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Archived questions from: November, 2014 (see latest in Big Questions category)

Big Questions: Help and advice

My husband and his family didn't know that I never been in highschool and I cannot find job here.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3432 days ago

30 November 2014 (F) - please Help me!!! i have a secret! My name is Sunset. I have a secret and i hide it for my own sake, I dont want people judge me. I believe I deserve equal treatment, love and respect. I'm going insane every night to think what happened if they...

What did she break-up with me out of the blue? Ex bf, new dude or was she not done playing the field yet?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3434 days ago

30 November 2014 (M) - I am a 44 yr old man, got dumped over a month ago, by my gf of 13 months. she was the love of my life. we were in-separable, did everything together, intimacy was awesome, I felt it was for her also. hours upon hours of conversation about anything ...

Is my dentist being professional? Am I expecting too much?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3435 days ago

29 November 2014 (F) - I was hoping someone could help me shed some light on this situation as it's completely baffling me! Last year I started a teeth straightening treatment and I was reccomended the same orthodontist by a work colleague and an old school friend wh...

What can I do? My boyfriend is addicted to fantasy sports online?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3435 days ago

29 November 2014 (?) - I know this isn't as serious as an addiction to drugs or alcohol, but I truly believe my boyfriend is addicted to fantasy sports. It's affecting our relationship. It started off earlier this Fall with fantasy football and has expanded to other ...

Is my boyfriend bisexual?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 3434 days ago

29 November 2014 (F) - I've been dating this super amazing guy for almost a year now. We both want to get married and were both looking for stable relationships. I ask every man I date if they've ever had any homosexual experiences. I usually ask in the beginnin...

How can I make this a success?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3436 days ago

28 November 2014 (F) - Quick story short: I moved to another country in northern Europe to study and live with my boyfriend. It's been a rough start and hard adjusting and settling in. I am in a program with few other students who are also foreigners (or at least ...

I know that my boyfriend didn't do anything wrong but just running into his ex ruined our night and his behavior didn't make things any better

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3436 days ago

28 November 2014 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been together for over 4 years. 2 girls before me, he dated a girl for around 3 or 4 years. They've been broken up for over 5 years now. They had an awful relationship where they fought, physically and verbally. She pretty ...

Shouldn't I be dreaming about my boyfriend?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3435 days ago

27 November 2014 (F) - So I am unable to have sex with my boyfriend of 6 years for the time being due to medical problems being looked at. As a result, I also came off the contraceptive pill because it was giving me migraines and it seemed like the best time to come off ...

Would it be weird if I waited a whole year to date just her, knowing I like her? Or do I date other girls in the interim?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3437 days ago

27 November 2014 (M) - There's a girl I really like in my school, (I'm a freshman in high school) and she likes me too, but her parents won't let her date until next year when she turns sixteen. What should I do? Should I date other girls? Would it be weird if I waited a...

Could his hug have meant something? Don't want to mess up again.

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 3431 days ago

27 November 2014 (?) - I like this guy in my class and we talk sometimes in class but I don't know how he feels about me (I'm 18 and he is 20). Usually when he leaves for his next class I say "goodbye (insert name here)" to show that I'm making the effort to say his name. ...

My Gf does not want me to see her naked when we make love. How can I help her to overcome this issue?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3437 days ago

27 November 2014 (M) - My girlfriend is overweight and its not from over eating its from a medical condition that runs in her family. I have told her that i understand thats she is over weight and have told her that i dont have any problems except when we make love. S...

I yearn for true love, harmony and happiness, again. But how? Is it too much to ask for?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 3417 days ago

26 November 2014 (F) - I miss my ex so much. Me and him broke up almost 10 years ago. We both moved on and I got married, divorced and contacted him, and he got in and out of several relationships, but today he doesn´t seem to be interrested. He was my first real...

Soon we will be in a LDR. So far one month together. Is it too soon to say "I Love you" ?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3437 days ago

26 November 2014 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been together for a month now. We started talking online and we talked for about two weeks before we met and we went on 3 dates before we started dating. He is an amazingly sweet guy, he makes me feel amazing, and I have nev...

How do I communicate my feelings to my husband without feeling negativity?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3437 days ago

26 November 2014 (F) - Hi Agony Aunts, Firstly I need some advice and I'm in great need of help. My husband and I love one another greatly but my depression is driving us both crazy and also making him sad. I was sexually abused multiple times in my life I was moles...

I feel like I'm in limbo since he doesn't think I'm ready for marriage

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3437 days ago

25 November 2014 (F) - Boyfriend wants to get married in the future. But he's a big believer in being happy in yourself. He thinks that I believe that getting married will make me happy. But he says that getting married won't change anything and that I have to be happy ...

Is it inappropriate to ask a guy to take an STD and HIV test before we date?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 3438 days ago

25 November 2014 (F) - Dear Cupid, I haven't dated in a long time but I decided if I should date again would I be wrong to bring up front about taking STD and HIV test.My health is in great condition and I want the same for the new guy.Thanks ...

