days ago

28 August 2011 (M) - Hi everybody, this is me confessing something I would never tell anyone. While I wish I can write more in details about it, I'm making it short. This is also a gay thing, so if you are not comfortable about it don't read further. I am not very ...

Should I tell my parents that I am bi-curious? They have never known about my relationship with this bi-girl

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4560 days ago

28 August 2011 (F) - A semi-quick question for anybody willing to answer; I don't know if this love is true blue? I'm going to have to explain this better for you to be able to analyze, so...I am head over heels for my best friend. The feelings are mutual for her, ...

My teacher is about to get married. But I want to see him again. How can I?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4524 days ago

28 August 2011 (F) - i have fallen for my teacher i mean it im in love with him. iv left school about to start college and all i was thinking about was him for 2 months he is 27 going to be married soon :(. When i was in school he alway use to be nice to me and make...

How do I get over this amazing girl I knew who now doesn't talk to me? And deal with my fighting parents?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4551 days ago

27 August 2011 (M) - Hey guys, My parents have been tearing each other down for about 10 years now. Half that time, I've trying to fix their marriage. But its killing me trying to do that. I sleep for at best, 4 hours a night. I've failed a ton of tests at school....

First my BF lies about kissing the girl in the bikini, then he says he put the picture up for "revenge" from me, and he doesn't even like her!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4617 days ago

27 August 2011 (F) - I have had a boyfriend for a bit over a year. We were not official for a while but always exclusive. We became best friends, even through our ups and downs and were alywas there for eachother. We had a really bad phase a few months ago, but recently ...

My Gf keeps telling me how her one night stand guy was better than me. How do I handle this and not get so upset?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4616 days ago

27 August 2011 (M) - Months ago my girlfriend and I had broken up. Soon after we did she had drunken sex with a man she didn't know. well and we had gotten back together and she had told me the details and I was crushed that she had did things with him that we were pla...

Is 'friendship only' possible with the opposite sex?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4618 days ago

27 August 2011 (F) - I am a woman who is looking for a friendship" only" with a man- what do you think?...

Can anyone explain the possible reasons for his behavior? Is he going through a crisis?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4616 days ago

27 August 2011 (F) - A man and his wife had just moved in to manage a small volunteer group. There in the group, they met a several new friends, including me and some members of my family. They start to make good progress with the group. Very soon, he man and his wife ...

"Be Yourself" is Pointless Advice

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3113 days ago

27 August 2011 (M) - Let's leave aside for now the fact that philosophers have pondered for millennia what the "self" actually is. Not going to get into that, most of those men were a lot brighter than I am (okay, all of them were, but that's not the point). Inst...

I really like this girl at work. Does she feel the same?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4615 days ago

27 August 2011 (M) - I've worked with a girl for 4 years. Not along side her, but for the same company. So I have not had much chance to get to know her. But I have had a crush on her for years. Whenever I've tried to talk to her she is very shy, and almost as if...

I have family issues, no close friends and have never had a boyfriend. What's wrong with me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4618 days ago

27 August 2011 (F) - I feel like a looser. I have complex ongoing family issues. Everyone is too preoccupied dealing with their own problems - even I put effort into helping out my mum and sister etcetc to the point where it's adversely affecting my life. I feel lik...

Does wearing a condom interfere with a man's sexual pleasure?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4614 days ago

27 August 2011 (F) - I am just being curious. I went out with a guy and he told me that he does not like to wear condom when he have sex as it diminishes his sexual pleasure. So, I always wanted to know, does wearing a condom interferes with a man's sexual pleasure? Is ...