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Archived questions from: July, 2011 (see latest in Big Questions category)

Big Questions: Help and advice

Is there something wrong with me? I feel as if I have been left behind!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4652 days ago

31 July 2011 (?) - Heya, I'm actually a little embarressed to put this up on here but... I'm 18 years old, I am a female, but I am still a virgin :/ I also havent been in a relationship with a guy before, which is actually my bigger problem... I only had my f...

What's wrong with me? Am I weird for this?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4652 days ago

31 July 2011 (F) - What is wrong with me? am I weird? is it normal? My ex boyfriend and I broke up 6months and I've not been with anyone else since. I had a lot of guys come my way but they all wanted sex, but I can't have casual sex, I've got to be in lo...

My boyfriends house mate is acting weird around me

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4652 days ago

31 July 2011 (F) - My bfs house mate is weird with me. He alternates between staring at me to being awkward and leaving a room I am in. He doesn't hold my gaze if we have a convo and can avoid me all together sometimes. I don't know if he dislikes me - I have never ...

How do you tell if you really love someone?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4651 days ago

31 July 2011 (F) - Hey, I can't figure out how I truly feel about my bf of 10 months - how do you know if you really love someone? Thanks :)...

Everybody hates my hair!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4651 days ago

31 July 2011 (M) - I'm not really sure if this a a newsworthy question but I could use some advise. I'm, black, 21 and in college (living at home) and I live in Jamaica and I'm currently growing my hair but for some reason everybody wants me to cut it. In Jamaic...

Feeling lonely

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4619 days ago

31 July 2011 (F) - I seem doomed for always having a lonely life. I was brought up in childrens homes and when I did get married after a few years my husband ran off with another woman. I haev ahd boyfriends but no one wanmts commitment these days. I have amde ...

Need advice on going below the belt on my boyfriend!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4652 days ago

31 July 2011 (F) - Hi I’m 16 nearly 17 and I need some advice on going below the belt on my boyfriend.We’ve been together for 6 months now and He’s getting pretty confident when it comes to pleasing me. We've both agreed to wait a while before sex but he often gets a ...

Is this classed as a holiday romance now?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4652 days ago

31 July 2011 (F) - My daughter went on holiday she hated it and came home early when I asked her why she said "everyone" was sleeping qround getting boozed out off their head and the other girls were laughing at her because she didnt want to sleep with anyone (she ...

Some quick questions regarding smiling at the opposite sex...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4651 days ago

31 July 2011 (M) - Hi there, a fairly simple couple of questions regarding smiling at the opposite sex. As a girl (or lady), do you like being smiled at by a guy - whether you know them, or don't know them. Secondly, once you get to know a guy better, do you sti...

Do shallow people lead better, easier and more fun lives?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4652 days ago

31 July 2011 (F) - I have been wondering for some time about some of my girlfriends who I think are somewhat shallow. I mean, they don't reflect on anything, they just pursue what they want (sex, money, relationships) and don't much care who and what they damage in ...

Should I tell my FWB about my feelings for him? I don't want to risk what we have and scare him off.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4653 days ago

31 July 2011 (F) - Ok so heres the story. Theres this guy i have known for the past 2 yrs. I met him because he was my boss. Well he was transferred about a yr ago and up until may our relationship had been strictly professional. We no longer work together in the same ...

Why do girls think that all men are scum just because they weren't treated right by a guy once?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4138 days ago

31 July 2011 (M) - It really bothers me when women say that all men are pigs and all men are scum. When I hear girls say that, it kind of offends me. I am a nice guy. Every time I'm around a girl, I'm always a gentleman. (Hold doors open for them, pick up things when ...

What is wrong with the male species?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4652 days ago

30 July 2011 (F) - I would prefer if Men answered this but any answers I get i will be grateful I,m sick and tired of men using me. I only ever kissed 3 men before and when we text they just seem less interested and then they just stop texting me. Now i can admit ...

Does he actually want to marry me or am I wasting my time?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4642 days ago

30 July 2011 (F) - I've been with my partner for 5 years and living with him for a year and a half. I w ant to get married and start a family and he says he does too. He. Say's we can't get engaged right now as he can't afford an engagement ring, (I don't want ...

Is my mom worrying for nothing?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4652 days ago

30 July 2011 (F) - So in 4 days I'm going to Tokyo with my dad and borther. My mum told my dad to look out for me and now let me be on my own. She says I'm young and look like an anime character, and that this will attract some Japanese men. Other people have said...

Do emotional gestures actually mean anything or does it just mean something if your in a relationship?

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30 July 2011 (F) - a friend and i were talking about relationships..he is sort of a player..we were talking about cheating and the reasons why people do it etc..he said it is a horrible thing and from a guy's perspective we sometimes cheat even if we are happy in a ...

Any suggestions on what I can do to help my ultrasound appointment on my varicose veins?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4653 days ago

30 July 2011 (F) - I am in my mid twenties and I have varicose veins for years..i notice it keeps getting worse and bigger as time goes on and I actually feel more discomfort this past year and I also just in general want to get them treated because i know they are ...

