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Archived questions from: October, 2006 (see latest in Big Questions category)

Big Questions: Help and advice

My boyfriend has started to drink more and more, should I be concerned ??

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 714 days ago

31 October 2006 (F) - My boyfriend likes a beer but has started having 2 and 3 beers every night. Is this normal or should I be concerned?...

I'm not quite sure how to make myself happy....any advice???

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 714 days ago

30 October 2006 (M) - I need to ask is the story I'm about to give sound sad? I used to get bullied badly at school and was too scared to tell the teachers AGAIN as the bullying got worse. Although thats over now, since then and after my girlfriend broke up with me after...

I don't want to put the pressure on him about me moving, so what should I do???

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 715 days ago

30 October 2006 (F) - Guys - I will try to keep this short. Any help is so much appreciated. So, I have posted before about my boyfriend who lives in Ireland. I live in the UK. WE have been together two years and the general consensus is that I will one day move to ...

Left our spouses, but now he doesn't know what he wants....what should I do???

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 715 days ago

30 October 2006 (F) - I got married August 2006 after living with my partner for 5 years, our relationship was more a convenience that anything else and I always had strong feeling for someone who worked at the same company as I did. Having been married for 8 months I ...

My boyfriend cheated because I had an abortion, now I am pregnant again.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 715 days ago

30 October 2006 (F) - I am a 21yr old female whose been in a relationship for 3yrs this past August.I am currently pregnant with twins for my boyfriend.At the ending of the 1st yr we meet i went and got an abortion dispite what my boyfriend wanted (he wanted me to keep ...

How do I convince my ex wife to be checked by doctors? She says she is too busy.

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 679 days ago

30 October 2006 (M) - My ex wife has lumps in her breasts, yet refuses to seek treatment. She is quite small chested and is worried that her breasts will not fit onto the mammogram machine. She is 26 and has 3 children. She also has never had a cervical smear, despite ...

Do I risk it all for a younger guy, with no certain job prospects that I love with a constant desire I have not felt with my bf? Is this a long-dull-period?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 715 days ago

30 October 2006 (F) - I fell in love when I was 19 and have been with the same guy ever since (now I am 25). 2 years ago he went overseas to pursue higher education and we've been dating long distance in the meantime (I stayed on to study locally). We always plann...

How can I contructively deal with negativity?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 714 days ago

30 October 2006 (F) - I am feeling abit down and frustrated with myself because of the way I let people treat me, mainly regarding my boyfriend but also a few of my friends. I was quite hurt by the way my boyfriend treated me on his birthday (he initially invited me to ...

24 year old virgin. What will guys think? I need advice.

This question has 67 answers - newest was posted 185 days ago

30 October 2006 (F) - im 24 and ive never had sex. how lame is that? what will guys think when i tell them? i pretty much have no experience..i need advice....

Want a electric lady shaver to shave pubic hair. Not sure if I'm comfortable buying a razor for this reason!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 715 days ago

29 October 2006 (F) - im 15 and don't like pubic hair either i read the answers given to a question a few days ago and one said to get a electric lady shaver, as im only 15 will shops sell me them, as i don't really think that its a convrsation i would be comfortable ...

How do you know if you fancy someone?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 666 days ago

29 October 2006 (F) - This is probably the most vague and stupid question in the world, but how do you know if you fancy someone? I've often been confused about the exact emotion you're supposed to feel when you have a serious crush on someone. I mean, just because you ...

I need to get 2 teeth pulled out and I'm petrified! How can I cope?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 716 days ago

29 October 2006 (M) - hi im 13 and i due to get two adult teeth pulled out in a couple of days and im petrified! iv had teeth out before and i hate it. what can i doo???? please please help!...

Blood and brownish spots in my underwear...what does this mean?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 716 days ago

29 October 2006 (F) - Ok, i have this problem...for like a couple weeks i have been having blood in my underwear, but its not like a regular period tho, and i am like a month and a half or two months late, but i have like brownish spots in my underwear everyday or ...

PMS problems..are bothering me! Has anyone got any ideas on how to cope?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 562 days ago

28 October 2006 (F) - Lately I have had a very umpleasant premenstural symdrome,before I only had a headache 2 or 3 days and felt tired now I also get swollen and suffer from a lor of breast tenderness which makes me feel very uncomfortable without my bra. I start ...

How do I get people to notice me?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 717 days ago

28 October 2006 (F) - Hey... it's currently half-term at my school, and after half-term I want to go back, and be completely different. At the minute I'm always quite awkward, I'm tall and am always falling over my own feet, everything I say never seems to come out ...

What's happening with my periods?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 717 days ago

28 October 2006 (F) - Hi, Just looking for help because I'm really confused now. My last normal period was 6th-10th September and they are regular so I was expecting to come on again around the 8th of this month. I waiting until I was a week late and took a pregnancy...

