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Archived questions from: December, 2015 (see latest in Big Questions category)

Big Questions: Help and advice

How do I assert myself without alienating those I care about?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3031 days ago

31 December 2015 (F) - How do you stand up to somebody you love? I've always had problems with sticking up for myself. I've only ever done it once and it ended my friendship of four years with my ex bestfriend. How do I stand up to somebody like my parents or boyfr...

I'm six months pregnant but not sure who the father is

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3030 days ago

31 December 2015 (F) - Okay so before I start, I'm fully aware that I'm a terrible person for the things that I've done. I didn't come here to be judged, I just need advice. I am 6 1/2 months pregnant. In the past, when my boyfriend and I would break up or get into a r...

I'm scared to touch him. How do I get over this?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3021 days ago

31 December 2015 (F) - After 6 months together, my boyfriend and I have already had sex, but I'm still afraid to touch his penis. He gently pushes me to try doing it, but doesn't force me. He will tell me I can't hurt him and he doesn't expect me to know exactly how to do ...

Girls, who do I choose?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 3031 days ago

31 December 2015 (F) - Question for the girls. You have a choice to go out with one of two guys. One is gorgeous and you find him irresistable but for some reason, which we will leave to the side, he only wants passionate foreplay no penetration. The second guy is ok in ...

Where can I meet men besides the bar or dating sites?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3032 days ago

30 December 2015 (F) - My (ex) boyfriend ended our long term relationship back in the summer of 2014, and I've been single since. He was the first actual relationship I've had, and I met him back in college. Well, now I don't really know where to go and meet men and...

If I don't change I'm afraid she'll leave me. But I don't want to be pushed around. What can I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3027 days ago

30 December 2015 (M) - I have been seeing a wonderful woman for almost 6 months now. When we met, the connection was real and we hit it off almost instantly. The only difference is that she's religious, but I'm not. As far as I've always been concerned it didn't p...

He's engaged but he seems possessive of me

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3031 days ago

30 December 2015 (F) - Me and my crush used to work together now we work for diff companies in the same building, on the same floor. I’m 31 female and my crush is 41 male (with a 12 yr old son) He flirts all the time with me, passes by my office daily, touches me in some ...

What could I say in a love letter to girl, without frightening her off?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3032 days ago

30 December 2015 (M) - I need to write a love letter for this girl im going to ask out. Only thing is I dont want it to be one of those over the top corny love letters. I just want to tell her how I feel about her, a little romance is ok but i dont want to scare her off....

How do I survive this nightmare of bitchiness at work

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3031 days ago

30 December 2015 (F) - I have a problem with the people I work with and I'm thinking of leaving as it's getting to me a bit. I work in a small local business and there are only a few of us. We all have to put rotas in the system every day for gas and plumbing enginee...

This girl has left me feeling confused. Can you help me ??

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3032 days ago

30 December 2015 (M) - I met a girl at work and it became apparent after a couple of weeks that we liked eachother. She had literally just split with her ex of four years. After expressing to each other that we liked each other we kissed and things were good. We went o...

How can I ever accept and forgive what she did?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3031 days ago

30 December 2015 (M) - I realize I am being a complete hypocrite and I hate it but I can't change how I feel. BACKGROUND: I grew up in a Bible-based church where soul-winning, youth conferences, missionary work and Bible memorization were expected. Most children wer...

Is it jealousy the issue or is something else the reason my fiance cannot deal with this?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3032 days ago

30 December 2015 (F) - I met a guy and I seemed to like him and we decided to meet up and we had sex the first night. After that he acted like he doesn't know me. I contacted him a few times after that and he said I was expecting to be his wife and pushed him. And I...

I don't want to be alone on New Year's Eve. Any suggestions?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 3031 days ago

30 December 2015 (F) - So...this may sound pathetic...because I'm going to be alone this New Year's Eve. My friends are either going to spend New Year's Eve with their boyfriend or their husband. And the only one single friend prefers to stay at home. I feel so lonely.... ...

Heartbroken over silent boyfriend

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3032 days ago

29 December 2015 (F) - I've been with my boyfriend for 4 months, but recently I've been pushing to see him more. I know i was wrong for being so bossy. He now seems to be backing off. I've hardly seen him and he doesn't put x at the end of texts. He also doesn't repl...

How do I learn to fancy her again? I love her, I do, but I have stopped fancying her

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3033 days ago

29 December 2015 (F) - I adore my girlfriend, we have been together two years and have had an extremely rocky relationship. She's lied numerous times, we have broken up but always ended up back together. We argue, like all couples at some point but my biggest problem ...

I think she's a thief but what to do?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3032 days ago

28 December 2015 (F) - Any advice will be appreciated please. Two weeks ago my colleague came round my house to pick me up for a course we both had to attend. She wasn't due to pick me up until 8am, however was at mine 30 minutes earlier (she said she arrived early as...

This married man has me confused. Please help!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 3034 days ago

28 December 2015 (F) - I have a problem concerning a married man. I feel as though I have been 'played' but I am not sure how it happened. My head is all over the place. I am normally quite sensible and I'm definitely not interested in men who are with someone, married ...

