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Big Questions: Help and advice

Colleague ruined spa day. Do I inform management of her behavior?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 212 days ago

26 September 2023 (F) - My workplace paid for myself and a colleague to a spa day last week as we were the top 2 in our team with the highest sales records. Often they treat staff members who have hit target with things like this and this was both our first time. ...

Followup to post produce

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 217 days ago

22 September 2023 (F) - This is a follow up to my post on the 29th August “ Are we being harsh by no longer giving neighbors fresh produce as they seem to take advantage?” I wanted to thank everyone for backing us up and making us realize we weren’t being harsh for ...

Suffering from PTSD from an event from my past

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 217 days ago

21 September 2023 (F) - I am in a bit of a mess emotionally and I am wondering what to do. I stupidly took part in a reality TV show 20 years ago. The footage is damaging bot to my wellbeing and my career and I wish to remove rights to broadcasting including airing...

Was I wrong to delete my ex and his friends and family from my social media?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 219 days ago

18 September 2023 (?) - Hello everyone! I wanted to post here because I’m looking for advice, yesterday I unfollowed my ex from all social media, and I blocked him on WhatsApp. Also, I deleted his family and friends from Instagram. This was a huge step for me. It makes...

Accused of bragging about my 2nd property at work

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 217 days ago

18 September 2023 (F) - My husband and i recently bought a 2nd property - it’s an apartment on the beach here in the UK. We’ve saved up and made sacrifices for years to be able to do this and are proud that we have been able to do so. At work last week a few ...

How can I make amends with my friend about the money?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 216 days ago

14 September 2023 (F) - I’m currently feeling very guilty for accidentally misleading a friend regarding helping her out financially….. 18 months ago my friend was facing a potential situation where by she would need a solicitor and she was struggling to cover the cos...

We both want to buy a house but I also want to travel

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 224 days ago

11 September 2023 (F) - Hi cupids, I have a bit of a dilemma with my relationship when it comes to finances and matching up with what we both want for the future. For context, I had a turbulent upbringing with both of my parents addicts. I worked really hard an...

Should I confront my friend about not inviting me to her engagement party?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 227 days ago

11 September 2023 (F) - Can you please advise if I should confront my friend or not over something that has left me feeling upset. We’ve been friends for around 15 years, she was my bridesmaid at my wedding a few years ago, she even told me she was pregnant before ...

How do I tell my brother and his wife that I'm moving out of state?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 229 days ago

9 September 2023 (M) - My brother, his wife and I live on the same street. My brother and I have always been close. I am single and work from home. I rent while my brother owns his home. About 4 months ago, my brother and sister-in-law announced that the...

My mum's friend is a bad customer

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 229 days ago

8 September 2023 (F) - I’m really annoyed at my mums friend for messing me about and also at my mum as she is siding with her friend!!! Last year i started making and selling some items- jewelry, hats, bags etc… My mums friend who I’ve only met a handful of times...

How to let him down gently

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 229 days ago

8 September 2023 (M) - Before the summer, I ask my ex to give me some space as i was feeling overwhelmed by our interactions. It felt very unbalanced, as he was in love with me then and I wasn’t with him. He wanted to keep having long talks but for me I really needed to ...

Dating for 2 months and I asked where this is headed

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 230 days ago

5 September 2023 (F) - I’ve been dating this guy for 2 months now. I really like him and feel like things were going really well. I finally thought I’d met someone special. I however asked him where he saw this going and he said he didn’t know I feel really upset and ...

Should I seek therapy after this break up?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 230 days ago

4 September 2023 (M) - Should i go to therapy 2 months after my break up. Hi everyone, its sucks having to come back to this site cause it means im in trouble again. This time, i need help with coping with my feelings. Around april this year i met a very lovely gi...