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Archived questions from: March, 2014 (see latest in Big Questions category)

Big Questions: Help and advice

How do you respond to a Facebook flirt?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3672 days ago

31 March 2014 (M) - With Facebook, Google +1 and the ilk we are flooding more of ourselves into the public eye than at any other time in history. Given that fact, do you take comments, flirts or pokes too seriously? These sites are targeted as social interaction, for...

How did my close friend manage to keep all this to herself?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3672 days ago

31 March 2014 (M) - I can't understand what happened on saturday night with this girl i'm friends with, i've known her three years and never seen this side of her!! She's always been a confident, talkative and happy girl. We're on the same course at university and I...

I think my vulnerable friend is being taken advantage of

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 3670 days ago

31 March 2014 (M) - This woman was previously abused in a very long term marriage. (slapped around then forcibly Raped on her wedding night by her husband.) He abused her in many other ways as well. He made her feel guilty and took great advantage of her. She is n...

My girlfriend seldom tells me she loves me anymore

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3673 days ago

31 March 2014 (M) - i've been with my girlfriend for over 3 years. recently she has stopped saying I love you as much as she used to. but she's actually increased other things she does for me. like she spends more time with me than before, she does more things for me ...

My boyfriend doesn't take into account the fact that I'm very sensitive

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3672 days ago

31 March 2014 (F) - I've been with my partner for eight-ish years. Some of those were long distance; about half were not. We've had some instability in the relationship, from my breaking up with him multiple times but we've also had some good times. About a year ago ...

I get no sense of acceptance from my church

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3665 days ago

30 March 2014 (F) - Hi, my question is regards to church, I have attended the same church since I was a child and I'm now in 20s but I have always felt like I was the outsider! Every little detail of me at some point has been commented on, my family who don't attend ...

Why do guys string along lots of women at once?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 3671 days ago

30 March 2014 (F) - Hi, Why do guys string along lots of women at once? I know this middle aged guy who's about to get married (to his dying fiancé) and has kids, and he has loads of women adoring him at work and is sleeping with many women from work. He's n...

Why can't I get over this offensive incident?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 3672 days ago

30 March 2014 (M) - I took a tennis class and this pretty woman walked up to me during the first one and said, "Hi Bob! I lost your e-mail address!" I replied that it was no big deal and I'd give it to her again. She then said to me, "Err, no, that's okay," etc. I wa...

After no training, and lack of support I feel I have been unfairly dismissed. I am left with absolutely nothing including no income, what can I do?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3672 days ago

30 March 2014 (F) - Hi guys, I posted last weekend about beng made to feel like I'm thick since starting my new job, heres the link - http://www.dearcupid.org/question/since-starting-my-new-job-i-feel-like.html. Well I appreicate that everyone I spoke to in pers...

Are adults too busy to make new friends these days, do we not even try anymore?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3672 days ago

30 March 2014 (F) - Do we not see those that are alone and may need a new friend? are we so suspicious of someone making small talk or being friendly, say when we meet them, that we ignore them for our own friends? or our own lives, family etc etc. Many ppl have bu...

Never thought it would go on so long or get so serious, and now I can't live with the lies

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 3672 days ago

29 March 2014 (F) - You guys have probably never gotten a problem like this before...what I'm about to say is completely disgusting but please bare with me. I randomly met a guy online about 1 year ago. It was all just fun and games at first and a few days into ta...

I'm pregnant, and it's not a good time!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3674 days ago

29 March 2014 (F) - I just found out I am three weeks pregnant - it's not the best time for it in that Myself and my boyfriend have just moved into his parents house for the year so that he can afford to start his own business. (I have a permanent job.) And right now, ...

Should I continue this long-distance relationship knowing we can't be together for another two years at least?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 3672 days ago

29 March 2014 (F) - Am I stupid to be willing to wait for so long for us to be together? My fiance and I are in a long distance relationship. We always have been. We are recently engaged. I love him very much, but I struggle with the length of time it will be befor...

She lied and said she wasn't a virgin. Now that I know she is one, I feel like I can't trust her if she would lie about something that big!

This question has 22 answers - newest was posted 3667 days ago

29 March 2014 (M) - Can I be annoyed at this girl I've just started to date for lying to me about something big like this. She says she did it to protect herself, but I feel insulted she judged me to be like those guys... We got to talking and I asked her how ma...

My mum is depressed and having trouble at work, and I'm not sure how to help her

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3675 days ago

28 March 2014 (F) - Hi Aunts and Uncles, Just need some advice on how to help my mum. She suffered with depression, had medication and seemed to get out of it. Just recently she seemed to have slipped back into the depression. She's having trouble at work as they'...

May have to drop out of college, is there any hope for me if I do?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3674 days ago

28 March 2014 (F) - Hey! I'd like to share something with you all and just gain some opinions and maybe some stories from others who may of not been able to continue with there education. As most of you guys already know I have Bipolar, and ontop of that I a...