How do I beat the fear of relocating?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3034 days ago

28 December 2015 (F) - I need advice about re-locating my whole life somewhere new! I am 43, single woman - divorced 5 years ago after a 10 year marriage. I don't have children and I have the kind of job that I can pretty much do anywhere. In some respects this kind of ...

I am 15 and I love writing lyrics for songs. How do I chart a path to get my lyrics noticed, find the right professional contacts and a path to succeed?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 3033 days ago

28 December 2015 (F) - Hi there, I am writing, to seek some help on my future career in writing. So, I absolutely, and truly, love to write. I write poems, and stories, and songs. I also love to sing, a lot. I have been singing, pretty much since I was a toddler,...

How can I get my husband to realize that his mother is taking advantage of us?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3034 days ago

27 December 2015 (F) - My husband and I have been married 6 and a half years (together 8) and our marriage has been wonderful. He's absolutely my best friend and soul mate! However, his mother has been a real issue.... He was not raised by his mother, nor has he...

Would I stand out if I go solo for a meal and maybe to see a band or a comedy performance on New Year's Eve?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3035 days ago

27 December 2015 (M) - For the last five years I've been single and primarily friendless so I've stayed in watching tv trying to convince myself I wasn't bored. This year I'm still single, but my friends are coupled or will be out of town and I just can't stand the thou...

Is paying for sex the best option, when a guy is 25 year old virgin, and has a porn addiction?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 3034 days ago

27 December 2015 (M) - I'm a male virgin who's never kissed a girl and I have a porn addiction. I watch it everyday, multiple times a day, and of course masturbate like crazy. It becomes a compulsive need to get home from work, or any social gathering and start looking up ...

What can I say or do? My mother in law is driving me crazy and bankrupting us at the same time

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3035 days ago

27 December 2015 (M) - I am a 42 year old male who has been married for more than 20 years. I have always viewed my mother-in-law as meddlesome, but harmless. However, over the last 7 years (she is mid-70s now) she is experiencing signs of dementia. She can't pay ...

What is the likelihood of this working, considering that I wonder if we are intellectually incompatible?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3033 days ago

27 December 2015 (F) - This may end up being a bit lengthy so I apologise in advance if there turns out to be a lot of reading to be done. My current significant other and I have been together for 1 year and roughly 3 months, however we have known each other for about ...

My second cousin wants to become my boyfriend but I'm nervous. What do you guys think?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 3035 days ago

27 December 2015 (F) - Okay so the past two weeks me and my 2nd cousin have been talking.. A lot and flirting and we have a thing. He's a few years older than me so growing up we didn't talk but I'm 17 now. I saw him over Christmas but we had to pretend we weren't ...

He didn't invite me to show his friend around the city. Was I overreacting?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3033 days ago

27 December 2015 (F) - So my bf has a friend coming over from California. We live in Texas and this guy came yesterday. I live by myself and I know the lonely times sometimes are just annoying me. Anyway my bf told me today that he will come and his friend to my place to ...

Do I stay with my wife or go off with my soul mate?

This question has 18 answers - newest was posted 3034 days ago

23 December 2015 (M) - My question is should I stay with my wife and have a routine life or go and be with someone who I believe is my soulmate. I have tried hard to make my marriage work and my wife is a very decent person but I feel as though I am living with a sister ...

Will going on vacation alone doom our marriage?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3040 days ago

22 December 2015 (F) - Hi Aunts and Uncles ;) I am 35 year old teacher from Europe- happily married and with no kids. In summer I get to have a month off school. I have been in love with NYC ever since I was a kid and have been going there quite frequently since...

How can I know I'm with the right person?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3040 days ago

22 December 2015 (F) - How can I know I'm with the right person? My boyfriend and I both love each other very much. We spend time together and have fun... we support and help each other in our careers. We both love cats and dogs and only want one child as we feel that's ...

Why do men date then walk away with no explanation?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3037 days ago

22 December 2015 (F) - Hi, I have a question which may be relevant in today's world. I have done extensive dating in the Internet world and find that men can have the time of their lives with a wonderful gal, date them for a long time, act as tho' they adore them and ...

Should I leave her a note saying she has no morals?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3041 days ago

21 December 2015 (F) - Hi. A few weeks ago a girl hit my car and damaged my wing mirror on a country road. She was speeding way to quick and didn't slow down. I've reported it to the police but they say cause its a country road that it would be fifty fifty. I'm replacing ...

How can I help my bestfriend? I think her Bf is behaving like text book beginnings of a domestic abuser

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3007 days ago

21 December 2015 (F) - I'm extremely worried about my best friend and her new "boyfriend." This may get complicated without names so for confusion sake's, my best friend will be A. Her ex will be D and her current boyfriend will be L. I have been best friends with ...

A volatile relationship at it's end. Can you offer advice on how I go forward ?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3041 days ago

21 December 2015 (F) - Hello I have been in a bad relationship since I was 16 years old. Pregnant at 19 and now 11 years later. 3 kids. A house. I have myself a good job. I have always supported him financially. He hasnt work since our oldest now 8 was one year old. He...

