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She calls me daily for around 15 mins, but has asked me not to disclose this, am I missing something ?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 512 days ago

5 April 2007 (M) - I have a friend, a lady who was a client. We have become friends over the last few months during the course of our business. Now I started a new job but she calls me to chat. These calls have become a daily event and last for a minimum of 15 mins. ...

We were looking through a class photo, he pointed out all the good looking girls, except me!!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 512 days ago

5 April 2007 (F) - today i showed my bf a class picture from high school last year. and he was saying which girls he thought were good looking. he went though them all, but didnt even mention me (i was also on the picture) it hurt me a little bit. am i being silly? ...

I dont know what to do, stay with my partner who makes me happy, or go back to my ex, whilst volatile I have deeper feelings for!?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 512 days ago

5 April 2007 (F) - I made a promise to my ex that I would never leave him, as all of his life he had people walking in and out of his life. We broke up about a year ago and I started seeing somebody else who is my partner now. My partner now is such a caring man and ...

He would like children one day but he says older women are at more risk of having babies and feel that I may be too old to have them.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 512 days ago

5 April 2007 (F) - I have been going out with Richard for 6 weeks, we phone each other every day and have a great time when we are together. We met through a computer dating agency, the thing is I have two teenage children who do not live with me and I unsure whether ...

Could they put him in jail if I'm pregnant???

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 511 days ago

5 April 2007 (F) - ok so me an my boyfriend had unprotected sex a couple times last month, but im on the pill and faithfully take it everyday. He also pulled out but now my period is about 3 days late and im starting to get worried. Whats the chances I could be ...

What are his rights to his son?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 512 days ago

5 April 2007 (F) - I am living with my boyfriend of 6 years and we have a 1 year old son. My partner is a French national and I am British, our son was born in the UK and has a British Passport. Our relationship has been on and off for years and we virtually stopped ...

Do you think theres a way to get the just married good sex back again!?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 512 days ago

5 April 2007 (M) - Me and my wife have always had a good relationship and have excellent sex, we are very close and share the best life together. How ever we were talking in bed last night and she suddenly asked me if i could remember how excellent the sex was on our ...

We were due to get divorced but neither us wanted to! My wife was so upset, but was it the thought of loosing me or something else!?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 501 days ago

5 April 2007 (M) - Ok this is kinda complicated so you'll have to bare with me. Basically me and my wife have been friends all our lives and she was my first gf and i was her first bf. We've been married for 4 yrs after going out together for 9 yrs before getting ...

My ex keeps telling me he loves me, but I want to make a go of it with the new guy, how do I move on ??

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 512 days ago

5 April 2007 (F) - Dear Cupid. I am so hurt inside. me and x broke up about 2 months ago. i realy loved him and still do. he treated me realy bad. we stayed together for over year. and where together for over 2.5 years. since then i met someone else. he is kind...

I switched the time I take my pill, Am I still protected ?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 511 days ago

5 April 2007 (F) - I used to take my contraceptive pill in the evening. But At the end of the cycle I Was on, after my break i decided it would suit me better to take it in the morning when I woke-up. Is this still Protecting me as i switched from one to the other? B...

The in-laws are always interferring with our marriage! Please help!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 512 days ago

5 April 2007 (M) - Hi my wife went to her parents home in December for an interview.After the interview she could not come back because she was waiting for the results.She later decided to stay there with out telling me the reason.l did not bother asking her when she...

Shes pretty high maintenance, Am I a fool for putting up with this ?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 512 days ago

5 April 2007 (M) - My situ : seperated - 2 children : 7 and 12 New girlfriend - always acusing me of looking at other women when i dont. always asks questions wot other women like when im at work. always thinks i am bedding the ex when i access children once a...

He doesnt work, he spends his dole money on drink, so when it comes to going out I have to pay!!!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 512 days ago

5 April 2007 (F) - I have been with my boyfriend 1 year and 4 months. (We dont live together)I Only see him at weekends because we live in different places. The problem is he drinks. He doesnt work. When he gets his dole money the 1st thing he does his spend it on al...

The lad denied sleeping with me when the girl that doesnt like me asked him, everyone will think im lying!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 512 days ago

5 April 2007 (F) - i slept with a lad and a girl who doesn't like me found out she rang him and asked him if it was true and he denied it.i feel that everyone is going to think i'm lying what shall i do? help...

How can I tell him that I saw various escort numbers in his recent call list, bearing in mind I spied ?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 512 days ago

5 April 2007 (F) - I need some advice. I recently did a silly thing while my boyfriend was in the shower - pressed the green button on his mobile (recent calls)He has given me reason to be suspicious in the past as before that id never touched his phone. There were ...

When a girl gets hurt in a relatonship, does she tell anybody (even her ex)?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 512 days ago

5 April 2007 (M) - When a girl gets hurt in a relatonship, does she tell anybody (even her ex)?...

Do you think he is still interested in meeting me ?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 512 days ago

5 April 2007 (F) - i really like this man i have met but becouse of forthcoming avents we can not see each other for a few weeks but i am looking so forward to seeing him, he is not married or seeing anyone its all legal stuff to do with courts, i text him a few days ...

Im seeing a married woman, her relationship is in turmoil, I just want her to be happy even if she doesnt end up with me, how can I best help her ?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 512 days ago

5 April 2007 (M) - Thanks for any response you can give me. I'm a 44 male never been married nor do I have any children. I recently took a new job and my new co-worker and I really hit off. She has been in a relationship for 9 years living together and has been eng...

My bf is going away next week, and I know Im going to have a panic attack! How do I deal with this ?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 512 days ago

5 April 2007 (F) - Hi Im wondering if anyone has any advice My bf and i have been going out for about 9 months A few months ago he moved closer to me because of work Im very attached to him He is my first 'proper' bf (im in my 20s, hes in his 30s) He wa...

