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female
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41-50,
anonymous
writes:I dont trust my boyfriend. I have caught my boyfriend doing strange things such as transfering pictures of my friends off my phone on to his. his mobile is full of pictures of all the beautiful girls he knows and none of me. after a long talk he admitted that he had the photos to impress his male friends and look popular with ladies. i thought the reason i wasnt featured in his little photo book was because he was ashamed of me, he claims its because he doesnt want his friends looking at me in that way. he's also got alot of female friends who he never ever speeaks about or goes to see but they'l always be textin and emailing him, he says its nothing and he swears he hates cheating and wouldnever do that to me. all of this has shaken my confidence and although i really want to believe him i cant. what do i do?
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reader, Patient1  +, writes (13 April 2007):
 Well I personally think you should put your foot down on this one. 1st of all, why does he need to impress anyone other than you? If you two are together then it shoudn't matter what his mates think especially his female friends. I wouldn't trust him either at this point. Things like that make you feel insecure and less important and I don't think that's very fair at all. I would just tell him that you find it to be very disrespectful to you and that if he wants to be with you then that is something he should be willing to change. If having photos of other girls on his phone is more important than your feelings then he doesn't deserve you anyway. Good luck sweetie!
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