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Archived questions from: November, 2020 (see latest in Big Questions category)

Big Questions: Help and advice

How can I be 15 weeks pregnant when I calculate it at 13 weeks?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 1241 days ago

30 November 2020 (F) - Hi all, i am pregnant with my first child but with the current covid situation itd really hard to get the attention and questions answered by the docs and nurses. So I am hoping someone here is able to help. I just had my 13 week scan only to ...

How are others dealing with the anxiety caused from the pandemic?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 1241 days ago

30 November 2020 (F) - I know I am not the only one experiencing problem with this ongoing pandemic but I'm wondering if any of the wonderful aunts and uncles could give me some advice that perhaps I haven't tried or thought of? I am having such a hard time just trying...

My family doesn't know about my biracial daughter

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 1241 days ago

29 November 2020 (M) - When I was 20 years old, I was dating a black girl (I am white). We did have sex and she ended up pregnant. Due to different reasons, we agreed to put the baby up for adoption (open adoption). My ex-girlfriend stayed in contact with the family (the ...

Is it pointless for me to search for a partner?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 517 days ago

27 November 2020 (F) - Long story short, I've lived in a toxic home my whole life for almost 3 decades, and after finally breaking away, I feel better than before. In a nutshell, living alone is the most amazing thing ever. I don't yearn for there to be anyone there by ...

How to say no to a friend?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 1246 days ago

27 November 2020 (F) - How to say no to a friend? My childhood friend wants to come for Christmas with his new bf. Due to the COVID pandemic, this is not OK with my husband and me. Otherwise we would be happy to have have them stay with us over the holidays. My ...

What's going through the head of this man when he responds strangely to me pointing out him being married?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 1246 days ago

25 November 2020 (F) - There is this man who works in the same building as I do. He is not a coworker but works in facilities. Not knowing be was married, we would sometimes flirt with each other. However, after 4 months, he recently slipped into conversation tha...

I have a boyfriend but can't help being intrigued by a Secret Admirer

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 1247 days ago

23 November 2020 (F) - Cupids I need help! OK so about a month ago I got a random email from a man who claimed to have known me in the past, telling me that he 'had to get off his chest' that he really fancied me and was crazy about me and that even YEARS later sinc...

I have always been Heterosexual, but last couple of years I have been sort of bi curious, Is this normal as we get older?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 1252 days ago

19 November 2020 (M) - I have always been heterosexual but for the last couple of years I am somewhat bi curious, never been with a man, I have been in several 3somes, ffm, and mmf. But never even thought about it. Is this somewhat normal as we get older?...

Am I reading something wrong here? Am I attracting hostilities ? Is there a missing piece ?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 1254 days ago

18 November 2020 (F) - Dear Aunts and Uncles, want your insights on something weird that seems to have repeated itself twice. Let me describe the two instances below: Instance 1- 10 years ago. I was an intern at a firm. It was a assignment with a 5-6 member team that...

Help! Stuck in my marriage for financial reasons

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 1193 days ago

16 November 2020 (F) - I am in love with someone else and yet I am married ..but I can’t afford to leave the marriage because I have 2 kids with my husband and my financial security is not stable...the one I am in love with is also not financially stable ...but if I stay ...

This has never happened to me before, Is my female boss being friendly or wanting something more from me ?

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 1257 days ago

12 November 2020 (M) - I don't know if it's harassment, her being friendly or she's wanting something more and I'm very confused about it and haven't laid a finger on her. I'm male and in my ninth week at a new job in a warehouse and within the first week my female b...

How do I handle these work politics?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 1260 days ago

12 November 2020 (F) - Following a break up and because of the Pandemic and lockdowns, and because I work on temporary contracts, I've been having a difficult time financially. I work in higher education and I lost two main contracts this academic year. I was extremely ...

I'm married but insanely attracted to my neighbour

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 1255 days ago

11 November 2020 (F) - As the title suggests, I am insanely attracted to my neighbour. I am married with a 5 year old; he's married as well with a baby. He works in my husband's office but in a different department. Nothing's happened yet. I have to give a bit of ba...

Why won't my remaining family ever acknowledge that I am an artist?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 1255 days ago

10 November 2020 (F) - I come from a working class family that was originally fairly large but now there are few family members left. My background was abusive and my career path has not been at all straight forward. I was always 'top of my class' in school and was ...

I have a update and would like the opinions of my favorite aunts and uncles here!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 1240 days ago

9 November 2020 (F) - I have been separated with my so called "husband" for a year now. We have a 2 year old son who is living with me in my parents house. I brought my son and left him last year after knewing he stole my money and jewellery for his gambling addiction. ...

Why does he stare at me but not talk?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 1269 days ago

3 November 2020 (F) - Hello.. It may seem trivial but i would love some insight into why a man stares and makes constant eye contact with me- however when i returned the eye contact (a bit more subtly) smiled a couple of times- blank, no smile nothing.. To put into co...