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Archived questions from: March, 2011 (see latest in Big Questions category)

Big Questions: Help and advice

Being a single mom is hard...Is it bad to wish it hadn't happened?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4739 days ago

31 March 2011 (F) - Is it bad to wish for things not to happen? I wish I had never met a man, so I wouldn't have been in position of being knocked up. Being a "single mom" was not in my plans. If my child screams, I scream. I have no support system. My child is with...

I keep falling out of love. Is this a pattern, or just a coincidence?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4765 days ago

31 March 2011 (F) - So me and my partner seem to by losing our spark, i hardly feel attracted to him anymore but i'm seeing a trend appearing. My first love i started to feel the spark had gone but found out he had cheated so we broke up. My 2nd serious relationsh...

He burned me. I've done everything I can to get over it, but it still hurts. Please help.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4764 days ago

31 March 2011 (F) - I met a guy at work last year. We had a thing, for a few months, until I started to listen to the voice in my head about how he seemed to good to be true and yet always unavailable when I needed him. Surprise he's engaged to his gf of 8 years. I ...

GF has mood swings. What do I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4765 days ago

31 March 2011 (M) - Okay well im 18 and me and my last gf dated 2 years and my current gf and me have been dating around 2 years...so its not my first rodeo....but to my question..my gf and me are generally very happy with each other but lately there are days were she ...

I know I should, but how do I leave my older lover?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4754 days ago

31 March 2011 (F) - I am 18, I have been with a man since I was 16 (legal in the UK) and he is now 49. Due to this no one else in either of our lives knows about us being together. In the last 6 months we have tried to end it, but neither of us are able to break it ...

I don't know how to read this shy guy I like.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4765 days ago

31 March 2011 (F) - I seem to have that problem when I don’t know wither or not a guy likes me or if he just wants to be mates. I’ve liked this guy that gets on my bus for a month now and we only talk when I say hi and ask him questions. He tends to be interested when ...

I feel so empty and lost. Has anyone ever felt this way?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4757 days ago

31 March 2011 (F) - I feel so numb lately, I spent the last 25 years of my life i am twenty, pleasing people, and living up to other peoples expectations. After i got out of my emotionally abusive relationship of five years, and finished my masters I FEEL worse.. ...

He's changed. I feel like I should take him back, but my feelings have changed

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4765 days ago

31 March 2011 (F) - I am currently very confused and would like your advice.. My ex of five years which was a ROCKY relationship has come back into my life, he left wanted a break and to make a long story short he has come back being a new sweet self... Even tho...

He's got to change some things for our relationship to survive. How do I get through to him?.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4754 days ago

31 March 2011 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been together for 7 months and were friends for a long time before that. He says he wants to spend the rest of his life with me, and even though i love him and he is an amazing person there are a couple of things that are ...

Does he still care for me?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4711 days ago

31 March 2011 (F) - So I've been with my boyfriend for a year and a half now, he is the one for me, you may all think I'm being ridiculous because I'm only 15, but I've been through a lot and I know what I want. He is absolutely lovely and I love him to pieces and I ...

Is it ok for 2 men to share a bed??

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4765 days ago

31 March 2011 (F) - Is it normal for 2 grown men (early 40's) to sleep in the same bed? What if they were watching a movie and due to the late hour had simply fallen asleep? Is it normal for grown men to lay on the same bed watching a movie together in the first pl...

Husband is happy to be nothing more than a roommate. I need him as a man. Please help!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4765 days ago

31 March 2011 (F) - My husband asked me for space and time three months ago. I was in our house by myself the whole time, I was working overtime because I wanted to be busy all the time.(no kids- no family, we are both are foreign) Now he is back and he says to me th...

How can I get my husband to make love to me, rather than just having sex?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4765 days ago

31 March 2011 (F) - [MOD NOTE] User has written duplicates of one question, so we have combined the two in one post. I love my husband dearly, but he doesn't know how to make love to me. He thinks that having sex is making love. How do I make him understand the d...

I've had a lesbian relationship before and now find I am in love with my son's teacher.

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4764 days ago

31 March 2011 (F) - I've been head over heel in love with my son's teacher for nearly 18 months. I've been in a lesbian relationship once a long time ago and now I know that she is the right one and all I want. Cheesy but true. I wish I knew what to do!!! Let her know ...

He is not ready to commit to me because he is 'not the man he needs to be' - what does this mean?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4765 days ago

31 March 2011 (F) - I have been dating a man going on two years now ... and I recently suggested that we take our relationship more serious level and commit to one another .... he told me he's not ready because he is not the man he needs to be right now .... what ...

Why do so many women hate porn?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 4762 days ago

31 March 2011 (F) - Maybe I'm opening a can of worms here, but why are so many woman so vehemently against porn? What is there about it that makes it so evil? I read so many questions from women who are disgusted by their partner's porn use. Some consider it as b...

He asked me to pay for dinner on the second date! What should I think about this?