How do I get out of the rut I am in and make changes for the better? Feel like life is passing me by

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3440 days ago

24 November 2014 (M) - This year, for a number of reasons,has been quite difficult. Not one to remember. I feel like I'm in a rut and I just can't seem to get out of it. I want to make positive changes to my life and lifestyle. I know the person I want to be,...

Extreme jealousy- Do I need help?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3439 days ago

24 November 2014 (F) - I've been having trouble with extreme jealousy in my relationship which is gradually getting worse. It's mainly things like when I'm watching TV with my boyfriend, and something remotely sexual appears (e.g a naked woman or something even as normal ...

My girlfriend's parents are forcing her into an arranged marriage

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3440 days ago

24 November 2014 (M) - My gf parents read our adult conversation and are very angry with both of us even when we didnt had ny physical relation we only hold each other hands sometimes and they r also forceing her to marry a guy what to do we both love each other alot but ...

I'm a straight guy who's been told his approach to sex is 'feminine'

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3438 days ago

23 November 2014 (M) - So I've been tossing with this for a while and I really just want some other people's perspective. So the best way I can describe how they feel is; I feel sexually like a woman. I know its not a perfect description but I'll try to elaborate Bas...

Still trying at 38! Never been in a relationship

This question has 32 answers - newest was posted 3436 days ago

23 November 2014 (M) - I am a 38 year old British male, I was wondering if anybody has any advice that works, I have never been in a relationship with a woman in my entire life. I have tried 12 different dating sites wasting thousands of pounds, I have been to speed ...

My wife won't have sex with me anymore and won't tell me why not

This question has 21 answers - newest was posted 3437 days ago

23 November 2014 (M) - I think the title says it all. We have been married for 7 years, together for 10 years, and the sex went from twice a night (which is normal in a honeymoon phase) to never over the course of 2 years. Over the last 5 years we have not had se...

How many people give you a spark in life?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3440 days ago

22 November 2014 (M) - Do you meet many people in life that give you that spark feeling ? not sure what it is but you know that silly feeling when you automaticly smile at each other , and daft things make you laugh. I had it with one girl ages ago who I fell in love w...

He wants to take care of me and finance my education, but ...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3443 days ago

21 November 2014 (F) - i seriously need help. im a 16 year old and a married man of over 40 years has been chasing me for sometime now, ar first i turned hi down but later on we became friends and got talking. he promises to take care of me and finance my studies, he is ...

I'm shattered, horrified,torn apart because my daughter just told me she's a bisexual

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 3443 days ago

21 November 2014 (F) - Hi, I'm shattered, torn apart. I can't seem to function. Just caught my daughter kissing a girl. Horrified, livid. I can't seem to accept my 16 yr old daughter telling me she is bisexual. I'm still 2 days later so angry wth her, calling her so ...

Why do women cheat?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 3441 days ago

21 November 2014 (F) - I don't mean to sound sexist or come off as judgemental I'm just really curious as to why married women cheat? I mean I can understand why men cheat, they produce sperm like every freakin day of their life so of course they're gonna wanna let ...

I take my job seriously; my supervisor doesn't.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3442 days ago

21 November 2014 (F) - Hey, Just looking for some advice on relationships in the workplace please :-).... basically, i work for a small family owned company which consists of a couple of stores in our local area. The owners are often in and work very hard..... I'v wo...

What makes a woman attractive to a man?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2992 days ago

20 November 2014 (F) - hi everyone , what is it that makes a female attractive to a male i dont mean their looks i mean like confidence but what happens if you dont have any what can help make you be more confident and other things like do they like someone funny serious ...

My husband and his family are pressuring me to visit them in Kurdistan!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3444 days ago

19 November 2014 (F) - My husband is currently in kurdistan, iraq. We are supposed to be meeting up in turkey in a couple of weeks. Now he is pestering me to go to kurdistan as his family want to meet me. I dont wish to go there because of the situation in iraq. Kurdistan ...

Why do people automatically assume I'm a bumb?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3440 days ago

17 November 2014 (M) - Hi all, I'm somewhat of a professional gambler, and I was wondering why is it so socially unacceptable to be a gambler? To make things clear, I'm not a problem gambler, I've been doing it for a living for the better part of 10 years. I'm a poker ...

I've had enough of my crazy mother in law

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3448 days ago

16 November 2014 (F) - My husband and I are in our first year of marriage and we had the opportunity to move hundreds of miles away from his family and his meddling mother. Yet she visits us almost every week-end! Now she's talking about moving to our city and I am at ...

My boyfriend has only read about 50 of the 200 posts in my blog. What does this mean?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3447 days ago

16 November 2014 (F) - I'm a writer who has a blog. It's a travel blog. I met this guy online about 6 months ago while I was travelling and we wrote to each other back and forth. Back then, he would read all of my posts, and write back with his take on them, what he ...

Stability vs. Excitment

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3447 days ago

16 November 2014 (F) - I find that we, humans, seem to have a nature of wanting things that we don't have sometimes to a point where we are hurting people along the way just to get it, because we don't know how to appreciate them when it is already in front of us. But ...

I never get asked out on a date

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3448 days ago

16 November 2014 (F) - I'm 23 and have never been asked out. I'm smart, go to uni and actively participate in student organisations as well as take part in social work. I love having good discussions and always take genuine interest in listening to the person I'm talking ...

