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Archived questions from: April, 2010 (see latest in Big Questions category)

Big Questions: Help and advice

Help! My husband is a workaholic!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5085 days ago

30 April 2010 (F) - Is there any solution to this tricky situation? My husband is a workaholic. I know, it is so much better than a guy who does not pay the bills. But if you have one if these husbands, you know what I'm talking about. Because of his work, he totally ...

I got married on the rebound and now miss my true love! Help!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5102 days ago

30 April 2010 (F) - I was married for almost 20 years. I divorced almost 6 years ago and have been a single parent. For the past 2 1/2 years I have been in a monogomous relationship and was content until the issue of marriage became the topic. In short, I ended the ...

Why after 8 years do I feel jealous that my wife has dated a black man?

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 4983 days ago

30 April 2010 (M) - my wife of 2 yrs (together for 8 years), had mentioned casually that she dated a black guy in colllege. Now i feel like Im not good enough to satisfy her beause he was so much bigger. She also has dated a lot mofe guys than me and it makes me ...

How can I find a guy who wont mess me around or just want a bit of fun?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5102 days ago

30 April 2010 (F) - hey, i know im only young but im fed up of being messed about by boys and want to find someone that is tidy for a change. when i go out i do get boys numbers but they always just want a bit of fun and nothing else. someone have suggested dating ...

How can I build a relationship with my mother?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5103 days ago

30 April 2010 (F) - Okay, here it goes.. I've offten wondered.. am I wrong?.. IS all of this my fault?.. Am I bringing all this on myself?..Am I just emotional?.. I keep doubting myself.. and now I wonder..am I broken?.. I've had just the worst relationship with my ...

I don't want to lose my family, and I also don't want to lose my boyfriend! How can I make everyone happy?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5103 days ago

30 April 2010 (F) - My boyfriend and I have only recently moved back in together after we split up for a while in september last year after he threw me out of our home after a series of arguments. Things have improved dramatically since then. I lived on my own for a ...

A question from my friend: Is he worth it?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5078 days ago

30 April 2010 (F) - I'm very concerned for my friend right now. She had called me earlier today in tears. When I asked her what was wrong she only replied that she's so confused. Her boyfriend had broken up with her today, but he gave her the option of getting back ...

Should I sacrifice my own dream wedding for my family?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5103 days ago

30 April 2010 (F) - I have a Big Problem and its very Complicated I was born a man and I dress like a woman I act like a woman I do everything like a woman but I don't like men I have a girlfriend but she dressess like a man and acts like a man so basically she's the ...

Wife wants me to leave over someting I don't remember doing, please help!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5103 days ago

30 April 2010 (M) - Question, my wife and I have been married for almost 4 years now, we have not been getting along lately, we have had some tension. We recently moved out of state for a fresh start, I have been out of work and just started training for a new career. ...

How can I get rid of this alcohol-addicted boy before he hurts me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5104 days ago

30 April 2010 (F) - Mod note: Op's own title I know one guy that i liked for a complete year. I attempted to talk to him by writing a note (i was younger and i realize that it was wrong.) he hated me because of some unfortunate blemishes, like short hair, braces, and ...

Does he really care for me... or does he just want inside my pants?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5104 days ago

29 April 2010 (F) - I met this guy through an online dating site, we emailed back and forth for about a nite and texed about a week, went out on the first date and was instantly attracted to each other. We are both busy with school around this time of the year so in ...

I am unable to forget my flirtation with my former boss, what should I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5104 days ago

29 April 2010 (F) - Hi guys I need someone there to tell me whether I am doing the correct thing or not with regard to my extra marital flirtation? I fell for the extraordinary knowledge of my boss in each and everything be it his own field or something elso and ...

How can I stop feeling so sorry for myself?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5104 days ago

29 April 2010 (M) - I have to be honest and tell you all some pretty shocking things about myself. I have a self-pity complex. I often walk laps of the local lake and wonder what could have been. I live in the past. My quesion is...How can I stop feeling sorry for ...

I miss the man that sexually abused me as a child! I want a friendship with him but can a leopard ever change it spots?

This question has 16 answers - newest was posted 5099 days ago

29 April 2010 (F) - I need some advice, When I was 13 I met a man who was almost 60, and we struck up a bizarre friendship. He understood me and advised me as I was having a lot of personal problems. He took care of me, he gave me lifts places, he listened to me, and i ...

I'm starting to feel he doesn't value me as much as I do with him!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5104 days ago

29 April 2010 (F) - This is a long story so I'll try my best to shorten it. I have been in a relationship with a guy for nearly a year now. He won't call me his girlfriend ( I can't sleep over his house or go on trips with him and the fact he was in a 5 yr relationship ...

My girlfriend says our relationship will be over if I join the army but I don't think I have any other options!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5104 days ago

29 April 2010 (M) - Hey all, any advice on this is greatly appreciated.Im 19 and my girlfriends 18, weve been together since we were 16, and i can honestly say i think we will be together for many more years, there's just one thing that might prevent that, the army. ...

