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Archived questions from: April, 2015 (see latest in Big Questions category)

Big Questions: Help and advice

Would it be cruel to leave him. Or could it do him some good? I'm terrified of what'll happen if he continues like this.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3269 days ago

30 April 2015 (F) - I'm between a rock and a hard place and I really need some advice. My boyfriend has always smoked weed. At first it was just once or twice a month when he would hang out with a particular friend. I didn't like it but he never did it in front of m...

We had a casual thing between us about 4 years ago. Why would she ignore me now?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 3275 days ago

30 April 2015 (M) - Ok, so me and this girl used to have a casual thing going about 4 years ago. We were both single then. Since then i've married someone else. We've stayed in touch and met up a few times. On a couple of occasions we have slept together which s...

What do I need to say to my boyfriend? Because I really had never had sexual relations before I had sex for the first time, recently, with him.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3276 days ago

30 April 2015 (F) - I had sex for the first time, but my boyfriend thinks now thar I was not virgin since I was loose and didn't have pain and he saw no blood .? but I really didn't have sex before please help ...

How do I tell my boss that I can't come to work as I'm already booked to attend a convention? Not sure how to break the news.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3258 days ago

30 April 2015 (F) - Modnote: poster clarified that she holds 2 jobs. One weekdays Mon-Fri and one part time at weekends. .............................................................. I work as a Nanny full-time 9-5 Monday through Friday. A week or so ago, she told me ...

My concern is that he's rather stingy and that after almost 2 years he's not ready for being together in person. Advice?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 3272 days ago

30 April 2015 (F) - I've been in a Long Distance Relationship for almost two years. My boyfriend is a six hour flight away and I fly to see him once a month, duration of stay is 4-7 days each visit. During the time that we've been together, he has only visited three ...

Why does every girl just want to be friends? I don't get past date three. And now this girl'stopped texting me !

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 3277 days ago

30 April 2015 (M) - so this girl was a regular customer at my store, and we had so much in common. (How many girls love giant monster and horror movies lol) and we started hanging out, nothing serious at all. We would watch cartoons together over Skype and text all the ...

Should a shy geeky guy visit a prostitute to gain some experience before I Try to find GF

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 3253 days ago

30 April 2015 (M) - I'm a 24 year old male virgin who has never kissed a girl nor have I ever been on a date. I'm not particularly good looking and I don't have six pack abs. Not to mention I'm a giant film/video game/comic book geek as well. I research this to...

Pregnant after four months dating. How have others coped in a similar situation?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3278 days ago

29 April 2015 (F) - I've been dating my boyfriend for four months now. We have known each other for about five years as we work together. We have liked each for a couple of years but we were in relationships and had to deal with those first. I ended up splittin...

How can I calm my anxiety at the thought of losing him? Plus I need a guide on dating an introvert, please?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3277 days ago

29 April 2015 (?) - I think i need a guide for dating an introvert... I am a very social, loving and very caring person. When in a relationship i always put the other person first, and always like to keep in contact, and do lots of thinga with them. Yet my boyfr...

Who should I choose? My ex, who called my reaction too jealous? Or this new guy I've just met?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3276 days ago

29 April 2015 (F) - My older, once divorced boyfriend of two years recently told me that he wanted some space. He stated that I showed red flags of violent jealousy, during an encounter with his female friend at a local sports bar one Friday evening. He asked her ...

She calls me her daughter but charges me $US 500 per month to live with her. Is that too much?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3278 days ago

28 April 2015 (F) - Im 19 year old, I live with my ex guardian. I have been living with Her since I was 16 year old when I dad passed. She increased my monthly payment to $500 a month for staying there. I used to pay $300 before. She calls me her daughter but why do I...

Is this verbal abuse? Are we just not right for each other?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 3278 days ago

28 April 2015 (F) - I am on the fence about the man I have been in a relationship with for 2 years. I don’t know whether I am wanting to get out of the relationship too soon or if am avoiding the warning signs of what could be verbal abuse. Background Sto...

