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Archived questions from: October, 2020 (see latest in Big Questions category)

Big Questions: Help and advice

Was I foolish and naive all those years ago ?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 1253 days ago

30 October 2020 (F) - Do you think I was unreasonable when I was younger and do you think I’m being silly now and perhaps over reacting ? I get very upset about all this from my past: My first marriage was in 1981 when I was 29yrs old. A week after our wedding my h...

Is it a good idea to pay an escort to date me?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 1271 days ago

29 October 2020 (M) - Hello I am a male virgin who has never been on a date or kissed a girl. I have many friends who are women but never had a girlfriend. I'm not particularly handsome and I am chubby. I'm bald also. I basically look like a gorilla. I am socially aw...

My male colleague distances himself when I told him my feelings. Any advice about moving on, and what I should have done differently?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 1274 days ago

28 October 2020 (F) - I am looking for insight on this situation of mine of a relationship that had dissolved. I am seeking a career change because it holds poor memories. I had a friendship with a male colleague for a year which I know he valued. I thought that he recip...

My former superior made work hellish. I’m out of her oversight now but am wondering if I can stay at the company. Your advice, please!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 1275 days ago

28 October 2020 (F) - Dear Aunts and Uncles. Would love to hear your feedback and insights on this one. I have been employed at this company for more than a year now. I was instrumental in launching a major product and major partnership last year thereby generating the ...

I befriended a co-worker who has many issues and I don’t know how to end the friendship!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 1274 days ago

27 October 2020 (F) - I need help, I seem to have got myself into a horrible situation. First thing is first I would like to acknowledge my own short coming and my responsibility here. I started a new job with an office of 25-30 women in one big room. I'm not much for...

Do I tell my friend about her teenaged son's attraction to me?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 1276 days ago

25 October 2020 (F) - Hi I am 44 and I have been divorced for 6 months. The divorce was hard on me and I have very low self esteem and ended up having to move in with my friend and her son. Over the course of the months I have been staying with my friend I noticed...

I'm struggling with my co-workers English

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 1211 days ago

21 October 2020 (F) - Hello all. Thank you in advance for taking the time to help me find a solution to my problem. I have just started a job after being flogged due to Covid. I love the job and the staff I work with are great the thing is many of the staff I take ...

He says he just wants to leave things as they are. Does that mean he's not interested?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 1282 days ago

20 October 2020 (F) - Guy I’ve been seeing has just broke it off saying he’s just not ready for a relationship at the moment and wants to leave things as they are for now. Does this mean he’s not interested at all? He’s had a lot on with work and his mum being ill but ...

Why can a guy cheat and it's ok but not ok if his gf does it!???

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 1284 days ago

18 October 2020 (F) - Maybe somebody here can tell me why a guy who cheats on you when the opportunity comes up cheats on you but gaslights the hell out of you every time? Why does he do this to you? Why does he profess his love for you and try so hard to hold onto you? ...

I need to know if people are capable of change when it comes to cheating?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 1288 days ago

14 October 2020 (F) - I need to know if people are capable of change when it comes to cheating? I broke up with my partner of 10 years and father to my child 18 months ago. We had a good relationship. There were a couple of niggles - he was slightly stricter bringi...

What is the best way to quit a job? What should I say and what should I not say? What is the best professional way to quit a job?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 1290 days ago

13 October 2020 (M) - I am single with no kids of my own but I am very close to my nieces and nephew. At my present job, where I worked at for 15 years, they make me work over the holidays (Thanksgiving, Christmas Eve, Christmas Day, est.) even through I request to hav...

I’ve been talking too much about politics and now I’ve upset a friend! How to make this right?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 1291 days ago

12 October 2020 (F) - My best friend just started dating this guy and he seems to be actually a really nice person. Only unusual part is that he's a real live Republican (guns, God Bless the USA, etc) and we're all raving mad Democrats (including my best friend). All ...

Should I buy a condo with my partner?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 1291 days ago

10 October 2020 (F) - Hello, I have a question about cohabiting. If I purchase a condo under my name and decide that my boyfriend would live with me later on, would it be wiser to just have him sign with me as opposed to just myself? I am planning to propose to him next ...

I'm unhappy with where we live. Should we wait it out or move?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 1295 days ago

7 October 2020 (F) - my husband and I live on a road that you have to drive up a steep hill to get to. we have been here 16 months. we both don't like the hill but have put up with it because when we were looking to move this was the only nicest house we came across ...

What does it mean to reparent yourself?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 1295 days ago

7 October 2020 (F) - What to people mean by reparenting and how do you go about doing that? I am a 24 year old female still living in my parents home. Growing up, my father was an alcoholic and verbally abused me and my mother. My mother was also belittling me. There ...

I'm a hopeless romantic male virgin and I don't know what to do

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 1300 days ago

2 October 2020 (M) - I'm a male virgin who's never kissed a girl, never been on a date and of course never been in a relationship. I usually end up making a connection with someone and I can't make that leap and she ends up dating someone else and gets into a ...

I am clueless about how to proceed with this lady and I don't want this to be yet another catastrophe

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 1297 days ago

2 October 2020 (M) - Hello Cupids and Aunts. I am in need of advice for what I am more and more convinced is a mess I got myself into. A while back while at a funeral I saw a woman who really really caught my eye, both for her beauty and her way of bearing herself....