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Archived questions from: May, 2010 (see latest in Big Questions category)

Big Questions: Help and advice

I need advice regarding an overbearing mother!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5070 days ago

31 May 2010 (F) - It's a bit like daja vu! I was on here just over a year ago with exactly the question!! My boyfriend and I split up because his mother didnt like our relationship, but we worked through that issue and became close again but it was in 'secret'. ...

I just found out my bf was married but separated, yet JUST signed divorce papers!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5035 days ago

31 May 2010 (F) - Before anyone makes any assumptions, here's the background story: I've been dating my boyfriend for about 2 years. The first few months he lived at home with his parents to catch up on debts. I would stay over all the time, and no one in his famil...

My mom spanks me with a shoe, hairbrush and sometimes a belt. How can I talk to her about this?

This question has 19 answers - newest was posted 5046 days ago

31 May 2010 (F) - Hi its a bit embarassing but I'm still getting spanked by my mom usually with her shoe or hairbrush sometimes with a belt. It hurts a lot and I sometimes have trouble sitting after. She wasnt always like this but after my Dad left she has no patie...

What is he thinking in his mind??? I'm so confused!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5070 days ago

31 May 2010 (F) - i was seeing a guy for 5 months, he text me every day from his holiday he and every day morning and night whilst he was away he decided to tell me he had fallen in love with me and when i asked why he said he felt something was missing and that was ...

Totally confused about everything in my life...

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4989 days ago

31 May 2010 (M) - So I'm a guy and I'm 15. I live a very boring life, in fact i have no life at all and no TRUE friends. It sucks. It's pretty lonely and sad. And lately I've been getting a real desire to find someone to call my own. To be in love, to fall in love, ...

My husband is wearing me down soooo much... help!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5070 days ago

31 May 2010 (F) - See I've been married two years and my husband tells me I'm a dog that should be put down, or I should drown in a tub, awful wife. We fight a lot and maybe that's my fault but I wouldn't fight with him if he wouldn't back me in a corner. How so he ...

I need him, he is my Romeo... help!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5067 days ago

31 May 2010 (F) - i just got busted for sneaking my boyfriend over to my house today to hang. My grandma's finace called my mom and she was pissed off, so she is taking my phone so i can not text or call him and we are in love. we made out an had clothes sex behind ...

Does this married man, 26 years my senior, like me for more than revenge on his cheating wife?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5067 days ago

31 May 2010 (F) - Does this married man, 26 years my senior, like me for more than sex? I'm 19 and have started an affair with a 45 year old man. His wife had been cheating on him for 2 years with his best friend before we even met and he stayed faithful to her ...

Why does the man you love need to be so controlling?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5070 days ago

31 May 2010 (F) - My question is why does the man you love need to be so controlling? I was married to him for 29 years. He left me for a younger woman then she died and he came back into my life. I am in her house with him but he wont let me bring my home things ...

I have given him an ultimatum to get married, but I don't want to lose him! What should I do?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5070 days ago

31 May 2010 (F) - im in a relationship with a guy for one year.he says he like me and can also marry me but doesnt love me and not give commitment now.we both are 27.my parents are worried because i should get married now.i gave him 3 more months to tell me whether ...

I take a beating from him because I love him, but I cant cope anymore with his accusations

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5070 days ago

31 May 2010 (F) - I've been with my bf for a year and half..I saw him working one day and decided to talk to him and we exchanged numbers..in the beginning this were great.. 2 months into it he heard stuff from people that was not true..and started calling me a hoe ...

Do you think my relationship is healthy?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5062 days ago

31 May 2010 (F) - i'm with my boyfriend 8 months now and were very happy together, we've never had a fight yet do you's think my relationship is healthy? my friend keeps saying to me its weird we haven't had a fight she fights with her boyfriend all the time, me and ...

Our different cultures are becoming a problem, what should I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5070 days ago

31 May 2010 (F) - Hi, please give me some advice. Iv been with my boyfriend for just over a year now and we live together. I'm 22 he's 30. So I'm British and he's from a Muslim country, he's not religious however but he is set in the culture from there. So we've ha...

Don't you consider this a cruel game?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5070 days ago

31 May 2010 (?) - My friend was at the mall with her family and her dad started a game where they had to "find chubby people." I said that this was a mean and cruel game. She said that it wasn't and it was just a game- just something to do. But still- isn't this mean ...

How do I get to be with my Turkish man?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5070 days ago

30 May 2010 (F) - i meet a turkish man on net 7 munths ago,and i realy fall in love with him ,he said he loves me to,so we strared to speak about getting married and that he will come to my country to live with me,i was married before and i have a son of 7 years old ...

Lonely married military guy

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5061 days ago

30 May 2010 (M) - Dear Cupid, I have been married now for 9 years and I'm not happy with the intimacy in my marriage. I feel my wife is being very resistant to improving our relationship. Our relationship was passionate and giving, on both sides. Even after a...

