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Archived questions from: February, 2008 (see latest in Big Questions category)

Big Questions: Help and advice

Are teachers very often at fault for pupils forming an attraction?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 62 days ago

29 February 2008 (F) - There have been many posts on Dear Cupid enquiring about what to do in a situation where a student is in love with a teacher, almost all are from a student perspective. In many questions, they will contain all their 'evidence' as to why they thi...

Should I be worried about my gf's new piercing??

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 3 days ago

29 February 2008 (M) - My girlfriend just got her vagina pirced. Should i be worried or is this just somthing some girls do?...

Should I attempt to pursue something with a guy who is shy about meeting in person?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 126 days ago

29 February 2008 (F) - To set this up, I have little experience dating. I went through years of not even trying to date. But I've decided to turn over a new leaf and put myself out there. I decided to try online dating and have corresponded with some nice guys that way. I ...

How do I get over him and just be his friend for our daughters sake??

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 124 days ago

29 February 2008 (F) - My boyfriend of 4 years recently broke up with me. We were high school sweethearts who always had a complicated relationship. We got pregnant and had a baby in high school. He later proposed to me after the baby turned one and we planned to marry in ...

How can she move on after a mere two months??

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 125 days ago

29 February 2008 (M) - Hi, Here's my story. I was dating this girl for the past 4.5 years while I was studying overseas. We lived-in together for 3 of those years. I loved her terribly and only saw myself with her. 2 months ago, after the end of my studies I had to leave...

I am still holding onto the hope he likes me but I really can't bear it anymore.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 126 days ago

29 February 2008 (F) - hiya, i wrote up the other day about the fact i'd fell in love with my friend but knew we could never be together becasue he has no idea about it all and everything. Anyway i seriously can't take it anymore, i don't know why i've let it come to ...

I stay out of his way but I really can't seem to handle this situation...please help.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 126 days ago

29 February 2008 (F) - Hello everyone this is 'My Teacher Blushes When Seeng Me and Mines Not Infatuation'Thanks for your answers! Sure I blew him a kiss once or twice as a joke when I didn’t like him and it was just my first year in this new school I,m sure he knew I w...

We spend less time together and our relationship has become "too convenient," according to her! Is it normal?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 127 days ago

28 February 2008 (M) - I am 6 months into a fantastic relationship. Started off intense and fast. We were pretty much together 24/7 from day one. (except work)It has cooled off into a normal relationship. She used to constantly show me physically and verbally how much...

He proposed, but doesn't want to actually get married, just engaged!

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 36 days ago

28 February 2008 (F) - I've been with my bf for 6 yrs now. Ups and downs but we've grown together and overcome many obstacles. We used to live together but I moved to another city. He recently proposed to me just the right way, as I had always dreamed. I was the happiest ...

Does this mean he wants to get married?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 127 days ago

28 February 2008 (F) - My boyfriend knows I don't believe in marriage as an institution, and don't need a piece of paper etc etc. However I read in one of his emails to his old friend (ahem! it was an accident, sorta!) that he said since his last brother got marr...

How can I stop my 10 year old son controlling my husband and I?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 127 days ago

28 February 2008 (F) - My son who's 10 has tried to runaway several times. It is very distressing for my husband and me. Our boy seems perfectly happy at home and it seems in school too but when he doesn't get what he wants on the spot he often gets into one of his bad ...

No sex before marriage... or should I?

This question has 33 answers - newest was posted 40 days ago

28 February 2008 (F) - My family are conservative Christians and have a strong, deeply rooted belief that sex before marriage is a big no-no. For the first half of my life I also believed in this, and I wanted to remain abstinent until marriage. If anything, to make my ...

Is he a serial cheater or should I have faith in us?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 127 days ago

28 February 2008 (F) - I have been with my boyfriend now for 8 months. I am really in love with him and he says he is me too. I have never been this happy apart from one thing that is really bothering me. He is 10 years old than me - he's 38. He was once married but only...

How can I get motivated and get my life back?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 127 days ago

28 February 2008 (F) - I'm sixteen years old and for the past six months been smoking cigarettes and weed regularly.I haven't been getting much exercise and have gained a lot of weight, lost motivation to finish getting my high school diploma and been depressed. I also ...

Am I wrong in getting upset with my boyfriend?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 127 days ago

28 February 2008 (F) - My boy friend thinks about sex a lot more than I do am I abnormal? When I am having a conversation with him he tends to check out my ass or tits and in a way I feel disrespected because I dont feel like he is listening to me when he says he heard ...

Is it normal to nerver have any fights?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 127 days ago

28 February 2008 (F) - is it normal that my boyfriend and i never get into fights.am always doing right and so is he.since we started dating a year ago we have never argued...

Should I turn my teacher in after the suggestions he made?????