I found out about his daughter a year into our relationship, and he didn't lend me money for my school fees because he puts her first!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3278 days ago

27 April 2015 (F) - I'm 24yrs and my guy is 29yrs too we have been friends since childhood but he asked me for a relationship as at last year so after one year he told me he had a 10yrs daughter out of wedlock and he said the reason why he refused to tell me such at ...

He's ''not sure about our relationship''?? Is this a temporary natural phase in a relationship? Or is it likely to be permanent?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3279 days ago

27 April 2015 (F) - I've been in a wonderful relationship for over two and a half years now, and I thought everything was alright until last year. My partner said he wasn't sure about this relationship, so I gave him some space, and he eventually decided that he want...

Unrequited feeling for a guy. Will I ever find a guy who really likes me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3280 days ago

27 April 2015 (F) - I am 20 and I had an unrequited feeling or is that what you call it at a guy i know for 8 years. All my life i have known, that I had liked him a lot but I was unable to confess and hid it all this time. Instead I find joy and happiness just w...

Should I walk away? Should I send the note?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 3277 days ago

27 April 2015 (M) - After 4.5 years of friendship, J and I began a relationship over Xmas which has largely been conducted online, because of her employment. I'm 32 and am plenty experienced, but this is the first time I feel I could be falling in love. Just recen...

Yes, there's depression (being medicated). And the desire to be more positive. So how do I get a more positive outlook?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3279 days ago

27 April 2015 (F) - How do I get a more positive outlook on life? I am twenty years old and I am struggling with severe depression. I currently work in administration with no hopes of furthering my career as my job contract ends here soon, and before that I have alw...

What can I do about my suspicions that my husband is having an affair? He's not reacted well when I asked.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3278 days ago

27 April 2015 (F) - I have been married for 11 years and we have a 9 yr old child. Recently I feel that my hubby is not being truthful to me..... I feel he is having a extra marital.....if not an affair......maybe a friendship......stage of relationship with his sch...

Why is it that everything in my life seems to become complicated?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3280 days ago

27 April 2015 (F) - Is it in My life that everything seems to be complicated? I either i have bad luck or i am doing something is wrong some where. Ever since my mother passed away when i was 16 years old..it has been a bumpy ride. Okay i have good intentions fo...

I am 43 and I would like to have a baby.

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3278 days ago

27 April 2015 (F) - I am 43 and would like to have a baby for the first time. I was married for 15 years but didn't try for a baby because my ex husband didn't want one. Since we divorced 5 years ago I hadn't met anyone with whom I could imagine having a child and ...

Don't want to lose him. But how can I make this work? I'd like to feel that I'm....wanted.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3280 days ago

27 April 2015 (?) - OK so right now i've been dating this lovely guy for around 5 months. And i dont want to lose him, but my issue is he is a very distant person. He is an introvert (and he admits this often) and well...im a very social and openly affectio...

How to juggle the needs of my father and my desire to study and create a better future for me. Any ideas on how, please?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3280 days ago

27 April 2015 (M) - My situation is unique. When I was 17 my father who is my single parent became very sick and now is considered disabled and barely makes any money anymore so when I finished high school I got a job instead of heading off to college so I could help ...

How do I give him the green light?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3274 days ago

26 April 2015 (F) - Hi lovely people! Please, before you think 'not another girl with an impossible crush on a gym instructor', he's 3 years older than I am, and not the 'typical flirty gym guy'. He doesn't flirt with anyone else. Not just from what I can see, but...

My boyfriend wants "space" for a month and I am scared he wont come back!

This question has 24 answers - newest was posted 3261 days ago

26 April 2015 (F) - My boyfriend requested time apart. He said we're arguing too much. He doesn't want to end things, he wants to re-evaluate everything and he wants to be with me. I asked him not to string me along if he knows it's over, but he said he doesn't know. ...

Are my large breasts an impediment to finding and dating a guy? I feel my breasts are a turn-off.

This question has 16 answers - newest was posted 3229 days ago

26 April 2015 (F) - I have large breasts ,( an e cup )and have been single a while now . It seems to me that men don't like big breasts and actually find them a turn off. I am beginning to feel insecure and think no man will ever want me as every guy I talk to or re...