My bf keeps complaning he sees me too much, We have now rowed about him not seeing me over easter!!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 512 days ago

5 April 2007 (F) - I have this bf and we'v been dating for almost 2 months. The thing is his always complaing I take up much of his time and he doesn't have time alone. We see each other on sat and sundays and sumdays during the week for an hour or he will sleep by ...

My bf says he fantasises about cheating on me!? Would he really cheat!?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 505 days ago

5 April 2007 (F) - my boyfriend fantersises over cheating on me. hes saying he likes the feeling but in reality he would never do it as he loves me. do you belive him? or do u think hes fed up of me? and wants to find someone else thats why hes fatasing over cheating? ...

Out of the blue I get a message with a picture of his baby!!!? I'm so lost!!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 513 days ago

5 April 2007 (F) - Hi. yesterday my fiancee sent me an sms of a baby and when i called him back he said that the baby was his. he was having a relationship with another girl for the past year while he was with me. he said even though the girl (20) wanted to abort the ...

Some info on lubricants please!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 512 days ago

5 April 2007 (F) - This is my first time, and im a little nervous. Could I apply sexual lubricant on my vagina without washing it out? Does it hurt when the lubricant is applied? Will it be too oily?...

He kept pressuring me for sex, I gave in and he's now very distant!!!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 512 days ago

5 April 2007 (F) - ok i was with my boyfriend for a year and a half he kept telling me if i loved him i would have sex with him finally i thought that he was the man i would spend the rest of my life with so i had sex with him but ever since then he seems distant we ...

I want to wait until marriage until I have sex, But im getting tempted lately as I love my BF, what do you think ?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 482 days ago

5 April 2007 (F) - I want to wait until marriage to lose my virginity, for religious reasons, some, but mostly to protect my heart and out of fear of getting pregnant. I've been going out with my boyfriend for 1.5 years, and he's great. Lately, I've been thinking of ...

I Found semen on a paper towel, right after my bf has been there, Is he cheating on me!?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 490 days ago

5 April 2007 (M) - Ok, I think my boyfriend cheated on me. We are a gay couple, my first boyfriend for 3 years now, i'm 24 he is 29. My bf "Ben" has had a lot boyfriends before and cheated on 2 guys as far as I know. He has been nice to me and I still let him talk to ...

He is quite large so sex is a bit painful! Also he said he had an orgasm without Cumming, is that possible!??

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 512 days ago

5 April 2007 (F) - I'm 24 years old and have never been in a really serious relationship before, I was always too busy having fun to worry about it and I think I got myself in some bad habits (I had a three date rule, after that I wouldn't see the guy again). A year ...

Does he like me in a fanycing kinda way ?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 512 days ago

5 April 2007 (F) - Dear Readers, I have this guy problem. i know, I know, my question will have all the answers written on it in red ( at least to you) and you problbably won't even bother with writing an answer. But still, I will continue. There's this boy at ...

Will daily masturbation lessen my first sexual experience?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 512 days ago

5 April 2007 (M) - Hello again.. I recently inquired about daily masturbation, and the replies were very reassuring and comforting. Thanks to those that replied. Now I pose a second question, will daily masturbation lessen my first sexual experience? I...

We broke up and she started seeing someone else, but we still had sex, is there a future for us ?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 512 days ago

5 April 2007 (F) - I dated this girl for 2 years. We've been broke up coming up on a year. Everythings was fine, until the last 3 months of the relationship. She ended up moving with her best friend and we started not seeing eye to eye. Yes, sometimes i would trip ...

My fiance flips out whenever I mention getting married!! What do I do ?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 512 days ago

5 April 2007 (F) - my fiance wont talk to me about getting married anymore, it used to be a great thing now sense we had a scare about me being pregnant he has completely stopped talking about getting married and every time I try bringing up the subject he flips!!! I ...

6 years together, and all we seem to do is watch TV together! Nothing exciting happens, even the sex is dull! Please Help!!!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 509 days ago

5 April 2007 (F) - Hey.. Needn some advice.. am in relationship for 6 years and engaged to the most committed man, well sort of. I know he loves me very much and i love him as much, he would also drive to the moon for me but since we have got engaged certain things a...

My mum was cool when we were just friends, now we are dating shes freaked out!!!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 512 days ago

5 April 2007 (F) - Help! I have a boy friend now who has been my best friend ever since 2nd grade, My mom has been totally cool with him when we were just friends but when he asked me out and I told her she started freaking out. I thought she'd be cool with it because ...

Why am I being so horrible to my ex ? He didnt hurt me, I dont understand ?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 512 days ago

5 April 2007 (F) - Hi. I Broke up with my ex boyfriend around christmas time as i realsied it was just a rebound relationship and we were better of as friends. Now i cant help being horrible towards him saying nasty things and always casuing arguments. I fee...

If hes not sure if he loves me after 9 months will he ever be sure ?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 508 days ago

5 April 2007 (F) - I've been dating my boyfriend for over 9 months. I recently told him I loved him, and all he did was hug me and didn't say anything back. I gave him about 2 weeks to absorb what I said, and then I finally asked ended up asking him how he felt ...

Whats the best way to chat up a girl in a club ?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 512 days ago

5 April 2007 (M) - How do girls like to be approached in clubs?? Whats the best things to say?? how to avoid rejection? best ways to flirt? advice from girls especially please but everyone is more then welcome...

Im been waiting and wanting to get a gf, now that I have I wish I was more experienced!!!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 512 days ago

5 April 2007 (M) - ok this may sound a little bit weird,I am 20 years old and have jus got my first girlfriend. This girl was quite a good friend of mine before we got together, n then she told me she liked me I felt the same and we got together. Before we got ...