Dating has changed since I was last on the scene.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3042 days ago

20 December 2015 (F) - I am recently seperated after 18 years (still married and wearing wedding ring) and been going out more so my question is 3 part... 1) what do men think of a lone woman sitting in a bar? Sad? Desperate? Prey? Easy? 2) A man bought me a beer a...

I can't imagine trusting someone enough to have sex.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3041 days ago

20 December 2015 (F) - I'm 17, a virgin, and I believe myself to be somewhere on the asexual spectrum. I have what I believe is a low sex drive compared to what I've heard from my friends. I think at some point I'd like to have sex but honestly it really doesn't matter to ...

I want to compete in a beauty contest, but speaking in public makes me anxious.Should I contest or move on?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 3043 days ago

19 December 2015 (F) - I didn't pull through to represent my country at the miss universe pageant. I didn't even make it through the auditions because I am a nervous wreck or was. I don't know, I have so much confidence as a person and I know back then in universi...

Overwhelmed by gift house and don't know what to do

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 3042 days ago

19 December 2015 (F) - Please can i get some advice! What I'm about to write may seem like I'm being ungrateful but I'm not. My fiancé and I have been together 6 years and were currently looking to buy our 1st house together. We both have decent enough jobs...

My boyfriend has been more attentive since I was offered a job in a nother country

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3044 days ago

18 December 2015 (F) - I was offered a job in another country.. The first person I told about it was my boyfriend. I went to see him to discuss it with him because his opinion matters to me and he is always the first person I go to when something happens in my li...

Was it just a joke to him? He e called me PG and text me a pig cartoon

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3044 days ago

18 December 2015 (F) - Hi, Thanks for reading my post. English is not my native language I need advice. I am trying to the find right person. I started online dating . I met few guys but things did not work out. Its almost a month a guy tried to reached me. He ...

Years ago a guy was found not guilty of harming me. It divided the community. Does it matter that I get few birthday cards now?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3042 days ago

17 December 2015 (F) - I've gotten in to a massive argument with my boyfriend and I don't know what to do. A few years ago I was raped and it went to trial but the guy was found not guilty. I live in a really small town and the man who did it was my best friends boyf...

Can I trust him? maybe I shouldn't even be with him?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 3045 days ago

17 December 2015 (F) - Often times we are advised not to judge our boyfriends based on his past... But I wonder, isn't it important to have a general idea of his past relationships and how he has handled them? Wouldn't having this insight give me an idea of his characte...

The lack of sex in our relationship is taking a toll

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3044 days ago

17 December 2015 (M) - I am a man in my early 40s in a long term relationship that I have been in for 20 years. We have 2 children, 1 mid and 1 late teens. After the birth of our second child my partner developed a physical problem which meant that sex was painful....

Some signs that the relationship is becoming toxic. Are these the signs that indicate it's time to break-up?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3036 days ago

17 December 2015 (F) - These are the reasons I think that quantifies ending a marriage (hopefully no kids will be affected) BUT I don't want to promote divorce so please argue with me on this: - you stop being who you are and change into someone you're not comforta...

Feeling shattered. Two days ago I saw my wife cheating with another man. What can I do?

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 2903 days ago

16 December 2015 (M) - I caught my wife having sex with another man. She says it was the first time she did this, but she did him with me just 30 feet away and right out in the open when i saw them. He says it was flirting that got out of hand. She says she don't...

Maybe I'm not good looking enough for her? How to get over this?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3047 days ago

15 December 2015 (M) - Hello! So basically I've developed some insecurity issues lately because my girlfriend dumped me without explaining why. I tried asking her but it was to no avail she just won't tell me.I really did treat her well, I spent all of my free time wi...

How can I get experience when everything seems against me?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3048 days ago

14 December 2015 (M) - I'm a male virgin who's never kissed a girl and I've never been on a date. I'm don't have a particularly attractive face, I'm overweight and bald, and I'm an awkward quiet nerd. I was recently talking a girl that I was interested in pursuing a re...

Does my date need to come out?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3046 days ago

14 December 2015 (F) - A guy I'm dating got intimate ! I gave him a couple hickies at the drive thru and we kind of had sex. Well when he turned on the light he saw he had two hickies on his face, and he was upset. I said we can go to the store and I'll help you pick your ...

We've been dating since October and he says he's already in love with me

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3045 days ago

13 December 2015 (F) - Hi, so I've been dating this guy since October so officially gf and bf most recently he has said " he thinks he started to love me" my question is can a guy develop these feelings for a girl within the course of two months? What am I suppose to ...

Is he worth the chance or should I move on?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3050 days ago

13 December 2015 (F) - Hi all. Would it work? The guy I'm about to date is 42 years old with 4 kids and still stay with his parents. I'm 35 with no kid and own my own house. All I want to know is if this guy, is he worth a try to maybe have a successful relationship as ...

I'm an introverted person who has trouble making and keeping friends

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3049 days ago

12 December 2015 (F) - Dear Cupid I'm an introvert shy person, I haven't friends and even I tried to make some, something in me repels people I believe, no one stays with me as friends. I don't know what I'm doing wrong, I sometimes go out of my way and help, which make...