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Archived questions from: September, 2007 (see latest in Big Questions category)

Big Questions: Help and advice

Should I send my daughtersto stay with my ex's sister? Teenage daughters need a woman to look after them and I'm physically disabled...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6045 days ago

30 September 2007 (M) - i asked something here a couple of days ago and got some good advice so i thought i'd ask again, following something my collegues said to me... my fiancee left me for her boyfriend like 2 days ago now and she's basically told me to take the kids and ...

How will you know when a man is in love with a woman?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6046 days ago

30 September 2007 (F) - How will you know when a man is in love with a woman?...

Am I pressuring him by talking about our future?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6047 days ago

30 September 2007 (F) - my boyfreind is to young to get married but does that automaticly mean he doesnt? we always talk about it. but im the one who brings it up. am i pressuring him by talking about our future? he agrees its going to be great but is he just saying that ...

I am a kind person, matured early. When people I know die I don't feel sad, when they marry I don't care. I want to care, show affection. How to solve this?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6043 days ago

29 September 2007 (M) - Issues moving forward with relationships and other things... During the past few years, I have had nostalgic feelings and feelings of regret about my life prior to becoming an adult. At the age of 20, I really want to move forward and start accomp...

Why can't he accept my heart belongs to him and stop being suspicious, when he loves me, maybe just as much?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6046 days ago

29 September 2007 (F) - im inlove with my man and someday hopefully i intend getting him to make me his wife,i want to love and be with him forever,but 1 snag he constantly accuses me of hiding things in my email yet i allow him full access to look at anything,it's so ...

These medical conditions that make me want a completely new appearance. Is it possible?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6046 days ago

29 September 2007 (F) - i need a new face. seriously its not just your average 15 year old "im bored of looking like me" thing. i have medical conditions and was born with a few things that have messed my face up such as a cleft lip. theres this girl that i wanna loo...

What does a barrister do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6042 days ago

29 September 2007 (F) - hi there, i`m about to leave school this year and i am in the "top 10" of year 11's comming out with the most g.c.s.e's and i want to become a barrister i realized this when a teacher mentioned it to me can u tell me plz what a barriester actually ...

How can I help and show her that no matter how much work needs to be done I'm still with her and that I don't mind that shes having to do that?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6047 days ago

29 September 2007 (M) - My wife is a teacher and she loves it. Just oen problem this time of the year is always the most stressful for her. I think shes been over working herself and getting herself upset for no reason, shes not at the stage where she starts crying but i ...

23 years age gap. I don't care about me, but of my boyfriend's reputation. Please advise.

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 6039 days ago

29 September 2007 (F) - I'm having a relationship with an older man, there is a 23 year age gap but we are both very comfortable with each other and we're very happy together. My problem is that im worried that people may think bad of us, not many people know of our rela...

I can talk with any guy, unless he is my crush; then I become shy. Advice, anyone?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6035 days ago

29 September 2007 (F) - I like this guy... but.. I barely talk to him. I feel sooo shy when I am in his presence. I'm like, "WTF is wrong with me?" I basically can talk to any guy, unless he is my crush. I think he likes me back, because he is also shy around me. Once...

How long does someone wait?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 6048 days ago

29 September 2007 (F) - I was dating a guy for about six months. Everything was wonderful. He had been divorced for about 9 years and me 10. We have much in common, including work, religious views, money etc. One night, he got quite and told me that he has been in love ...

Big Age Gap

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 5460 days ago

29 September 2007 (M) - I have feelings for a female at work,but I am 52 and she is 29.Is this too much of an age difference? How would I tell if there is any interest on her part?...

She said she was 'in love with me for that while back there.' What should I do?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 6024 days ago

28 September 2007 (M) - Hi. I'm in a strange relationship situation. I've been friends with this girl for about an year. I always liked her but never thought she felt the same towards me, so I decided to let it go the way it was and remain friends.. I never told her h...

My ex is the dance instructor I met through school. Can she get in trouble? How can I win her back? If I can't, then how do I move on?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6047 days ago

28 September 2007 (M) - i was in a production of oklahoma at my 6th form school. Anyway at the after show party the dance insturctor who had been teaching was the moves came to the party and after a few drinks we got talking and one thing led to another and we ended up ...

I think my bf has been hanging out with my ex! It's weird, b/c when I introduced them they didn't get along! This is so odd! What do I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6047 days ago

28 September 2007 (F) - Last week a friend of mine told me that my boyfriend has been spending time with my ex-b/f. I asked her if it was true, and she said, yes, she'd seen it several times during the week. I've only introduced my boyfriend to him once, and they ...

We're on break, but he's still excited to go apartment searching for US! What should I do?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6048 days ago

28 September 2007 (F) - So i tried to talk to my boyfriend last night, to have that neutral conversation. So that way he can tell me how he feels annd how i feel. IT backfired! He can never tell me hows hes feeling really. This is what i got from hhim: "I feel rushed with ...

Is it a good idea when we marry to have our own bank accounts and have a joint account intended for all of our household budgets/emergency purposes?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6031 days ago

28 September 2007 (F) - im in a relationship for a year now, my bf is great, he is intelligent and very responsible. One night while we're having dinner in a restaurant by the beach we've talked about bank accounts, anyway were both had a good salary from our works. the ...

