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Archived questions from: September, 2008 (see latest in Big Questions category)

Big Questions: Help and advice

He's awesome...but he's three years younger than me!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 258 days ago

30 September 2008 (F) - Dear Cupid, There's this boy in my youth group, and we've become really good friends. He's cute, he's sweet, he's funny, and we have a lot of fun together. I think I'm really starting to like him in more than a just-friends kind of way, and my c...

I get really jealous when other girls flirt with my best guy friend. Surely I can't like him?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 241 days ago

30 September 2008 (F) - I'm really sorry this is so long but it requires a fair bit of explanation :D So a few years ago I was stranded in this class, in which I was the only girl. That sucked. Then this guy (then kinda funny/nerdy looking XD) sat next to me and was ju...

I need some help asking out a girl from work - suggestions?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 418 days ago

30 September 2008 (M) - Hi all, I was hoping for some advice on something that's been on my mind for quite a while now - I'll try and keep it as short as possible :) There's a girl at work who seems really nice and I would love to ask her out on a date/drink/whate...

Who's more likely to end up with the girl? - A hypothetical situation

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 346 days ago

30 September 2008 (M) - Hi internet fans! I'd like to cut to the chase once and for all in relation to the subject of attraction. Ladies: which man are you most likely to be attracted to: guy no.1 who is good looking, has a great body, has personality and charm, but you ...

I still can't get over my crush on a teacher who moved away. Advice please!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 384 days ago

30 September 2008 (F) - Hey! Ok well you might have read some of my other questions which were all about my teacher who i love and my last one was when he was leaving. But he's left to go to another school now and everyone said it will get better over time but it...

This ia about my daughter - which for me at the moment is causing me quite a bit of stress.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 360 days ago

30 September 2008 (F) - My 22yr old daugher has recently returned home after splitting up with her boyfriend of seven years. with whom she lived with for a year. This has become quite a messy situation and I am doing all I can to support her. However, since coming back...

Neither of us are ready for full sex, so how can I satisfy him?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 419 days ago

30 September 2008 (F) - i want to satisfy my boyfriend sexually. but neither him nor me is ready for sex. i need tips of good things to satisfy him without having sex.... thanks 3 ...

Twice we have tried to do it and I've not managed to get an erection!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 411 days ago

30 September 2008 (M) - Hi, I am a young male with not much sexual experience (twice only) but I am now very happy in a relationship with a girl I love and want to have sex with. The girl is a virgin but she's told me she is ready. The trouble is, twice we have trie...

The only reason I went through with the wedding is because I paid for it all. I also love someone else. Please help.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 66 days ago

30 September 2008 (F) - Me and my husband were just married June 14th 2008 and i'm not in love with him. The only reason I went through with the wedding is because I paid for it all, and therefore somebody was going to get married that day! Anyway, I've been in love with...

Should I go through with turning our friendhip into more of a 'friends with benefits' thing, or should we just stick with being best friends?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 418 days ago

30 September 2008 (?) - I'm not exactly sure how to start this. I guess right now I'm at a point where I don't know what I should do about a very close guy friend of mine. Here is the gist of what is happening. The guy friend I'm refering to is Seth. He's awesome and is p...

I miss my baby with all my heart. I shaped up and changed for her. Please - does anyone know how I can win her back?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 415 days ago

30 September 2008 (M) - On the last day of high school in may of 05, some random girl i didnt know came up to me and told me her friend liked me. That night i got to meet the girl in person - and boy was i scared. Since then we have been together until the 23rd of ...

Boundaries with my boyfriend?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 419 days ago

30 September 2008 (F) - I am (was) dating a guy that I knew had a "past" (prison "stuff") and I still went out with him. I have a habit of saying "I'm Sorry" and he told me to leave and respect his boundaries. Then the other day I tried to surprise him with a home made ...

Should I leave my wife or not?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 98 days ago

30 September 2008 (M) - I'm not sure how far to push this, or if I should leave my wife or not. I'm really pissed off, not only at what she did, but her attitude that it was no big deal. That just makes me think she will do something like this again. We got married, and...

How should we split up the bills?

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 418 days ago

30 September 2008 (F) - I have been living with my boyfriend for many years. He owns the house free and clear, and has since before I moved in. Since moving in, I have paid various bills, all food/non-durable items, half the property taxes and given him money monthly to ...

How can I cover up the bruises and scratches I got from my boyfriend?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 419 days ago

30 September 2008 (F) - How can i cover these bruises i got from my boyfriend and the scratches on my wrists that i did to myself because of him hurting me? They are fresh and just done today. Before u judge me about hurting myself. Its because my whole life from six years ...

Can a kerb crawler stop for good?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 419 days ago

30 September 2008 (F) - Please could people who know kerb crawlers and if you have enough confidence a kerb crawler help me with my problem... My husband is a kerb crawler, OI found out christmas day 2006 his as he says last successful meeting!!!!! So my question to you ...