How do anonymous flings and oral sex differ from having sex with someone you know?

This question has 84 answers - newest was posted 3666 days ago

30 May 2010 (M) - One of the hardest aspects of my being able to accept, get over, and not think about my wife's one night fling (she gave and received oral sex with a total stranger who was much older than her - she didn't, still doesn't know his name) is to ...

Can anyone out there throw me a life raft???

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5071 days ago

30 May 2010 (F) - Hi. I'm an Aunt and I need YOUR help, or a little hug at least. My husband and I have separated. We've separated before and its usually for the same reason, or thereabouts. He's a very hard worker, has now got his own business, looks after me ...

Are guys ever attracted to girls with short hair?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5070 days ago

30 May 2010 (?) - This is a very vain question, I'd like to know what guys think of girls with short hair... I've had short hair for a while now and I suit it, but just because I can't pull off long hair, but are guys ever attracted to girls with short hair?? I...

How can I stop feeling so bored with my life?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5071 days ago

30 May 2010 (F) - I recently finished my degree after 5 years of education. I put a lot of effort into my education rather than the social side and didn't really make a lot of friends, I also continued to work. During my degree I have had a lot go on emotionally, and ...

Should I move abroad with him? Even though I am young I am still scared of making such a big move!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5071 days ago

30 May 2010 (F) - Recently, I've reached a bit of a crossroads in my life. But in saying that, I have no idea where to go from here. I'm lost, really. Not sure what I want to do, etc. Anyway, you get the picture. Almost say it's a quarter-life crisis. I'm wondering ...

Would you stick with your boyfriend if he was going to prison?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5072 days ago

29 May 2010 (M) - I'm 23 and my girlfriend is 20 - we have been together for 3 years. She is at college studying and lives at home with her parents but spends alot of time at my place. I have a bit of a criminal record and a year ago I got a suspended 2 year...

Weird vagina!!!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5065 days ago

29 May 2010 (?) - Some background information, ever since I was 14 I have had one really large labia on my right side, I absolutely hate it!! It makes me so unconfident and especially around inexperienced guys as I'm worried they will just be like "ew, what's ...

Fake bangs?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5072 days ago

29 May 2010 (F) - Hi !!!!! My bangs are really messed up and girls all around me have bomb looking bangs. I want to know if there's such thing as "fake bangs" but not to the front but to the side. If so, where can i buy them ?? Are they cheap ?? Thank You...

I'm beginning to consider walking away from the one man I've ever loved. Is this a good idea?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5072 days ago

29 May 2010 (F) - I have a question about guys who get into their comfort zones. So I've been with the same guy for the past nine years. A typical Ross/Rachel type relationship - soulmates.. not always OFFICIALLY together.. but never really been apart.. you know...

Help!!! How do you continue a romantic relationship with someone who is your blood relative?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5072 days ago

29 May 2010 (F) - I just recently found out that my boyfriend of 1 year is my half-brother. Apparantly my father "got around" a lot more than I had thought. My bf and I have talked many times about our family and what attracted me to him was how much we have in ...

Wife wants kids, I don't think I do anymore

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5073 days ago

28 May 2010 (M) - When I got married, my wife and I talked about having kids some day. Now I'm not sure that I want to have kids... I'm starting to feel pretty sure I don't. This is the most important question I've ever had to answer, because kids are the most imp...

I found out my dad's a cheat!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5070 days ago

28 May 2010 (F) - Yesterday i looked at my dad's phone because the last while he's been very moody with me an my mam an other siblings, what i found was heartbreaking he's texting this girl and in the texts she's saying she loves him, i dont know what to do, i cant ...

Job worries...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5072 days ago

28 May 2010 (F) - I have been out of work for a long time and i desperately want a job! I'm so bored being at home so much, and i feel that life is just passing me by. It's so depressing. I'm 26 years old and i feel i should be making the most of life while i am ...

Success stories after hearing the "I'm not thinking about marriage yet"line?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5070 days ago

28 May 2010 (F) - "OPs Own title" Hello, Has anyone had their boyfriend say that he's not ready to marry yet and that he's not thinking about it yet, and successfully got married to the same boyfriend 2-3 years down the line? Me and my boyfriend have know each ...

Why do I blame myself...?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5073 days ago

28 May 2010 (F) - Why do i blame myself for past physical and sexual abuse that i went through even though i didnt ask for it? :( why am i sitting with all the pain and hurt?...

Not in love with my wife, but have a young daughter.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5073 days ago

28 May 2010 (M) - I'm 37 years old, married, and have a 2 1/2 year old daughter. I'm from the UK and my wife is from Hong Kong. We met in HK through a mutual friend while i was working there. Before we got together she was in another relationship and I knew both of ...

What should I do?? did I get the job or not?? should I ring him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5073 days ago

28 May 2010 (F) - I went to a job interview on wednesday afternoon. the manager basically told me what the job involves and what I would be doing at the shop. he said he called me for an interview cos I have experience in retail.(C.V) he also said he's inte...