My abusive, alcoholic husband is making me out to be the bad guy! I'm at a loss, any help?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6048 days ago

28 September 2007 (F) - I just don't understand him anymore. I've have posted several questions pertaining to my relationship with my husband who is an alcoholic and has become verbally and physically abusive over the past 2 years. I have received some great advice and I ...

My bf and I are on break since last week. I've met a new, older man who is a family friend - should I spend the night with him?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6048 days ago

28 September 2007 (F) - Im 18, and have been in a relationship with my boyfriend (21) for nearly 18 months, i love him very much and i rely on him, as i am not close to anyone in my family, i havent got a job at the moment, as i finished my A-Levels in June and now am ...

Can men tell if you have had sex before or not?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6048 days ago

28 September 2007 (F) - Can men tell if you have had sex before or not?...

Should my friend and I have sex the night we get drunk? We're both virgins and I've never had a bf!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6048 days ago

28 September 2007 (F) - So me and my best friend steven and i are spending the night at our older friends house this saturday night.both of our parents think we're spending the night at someone elses house.We're gonna drink,and get drunk,he's my best friend in the whole ...

I'm attracted to my roommate even though I've been straight my whole life! What should I do? Am I gay?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5856 days ago

28 September 2007 (F) - hi.. i have been straight all my life.. but lately, i think i'm attracted to my friend, who is also my roommate. i so wanted to kiss her. but then, i know for a fact that she's not gay. i'm scared that she wouldn't kiss me back.. or worse, that i ...

Am I still a virgin after oral? Am I a lesbian?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6048 days ago

28 September 2007 (F) - Okay, so i feel pretty stupid for asking this but here it goes. So i decided to go out with my best friend (girl) because since i got into high skool its been really hard to see her. anyway.. i was going to meet at her house and then wee would goo ...

We have plans to move, but I have my doubts b/c of past troubles in our relationship! Should I still go?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6048 days ago

28 September 2007 (F) - hey i was just asking for help because me and this boy have been going out for a little over 11 months and we planned on moving to Virginia to live there with his brother. But now i have my doubts about going i think i am scared but in away i want ...

Is it bad for me to wish my mum was dead, just to have some relief to know that no one is in danger - including herself?

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 5107 days ago

27 September 2007 (F) - My mother is an alcoholic. She and my stepfather were married almost 10 years before they got a divorce. I understand why he did it. He had to choose either his 4 children (including me) or my mother who was helpless. It was a hard decision for him ...

Love produces love? Can one love be enough for both?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6046 days ago

27 September 2007 (F) - Is there any true in the motto that Love always produces love? Can One's love(honest and indisputable one) produce love to other side(be it male or female) even if there exist no one? What you think, is it worth or futile endevour being with someone ...

Do I have feelings for him again?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6048 days ago

27 September 2007 (F) - Ok See me and my ex we have been out twice now. There was a month in between when we were on a break i spose. Then he asked me back out again. But after a month i got fed up since he kept flirting with all of my friends and constantly lieing t...

Do men like to make their girlfiends jealous to attract them? Or is it to hurt them?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6049 days ago

27 September 2007 (F) - Do men like to make their girlfiends jealous to attract them? Or is it to hurt them? Or is it for them to go away? I'm confused about the way my ex acted as our relationship was shaking not so long ago. I'm wondering why was he trying to make me ...

Is it better to have lost in love than to never have loved at all?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 6049 days ago

27 September 2007 (F) - Is it really better to have lost in love than to never have loved at all? If so, why does it hurt so bad....

Today is the day I want to tell my friend how much I care for him

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6049 days ago

27 September 2007 (F) - Its been a long time coming and i have decided today is the day that i'm gona tell my 'good friend' (as he calls us) that i have feelings for him. but i dont know how to start it off. we have known each othe since aug 2006 and we become really go...

I'm 31 and look 15 and I hate it... people tell me it's a blessing but it's not: it's a nightmare!

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 2507 days ago

27 September 2007 (F) - Hi guys, I have an odd problem. I am 31 and I look about 15 and I hate it. I am having real problems with this. I do not get taken seriously, I always get id wherever I go, even if to but a lottery ticket. I dress well and wear make up and ...

Why do men go to massage parlors? Is my husband a sex addict?

This question has 48 answers - newest was posted 2589 days ago

27 September 2007 (F) - Just want to find some answers, my boyfriend went to a massage parlor and want to find out why men go to these places? he says he doesnt know. I am wondering if he is a sex addict? Does he really love me? how can he when he went there? If there is ...

My bf already has a son, but I want to have a child together. He says that he doesn't want another child, though!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5933 days ago

27 September 2007 (F) - Hi there everyone... I'm with my boyfriend nearly 2 years now. I'm 30 and he's 33 and already has a young son who is 9 but I feel like I want a baby of my own with him. He says he doesn't want another child cos he has a son already... I'...