Would it be wrong make up an alternative story for officials about how we met? She is my fiancée and we met via webcam. She was a webcam model.

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 3280 days ago

25 April 2015 (M) - I met a woman. She was a webcam model. We fell in love, got engaged, and now are planning weddings. She is from Russia, me USA. We applied for fiancé visa and have the interview next week in Moscow. They will also ask us how we met, but we ar...

Should his voyeurism concern me? How can I believe that I am the woman for him when all his thousands of saved images of women all look nothing like me?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 3280 days ago

25 April 2015 (F) - i am currently engaged to my partner of just over 2years. I have since constantly found images he has taken of women in public, on screens or saved of women. Also the usual porn etc... On his phone, email, playstation, in our new home (dvd's, ...

Is it too risky to spend time with this very sexually experienced guy considering that I want to remain celibate until I marry?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3282 days ago

25 April 2015 (F) - Hi, About 3 months ago I met this guy and we started talking! he told me that when he was in high school and university so let's say a time frame from 18-24 he lived a pretty risqué lifestyle..and has been with a lot of women! he was in serious r...

My daughter is being so excluded in her class by her classmates. How can this ostracism be dealt with?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3282 days ago

25 April 2015 (F) - Hi, My daughter is being so excluded in her class. And the girls ignore her and don't really want to hangout with her. This of course has affected her and of course concerns me. She is almost 11, beautifull both inside and out., sweet but on the...

When I mentioned I'd had a bad day he changed the subject. Is this lack of empathy an indication that he doesn't care as much as I thought he did?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3282 days ago

25 April 2015 (F) - i'm not sure if i am over reacting or this is the sign for me to say bye to this guy. Hes 28, i'm 25, both from same country and same religion. we met of a matrimonial website. Cutting it short, we've been speaking for a short period of t...

I feel stuck. Is it reasonable that I feel so hurt at his lack of priority for me in his life?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 3281 days ago

25 April 2015 (F) - I have just ended a relationship with my boyfriend due to his lack of time for me. He says he will come over and talk but says he is busy and has a lot on with work. He is self employed but spends a lot of time procrastinating and chatting to custo...

Should just leave it or ask my mother why she felt the need to say such a thing?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3278 days ago

25 April 2015 (F) - I had my first child when I was 17 with my now ex boyfriend. Due to ill health my mother spent a lot of time looking after my child as I have epilepsy and found it hard to handle both at the time. As my mother couldn't take my epilepsy away bu...

Three months. What can I do to forget him? why did he cheat?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3282 days ago

25 April 2015 (F) - How do I let go? Its been three months.. I still miss him. I mean he left, he cheated, and we go to the same college and live like across the road I can see when I am walking to school or leaving my apt if he's there. I get a sense of happine...

I love him so much. But when he's been drinking he says nasty things and is argumentative. Why is trying to ruin our relationship?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3280 days ago

25 April 2015 (F) - My partner is for the most part a very loving kind man who says he adores me and I am his world. However he likes to drink on his nights off work (he works nights) and when he has had too much to drink sometimes he can lose his temper big time. I...

Will my fiance from another country be able to accept my culture? I think he's jealous

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 3282 days ago

24 April 2015 (F) - Will my overseas born fiance be able to accept my American culture? He is so very loyal and romantic and attentive to me. I'm really in love with him. I think it's a miracle to find love halfway across the planet. I'm in the u.s. and he's from an...

Can a marriage last if only one side is in love with the other?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 3282 days ago

24 April 2015 (F) - Ok so I've got in to a big mess and take full responsibility and need some advice. Please don't judge me as I hate myself enough right now..... 8 years ago I met a wonderful man whilst visiting some friends in another part of the UK. We hit it o...

Twin brothers - I have a crush on one, but I think the other twin likes me. What can I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3272 days ago

24 April 2015 (F) - Hey friends, so I need advice. I'm a female, in college, and I met this pair of twins - we'll call them "A" and "B". Both of them are super nice, and we started talking and all 3 of us just clicked immediately. A is super outgoing, and so...

