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Archived questions from: July, 2013 (see latest in Big Questions category)

Big Questions: Help and advice

I lost my friend to a girl, now they're fighting. Are they likely to break up or patch things up? I want my friend back.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3918 days ago

31 July 2013 (M) - Basically I'm just asking when couples start having arguments to the point where they think about breaking up, does that mean they are likely yto break up or will putting wrong to right make them stronger than ever then make them work? I'm askin...

I'm going abroad for a job, shouls I let him know how I feel for him? I've only met him once but I just know he's specialw

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3916 days ago

31 July 2013 (F) - I'm leaving in a month for a job abroad. Should I just tell him how i feel. I took him into consideration but I just feel like I need to move on. He hasn't made a move, we only met once, but I just know what I like. I know what I want and it ...

Can my siblings come after me for a decision my mom made on her insurance policy even though it's not my fault?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3919 days ago

31 July 2013 (F) - Dear Cupid ,I have a question um my mom health is talking an awful turn we don't know how long she will be with us but she made me Power of Attorney over her and I was wondering who do I talk to about is there a (Will) my mom told me that if she ...

The menace of bullying: Why are kids turning increasingly mean nowadays?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 3889 days ago

31 July 2013 (M) - Hi all. I just finished reading http://www.dearcupid.org/question/traumatic-past-haunting-your-present-and-threatening-your.html and I was wondering why kids can be so mean nowadays? I understand that bullying went on lots when we were younger but ...

What are your opinions on pretending to be happy in a broken relationship?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3918 days ago

30 July 2013 (F) - I am wondering what your thoughts are for situations like these. A lot of people cannot leave relationships immediately for various reasons...kids,illness, compromises... I am wondering if you guys have ever needed to pretend everything is ...

I've met a new guy who I like and I led him to believe I was divorced. I'm actually married and my husband is threatening to take my children away from me if I try to divorce him.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3920 days ago

29 July 2013 (F) - I met a guy recently that I am really into and he feels the same about me. This guy is long-distance and is divorced and has been for 9 years. When he asked me "are you married" I answered that I was for five years...kind of giving him the ...

When do you tell a woman you have had a vasectomy?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 3920 days ago

29 July 2013 (M) - If a man has had a vasectomy, when is he obligated to tell the woman he is dating or interested in dating? What I am wondering is, if one decided to disclose this immediately, how would one bring this up on a first date? "So, what are your i...

Bible-thumping dad's bully antics are driving my family apart! Help!

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 3920 days ago

29 July 2013 (F) - Aunts and Uncles, I have a “Bible thumping” father. While I love him and recognize his strengths (type A, making money, engineering things, taking challenges head on, networking), I have been chased down and pestered to believe in God on his terms, ...

How do people cope with being plain looking?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 3921 days ago

28 July 2013 (F) - Has anyone else ever had this? At 21 I was really good looking, then at 23 I noticed my face changing, not aging like wrinkles just started to look like another family member (one I didn't want to look like) I was still fairly good looking the...

Do I believe the things he tells me when he's sober or when he's drunk?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3922 days ago

27 July 2013 (F) - I have been talking to this guy for a while now. We were once best friends but we have decided to take our relationship a little further. (we're not officially together though). He likes to go drinking with his friends but he's not a heavy dri...

If I say yes to his marriage proposal will he later change his mind about me having girlfriends?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3923 days ago

27 July 2013 (F) - Hi I'm hoping I can get some real life experience answers here. The situation is I'm bisexual. I've been dating a Guy for 2 years and I love him deeply. He's none since the day we met that I'm bi and he's never had a problem with me dating a woman ...

Thoughts on losing virginity to a ''friend with benefits''

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 3919 days ago

27 July 2013 (F) - Ok so, this might sound really childish and terrible but I honestly have NO idea what to do and since the whole topic and question in hand is on my head I need help with the answer: Ive been in a ''Friends With Benefits'' relationship for about a ...

How can I make a long distance relationship work?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3924 days ago

26 July 2013 (F) - I met my now boyfriend online about 4 years ago and we have talked pretty consistently. Going back through our earlier messages, he told me multiple times that he liked me but only recently have I shared my feelings with him too. The catch? He'...

At what age did you really start to enjoy life?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 3924 days ago

25 July 2013 (F) - I turned 21 over the summer. I am single with no kids. I am a full-time college student and I will be graduating next year with a degree in accounting. I live at my parent's house, and I work part-time. I have never really felt so low and depressed ...

Is my personal view on sex & relationships so mean or hurtful to others that they have ridicule & ostracize me?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 3924 days ago

25 July 2013 (F) - This is long, my apologies. Hello everyone. I'm almost 21 years old college student who has been alone mostly all of her life. I have never had a boyfriend or never been kissed. Yes, I am still a virgin. I am not an affectionate female. My space is...

Would love your opinion on what you think rational, logical men are like in love?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3925 days ago

25 July 2013 (F) - Hi Would love your opinion on what you think rational, logical men are like in love? I'm very sensitive and emotional, whereas my partner is rational and logical. He said to me: with it not intending to be an arrogant sounding thing, that the grea...