I'm 13 and experience very heavy periods. Is this normal?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 717 days ago

28 October 2006 (F) - Heyyy, Is it normal for a 13 year old to have really heavy periods, cause when i stand up its like a waterfall and i need the toilet quite alot and i normally feel dead during the day. and i spend around 10 mins in the toilet each time. am i too ...

I'm 20 and have no driver's licence. I feel jealousy toward teens who drive. How do I cope?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 717 days ago

27 October 2006 (F) - I am 20 years old, and I still don't have a driver's license, and I feel jealous when I see teenagers driving vehicles by themselves. I am trying very hard to become good enough to get a license, but I am also trying to earn money for car insurance....

I am busy...how do I find a proper balance to fit all these things in my schedule?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 718 days ago

27 October 2006 (F) - I am having trouble with fitting school, a job, activities, and just having a good time all into one schedule. I know that there needs to be a balance of all these things in life, but right now I am in a jam....

How do I remove the sexual tension and make our work environment more friendly?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 718 days ago

27 October 2006 (F) - I just got married five months ago, we just recently moved right after getting married. I find myself now with a schoolgirl crush on my boss, who is about 15 years older than me and has a wife and toddler at home. He's really smart and attractive; ...

Falling for someone who is already with someone!!!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 654 days ago

27 October 2006 (F) - i am falling for this guy i know but he already has a girfriend what should i do? please help!...

If you don't have sex, is it true that your vagina closes up?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 718 days ago

27 October 2006 (F) - I lost my virginity this july, and i prob wont have sex for a while now! is it true that like your vagina closes up (and what does that really! mean by the way) Advice plzz...

Girls and butterflies

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 718 days ago

27 October 2006 (M) - From my life experience there are two types of girls that I have liked: 1. I get butterflies in my stomach when I'm near them and I just don't know what to say because I'm so nervous... but I really relaly like them, and that feeling is something ...

I want to make a career in fashion..anyone got any tips on that?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 718 days ago

26 October 2006 (F) - Hello hi , im nat im 16. Well i've just finished my first 6 weeks at 6th form and yeah, it's ok, but i'ts given me second thoughts. I want to do something with fashion i've been told i have talent i've done abit of making and i have a portfolio...

Who should have the last say on this abortion?

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 718 days ago

26 October 2006 (F) - Hi there. If a couple is pregnant, married, and has the means to bring up the child well (financially speaking and in a good neighborhood with a good education, etc), and one partner wants to have an abortion and the other doesn't, what should be ...

Was asked to be best man but his wife-to-be has banned me from the wedding!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 718 days ago

26 October 2006 (M) - Quick question. Should I be angry when my best friend is getting married and tells me that I am the best man. Well, the reason for my anger is he called me today and said that his fiance says she doesn't want me to be in or at the wedding. I have ...

He doesn't want anything serious just fun...I don't want to give up on him!!!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 445 days ago

26 October 2006 (F) - Hello... Ive fallen for a guy that i really want. He's just recently become single and is a couple of years younger than me (20). We got together recently and we've txt since, but im not sure where to go from here. He doesnt want anything se...

I know he doesn't want anything serious but I don't want to lose him!!!!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 719 days ago

26 October 2006 (F) - Hi there... Ok this is really embarrassing.... ive been after this guy for about a month, he's recently come out of a two year relationship and has warned me he doesnt want anything serious. The other day we watched a film together and one ...

Women...do you get the urge to cross examine your boyfriends after a night out???

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 718 days ago

26 October 2006 (F) - How do other women resist the urge to question their boyfriend about his nights out? Who was there, what women he was speaking to, etc? My boyfriend is always very untalkative about nights out and it makes me suspicious. I always want to question ...

When should I phone her and what should I say???

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 719 days ago

26 October 2006 (?) - if i get this girl's number when can i call her? we both go school. i'm 16 and she is 14. i suppose when i get the number it's only generally askin just in case i need it! but i doubt she will be expecting me to call or will she? what can i say when ...

I'm getting mixed signals!!!! Should I keep trying or give up???

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 719 days ago

26 October 2006 (M) - Hi, i,ve been getting signals from this lady for about four weeks, after two weeks she gave me her number and we txt each other a couple of times a week. last sunday i asked her out on a date, she accepted without any hesitation, and said she would ...

What are the signals as to whether someone fancies you???

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 267 days ago

26 October 2006 (M) - how do you know if a girl fancies you? what are the signs? thanks...

It's just basically sex and talking...I'm scared and feel sick when I think of it being anything more!!!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 719 days ago

26 October 2006 (F) - this may sound stupid, but i think i may have a problem with intimacy. not sex, but being emotionally close to another person. the reason i say this, is i've been "seeing" this guy for a coupld of months, which is basically just sex and talking....