Why does it always rain on me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 419 days ago

30 September 2008 (F) - I don't know if im enjoying life to much but im doing the best i can. Im a really nice person, so i get told. If that's the case i don't understand why i get the treatment i do off others. I just started college this month, made some nice ...

I'm not a sex addict, am I?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 390 days ago

30 September 2008 (M) - I'm not a sex addict am I? My wife just tells me I may be but i'm not that convinced I am. She is 6 years older than me and has already been around the block. Im in the military and I have to leave for certain things. Recently I went to another ...

How to not get attached too easily and quickly? I need to 'harden my heart'.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 385 days ago

30 September 2008 (M) - I think I been having the same recurring problem in my life...I get too attached too early, then when that special someone goes away for one reason or another, I feel like I have a hole in my heart. I can't stop thinking about her for a while, and ...

Are Virgos able to forgive?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 118 days ago

30 September 2008 (F) - Once a Virgo has had their fellings hurt and they ask for sometime to think and feel uncomfotable around the one who hurt them . Are Virgos able to forgive after an apology has been made right away or do they just eliminate the person out of their ...

Why does love hurt?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 419 days ago

30 September 2008 (F) - There comes a point in your life when you realize: who matters, who never did, who won't anymore... and who always will. So, don't worry about people from your past, there's a reason why they didn't make it to your present or future. But when it ...

Is my husband's overnight meeting anything to worry about?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 419 days ago

30 September 2008 (F) - I have recently found an e.mail from a female colleague of my husband who asked him if he got back safely from a recent meeting where he stayed overnight. Do you think this is anything to worry about considering he said she wasn't even there?...

I'm having weird fantasies about threesomes, and I can get her to agree to pretty much anything. Anyone else tried this?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 335 days ago

30 September 2008 (M) - hey. im 19 male with a 19 f girlfriend. we are in a serious relationship. the thing is ive been constantly fantasizing about having a threesome with her with another guy. the problem is that the only way i could have it happen is for it to be one of ...

What do younger guys think about FWB?

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 364 days ago

30 September 2008 (F) - Hey, just a quick question - what do younger guys think about the whole 'friends with benefits' idea? Recently I broke up with my boyfriend and although I get lonely and miserable, I don't want another committed relationship for a good while. I ...

What makes a woman marriage material?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 359 days ago

30 September 2008 (F) - I just wanted to know what makes a woman marriage material...what do guys really look for when the want to marry a woman....would a guy marry a woman who was promiscuos in her past if she had changed???...

People are rude to me and I feel horrible about myself!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 409 days ago

30 September 2008 (F) - so ever since 9th grade peolpe were rude to me in school.im shy,i had cricked teeth, ut than i got braces, ther off now! thank god!one day at a party i made out with this one guy cuz he was hot an he would always flirt with me and the next day at ...

I really want my dad to go! At least when my parents divorce the fighting will stop.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 419 days ago

29 September 2008 (F) - hey! i'd love to have your advice. i dont know if its ok to ask here because its not really a relationship/love or something question i think. my dad and my mum just told us three kids that they will break up. my dad works in a hospital and chea...

Perhaps this explains the tears streaming down my face as I write this...please - what do I do?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 419 days ago

29 September 2008 (F) - Oh dear oh dear. I don't know what to do anymore. My mother keeps talking to me about her dying, and how I'm going to survive when she's gone. She has been seriously ill recently but she is very much on the mend and is getting much better. I am an o...

We want so much to be together. We can live in Turkey, but I want us to live here, in the UK. Please can you help?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 420 days ago

29 September 2008 (F) - i was living in usa with my turkish boyfriend and we apply for a english visa, but he got refused by the english embassy from there. what is the chance of him getting one from turkey now they have stamp his passport ? we need to know what we can ...

Can someone please help me figure out a way to get this problem out of my mind?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 420 days ago

29 September 2008 (F) - Hello. Let me tell you the background of this story first. I went out with a guy in the beggining of this year. We went out for about 4 months and something happened between us so i broke up with him. Our relationship became difficult but we still ...

I think I’m a stalker..and my teacher has become my latest obsession. What should I do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 56 days ago

29 September 2008 (F) - I have fallen in love with this teacher since June 2007, she is beautiful(age 25 this year) . And she left at the end of june 2007 to a different school to teach. And i still really really miss her :( and i haven’t seen her since. I think about her ...

I've tried everything to forget about him, but nothing seems to work. Please help.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 420 days ago

29 September 2008 (F) - i am 21, I met this guy when i was 20 and been in love with him ever since. problem is hes got a girlfriend he told me that he liked me sooo much and he wished things wre different. i have tried everything to forget about him, but nothing seem...