Am I just too sensitive about comments made about my age/looks vs my husband's looks?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3925 days ago

25 July 2013 (F) - People make all kind of remarks about my age. I am in my 40s, I know I look good for my age. My husband is 8 years older than me and has a beard. May be he is looking a bit much older than me, but not to the point that it's possible to imagine he ...

My boyfriend doesn't seem like he has grown up or wants to make life commitments with me. Do I leave him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3926 days ago

24 July 2013 (F) - I have been with my boyfriend for 4 years and in that time, I feel I have grown up a lot and he hasn't changed much at all. I am now 28, he is 27, and he is still showing no interest in wanting to talk about marriage/kids etc. When I met him...

Are girls okay with a guy experimenting a lot with his looks?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3927 days ago

23 July 2013 (M) - I moved to Ireland 4 months back to be with my wife . I'm 33, she is 30. I'm still holding Pakistani nationality and soon will be Ireland citizen thanks to my wife. I always like experimenting with my look: One month I will have French Cut beard and ...

If you have cheated before, are you not worthy of any future relationships? Are cheaters really 'red flags'?

This question has 17 answers - newest was posted 3926 days ago

23 July 2013 (F) - I have read so many questions and responses on DC. The most common response or feedback is IF HE OR SHE HAS CHEATED ON HIS/HER GIRLFRIEND/BOYFRIEND OR WIFE/HUSBAND BEFORE, YOU SHOULD NOT BE WITH HIM/HER BECAUSE HE/SHE WOULD DO THE SAME TO YOU! ...

Advice for job interviews?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3927 days ago

22 July 2013 (F) - Hi, right this isn;t really a relationship question but I wondered if you could still give me some advice. I have a job interview coming up, and I also have to do an assessment centre before hand. I've been to one before and failed miserably as it ...

Is this relationship as good as it gets?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3929 days ago

21 July 2013 (F) - I am 27 (28 next week) and I'm scared I will never have a good relationship in my life. I have had several boyfriend's throughout my life, but none of the relationships have ever been that good. I have been with my current boyfriend for 3 ...

Advice for a untidy boyfriend!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3928 days ago

20 July 2013 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been together for 2.5 years, lived together for a year. We are both social extroverts with a passion for new adventures and life. Where were very different is cleaning and tidyness, with me spending much more time doing ...

If its meant to be will it be?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3931 days ago

18 July 2013 (F) - I wanted to get everyone's opinion on a topic- I was in an abusive relationship for about five years until I left and was brave enough to know that was not acceptable. I since have moved on have tried to date other people but i haven't forgotten ...

Am I just not date-able?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 3932 days ago

18 July 2013 (F) - I have been single for a year now and I am starting to get really frustrated with it. I am a attractive and interesting 22 year old girl. I am over weight, but I, and other guys I know find my body very sexy because of it's shape; I'm very hour ...

How do I tackle my co-worker who is trying to sabotage me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3932 days ago

18 July 2013 (F) - Dear Cupid My office colleague/team member always eyeing for my position. I took vacation for days back with my bf. After i came back from my vacation i feel difference in work environment. He took hold of my position acting as if he is my b...

Having trouble adapting to a much more aggressive culture

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3930 days ago

18 July 2013 (F) - i need advice please.im asian and married to a german man, we are already 10 years together. I dont have problem with my husband, he is ok to me. im living here in germany with my husband for nearly 3 years.my problem is the people here. im still ...

Was this discrimination? Should we make a complaint?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3932 days ago

18 July 2013 (F) - I'm a student about to turn 23 and heading into final year of college along with most of my close friends and we are currently looking for accomodation to live in close to college for the academic year. I have a physical disability and I cant walk ...

I'm willing to give them a deposit on a home, but I want them to make some contribution too

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 3932 days ago

17 July 2013 (M) - Following a divorce over 20 years ago I haven't lived with children who are now both in their mid twenties. Over that time I have maintained a good relationship with them and have always seen and spoken to them regularly. I am now in the position...

Why would my lover ask his wife to pick me up?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 3933 days ago

17 July 2013 (F) - I have a really strange question to ask. Iv'e been involved with a married man for over 8yrs.and please i'm not here asking for comments regarding the long term affair.but today when i texted him and said i will not be home till later this afternoo...

Should I stick it out at this school where I'm miserable because my friends say since I've been here for 2 years I may as well stick it out?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3933 days ago

16 July 2013 (F) - I have been going to this college for two years it seems to be a very prestigious college but I am just not happy. It has been effecting my grades and it seems like the harder I try the more unhappy I become. I have stuck it out for two years. My ...

Do you believe there's someone for everyone?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 3933 days ago

16 July 2013 (M) - I think the media hypes love by saying there's someone for everyone, don't give up on love. etc. NOT everyone finds love. I think society just says this to make people who've been hurt feel better, as well as to encourage procreation and sell ...

Is he interested in me, and if so what can I do to stop it?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 3932 days ago

16 July 2013 (F) - I have a real dilemma and I am in need of advice. I am a single 30-something year old mum and have been single for 9 years. My daughter rides at a local riding school and isn't of the age I can leave her on her own. She has become friends with ...