Is it common for people to fight in public over a woman?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5073 days ago

28 May 2010 (F) - This is not a relationship question but perhaps some of the aunts will spare a minute to satisfy my curiosity. Yesterday we had a long thread on DC about a violent brawl in a pub between two young men fighting over a girl. Regardless of the OP's...

Coping with loss; is counselling the answer?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5074 days ago

28 May 2010 (F) - So, I've had a pretty bad couple of years. This year my uncle that I was really close to passed away from cancer and my friend committed suicide. Other things have happened in the previous years all in a row that are just as terrible. The death of ...

Any problem with dating your dead wife's aunt??

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5074 days ago

28 May 2010 (M) - is it alright to date your dead wife's aunt...

We laugh and joke around, but does she like me as a friend or boyfriend??

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5074 days ago

28 May 2010 (M) - I have a coworker she really cute and funny, we talk and spend our breaks even scream to talk to each other shell ask me where am I going we joke with each other she does this alot does she like me back as a bf or friend ...

Was this somehow inappropriate?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5054 days ago

28 May 2010 (F) - So today i was called down to the principals office because apparently i have an innapropriate relationship with my teacher. I made her a picture that she even hung up, it was a joke like two people in a sunset and says always and forever! ok,so ...

My best girlfriend's boyfriend is withdrawn, but seems to like her a lot, is this reasonable?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5074 days ago

28 May 2010 (F) - My best girlfriend has been seeing this guy but it's been really hard for him to open up to her. Whenever she ask him questions, he chooses not to answer them. He seems to really like her. What do you think?...

Does a man have to have a sexual release within a certain period of time or not?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4801 days ago

28 May 2010 (F) - Is that even possible? Or does a man have to 'release' every now and then? Because it cant be ignored and its to that point? Can anyone help answer this? Or is this controllable?...

Need some good advice on oral sex techniques, want her to have an orgasm?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5074 days ago

28 May 2010 (M) - Hey. Me and my girlfriend have recently started to go down on each other. Neither of us have gone this far before. We started by me going down on her first, and when I did I used some techniques I found online (using both fingers and tongue, writing ...

My boyfriend's ex broke his heart, she seems to want him again, should I worry??

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5062 days ago

28 May 2010 (F) - my boyfriend's ex girlfriend really hurt him when it came to the end of there relationship and now she is starting to talk to him again and i really dont like it but i know he wont do anything and if she made any form of move he would tell her to go ...

I really, really like my 60 year old history teacher, how do I stop?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5057 days ago

28 May 2010 (F) - Okay so I'm in college...and I love history. I want to be a history SOMETHING. I'm not sure yet but I've always liked, respected, adored my history teachers since I was little. I have this teacher now though...I've been in the class 9 weeks...he's ...

Help with interview questions please?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5074 days ago

27 May 2010 (F) - I am applying for a job at GAP and they are asking me these questions please help me answer them please?? * Please give an example of when you have either given or received good customer service: * Please give an example of when you have ...

A guy with too many feminine traits. Please help!!!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5071 days ago

27 May 2010 (M) - Hello All, I am a guy aged 23 years. This is not a very serious question, but would appreciate your views. I really want to see the movie - Sex and the City - 2". Considering the fact that this movie is considered a "chick flick", woul...

How can I develop better self esteem?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5074 days ago

27 May 2010 (M) - Hi guys. I have low self-esteem and I don't understand why. My Psychiatrist says it could be because of my social isolation and Asperger's Syndrome. But I am wondering if there are other reasons behind it all. I know that I am fat but I don't thin...

I cannot find a potential girlfriend. I'm 31 and still haven't had my first kiss.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5070 days ago

26 May 2010 (M) - Hi, I am a 31 year old male and still have not had my first kiss. No matter what I do, however many social clubs I've joined, all the internet daing sites I've tried etc, I can't even find any potential girlfriends. Virtually no single girls se...

I'm obsessed with being pregnant...help, its driving me mad!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5062 days ago

26 May 2010 (F) - Hey, I hope you can help me out with my situation. During last summer, I 'thought' I was pregnant with my boyfriend's (now ex's) baby. My periods became abnormally light and irregular, I always felt bloated, felt faint, was urinating more o...

Still in love with my ex...what do I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5075 days ago

26 May 2010 (F) - Last year I met a guy I had a relationship with for 3 months. He was perfect for me, except for the fact that he didn't want marriage. We decided to see other people, but were still "together". I ended up leaving him for another guy who did want ...

I'm getting the feeling she's just ignoring me, but I have no idea why

This question has 24 answers - newest was posted 5074 days ago

26 May 2010 (M) - I've been talking to this girl for a while now and I really like her. I thought she liked me as well, so I told her how I felt and it turned out she wasn't looking for a boyfriend and she said she was sorry if she gave me the wrong impression. ...