I really like this guy but think he is not interested...should I delete his number?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4652 days ago

30 July 2011 (F) - Why didnt he reply? is he just not interested? i like him alot.? I really like this guy work. He stares at me when am not looking, he smiles whenever we talk and he's very friendly with me. I gave him my number and he rang me and ta...

How do I get my parents to accept me for who I am?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4653 days ago

30 July 2011 (F) - Ok. I'm 16 years old. Old enough to get piercings if I want them. My parents agreed that I could get a belly bar (I've been desperate for one since I was 12) and a cartilage piercing. I thought that what is known as an 'industrial' piercing was a c...

Have I wasted my time and energy with this guy....why did he change so much?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4653 days ago

30 July 2011 (F) - I'm really upset because i thought a guy i was friends with really liked me when we first met 2 years ago he showed a real interest in me, i liked him a lot and helped him through a lot of personal trauma, he was in a bad financial way and again i ...

Is it okay for a beautiful woman to be narcissistic, rude and conceited?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4650 days ago

30 July 2011 (M) - Right so I have this friend who is a woman. She's gorgeous. At first I fancied her a bit, but we soon realized it would not work. So we've remained mates. Thing is, she gets very conceited at times. She tells me these stories about guys she date...

This jealous woman made my life miserable either because she was interested in my BF or because she was not happy in her own life. Thoughts or similar experiences anyone?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4653 days ago

30 July 2011 (F) - Ok so a while ago, my boyfriend started renting a room from a couple (a husband and wife) who were also living at the same property. Everything was fine at first, however things quickly started to go wrong. The couple own the property, the husband ...

How do I stop my new boyfriend losing interest?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4653 days ago

30 July 2011 (F) - My new bf does not spend time with me. He always comes home late and goes to sleep. He does not have time to spend with me. How do I get his interest in me? Do you think oral sex would help to turn him on? Please advise....

Found my 8 year old brother and a girl playing together naked, what should I do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4653 days ago

30 July 2011 (F) - Hi right now I am very scared and disturbed. For two years now I have been sexually active with my bf and we have done it at my house quite a few times when my parents were not home. However some of those times my little brother who is now 8 was ...

Am I wasting my life or is there hope for me and my long distance lover?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4653 days ago

30 July 2011 (M) - Hi, I have known a lady on the internet for 8 years. We fell in love. My marriage was already on the way down and I divorced 7 years ago. I have been on my own ever since. My internet friend and I finally met 5yrs ago and it has been a bit of an ...

Did I sleep with my Bf's brother. I was wasted. But if I did how can I salvage things with my BF?....

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4653 days ago

30 July 2011 (F) - I have been dating my Bf for 6months now and we have been through almost everything in our relationship. Except this. We got drunk one night out on the town and he got picked up, so I took a cab to his family's place which we were staying at duri...

Uncomfortable with my chest size...how should I deal with this? How should I react when I get sleazy comments?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 4649 days ago

30 July 2011 (F) - So in a nutshell, I have large boobs. I am 25, probably D cup size, and only 5'1" and 130 lbs; I don't know my cup size for sure because it's been so long since I got measured. And the reason it's been so long is because going to Victoria's Secret ...

His friend likes me but I don't like him...is that holding him back?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4652 days ago

30 July 2011 (M) - So in my acting class there is a boy I like named tyler, he is tall and blond, charismatic, gorgeous, but he is white and im black!! Sometimes but very few times I have caught him looking at me and when I give him big smiles he smiles back! ...

Men: How do you like women to flirt with you?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4651 days ago

30 July 2011 (?) - Men, How do you like women to flirt with you? I'm asking for preferences as well as favorite memories. I'm also asking, because sometimes I think I'm not so good at it. At times, I've been told I was cold or intimidating (often because I was una...

How can I stop worrying about ending up alone for the rest of my life??

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4654 days ago

30 July 2011 (F) - when i split with my boyfriend 4 months ago i found it so hard, we was only together for a year but i love him so much. when i found out he cheated it broke my heart, i cryed for 2 months and wouldnt go nowere but mop round. i am much better now ...

How do I feel better about myself?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4654 days ago

29 July 2011 (F) - Hi, Im never satisfied with my looks, and feel ugly all the time. Some people say im pretty but I never believe them. Im not very popular or outgoing, im very shy. How do I feel better about myself?...

I've got a grudge holding problem, how can I fix it?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4649 days ago

29 July 2011 (F) - I'm 15, and I have a huge grudge holding problem. I can't help it! I know its wrong and immature, but once i get them, they never go away. I've been told countless times just to let it go but I can't. I feel like I'm "punishing" them for what they ...

Is it normal for a man in his forties to have a sex drive this high?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4652 days ago

29 July 2011 (M) - Is it normal for men to have the same sex drive in their forties that they experienced in their twenties? I'm in my mid forties involved with a lovely woman who commented about my high sex drive and being very sexual, but not in a vulgar, ...