Who comes first? The spouse or the kids?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 720 days ago

25 October 2006 (F) - Traditionally, I have always believed that in a relationship where children are involved; be it children from outside the relationship or not, your partner/ spouse comes first and the child second to the unity of the “adult” relationship further, ...

He wants me to move in....I don't understand why I am feeling scared!!!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 720 days ago

25 October 2006 (F) - my boyfriend wants me to move in with him i am 42 and he 48 we are happy together but i dont understand why i am feelinf scared plz help me...

Someone told me recently that someone like me shouldn't be with someone like her...are they right???

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 718 days ago

25 October 2006 (M) - I have been in a relationship with my gf for a year. She is attractive as i have seen guys ogle at her when we've been out. We're oth at uni so she's fairly smart, and I'll admit I think I'm a nerd but she said that I'm just really sweet and clever. ...

In two weeks, I will be marrying this guy who I think is arrogant and stubborn? Advice needed...quickly!!

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 691 days ago

25 October 2006 (F) - Please can you answer this ASAP - im in a bit of a state. I am due to get married in less that 2 weeks. My fiance is driving me totally mad. I know the run up towards a wedding is stressful enough but he is impossible. All the traits I knew he...

I can't lose weight...Will girls go for a fat guy?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 719 days ago

25 October 2006 (M) - dear cupid i am having problem losing weight, i mean im on diet n i walk 20 minutes everyday and do gym, but am not losing weight, ive been doing this for a year. my other concern is that i heard girls will never go for fat guys, is that t...

Does it mean anything when a lad gets a hard on thinking of you in your underwear???

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 720 days ago

24 October 2006 (F) - does it mean anythig if a lad gets a hard on over thinking of you in your underwear?...

Should I wear make-up or no???

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 721 days ago

24 October 2006 (F) - Do guys who dislike makeup on women ALWAYS feel this way? (Hope some guy will answer.) This coming weekend am going to a fancy social event with a guy. I've been trying to get back together with him for awhile and at the moment we really seem to...

He seems to have a crush on me should I write him a letter???

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 721 days ago

24 October 2006 (F) - Yesterday I ran into this guy that I have known for two years, and he seems to have a crush on me. I would like to write him a letter to tell him that I feel very flattered, but I don't want his parents to worry, he still lives with them, and he ...

How can you make a guy want you more and be the one to want and ask for it to be official???

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 415 days ago

24 October 2006 (F) - What can a woman do to make a guy want her more. I have been seeing a guy (we are not yet official) but I want to keep him interested and would like us to be official, however I would like him to be the one to tell me he wants it to be official. ...

I'll feel more confident if I get bigger breasts...do breast enlarging pills work???

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 608 days ago

24 October 2006 (F) - i've really small boobs i measure 34AA they're really small, it's like nothing but a nipple because i'm really thin. should i take breast enlarging pills? which ones work better? pills or creams? i'm only 17 though maybe it'll grow but i'm getting ...

I want to know if Dear Cupid is a free chat room service or not!!!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 721 days ago

24 October 2006 (F) - I want to know if the Dear Cupid is a "Free" chat Room Service or not. ...

While we was friends and getting to know each other I was sleeping with my ex...do I tell my current boyfriend???

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 721 days ago

24 October 2006 (F) - Hi, Im a 22 year old who is in a good relationship with a 36 year old. age gap aside......... before we got together we were friends for a whole year. we shared a bed occasionally and sometimes got frisky but didnt have sex. meanwhile i was ...

I want the singer to notice me!!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 718 days ago

23 October 2006 (F) - I'm going to a concert in a few weeks, and I know this is stupid, but I want the singer to notice me (or just other people going to see him) What should I wear to a Lil Chris concert that I'll look super sexy in? And does anyone know how to get ...

I've been feeling ill and don't know what to do....

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 280 days ago

23 October 2006 (F) - why do I always feel so unwell? i've been feeling not 100% since late June, either stomach ache or feeling sick, and my eating has changed. I tend not to eat as much now, though I wouldnt say I under eat tho i have lost some weight,not loads. I just ...

Should I move in with him???

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 204 days ago

23 October 2006 (F) - My boyfriend has been through a divorce about 2 1/2 years ago. His ex-wife cheated on him, and decided to leave him. It was really hard for him to go through this. To the point he, along with the rest of his family and friends, believe he will be ...

Is it safe to take one extra week of birth control???

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 716 days ago

23 October 2006 (F) - Do anyone know if it's safe (baby-proof as well) to continue to take one extra week of birth control pills? To clarify, I'm suppose to have my period next week, but I want to delay it for a week(going on a trip), can I just open another package and ...

Is it a good idea to ask a guy out??

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 722 days ago

23 October 2006 (F) - Hi I would like opinions on whether or not it is a good idea for a girl to ask a guy nearly the same age (although he is months older) out and what would be the best way to do this without looking desperate - guy opinions definitely welco...