My friend is planning on breaking up with her and I am besotted with her! Should I tell her how I feel?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5104 days ago

29 April 2010 (M) - ok, so I'm a bit confused romantically right now, I'm currently single, but my best friend has been dating this girl for a few weeks now. I find her completely beautiful both physically and mentally. He however does not feel the same way about her ...

Should I go for it despite being unsure if he is gay or straight?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5099 days ago

29 April 2010 (M) - Hello, I am in love with my best friend but he's been in many straight relationships but after looking at everything I think he's gay too but it's against his religon! Well my best friend that was a really nice person that always helped me and wh...

How long should a girl stick around for just because she loves the guy?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5104 days ago

29 April 2010 (F) - Hi out there. I was wondering if anyone has rekindled a relationship with someone who it just wasn't working with originally, and managed to resolve the issues? Problem is, I'm head over heels for this guy who I've spent most of my adult life wi...

Our daughter went missing whilst oversea's 4 years ago. How do I let go?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5103 days ago

29 April 2010 (F) - Everything I'm about to tell you is true. Four years ago, we had a horrific tragedy occur in the family. We lost our 19 year old daughter to human trafficking. She was a very bright girl; got A's in all her classes and even graduated third ...

How can we get out of the "just friends" zone?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5105 days ago

29 April 2010 (M) - I have been friends with a girl Lora, since we were both in grade 3. We instantly became best friends I always thought she was cute but never really thought about dating her because it felt weird. We hang out all the time and it had caused some ...

Where and how can I fit in to this womans life?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5105 days ago

28 April 2010 (M) - I am currently in an on/off relationship with a girl who is a single mum. While I care for this woman and enjoy her company I'm scared of commiting as I can't see things working out long term. Her little boy is a really good kid and I don't see any ...

I am still grieving for my boyfriend...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5105 days ago

28 April 2010 (F) - my boyfriend die two year ago but i can not stop think about him i really sad so what can i do to forget it?...

I am confused about my sexual identity and feel so alone! Is there something wrong with me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5105 days ago

28 April 2010 (M) - I am 23 years old male. I am an exremely shy and confused person. I have been diagnosed with depression, borderline personality disorder and an eating disorder. Some of my problems are sexual one of which is sex feels wrong to me and I'm af...

My girlfriend wants me to get rid of all my pictures and letters from my former girlfriend who died in my arms, is she in the wrong here?

This question has 21 answers - newest was posted 4289 days ago

28 April 2010 (M) - I have been dating a young woman for a few months. She is very sweet and I care very much for her. She came over to my apartment when I wasn't home yesterday and my room mate let her in. She went into my room and found an old year book I had ...

How can I fix our relationship?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5105 days ago

28 April 2010 (M) - Hi, im just trying gather some feedback on something thats bothering with me an my girlfriend. I've spoke to her about it and it's not really helped. We've been going out about 3 months now and just these past 2 weeks have been totally different. I ...

'I think whoever you sleep with, you should let it happen'... what does she mean?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5105 days ago

28 April 2010 (M) - Hi when I was in bed with the girl I was dating and we was cuddeling and stuff she said to me 'I think whoever you sleep with, you should let it happen' what does she mean by this?...

He told me that I'm his world.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5105 days ago

28 April 2010 (F) - This threw me off a bit last night. We were saying our goodbyes and after our goodnight kiss he told me that im his world. i know this should make me all giddy inside but honestly idk how to feel about it. what do guys means when they say this?...

First he had an emotional affair, and now he just doesn't seem interested in me. What should I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5105 days ago

28 April 2010 (F) - Hey everyone, I just feel like venting some feelings and hope you can give me some advice. Tonight I was rejected by the man in my life, yet again. Recently, I discovered he was having an emotional affair with another girl for just under a yea...

What does she mean by telling me to stop being awkward?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5105 days ago

28 April 2010 (M) - what does it mean when a girl says, 'stop being awkward around me, I dont want you to feel awkward, I Dont want you to be awkward the next time we meet, if you carry on being awkward you've got no chance. I can understand you met me in a wkward ...

What do I do? Everything seems to be falling apart, in spite of how much I love her...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5104 days ago

28 April 2010 (M) - Hitting a very rough patch :( This is more of an account than an actual question but I'll appreciate any feedback that can be given. So I've reached a point where my gf is having serious doubts about our future together which is really saddening...

How do I get over my want of a threesome?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5102 days ago

27 April 2010 (M) - I have been in a relationship for 6 years now and would like to have a threesome with my girlfriend. She does not want to. i also like looking at porn and chatting on the net and understandably this upsets her. she says the threesome(watching porn ...

She seems far too focused on moving into our own flat, funded entirely by me!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5106 days ago

27 April 2010 (M) - I am getting frustrated with my GF I have been toying with the idea of moving to rent a flat for a while, my gf also wants to move in with me but have little commitment in what she has to pay, this is going to be my home only kind of thing. wha...

