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Archived questions from: February, 2019 (see latest in Big Questions category)

Big Questions: Help and advice

Could these have been semen stains ... is he cheating on me?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 1874 days ago

27 February 2019 (F) - Hi guys. I just need some advise. I’m driving myself mad and keep toying between am I just being super paranoid or is my gut instinct trying to tell me something... basically I want to know show I be weary of my partner! We have been together ab...

I'm pregnant and work part time. My husband wants me to get another job to pay his parents debts.

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 1876 days ago

27 February 2019 (F) - My husband's parents owe a large amount of money to a family member which they can't pay. They have asked my husband to pay the money on their behalf, we are talking £500 per month for the next 10ish years. My husband works 9 to 5 and I work part ...

I'm 64 but still frightened of my dying mother.

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 1876 days ago

27 February 2019 (F) - My elderly narcissistic mother is dying in hospital and after a violent abusive childhood, I hate having to see her. She's an embittered, difficult, hard to please woman and I feel very nervous in her company. I'm 64 now, yet still frightened of ...

I try very hard to acieve at university but my parents think its nothing

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 1879 days ago

23 February 2019 (F) - At the moment, I'm a little upset with what my parents have said. Not exactly sure how I should approach the situation. So it started off by discussing how I'm already in my 2nd year of university and that in a blink of an eye, I would be in my f...

Starting out in serious relationships: Coping with "forever" ending and trusting the next "forever"?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 1880 days ago

23 February 2019 (F) - Please bear with this question. I'd really appreciate supportive answers, rather than blunt or patronising answers, if possible :-) I've only been in one relationship and it did feel like it would last many more years than it did, though it lasted...

Is the company punishing me because I have autism?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 1878 days ago

21 February 2019 (M) - I have learning difficulties and work in the warehouse. I’ve been with the company for five years. since I’ve been at the company I’ve had no issues with anyone who works there. I was told by my assistant boss that he received reports from co ...

I broke up with my violent boyfriend, he wants the ring back but I paid for it!

This question has 16 answers - newest was posted 1881 days ago

20 February 2019 (F) - I have just broken up with my boyfriend of twenty years due to his violent behaviour. the thing is he says he wants the ring he bought me back which is expensive but I feel like in all fairness I have paid for the ring as I gave the cost of the ring ...

I need help with work and love advice! Please help!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 1884 days ago

20 February 2019 (M) - So I’m having a frustrated year so far.... Work I closed my business last year after over 3 years of trading and got into a retail job, I then got let go from that retail job and the got called to go to a different branch. I hate it! I try to see...

My husband wants "space" to deal with his feelings of anger towards me

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 1860 days ago

17 February 2019 (F) - Hello, I am a mother of 3 wonderful children. My husabnd and I have been married for over 10 years. I love him dearly. Recently he has asked for "space." Claims his job and our marital issues are overwhelming him. Says he loves me but doesn't ...

I hate the way my partner talks about my children and I'd rather live alone than be trapped in a relationship with him

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 1886 days ago

17 February 2019 (F) - Hi there. I am in a long-term relationship and love my partner but i feel very trapped. I have 2 children from a previous relationship that are teenagers and my partner doesnt have a strong relationship with them but they do all get along well most ...

Why don't I have any drive or passion for my business ideas?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 1887 days ago

17 February 2019 (M) - This isn't about love but I could really use some advice. I hope that's ok. I poured lots of money into a tv show pilot, the problem is I'm not motivated to continue with the idea. I think the idea is good and needed but I find myself dragging ...

My mom is being really overbearing regarding my wedding and it's taking a toll on me

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 1886 days ago

15 February 2019 (F) - This isn't about my relationship with a partner. This is about my relationship with my mother who has been extra attached and possessive with me because my older sibling never became close to my mother and avoids her. Due to which I have always ...

Were my comments racist?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 1890 days ago

14 February 2019 (M) - Hi everyone, I had an interesting and slightly upsetting conversation with a friend tonight. We got on to many inane topics that a few drinks brought to the surface and he asked me about my ‘type’. I explained that I am not someone to gener...

Are their comments a sign of insecurity? How do I reply to them?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 1893 days ago

11 February 2019 (M) - I admit this question is more of a curiosity than anything, but I ask because I've heard it a lot lately from my female coworkers and friends. They say things like, I'm old (49) or I look old, or my personal favorite, "one advantage of working in a ...

Should I try to track this woman down?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 1891 days ago

9 February 2019 (M) - Hi, I'm a 32 year old man, I have gotten out of a long term relationship about 6 months ago, which lasted 10 years and a 3 year relationship prior to that. Anyway last night I met a woman that I got on with quite well and ended up kissing her. But I ...