This question has 29 answers - newest was posted 125 days ago

28 February 2008 (F) - Hello all School ended for me for the end of the year in December (we have our summer holidays in Dec-Jan) and I gave a letter to a teacher I had a little bit of a crush on, because he was leaving. The thing was, I wasn't actually in his class and...

BIG problem!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 128 days ago

27 February 2008 (M) - Its' been about 4 years since my last proper relation ship, the previous girlfriend messed me around so much I've lost all confidence and self meaning I had and cannot even talk to women anymore and until 6 months ago had a seriouse drink problem, ...

Did he get an erection because he likes me??

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 127 days ago

27 February 2008 (F) - I'm 14 years old(girl) Ever since grade.8 started last year this boy in my class(13) has been bugging and flirting towards me. I've barely have talked to him before but I still think he is a nice guy. Since he has been showing flirty gestures...

I'm really on edge...how can I control my temper??

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 127 days ago

27 February 2008 (F) - How do I control my temper? I'm constantly on edge at the moment and even little things have me snapping at people. I feel so edgy and unable to relax...could it be to do with the fact that I'm really really tired at the moment? Any advice would be...

Should I tell my college professor I love him??

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 56 days ago

27 February 2008 (F) - I'm in love with my college professor, I'm 28 and he has to be like close to 50. I don't know what to do, and sometimes I think he likes me too. Should I tell him?...

Is it possible to be a bad boy and sensitive too??

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 127 days ago

27 February 2008 (?) - Is it possible to be a bad boy but be sensitive at the same time, is this why my relationships dont last? Not that im proud of it or anything but i do tend to have a reputation as a tough guy, but when i with a girl i like to be all lovey dovey so...

Is it wrong for me to feel resentful after I helped him out so much??

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 127 days ago

27 February 2008 (F) - My boyfriend has recently come into some money (about 3000 pounds). Previous to this he always struggled, and I bailed him out of many bills that he ended up struggling to pay etc etc. I did this out of kindness and never expected anything back, ...

How can I react if my friend is pregant??

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 124 days ago

27 February 2008 (F) - Hey. One of my best friends thinks she could be pregnant, and she's been getting bad stomach pains for the last three days... I'm going to town with her at the weekend and we are going to get a pregnancy test. I'm worried about how to react if she ...

Why does he need time to think before marriage? Has something changed recently, for him to hesitate?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 128 days ago

27 February 2008 (F) - I am engaged currently and we had a date picked out already but now he is saying he needs time to think about getting married now. I can't be mad because he is being honest, but at the same time what do i do? I know that i love him and want to spend ...

I've fallen in love with my friend, however I doubt a relationship would be possible. How do I learn to love him as just a friend?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 116 days ago

27 February 2008 (F) - Right this is really hard but i've never really had a bf before and have fell in love with a friend of mine. We havent been friends long and are not that close but are on the same course. The thing is i thought he liked me at first because he used ...

Should I ask him what happened at the party or forget about it??

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 128 days ago

27 February 2008 (F) - I went to a party and got realy wasted with my freinds boyfreind i dont remember anything but i do remember waking up next to him with both my pants and underwear on backwards yea i know its wierd but he never said anything so i left without him ...

We slept together and now he is avoiding me...what happened??

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 44 days ago

27 February 2008 (F) - So after 3 weeks of dating and getting to know this guy who was planning future (months ahead) dates for us... we slept together. Now he is avoiding me? What happened?...

The age differecen would be huge...but would it be right??

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 101 days ago

27 February 2008 (M) - The problem is that I am 28 years old, a mature student at University, and the female students are younger than me, aged 19-23. Am I too old to date a younger female student aged 20-23? Is it morally wrong? The age gap (say I found a girlfriend aged ...

How do I show up to have a Bikini wax?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 128 days ago

27 February 2008 (F) - I want to get my Bikini waxed but I am a very self conscious person and I am very anxious at the thoughts of going because I don't know if I should wear full undies or a thong or what... Please help me relax and offer your best advise... ...

Whatever happened to the days of romance?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 128 days ago

27 February 2008 (M) - Whatever happened to those days of those true passionate romance? You know the ones like Romeo and Juliet. Their passion for each other was not only idyllic, but powerful and sexy. They never once hesitated in expressing and showing their love ...

He's dying......And I think I'm going to break....

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 129 days ago

27 February 2008 (F) - I fairly recently split up with an ex... I was very much in love with him.... but there was a big distance between us and I very rarely saw him... I was so unhappy I ended things. Since I have found a lovely guy nearer... who I am happy with.... But ...

Why does my husband treat his family this way?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 128 days ago

26 February 2008 (F) - I need some level headed opinions Please. My hubby and I have always had lots of disagreements and rows over our 20 year marriage. I always felt that I could do no right and if he disagreed with me over something it wasn’t talked about but massive ...

Is there any way I can deal with a yeast infection without medicine??