I feel like I have lost everything! Can anyone offer any words of advice?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5106 days ago

27 April 2010 (F) - This isn't really about love, and it's not really a question but any words would be great. I think I'm cracking up. I lost my job and my fiance in the same month, last year, and am about to lose my apartment cause I have no money. The bills are mo...

I love my "friends with benefits" but I don't think he feels the same way!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5106 days ago

27 April 2010 (F) - Hi all, I am in a physical relationship with someone without any word of love ever being said. We are just good friends (with benefits!!! - tho I hate to say this). I am not happy because I am only with him because I love him but he probably...

Attracted to fictional characters

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5107 days ago

27 April 2010 (M) - Thanks for all help in advance. Recently, I've started to become attracted to ficitonal characters. I've done so in the past, but not to the extent I have now. I just... feel some sort of chemistry (personality-wise, not like we're communicating or ...

I tried to forget that teacher but now he's coming on to me.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5106 days ago

26 April 2010 (?) - Hey, i'm a 14 year old girl,, I wrote here before,, about teacher/pupil chrush,, and everybody just told me to forget him (my teacher), it would never work so, I belived them,, and tryed to forget him, but it was really hard. And when I was u know, ...

Is it normal for me not to go ahead and sleep with other women when she says it's ok?

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 5107 days ago

26 April 2010 (M) - I don't know what to make of this. I have only had sex with one woman. She and I are together and we plan on getting married. Although we haven't set a date we are serious. She has had sex with seven other guys before. She keeps telling me ...

I've not known him long and I don't think I can trust him, but I'm 7 weeks pregnant! What should I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5107 days ago

26 April 2010 (F) - well, in a bit of a mess met this guy not known him long, he said he wanted our own place which we got and wanted a baby, which has now happened.. im now 7 weeks pregnant and he does not want to know, he has 2 children with his previous and has ...

Why doesn't my brother want me to visit him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5107 days ago

26 April 2010 (F) - i am 19 and my 13 year old brother has anorexia and he has been hospitalized as his heart rate is very low so he has to stay in there for 2-3 weeks. I was going to see him today but he told my mom that he didn't want me to go. I know he is unwell ...

How do I undo the damage I did by keeping contact with my ex wife?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4896 days ago

26 April 2010 (M) - I must have done everything wrong that I could do in regard to my ex-wife. Even though she is now in a rebound relationship with the man she was secretly seeing for several months. The affair has brought out the worst in me. I know I wasn't the one ...

I can't feel love. What should I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5107 days ago

26 April 2010 (F) - I can't feel love. What should I do? My parents didn't love each other. I am the product of physical affinity and emotional malice. I remember when I was one years old, my parents got into an argument and my mom got a knife out and held it my f...

How important is it that a man is fit and attractive?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5084 days ago

26 April 2010 (M) - Ladies do you think its important for a man to be physically attractive in a relationship (marriage for an example)? I know there are other more important factors, but don't you think its a least important for the man to be physically fit a...

I'm only willing to date women who are Christian and in my area of attractiveness. How can I get better at dating?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5106 days ago

25 April 2010 (M) - Hi, First off, I'm not too concerned about this, I'm more just curious if there is anything else I can do. Secondly, I'm a Christian man really only willing to date women who strive after Christ with my passion, and are in my area of attracti...

What is the secret to a lasting relationship?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5108 days ago

25 April 2010 (F) - Hi there, My sister and her bf have been together for 4 years, my aunt and uncle have been together for 15 years, and my grandparents for 38 years. I want to know what is the secret to maintaining a good relationship. What do u do in order for the ...

Are fetishes a normal part of a sexual relationship?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5108 days ago

25 April 2010 (F) - Hey guys and girls, Are fetishes a normal part of a sexual relationship? ...

I cant get over his past! Why sleep with so many women when he is gay, not bi?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5108 days ago

25 April 2010 (M) - I'm a twenty-year-old gay guy. I'm a virgin and I've waited my entire life to find that one right person to share sex with - something so important to me. I understand that sex doesn't have to be something extremely important and that lots of people ...

I woke up and found she'd left me taking the 2 kids with her...

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5108 days ago

25 April 2010 (M) - I really dont know what to do any more, and I need help. I have 1 son with my partner and I have brought up her other son from birth as my own, cos at one point we split up and slept with someone and got pregnant but since then we sorted things out ...

There are 3 guys in my life and I love them all! Who do I pick?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5108 days ago

25 April 2010 (F) - 2 people; my boyfriend and S (i hate him but at the same time i love him). i love my boyfriend but i also love S. S told me that he loves me but doesnt want to love me. my boyfriend says that he loves me but he doesnt show it at all, he is very ...

Male advice needed! Will my stretch marks put guys off?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5108 days ago

25 April 2010 (F) - i am 16 and i have stretch marks on my upper legs and on my sides because i lost a lot of weight really fast when i was ill , now i am afraid that guys wont want to be with me because if this am i just over reacting ? (can i have male advise to ...