This question has 16 answers - newest was posted 4764 days ago

31 March 2011 (F) - If a man asks a woman to pay for dinner on the 2nd date what should she think ?...

What top should I wear with this skirt? I want to surprise my partner.....

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4765 days ago

31 March 2011 (F) - I have a gray skirt, with a dark blue stripe right at the bottom. It's pretty elegant and I need ideas on what blouse / top to pair it with. The stripe makes it difficult, I think. I'll wear it in an elegant context, maybe you can give me some ideas ...

He erased our relationship status and our pictures from Facebook, and his excuse was he forgot to tell me? Somehow I find that hard to believe.....

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4765 days ago

31 March 2011 (F) - i had been dating a guy for over two years..and this may sound silly but, i just want to know from a males' perspective what the deal may be. okay, he and i were on each other's facebook pages and linked as being in a relationship...i had pictures ...

My fiancee is having a second boob job - I don't know how to feel about this?

This question has 26 answers - newest was posted 4745 days ago

31 March 2011 (M) - In 2008 my fiancee had a boob job, which wasn't my idea but she paid for it herself. She is quite tall and has a great body so although she went up to a DD she did carry it off well. She attracted a lot of attention, and has done glamour modellin...

Guys: Would you dump a girl if she didnt have sex with you?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4765 days ago

31 March 2011 (F) - This question is for guys and guys alone. Now i want you to be completely honest with me. If you were dating a teenaged girl and you were a teenager yourself, and you wanted to have sex badly and she didn't, would you dump her?...

Why do women say you're a fantastic guy, the best lover they have ever met, yet leave and say they need to move on?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4765 days ago

31 March 2011 (M) - When my lady walked into my life, it was like a ray of sunshine, she was tall, elegant, graceful and very very beautiful with intelligence, so she should being a doctor. The second we met it was sparks, being a free spirit she didn't want a ...

Am I doing the right thing?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4765 days ago

31 March 2011 (F) - im a 27yr old girl thats in a relationship, though i met a 37 yr old man 3yrs ago and have been falling in love with him, he was in a relationship of 15 yrs with 2 kids as do i have, 3 yrs later he has left her and wants to be with me, though he has ...

Both girls in my life are amazing! What should I do?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4765 days ago

31 March 2011 (M) - Ok, so I've been going out with my girlfriend for 5 months and shes the perfect girlfriend but its just missing something; for instance I used to get jealous when she'd tell me about guys buying her drinks at the bar but now I really don't mind. To ...

I'm scared to leave her, what should I do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4765 days ago

31 March 2011 (M) - I have been dating my gf for about 2 years now. In those 2 years alot has happened to her, both of her grandmothers died, 2 friends of her friends died, her brother became an alchoholic. What I didnt realize before I started dating her and got ...

Just Two

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4759 days ago

31 March 2011 (F) - I recently read something nice that I would like to share.... JUST TWO. Donate blood twice a year. Donate your eyes after death. Thank God twice a day. Write two letters a week. Visit two ailing people a month. Say two words of gratitude-"...

My boyfriend isnt making steps towards his future

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4766 days ago

31 March 2011 (F) - Okay, so I love my boyfriend very much. We haven't been together long but we've known eachother beyond our dating days and I'm pretty sure we know almost everything about eachother. I can be my complete self around him and he around me. Sounds ...

Thoughts of her past

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4766 days ago

31 March 2011 (M) - hi ime 59 and have a 35 yr old girlfriend who is just so gorgous, we have been together for 5months, within the last month my mind has gone wild with jealousy and stupid thoughts of her sexual partners before me, ime no virgin, she has had about 6 ...

He broke up with me because he didnt want his child to get attached to me and vice verca

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4766 days ago

31 March 2011 (F) - Im a 18 yo mum to a 10month little girl, and i was seeing a 52yo man with a 12yo son...things were going absolutly fine the four of us got along really well and we were doing things that normal familys do untill about 6months into the relationship ...

My wife to be revealed her sexual past. I feel sick to my stomach

This question has 29 answers - newest was posted 4620 days ago

30 March 2011 (M) - I am 31, she is 29. She is drop dead gorgeous. We fell in love a year and a half ago when she was one of my day nurses when I had spent some time in the hospital recovering from a tumor in my knee (non cancerous) During our time dating, I would ...

He accused my son of theft but thats not the only issue..

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4655 days ago

30 March 2011 (F) - I love my bf and we have been together on and off for the past 4 years. Recently he is spending a lot of time with me except when he says he is out of the country or business meetings at night. He says he spends time with me to prove to me that...

How do I explain to my parents that even though I am with a man, I still am bi-sexual ?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4765 days ago

30 March 2011 (F) - Hi, I need some advice. I am 22 years old and I am Bi-Sexual. Ive been bi since I was 13. It was rele easy to tell my mother and after telling her I have always told ppl the truth about myself. Though my sexuality was confusing to myself. I was bi ...

Can you really forget your first crush?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4766 days ago

30 March 2011 (F) - I have known this guy for over 11 years and he used to have a crush on me for a very long time, but I never felt the same although we became best friends! But we haven't spoken for 3 years because I went to Uni and we drifted apart. Up until ...