I'm 33.....time to be an adult! Any ideas?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4654 days ago

29 July 2011 (M) - Ok. I'm a 33 yr old male. I have no children. I currently am single. Here's what I have learned about myself in the past 6 months after the woman of my dreams walked all over me. I was 23 and thought to myself there has to be more enjoyment in life ...

Why do I feel like I don't want a relationship?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4654 days ago

29 July 2011 (M) - Lately, I have been pondering if I really want a relationship. Being a quiet, observant guy all my life, I seen how much of a hassle relationships are whether it be from school, college, or my siblings. At the same time, I do want to be in a ...

How can I get over my anxiety? It is holding me back in life....

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4644 days ago

29 July 2011 (F) - How can i get over my anxiety ?. I am unemployed at the moment, and i enquire about, and apply for , jobs and college courses, e.t.c, but sometimes, when i have been offered interviews , i have been too scared to go and haven't gone to them. And i ...

Is he just not interested or does he really like me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4654 days ago

29 July 2011 (F) - What should I do? is he just not interested? I really like this guy at work. He's really friendly and lovely. He stares at me when am not looking and looks away when I catch him. I gave him my number, we were chatting on the phone for over an hour...

How can I stop myself from falling in love with my best friend?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4652 days ago

29 July 2011 (F) - How can i stop myself from falling in love with my best friend? I'm freely bisexual and so is my best friend. Anyway, we have flirted a lot in the past but nothing had ever come of it. We have only known each other for like 6 months but we just cli...

How can I improve my attention span when studying?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4654 days ago

29 July 2011 (F) - I can't be attentive in my study.when i start studying i frequently lose my attention.after reading for so many times i forget what i read the previous day.how can i complete my studies in due time with proper attention? ...

If I get a job my child will suffer, if I don't I will suffer through lonliness! What am I supposed to do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4655 days ago

29 July 2011 (F) - Hi My husband is the only son of his over possesive mother.We are married 10 years but .My mil stays with me....who thinks herslef as Mrs.Perfect.Bcoz of her constant critisim I lost my cofidence .I took up a job...but she was not ready to take ca...

Our families will never approve of our relationship but we cant live without each other! What should we do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4654 days ago

29 July 2011 (F) - I am a bengali brahmin and my bf is marwari. I am a student preparing for medical and belong to middle class family. N, my bf (two years older than me) has passed b.com with quite good marks. He has 5 jewellery shops of his own and has quite high ...

Do I take heed of the Value Judgements of others? Or can my fiance and I find happiness following our dreams to help others?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4653 days ago

29 July 2011 (F) - im having a bit of a personal crisis in my life right now, this may take a while to explain so bear with me. When i was a teen i had 2 best friends, we had all been home schooled and spent as much time together as we could. that all changed ...

I need your opinion on wedding invitation protocol.

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4654 days ago

28 July 2011 (M) - I need your opinion on wedding invitation protocol. My wife has this male friend, who for a short time was her boyfriend, and they still stayed friends, even now. When my wife and I got married 3 years ago, we invited him (big of me I know), but ...

Have I missed my chance to ask her out and does she see us as just friends?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4655 days ago

28 July 2011 (M) - Alright this is kind of a 2 part question, so there is this girl i had met at university who i really liked and coincidentally she lived in the room next to mine in residence so we got to know one another by the end of the year. So here is my probl...

How can we help our son?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4653 days ago

28 July 2011 (F) - Our 19-year-old son recently "came out" to us, and we both told him that we would accept him whatever - gay, straight, bisexual. However, he's told us that although he knows he's gay, he told us it's innate, he wants to get rid of his homosexu...

Do husbands and/or boyfriends ever regret cheating on their spouse?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4654 days ago

28 July 2011 (F) - I would like to hear the mens point of view. How did you feel after you cheated? Do you regret it? Why?...

How do I impress my professor without having to suck up to him?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4655 days ago

28 July 2011 (F) - I am a college-student. I've narrowly missed a frst class in my BA because of rigourous under-grading by a particular professor of mine. The professor in question is overly strict and perfectionist to the core, which is but natural in way, since ...

I don't want to leave him and find that most men out there are cheaters and liars with no morals!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4655 days ago

28 July 2011 (F) - Are there any decent, loyal men out there? I am currently with one and although I am treated well and he would never cheat on me, the relationship lacks passion. we have sex so rarely as he does not have a high sex drive and is more happy to cuddle ...

How can you tell if you are a good kisser?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4655 days ago

28 July 2011 (F) - Ok I,m 19 years old but i never had much experience with fellas I only ever kissed 2 guys before but I,m being set up with a new friends brother and we,re meeting tonight. The thing is I don't know if i,m a good kisser let alone anything e...

How long can we be engaged for before actually getting married?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4655 days ago

28 July 2011 (M) - i want to get engaged to my girlfriend I want to get engaged to my girlfriend, but i dont think i'll be ready for marrige for the next 3 years... I got some advice from my friends, and they told me that its not a nice thing to get engaged to my gi...