Are we 'tying the knot' too young?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 346 days ago

29 September 2008 (F) - ive been dating my b/f for almost 3 years now, and i know in my heart i want to be with him for the rest of my life, and he feels the same since he wants to get married and have a child. i want that as well but im 19 and he's 21 but my mother is r...

How do I get past these feelings of inadequecy, beating up on myself, etc?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 420 days ago

29 September 2008 (F) - I am confused. My husband and I have been married for 2 months, and dated for about a year. Sometimes I'll tease him and not make love to him and other times I will make love to him. Thursday night, I kept delaying making love to him and my stomach ...

What are the early signs of an abusive man?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 391 days ago

29 September 2008 (F) - i'm in this new relationship and i was wondering if you could tell me the warning signs of an abusive or controlling man. ...

How do I build my confidence back up so I don't always feel like I'm competing with the "hot babes"?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 420 days ago

29 September 2008 (F) - my boyfriend knows i have an issue with porn, but i am working on becoming more open to it. he knows it has greatly affected my self-esteem and i feel very insecure and even jealous when a "hot blonde with huge boobs and a tiny waist" comes on TV ...

Is he gay? Sex with him isn't normal.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 420 days ago

29 September 2008 (F) - i've been with my bf for a few months but i'm starting to wonder if he might be gay. He told me that he nearly once kissed a guy, also he says he has an arse obsession. He seems to enjoy sex but the only thing that makes him hard is if he touches ...

How do I improve the taste of my cum?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 420 days ago

29 September 2008 (M) - How do I improve the taste of my cum? My gf says that sometimes its very sweet and other times it's bitter....

Question for guys: Is it easier to stay married if you already know what's out there?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 419 days ago

29 September 2008 (M) - I’d like to know, what its like for guys who settled down and married after having a several different women in there beds? Is it easier knowing you got to have your wild days before making a lifetime commitment? What about guys who married thei...

How do I get over being so nervous around my crush?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 420 days ago

29 September 2008 (F) - to all agony aunts with advice. i really really like this guy but we have been very good friends before i decided or felt love for him, now that i hav told him it is really awkard and i basically avoid the awkrdness by not talking, my ques...

What should I do to fill up my time? I'm my own worst enemy.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 420 days ago

29 September 2008 (F) - Everyone I know thinks im this popular, confident and intelligent person. The truth is the things I think about myself I wouldn't even say to my worst enemy. I worry all the time that people will realise that I am stupid, dont know how to do my job ...

How do you 'make out'?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 420 days ago

29 September 2008 (F) - i am a 15 year old girl and have never made out although i have had the chance but got scared of his experience to my inexperience. i want to do it for all the right reasons and i am sure about it though i dont know how. anyone who will guide me th...

Why do his balls disappear when he's erect?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 420 days ago

29 September 2008 (F) - why do my partner's balls disappear when he is erect. he is 57....

Anyone ever heard of these WTF US sex laws?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 420 days ago

29 September 2008 (F) - Crazy US Sex Laws... Ever heard of them or any others that are crazy like these. I find it hilarious!! 1. Oral sex is illegal in 18 states, including Arizona. 2. In Virginia, it is illegal to have sex with the lights on. 3. It is illegal ...

How do I approach a woman for a sexual fling with no strings attached?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 413 days ago

29 September 2008 (F) - I am a female, but I am posting this for a MALE friend. So keep in mind while reading this, it's being asked by a male, not me. I'm a 24 yr old virgin (because of where I'm from) and want to know how to approach a woman for a sexual fling, wi...

How can we be sure we're ready to move in together? It's a big step...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 420 days ago

29 September 2008 (F) - So my boyfriend and I have been together for 2 years. (We've known each other for close to 5) And while we've gone through some sticky patches in our relationship, as all couples do, we have a pretty good relationship overall. We have our ups and ...

Do women kiss more passionately than men?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 420 days ago

29 September 2008 (F) - I have found that after kissing a woman now I dont find men kisses to be as good and/or passionate. Does anyone out there have felt the same as me? ...

He kept dropping hints about escorts...what does all this mean?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 416 days ago

29 September 2008 (F) - Hello people, this question is mainly for the guys out there!! Recently my partner and I started talking about changing our sex life. We have been together since we were both 22 and though we have both been with other people before this, I g...

Should I include my child in meeting my boyfriend's parents for the first time?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 420 days ago

29 September 2008 (F) - I have been divorced for 3 years, I have a 5 year old daughter, and i have been dating this guy fr 4 months. We were talking about meeting his parents. He has met my daughter and spent time with us. She adores him! I know his parents are al...

Should I tell him the truth?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 420 days ago

29 September 2008 (?) - My boyfriend wants to be a writer when he finishes high school. He gave me a few pages to read and it was horrible. I let some of my friends read it too (without him knowing) and agree with me. He wants to know what I think, I just don't have the ...