If you were me, would you take him back?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 3933 days ago

15 July 2013 (F) - Me and my boyfriend of 2 years broke up recently. The relationship was at tipping point and although we loved each other (and still do) very much and had a great connection and friendship, it was time that we either did something about it, or brake ...

My long distance boyfriend insists we get married so we can be together

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 3933 days ago

14 July 2013 (F) - Thank you in advance for any advice regarding my problem. I am pretty torn up inside and I'm not sure of what I should do. I'm 25 years old and so is my boyfriend. My boyfriend and I have been in a transatlantic, long distance relationship for about ...

Can one be a nymphomanic without being promiscuous?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3928 days ago

14 July 2013 (F) - Is it possible for someone to be obsessed with all things sexual without being a nymphomaniac? I was very curious about sex from an early age.... which I am ashamed to elaborate on. Let's just say I would watch films on the television (soft...

Can someone please reassure me that having a small flat will not stop me from having a loving relationship in future?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3934 days ago

13 July 2013 (F) - Advice or just opinions needed please. I'm due to move home after a very painful and drawn out split from my long term partner, who was a binge drinker and abusive. My health became very bad due to the stress of his behaviour and I could no longer ...

Is there ever love again after you lose your soulmate?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3935 days ago

13 July 2013 (F) - Hi everyone :) My boyfriend and I have just broken up, well, he broke up with me something like 6 days ago. Now he's in NYC and he's coming back next week. He broke up with me because he told me that he didn't love me anymore, and he also told me ...

My boyfriend is completely broken up by the loss of his brother

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3938 days ago

12 July 2013 (F) - My boyfriend had a 7 year old brother whom he was extremely close to (the child's father wasn't in his life) about a week ago the boy died from heart problems. Since then, my boyfriend has hardly said a word and hasn't eaten anything and sits...

For the men who use porn, why don't you think of your girlfriend when masturbating?

This question has 16 answers - newest was posted 3936 days ago

12 July 2013 (F) - I'm not sure if this has been asked before but here goes those men who use porn when they have a girlfriend, why don't you think of your girlfriend when masturbating? Surely you find them the most attractive so what's it all about, we need this ...

What can I do about an incredibly sloppy kisser?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3938 days ago

12 July 2013 (F) - What to do about an incredibly sloppy kisser? He opens his mouth way too wide in soft lip kisses and instead of sucking on my lower lip he kind of sucks on my chin? In neck kisses and ear kisses he just licks my ear/neck? Way too much licking and ...

How to win a mind game( push/pull game) at work place?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 3937 days ago

12 July 2013 (F) - Hi. I am wondering if someone could tell me how to win a mind game ( push/ pull game) a coworker guy is playing on me? Is there really any way to win this game as a girl. Thanks for all the help. ...

Is there really such thing as a psychic?

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 3934 days ago

11 July 2013 (F) - Is there really such thing as a psychic? Ok, strange question, but please read. I'm 26 and a mother of one. I have a degree in genetics and I'm a secondary (high) school science teacher, so I'm slightly skeptical of all the supernatura...

Does guy from work want something to happen between us all?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3939 days ago

10 July 2013 (F) - Well I seem to have got myself into an interesting situation to say the least. Last year I met a guy at work,I'll call him Sam, well we became friends chatting to each other at work but no contact outside if it, he flirted often with me and one day ...

Why are the people I work with so nasty?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3939 days ago

10 July 2013 (F) - Why are the people I work with so nasty? I'm so upset:(? I've gotten a new job 2 months ago and I love my job but the people I work with are just pure nasty and bitchy. They are all friends and one big group and they've just left me...

Am I shallow for thinking that the cosmetic surgery took something away?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 3934 days ago

10 July 2013 (M) - There's this girl that I used to date, she was so beautiful and now she's had a nose job. Nothing drastic, she just got rid of the bump on her nose to have it straightened and had the tip raised a bit. It looks really good, if I didn't know her ...

She is the only one who turns me on -- is this a problem?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3940 days ago

9 July 2013 (M) - Hi I'm not too sure if this is a problem or not. Me and my girlfriend have been dating for 3 and a half years. We had a 2 month break at one stage. To the point, my girlfriend is the only girl that turns me on... It's strange,, I look at a pretty...

How old were you when you kissed someone?

This question has 26 answers - newest was posted 3933 days ago

9 July 2013 (M) - just asking, how old where you when you kissed somebody or anybody?????...

How do I tactfully find out why she didn't invite my longterm boyfriend to her wedding?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3940 days ago

9 July 2013 (F) - One of my friends from school is getting married, and though she's spent most of the last 2 years overseas, we are still relatively close friends. I was so excited when she asked me and my best friend to be bridesmaids! When the invitation came ...

Does it matter that I'm not that physically attracted to him?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 3941 days ago

8 July 2013 (F) - hi. Im just looking for advice on dating someone ur not sexually attracted to?! iv met this lovely man, his nearly 17 yrs older than me but that isn't a problem for us. we get on rather well and i feel ifwe get together as an actual couple he would ...