I'm a good employee but my manager is giving me less & less shifts. How should I approach this?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3675 days ago

28 March 2014 (F) - I work in a restaurant. After I came back from winter vacation abroad and back to school, I filled out my February schedule as available Weds/Thurs/Fri evenings. My manager scheduled me Thurs and Fri evenings which was perfect. For March, I filled ...

How can I turn my life around? What can I do about all of this?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3675 days ago

28 March 2014 (F) - Hey everyone well I'm sorry that this is going to be a long complicated sob story but I'm in desperate need of advice and I know you all give great advice. I'm 21 years old. I'll start off by saying I was abused a lot by a lot of my family growin...

The man I'm dating belongs to a religion that does not approve

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 3675 days ago

28 March 2014 (?) - Im so scared to loose again. I found a man who is nine years younger than I am. I am divorced with one child. He never been married and no kids. However he is of another religion. I am afraid of loosing him because of it. A lot of elder females ...

Feeling fed up. Job going no where. Haven't met "The One". Has anybody experienced this situation and have any advice?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3675 days ago

27 March 2014 (F) - Hi everyone, just looking for a bit of advice. I'm 26 and just feeling really fed up with life. I spent 5 years in uni and trained as a teacher but I currently work as a sales manager. I didn't love teaching and jobs were few are far between ...

My wife disgusts me!

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 3676 days ago

27 March 2014 (M) - Hello all! I am almost 41 years old and I have been with my wife since 2001. There are still some things that thrill me about her, but often I wonder what I ever saw in her. She is lazy, drinks too much liquor, has let her good looks go, and a...

I feel lonely and alone.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3676 days ago

27 March 2014 (F) - Basically I feel very lonely and alone in life. I unfortunately lost my mother a few years ago and it's just me and my father. I'm grateful for my father but he is literally the only person in my life. A lot of my family live in different states and ...

I'm a single mum at 25 and worried I will never meet someone to date!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3676 days ago

26 March 2014 (F) - Hi, I know how pathetic this sounds but I am so fed up with being single! I am 25 and a single mum, and just wish I could meet someone. People tell me am pretty but yet no one asks me out! I was with my daughters father for 2 years and he was a lo...

I want a child and can't gamble more time on dating and ending up alone. Should I have a baby with this guy even though he doesn't want a relationship?

This question has 16 answers - newest was posted 3676 days ago

26 March 2014 (F) - I have been sleeping with a guy from work he is 32 years old and I am 38. and it just keeps going on and on and he says that he doesn't not want a relationship and he cannot be my boyfriend yet we spend weekends together and I go to his parents for ...

How can I control the jealousy I feel when he visits his daughter from a previous relationship, especially now that we have a child of our own?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 3676 days ago

26 March 2014 (F) - Me my boyfriend have a child together and he also has a child from his first relationship... often he goes to spend time with his other daughter and it's really getting on my love. He loves his daughter very much but sometimes I hate the fact th...

How do I put my family problems behind me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3677 days ago

26 March 2014 (F) - Hmm... I don't even know where to start. My life has been all over the place since I've returned to school. I was living with my mother when I came back, for about 2 1/2 months until we got into an disagreement, which turned into an argument which ...

I'm thinking of giving the baby up for adoption but getting no support

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 3676 days ago

26 March 2014 (F) - Dear Cupid, I'm having a kid soon, and I was wondering what the cons of adoption are. When I first discovered I was pregnant, I nearly had an abortion, but was convinced not to follow through by my mother and friends. Now that I mention adoption...

Don't have much of a life at college ---how do I meet friends?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3677 days ago

26 March 2014 (F) - Hey I need some help. I'm a young woman who is in college. I know this is embarrassing but I don't really have any friends and not much of a life either. I guess my college isn't really the best place to meet people because nobody really interacts ...

Feels like no one is genuinely excited about our engagement. There are challenges. What can I do to cope with it all?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3676 days ago

25 March 2014 (F) - It feels like no one is genuinely excited about my recent engagement. I've been dating a wonderful man for about 6 months and he recently proposed. We are in a long distance relationship, and there are a lot of challenges to us being together-t...

Is it wrong to look at other women and come to the conclusion that some are better than my wife?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 3677 days ago

25 March 2014 (M) - Is it wrong to look at other women if you find yourself thinking they are better than your wife in some way? For example you see a woman who has long shapely legs, and you catch yourself thinking for a second she has nicer legs than your wife. I ...

I'm clear that it's over between us, he's not

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3677 days ago

25 March 2014 (F) - My "ex" boyfriend and i have not talked in three months. i wanted the break but hes not over me. he texts me, calls me and emails me. I told him i dun wan this relationship anymore. he treated me bad. now i've moved on. i've been hurt too much to go ...

I need a job, but is this the right one?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3678 days ago

25 March 2014 (F) - I'm a shy person. Would a promotions job be the wrong kind of work for me?. I have been offered an interview for a job as a promoter in a shopping mall. It's only part time. I would be working at the weekends. I am on Jobseeker's Allowance. I...

I feel bad for making him suffer

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3678 days ago

25 March 2014 (F) - Hi, this is my problem: I was really in love with this bodybuilding guy. He was the only guy who had ever treated me with love and cared and pampered me and spoiled. He was almost perfect. We were really in love and by no means would we ha...