How to stop loving my teacher?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3449 days ago

15 November 2014 (F) - So I've had this teacher since my freshman year, we hit it off almost instantly and became pretty close. (not in a weird or inappropriate way, just a teacher-student friendliness) We talk every school day, and we get on so well. We have a similar ...

Is there something wrong with how this teacher treats me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3449 days ago

15 November 2014 (F) - Im a 14 yo girl in highschool. I have a male geometry teacher that stares at me every time i walk near or when im in his class. Plenty of my friends and students in the classroom have noticed that he always stares at me.For example, as i walk ...

My fiance and father of our child has revealed that he has fantasies about having sex with other women. How am I supposed to cope with this?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 3447 days ago

15 November 2014 (F) - What would you do/think if your fiance who you just had a baby with says he fantasises/wants to have sex with other women! One of the woman he sees around work and talks to. Hes never cheated as far as i know and says he only would sleep with oth...

How do I continue with this relationship with my married boyfriend when I have periods of doubt creeping in around his ability to be faithful to me?

This question has 16 answers - newest was posted 3449 days ago

15 November 2014 (F) - Hello DC Friends. I could use your advice. Not judgement or answers which predict future behaviour and outcome. None of us knows what will happen with certainty. And let us remember that not every man is the same nor is what they do nor is every ...

Sad and confused. Wish I'd never met him. He was my first boyfriend, so why did he fail to give me support after he promised to help me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3449 days ago

15 November 2014 (F) - Hey aunts I'm really sad and just confused. I'm a 23 year old college student who works part time. I've never had a boyfriend before, I just always thought if I waited than the right guy will come alone and I than too will experience my first bo...

Do I believe him or not? My older married lover says he'll leave his wife when I finish college.

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 3431 days ago

15 November 2014 (F) - My older, married lover tells me he will eventually leave his wife once I finish college. He has brought up the idea of having a baby together recently. Does this mean he is serious about our relationship and would having his baby be a good choice? ...

I've been supportive about my husband's cross dressing. So why has he resorted to tells lies to me now about his activities?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3443 days ago

14 November 2014 (F) - Ok so I have known that my husband was a cross-dresser since before we got married. When he first told me about it, he started making craigslist posts to meet up with others to experiment... He never told me about it but I found the posts... He ...

Two weeks ago my husband joined a gym, and now he has no energy left for intimacy. What can I do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3450 days ago

14 November 2014 (F) - Just a quick one really... My husband and I have been together for a good 4-5 years and we have always had a good sex life (3-5 times a week) up till about two weeks ago when he joined a gym. I'm all up for him going and getting fit feeling bett...

He has a Gf and I have no intention nor wish to steal him away. So why has he continually flirted with me, on an off, for ten months?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3450 days ago

14 November 2014 (F) - My co-worker (head-chef of a cafe I work for part-time) seems to be flirting with me on and off. There's periods where he'll act really stroppy, and will ignore me completely. But at other times he'll be the one remembering minor details about me, ...

Is educating myself worth it?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3450 days ago

13 November 2014 (F) - I recently turned 30 and had that whole life in order and retirement plan cross my mind and I decided to go back to school and get a bachelors degree. I grew up learning that knowledge is everything, And a degree can help but wasn't needed. As you ...

How to separate emotional issues so I can be more productive

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3256 days ago

12 November 2014 (F) - I have a personal major problem that I am trying to resolve but it is now affecting my daily life and is worse than the last emotional stress I've been dealing with. I don't want to ruin my chances of keeping a good job or lose any self-respect ...

Men, would you see her as girlfriend material if she doesn't have a connection to family or friends?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3451 days ago

12 November 2014 (F) - To the men of dear cupid. What would you think of a woman who doesn't have much support in life? Say if most of her blood family were no longer emotionally invested in her and some of the members treated her poorly. Would you take her seri...

In a marriage, would you be happier with the person you love or the person that loves you?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 3450 days ago

12 November 2014 (F) - This is an age old question but I would like to poll a question. In a marriage, would you be happier with the person you love or the person that loves you? (Note that it's a one-sided love. You may care for the other person but I am referring to ...

We're getting married in 5 months. Am I asking too much to want fire and passion in our relationship? What should I do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3451 days ago

12 November 2014 (F) - Dear Cupid, I need your advice. I have been with the same man for over three years. We have lived together and shared money for two and a half of those. I am 24 and he is 28. "Joe" is the "perfect" man. He is chivalrous, hardworking, selfless...

Who do I leave my money to?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 3451 days ago

11 November 2014 (M) - I'm going to make a will.I'm quite comfortable financially, with a property paid for and money in the bank.I'm only 55, but you never know... Thing is, my only son (from a divorce) is 27 and has basically never worked. He occasionally works as a DJ ...

My boyfriend wants to join the forces and I don't know how I'll cope!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3453 days ago

11 November 2014 (F) - Me and my boyfriend have been together for over 6 months, and next year March we are planning on moving to London together to give our acting careers a real good go before we decide on settling. We are very much in love and very serious about one ...