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Archived questions from: December, 2021 (see latest in Big Questions category)

Big Questions: Help and advice

After my friend rejected me, I spiraled into depression

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 846 days ago

30 December 2021 (M) - Hi, any advice is appreciated. I've been feeling lost recently. About 5 years ago when I was younger I asked my best friend out and she rejected me. Ever since I was sent into a spiral of self hate that I'm only now recovering from. 3 year...

Should I forgive him after he admitted to watching porn?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 833 days ago

29 December 2021 (F) - I don't even know where to start Me and my boyfriend / ex boyfriend had a lot of problems. I could never deal with his past but I kept trying. And 2 days ago he told me something new from his past, and I was so hurt that I only had one thought ...

Is my brother in law using my sister?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 851 days ago

27 December 2021 (F) - Am I crazy to think my brother in law is using my sister? She helped him obtain residency papers, start a new career which led to a 50 percent salary increase yet he didn’t get her anything for Christmas? She was so upset. I didn’t know what to say ...

My boyfriend and I haven't spoken in two weeks

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 846 days ago

23 December 2021 (F) - I have been with my partner over four years though we have had many ups and downs, primarily because I feel he doesn't want commitment. He says he is committed to me, wants no one else yet he doesn't want marriage and evades the topic of moving in ...

Is it worth asking this personal trainer out?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 851 days ago

23 December 2021 (M) - I haven't dated in over 2 years now, so I'm a bit out of practice so to speak. My life is finally in order as I recently moved to the States, have a job, a house I just bought, and am slowly trying to adapt to a "real life" again. I'm 34. I've...

I'm beginning to see my boyfriend as a free loader

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 854 days ago

20 December 2021 (F) - Free rider? My boyfriend of 8 months now seems like a free rider..tell me.if am mistaken I didn't notice anything until it was time to go on vacation. We went to Cancun and all but 500$ was paid with my points all inclusive. 500$ went on my credi...

Is this the end of Dear Cupid?

This question has 20 answers - newest was posted 856 days ago

19 December 2021 (F) - Is this site reaching the end of its life? Not to say that I want it to be but are we actually providing a genuine service to anybody any more? Back in the "good old days" we'd have a couple of hundred questions posted every month. Now we do...

My friend uses her self inflicted heart condition to gain sympathy

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 856 days ago

19 December 2021 (F) - My friend is a hard drug user. When I met her 10 years ago she was clean and stayed clean for the next 5 years. When I first met her I told her that normally I would never have a close friendship with a drug user as those people are on a differe...

My husband has just left me for another woman, and insists our kids meet her

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 863 days ago

13 December 2021 (F) - I'm 38, been married to my husband, 39 for 12 years, we've been together for 14 years as a couple. We have two 11-year-old girls, Katie and Angie, identical twins. I (well, it was we a month ago until my husband moved out) live in Adams Morgan,...

I feel used by my mother

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 862 days ago

13 December 2021 (F) - I left an abusive relationship a few years ago. I had to return my car because I couldn’t afford it. My mother gave away my dog while I was at work starting a new job. She claimed the dog tried to bite her. I had the dog for 6 years and she never ...

I got called a homophobe when I did nothing wrong

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 866 days ago

10 December 2021 (F) - I go regularly to a nearby gym (I'm a young woman). Due to something horrible going on in my life right now I am often pretty stressed and was walking around the gym earlier today with a serious expression on my face. As I did so I passed two guys ...

Is it normal to cry over not being able to do your routine?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 855 days ago

10 December 2021 (M) - Is it normal to cry over not being able to do my routine? Very unusual for me, I live with parents but I have a very busy schedule with work etc. I specially took a day off so I could sort my room and myself which means extra time spent on me...

Why did I give in this time to his media request?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 868 days ago

8 December 2021 (F) - Hi all, I need to vent about this. I had a secret “boyfriend” when I was young. He was my first everything. I’ll call him John. This was many years ago. I was 13, he was 17. I explored why in my 20s in therapy. My mother was an abusive person a...

What do I have to do to have some forward movement in my life?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 859 days ago

5 December 2021 (F) - I don't particularly know where to begin so I'll start here: I fell ill during school and as a result, my schooling experience wasn't what I wanted it to be. Regardless though, I managed to become well and start picking up the pieces of my life to ...

My father in law is a narcissist and my husband doesn't see it

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 863 days ago

4 December 2021 (F) - I've been in a relationship for about 6 years. We have 4 kids together. We're not married. I've decided I'm never going to marry him. I'd never take his name. So our relationship has its ups and downs, but for the last year it was going well. ...

My husband has admitted to having an affair with the principal

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 872 days ago

4 December 2021 (F) - I'm a mom to two daughters, 11 and 13. Been married for 13 years, but we've been together for 14 years in total. Earlier in the week, my best friend Jenny and her fiancee Katie came to my house, as Jenny had something important to say about my hus...

My girlfriend is making me choose between her an an old friend

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 872 days ago

2 December 2021 (M) - I need some advice on a situation in my relationship that is becoming more perilous and toxic as each day passes to put it all into context I have to provide a bit of a background, which I will keep as small as possible. before and during my...

Is my boyfriend just controlling or is he mentally ill?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 872 days ago

2 December 2021 (F) - Hi friends. This topic is a hard one to discuss and I hope you can all help me. I'm at a desperate point in my life now where I need answers or some advice on which way to go next. Please don't see me as weak in anyway because I am not. I've been ...

My husband wants a divorce but I don't

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 873 days ago

1 December 2021 (F) - My marriage is over basically. I've been with my husband for 13 years and married 8. We have a long history of on again and off again and everytime I try to change myself but then I stopped because I let something he said or did bother me enough to ...