My Gf finds flatulence disgusting. I am afraid to share a bed with her because of it. What can I do?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 3678 days ago

25 March 2014 (M) - i cant sleep at night with my gf, we have been together for two years now but we are LD, we have reach a very acceptable level of comfort with each other, but i cant still pass gas in front of her, not yet. she finds it disgusting. Every nigh...

Since starting my new job I feel like I'm thick. I want to improve, please help!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3679 days ago

24 March 2014 (F) - I've been feeling really down. After graduating from uni I finally landed a full time job. Not something too challenging but with opportunities.. Until I found out I can't even do the simple things. From day one I always felt the managers were ex...

Does sex always have to be with someone special?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 3677 days ago

24 March 2014 (?) - Hey, people!!!! Haven't been on here for some time! You seriously can't understand how bored i was. anyway, i've gotta question that's not a problem, but it'd be nice to have some opinions. so basically, my friends and i were having an argument...

Are we too different to have a future?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3679 days ago

24 March 2014 (F) - I've been with my boyfriend for just over a year. Our relationship really is great. He's thoughtful, loving and great fun (who thought you could have all three?!) My problem is there is a certain aspect to his personality that I don't like. Now ...

Time for a break or time to settle down?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3678 days ago

24 March 2014 (F) - I have been with my boyfriend for 4 years, since we were 17. He was my first everything as well as my best friend and I really care about him. However, now that we're coming to the end of our degrees, we've started planning what we're going to d...

How do I stop getting dumped?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3679 days ago

24 March 2014 (M) - Recently my girlfriend who I loved very very much dumped me. Safe to say gutted. I've never loved like that before. I thought we would get married. I seem to always get my heartbroken as I've never dumped a girl. My ex told me she only seen me...

Is it normal to be anxious after becoming engaged?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3677 days ago

24 March 2014 (F) - Did I just make a huge mistake accepting a proposal? I've been dating a wonderful man for about six months, and he just proposed yesterday. I love him, and I feel like I can see myself having a happy life with him. I am freaking out right n...

How can I overcome my fear of relationships?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3680 days ago

24 March 2014 (F) - I'm sorry if this is long but lately I've been having really negative and pessimistic feelings about love and I feel like I need someone to talk me out of it and/or give me hope. I'm an 18 year old girl. I have good self esteem and I'm generally a ...

I don't like the engagement ring he gave me

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 3678 days ago

23 March 2014 (F) - I'm disappointed with my engagement ring. I feel like a horrible person. I love my fiance to death, but he picked out a gorgeous ring, with a sapphire as the centerpiece stone. It really is a beautiful ring-but I am very traditionally mi...

Why won't he dance with me?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3680 days ago

23 March 2014 (F) - My husband to be dance competitively in college - salsa, tango and ballroom with his ex wife for many years. We've been together 3 1/2 yrs and not once has he taken me dancing. Our wedding is this summer and I don't know how to deal with the first ...

I am already pregnant. So how do my husband and I handle his parents who flipped about the pregnancy because my husband is disabled?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 3678 days ago

22 March 2014 (F) - I need some advice on how to deal with the things going on in my life at the moment. I Will tell u the back story. My husband and I were involved in an accident a few years ago and it left my husband significantly physically disabled and I'm now ...

He was rude and dismissive until I resigned ...

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 3679 days ago

22 March 2014 (F) - I'm feeling a little upset and annoyed over something so your advice is appreciated. My mother in law has been widowed for the past 6 years and has always been very independent. Unfortunately over the past year her health has deteriorated so ...

A super out-of-the-blue booty call? Why?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3681 days ago

22 March 2014 (F) - Hi everyone, and thanks ahead of time for your advice. I appreciate you reading this and giving me your thoughts. I'm nearly 23, and in October '13, I broke up with a boyfriend of nearly three years. It was the most toxic relationship I h...

Strip Clubs and the Committed Man....how often it TOO often??

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3680 days ago

22 March 2014 (F) - Should my boyfriend/husband be going to the strip club?It seems to be a common question women have. But my question is about frequency, is it really acceptable for a man in a committed relationship to go to the strip club not every now and then ...

I hate seeing this woman hurt and string my friend along. Is there anything I can do to help her?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3669 days ago

21 March 2014 (F) - I need some advice. I have a friend who I am really close to. We share a lot with each other and have the type of friendship where we can speak openly. Recently she told me that she felt she could always come to me with a problem because I was ho...

Isn't it better to have loved and lost then to have never have loved at all?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 3683 days ago

20 March 2014 (M) - I met this girl while I was traveling in Thailand where I ended up saving her life, 3 months later she leaves Canada and comes to Australia for a year working/traveling. Everything was going great for the first few days then when we talking about...

Does anyone know the meaning behind this song?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3683 days ago

19 March 2014 (F) - Help song meaning??? 3 days grace sign of the times?? My boyfriend is listening to a few songs falls asleep to them. So if i know the meaning i can help cause i think he is sad if i done something wrong i can fix it. So that song and 3 days grace ...