Why does he only want me for sex?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4766 days ago

30 March 2011 (?) - He talks about my boobs and how I should come and stay the night at his. He said he misses me and keeps talking about what we used to do in bed. Sad part is, I like him but when he was single I gave him the chance to be with me and he didn't want ...

No one knows how unhappy I am. I'd appreciate some advice.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4766 days ago

30 March 2011 (F) - I have been feeling very lonely and upset lately. I have a boyfriend of 6 years and everything is fine with him, but in the last while I have become really self conscious about how I look and I feel really awkward around people. I think that people ...

Why does this otherwise nice guy turn into a jerk with me?

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 4764 days ago

30 March 2011 (F) - perhaps this is a more general question: I know this guy from work, and I see him talking on all kinds of social networks, and I know some of his friends, and he is a really good person, two lovely children who adore him, but with me he was a total ...

I think I have an eating disorder. It's making me miserable. Please help!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4766 days ago

30 March 2011 (F) - hi, i know this site is mainly about advice on relationships but mine is slightly different and i would really appreciate the help on this... ok, so i am worried in case i have an eating disorder. I am constantly thinking about my weight as in an...

I'm not sure how to read my American boss. What do you think?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4766 days ago

30 March 2011 (F) - I’m a foreign student and working in my university while I am studding, Today I finished my job and it took 5 minutes longer than I suppose to work. I was cleaning my desk and putting the stuff on the places that they should be quickly to go because ...

Do I need space? Or am I subconsciously pushing myself away?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4766 days ago

30 March 2011 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been together for two months, after an on-off relationship for two years. I am 28 and he is 26. The timing was finally right for us to be together, and we are so in love. He is the one, we already have plans for the future ...

I'm so negative and it's ruining my life. Any suggestions?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4766 days ago

30 March 2011 (M) - Hello everyone. So it's time to get this sorted once and for all. I have no idea where this came from, but I have a paranoia problem. I am not very confident to start with, I am a short guy. I have just grown this paranoia, if I see peopl...

Is this true love or true guilt?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4764 days ago

30 March 2011 (M) - How do you know when you cheat on someone after being with them for 4 years that you really love them? The fact that one could cheat on their partner after being with them for so long, makes one question if it is really "love" you feel for them. ...

I still really love him, I'm just bored, and so is he!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4766 days ago

30 March 2011 (F) - hi im going with my boyfriend for 3 years. we are getting married in 2 years but im finding myself really bored and so is he. we do the same thing everytime im over just sit and watch tv i try and do other thing like asking to go for a walk or go ...

My older friend has put my self-esteem at rock bottom. How do I cope with this issue?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4766 days ago

30 March 2011 (F) - Many thanks to couple of people who responded to my problem of boyfriend looking at other women. I was talking to a male friend who is 64 years old to see whether I am being silly or what. He turned around and said "well, you are very attract...

Confused on this whole stiuation, is he playing mind games?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4638 days ago

30 March 2011 (F) - I'm not sure what I need to do, and I'm actually not sure what the problem is exactly, so her is my whole story. I had a crush on a boy (T) at my school since the beginning of November and by late December early January my friend C told me i should...

How to make long distance relationships work. Is this one worth pursuing?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4759 days ago

30 March 2011 (M) - im from other country but living in india and studying here , i met a girl who was from other country too and she was came here just for visiting . i met her and we talked couple hours about general things , during that i asked her age , and she ...

Am I addicted to masturbating? Will this cause problems for my health? And will it reduce my sexual desire?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4766 days ago

30 March 2011 (M) - i want to know if a can masturbation habit reduce sexual desire in males? i am 27 virgin but i masturbate almost daily from age of 14 with watching pornography, but watching porns is voyeurism (peeping tom), which is one of the type of sexual ...

Newly married and unsure what I should be doing when having sex.....

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4766 days ago

30 March 2011 (M) - I m a newly married person. please tell me when to have sex and whenever I do sex, is it necessary to make her wet and I wanna enjoy more during sex. How is it possible???...

I hate my course and I am homesick, but my family have invested a lot of money into this! What should I do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4745 days ago

30 March 2011 (F) - i came to new zealand for my higher studies. My aim was to study while doing a part time job so that i can find next year's tuition fee. Yet things are worse than i thought than it would be. I could not find a job yet. goods are very costly here and ...

Why is she behaving like this with her new guy when she never did with me? And will she ever come back to me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4766 days ago

30 March 2011 (M) - Alright so im new to this but here we go. I dated a girl for a month treated her very well as all my friends said always was there for her. I always sent good morning text's. I left her video messages on her facebook. We didn't get to see each other ...

A young, troubled guy, already.

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 4761 days ago

30 March 2011 (M) - I have a question that has been on my mind for a little bit now, well, a few questions that is. 1. Why don't I really care for females anymore? I've only ever had three relationships, 2 being more than a month, one being two years. The longer ...