Discovered that my soon to be ex got drunk while he was supposed to be caring for our child. He'll deny it. How do I confront him with what I've discovered?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3281 days ago

24 April 2015 (F) - I have been separated from my husband for quite awhile now. Anyhow to make a long story short I have 4 kids, one of which is with him. Last week I was on vacation with my parents. He had our child and I had a friend babysit my other kids at my h...

Shall I move out now in a hurry because of my partner and her friends or shall I stick to my mortgage idea for next year?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 3281 days ago

24 April 2015 (M) - My girlfriend wants to move in after two years of relationship, I would absolutely love to but u don't want to do it just because her friends and cousins are. All her friends are moving out, living in private rent, wasting £600 per month in ...

Should I report my sister to Social Services?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 3279 days ago

24 April 2015 (F) - Hi guys I just wanted some advice on a problem I am having. I I have a sister who is 29 years old and she has two small children. However she has started to drink alcohol around her children, to the point where she gets blind drunk, this has been...

Anyone else ever feel sick & tired of "trying"?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3283 days ago

24 April 2015 (M) - Anyone else ever feel sick and tired of "trying"? First off, I wouldn't say I'm depressed or anything, and second, I'm not looking for sympathy, just, if anyone else can relate... I've been thinking about my life a lot lately and how less...

I know money isn't everything, but it just feels unfair!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3283 days ago

23 April 2015 (F) - I'm a 21 year old adult so this may come off as kind of pathetic but I need some help please. For the last few years of my life I've been feeling jealous of people who are wealthy families and people who are just given whatever they want. G...

He's supported me as a friend. How do I find out if he also views me as more than friends?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3281 days ago

23 April 2015 (F) - He is single. I'm going through a messy divorce. he has been a great support as a friend. have been good friends for a couple of years but relation is platonic. I have started to depend on him emotionally. how do I find out if he also views me...

When I graduate I will most likely have to live with my troubled parents. What am I supposed to do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3284 days ago

23 April 2015 (F) - My parents have been drug addicts for the majority of my life. They were also both verbally and emotionally abusive towards me, and have tried to manipulate me beyond belief. Over the years I've accepted that my parents are the way they are, and...

What is the meaning of different ways people greet each in a bowling environment. Is it just for fun or a form of flirting?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3284 days ago

22 April 2015 (M) - What does it mean in a bowling league environment where everyone else is doing high fives (strikes or difficult spares picked up), or fist bumps (spares not made), that most of the times my partner (who started out as a sub and I don't know real ...

Receives phone calls from alleged strangers. Secretive with phone. Would it be OK to ask her to change her phone number?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3285 days ago

22 April 2015 (F) - A few facts; I am in a same sex relationship I’m 26 and she’s 28 We have been together a year and a half I am her first ever same sex relationship. So my partner's phone is always on quiet, not even vibrate, just silent. When she wakes up ...

Whose surname should our baby take?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3285 days ago

22 April 2015 (F) - Hi I was wondering what peoples oppinions were on surname for children. My first child has my surname as he's dad doesn't bother with him anyway, am pregnant with my second only been with the dad about 8 months we are not married who's surname ...

Am I always dating immature girls who need to be treated like garbage for them to like me back? At what age do girls grow into women and start appreciating 'nice guys'?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3284 days ago

21 April 2015 (M) - My relationships always end up in disasters because of my one-track mind. I tend to be quickly really into the girl I'm pursuing and every time she is turned off by my 'niceness' and attentiveness, causing me to pull back and make her seek my ...

Was I wrong to have told her that I loved her? I do, but as a sister!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3286 days ago

21 April 2015 (M) - My friend and I have known each other for the last couple of years. We're very close to the point where I would refer to her as my sister. As far as I recall, she never referred to me as a brother. I recently got the feeling that she may like me ...

How can I encourage my Bf to tell me what's wrong rather than just turning away from me when he's upset? Or time to take a break?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 3283 days ago

21 April 2015 (F) - I have boyfriend trouble... He's a good guy, and I love him, but there are these moments when everything goes wrong and it's been happening more often lately. He'll get upset with me because of something I said or did, and get angry and turns away ...