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 128 days ago

26 February 2008 (F) - ok well i think i might have yeast infection but i dont wont to tell my dad. What are some ways i can get rid of it without a doctors medicine??....

How can I move the conversation on with girls I don't know??

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 129 days ago

26 February 2008 (M) - Hi, to say abit about myself. I'm 18 years old and I have had a girlfriend before but this was 2.5 years ago. I am NOT shy and NOT afraid of rejection my ONLY problem is I NEVER know anything good to say other than "hi" then the conversation dies on ...

Is there any way to stop wet dreams??

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 92 days ago

26 February 2008 (M) - Hi, I'm 14 and i recently started getting "wet dreams" - it's quite annoying and how to stop it ? Also , sometimes i wake up after one, I clean the semen with a tissue and flush it down the toilet.. can someone get pregnant if they use the toilet s...

I am stuck in a marriage and want to get out. Please help

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 129 days ago

26 February 2008 (M) - I got married 5 years ago we lived together 2 years b4 that. Just before I got married, I re-met the love of my life who I have known since the 80's. I was confused and scared, so I got married (I shouldn't have) We started up a relationship aga...

Every time I watch our favourite TV shows memories of her keep buzzing through my head. How can I overcome this??

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 129 days ago

26 February 2008 (M) - I could use some advice from anyone who has been in a fairly long-term relationship before. I came out of a long-term relationship just over 6 months ago and I've found it very hard to get over (I didn't want it to end). Since then I can't enjoy th...

How do I get the balance right so I don't scare her off??

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 126 days ago

26 February 2008 (M) - OK, I started seeing this girl who lives near me back in November. I am 34 and she is 26. Up until Christmas, things were great. We got on so well, we clicked and there was an obvious attraction for both of us. Things couldn't have been better a...

I don't want to break-up with her and then to start craving her again...and I know it would tear her world apart. What do I do??

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 129 days ago

26 February 2008 (M) - I started dating this girl about 4 years ago in June. Things were great for the first year or two, all loved up ect, ect, ect. She started hanging out with guys which she told me was just "old school mates"; so I had to trust her, and I tried. ...

Which is usually the best pillar for a decision, ration or sentiments?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 128 days ago

26 February 2008 (F) - I made a big decision after fighting my head with my heart for some time. I chose to go with what my head was telling me after months of questioning what I should do. The actual day of my decision I had felt the strongest, that what I chose was the ...

We both love each other, but is love enough? I'm worried about jobs.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 123 days ago

26 February 2008 (F) - I Have a long distance realtionship. We both love eacho ther. I'm crazy for him and i'm sure he does too. The only problem is that he has a better chances for the future for good jobs. For me i may just be working out in a supermarket again. One ...

I just seem to be stuck in this rut, and I have no idea how to get out of it.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 129 days ago

26 February 2008 (F) - I'm really not too sure what's going on in my life right now. I'm not really sure if it is "depression" as such, but that's how I kind of feel at the moment. I am now in Sixth Form, but like, I really have just lost all enthusiasm/motivation ...

What does it mean when a man says 'love you' not 'i love you'??

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 129 days ago

25 February 2008 (F) - What does it mean when a man tells you 'Love You', not 'I Love You'?...

How do you become happy and content without a partner and close friends in your life?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 130 days ago

25 February 2008 (F) - I just want to know, how do u become happy and cotnent without a partner in your life and without close friends? some times i feel very lonely and have tried to meet people but they never stay long. for the past few years i have felt like i've lost ...

Why don't certain men chose to be honest about their intentions?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 130 days ago

25 February 2008 (F) - Is it a generational thing that makes a man a player? Are younger men more likely to be players than say men in their 40's or 50's? What makes a guy a player? What is a player? And finally why don't men chose to be more open and honest about ...

How do I keep up in this fast paced world?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 129 days ago

25 February 2008 (F) - I feel so stressed right now. The world is moving so quickly, everything passes by like a blur and I find it so hard to keep up. I hate living in this world of deadlines where I drop behind and fall down. It's all getting too much for me and I just ...

I'm 13 years old. Am I still classified as a 'little girl'?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 128 days ago

25 February 2008 (F) - I'm a 13 year old and I need people's opinions. If your a 13 year old girl, are u still a little girl? ...

How do you regain confidence after a few bad relationships?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 125 days ago

25 February 2008 (M) - i think am paranoid for no reason. please help. the thing is no relationship has ever worked so well for me. i broke the heart of my first girl friend. not that i cheated on her but i got angry when i heard she had read a letter i wrote to her, ...

I think my ex might be involved in hoax letters to me. Should I confront him?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 130 days ago

25 February 2008 (F) - Something strange is going on and I'm unsure what to do about it. Firstly I had a valentines card sent to my place of work. I immediately knew it was a hoax because they referred to something that just wasn't possible plus I was suspicious as th...