In a polyamorous relationship and the woman is pregnant. How do I deal with the pregnancy?

This question has 20 answers - newest was posted 1889 days ago

9 February 2019 (F) - I'm in a very unfamiliar type of situation and not sure where to turn for advice. I am a woman dating a married couple (FMF polyamorous triad) for about 6 months, and we have all been getting along great to where we spend most days together, and ...

Can anyone help with any tips about cellulite?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 1893 days ago

8 February 2019 (F) - Can anyone help with any tips about cellulite? It is really affecting my confidence and has been a life-long problem, really puts me off beginning a relationship. Since puberty, I've had terrible cellulite. I am otherwise 'skinny' and, fully cloth...

I want to travel but I'm bad at long distance and at the same time don't want to break up with my boyfriend. What should I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 1895 days ago

7 February 2019 (F) - I've been with my boyfriend for three and a half years. We've lived together for two of those, at least during semesters - we go to the same college. The rest of the time we go home to our families at opposite ends of the country. I will be grad...

I fear I will fall apart because of the distance that his military life has created

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 1898 days ago

7 February 2019 (F) - My boyfriend left a few weeks ago to study at the army’s university for four years until he finishes his course and begins a full time job as an officer. I spent the last couple of years of my life by his side day in day out without ever spe...

On the one hand her behaviour is awful and she's constantly picking up fights but on the other hand she's very keen on moving in together! What's going on here?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 1898 days ago

6 February 2019 (M) - Hi I've been with my girlfriend for 2 years. We're making plans to move in together soon. Everything was pretty much perfect until about 6 months ago when she started picking fights with me and usually there wasn't a clear reason, nothing I had do...

Money, my relationship, my girlfriend's friend and her boyfriend "chipping in". How do I deal with all of this?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 1895 days ago

6 February 2019 (M) - Hey, I been with my gf for 3.5 years. We are living apart due to finances. Throughout our relationship I have been supporting and providing. Recently I have not been able to due to my work, our meeting has been suffering, we are unable to do ...

My friend’s study habits really bother me and may affect my education!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 1896 days ago

6 February 2019 (F) - So this isn’t anything to do with love but I don’t know who else to ask. I am currently in my second year of university and have made some incredible friends, throughout the first year they pushed me to achieve the best grades so when coming to g...

Any advice on premarital counseling?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 1899 days ago

5 February 2019 (F) - My fiance and I are recently engaged and want to try premarital counseling. We have a good relationship but I think counseling will give us a chance to discover/discuss topics we may not have thought about. We also both agree that we need to work on ...

Does it sound like my boyfriend is married or not?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 1898 days ago

4 February 2019 (F) - I found out my boyfriend had someone else a couple of years ago.this woman has phoned me a few times claiming to be his wife but what she says doesn't add up.he admits to having had a relationship with her but denies they are married.when I first ...

I'm bisexual and I have a girlfriend but I develop deep, emotional but non-sexual bonds with much older women. Why does this happen?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 1900 days ago

4 February 2019 (F) - Hi everyone! Thanks in advance for taking the time to read this. I'm not sure my question belongs on a relationship site, but this is seems like the most suited place I've come across so far so I'm just gonna give it a try. I'm a bisexual (or pan...

Why do people ignore me and focus on my husband? Why am I always invisible?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 1896 days ago

3 February 2019 (F) - When my husband and I are out people address him only . Even today for example a guide at a gallery approached us to to speak and addressed the whole talk to husband even though he showed limited interest and I showed interest . My husband had said...

I love dogs but my boyfriend doesn't. How can I make him change his mind?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 1891 days ago

3 February 2019 (F) - My bf and me got into an argument tonight because we were talking about dogs and I said they are better than people. He asked why I think that. I said because dogs are so selfless and pure. They are always happy and love unconditionally. Unlike ...

Girlfriend wants his Playstation

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 1902 days ago

1 February 2019 (F) - Hellooo Everyone, I'm going to try and keep this simple. My boyfriend and I were meant to be going to visit his family for the weekend. On Saturday, I will be home alone for about 7 hours while everyone goes and watches a football game ...

What is more important for a long term relationship: sexual attraction or comapnionship?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 1901 days ago

1 February 2019 (F) - The last two relationships I was in were with two very different types of people. One was with a guy who flirted with me from the day we met, and who I was strongly attracted to. Once we broke the ice we couldn't keep our hands off each other. The ...

I'm tempted to move out while he's away at the wedding

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 1900 days ago

1 February 2019 (F) - I am having severe mixed feelings . My fiancé and I have been together 3 years (engaged for 9 months now) . Long story short things were extremely on and off for the first two years until he finally realized what he had and asked me to marry him . ...