He told me he pleasures himself while thinking of three specific ex's of his!! I just feel as though I'm not enough for him, but should I really worry?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6049 days ago

27 September 2007 (F) - Hey, I recently had a conversation with my boyfriend about what he masturbates to. He said that he masturbates to me most of the time. And then he tells me sometimes porn and sometimes his ex-girfriends--Paige, Allie, and Kathleen I automatically ...

Too much too late?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 6049 days ago

26 September 2007 (F) - Have been married 18 yrs and 3 kids 17, 15, 11, last few years Ive been unhappy. I finnaly told husband I wasnt happy and I dont have the same feelings for him. Now he is trying to change over night and do things he has never done, do dished, ...

How can I seem a little more convincing this weekend when she said we'll talk again?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6049 days ago

26 September 2007 (M) - my gf just broke up with me the other day and said she needed some time along for a while, she says im not convincing when i tell her i trust her, so how can i seem a little more convincing this weekend when she said we'll talk again?...

Out of the blue, I am having issues with my wife's past. What now...?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 6016 days ago

26 September 2007 (M) - Out of the blue, I am having issues with my wife's past. What now...? I have been married 13 years, three kids. Back when dating my wife and I went over pretty detailed things about our sexual past. Names, places, how it took place and so on....

What if I get the reputation of being a slut b/c of boyfriend's joke?!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6049 days ago

26 September 2007 (F) - Today I was with my bf and his mate and a couple of my mates in a classroom. I end up getting shoved into a closet with my bf while he makes sounds to basicaly put on a show to anyone outside. When we were finally let out he said something. Not sure ...

I can't tell if he likes me and it's driving me crazy!!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6050 days ago

26 September 2007 (F) - Ok i know this sounds stupid why would you need to ask if someone likes you – you should know right…but its not that simple…and its driving me crazy!!! I am in a serious long term relationship however I have developed really strong and confused...

My ex has a new girlfriend - how he's ignoring me! I'm deeply hurt - what should I do?

This question has 18 answers - newest was posted 4871 days ago

26 September 2007 (F) - My ex is ignoring me! We broke up several years ago but have always remained friends, but for the past year or so, I know he's been seeing another woman. I've never met her but I hear she's beautiful and he's very much in love. The problem ...

I'm fighting a battle that is long since lost. What can I do?? I love her so much, and I can't have her!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6050 days ago

26 September 2007 (M) - I recently posted a question regarding my feelings after my girlfriend broke up with me, due to her going away to study at University, and didn't think she'd have time for 'us'. She is studying far away, and our realtionship was long distance in...

Women: When I split w/ her, she said she hated me and never loved me! What should I do? Should I try to talk to her?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6050 days ago

26 September 2007 (M) - Ok well. I guess this is an update from my previous question. But I did break up with my girlfriend and it didn't go very well.. She basically says she hates me, she never loved me, she was desperate, and basically everything she says to me is ...

We've split and she won't give me back my things, including sentimenal items that belonged to my deceased grandfather!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6050 days ago

26 September 2007 (M) - dear all. my girl and i split 8 weeks ago. i ended up having a nervous breakdown, ended up on anti depressants. she has my things still. i've asked for them in every shape or form: letter, text, e mail etc. Nothing. Left it for fw weeks, nothing. T...

He said he wanted to move slower in our sex life, but wants it every night! Does this make sense??

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6050 days ago

26 September 2007 (F) - He told me he wanted to slow down on sex! He said he wanted it to mean more and I have not been pressureing him. But now it seems every night he wants to make love to me. Does this make sense?? ...

I've started to pull my weight around the house, but I think it's too late! How can I show her I've changed and don't want to split?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6049 days ago

26 September 2007 (M) - hi i don't really know how to start this but here it goes. i've been with my girlfriend for about 2 years now and in the beginning it started out great. we loved been together, everywhere we went it was together. we were always together. we got...

My wife left me for her ex. Now she does drugs and binge drinks! What do you think of this email I sent her?

This question has 25 answers - newest was posted 6021 days ago

26 September 2007 (M) - below is a copy of the email i have sent my wife who had come back for a week then left me again for her ex after she did not come home at night.this is hurting me so much sorry if am beening a pain but we have a young kid and all i want is for t...

My husband has E.D. and I don't want to divorce just b/c of a bump in the road! Please help me with my marriage.

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4310 days ago

26 September 2007 (F) - I am a 48 year old women, have been married for 27 years and my husband has never been a romantic type. but since he has been diagnois as a diabectic 7 years ago he has E.D. and are relationship has been strained. I love my husband, but i am not in ...

My brother-in-law is in prison for child molestation! Could he have been molested? Does this mean my husband was molested, too?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5843 days ago

26 September 2007 (F) - Hi, I have been married 3 months. My husband's brother was just convicted of molesting boys ages 12-14. He started doing this when he was 20. I am really struggling w/this. I am glad he is in prison even though my husband and his family are grieving...

Since he was abusive with me, does that mean he'll be abusive to his next girlfriend?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6050 days ago

26 September 2007 (F) - If my ex boyfriend was kind of abusive with me and emotionaly unavailable Will he be the same way with his next girlfriend or should I blame it on me? Sometimes I feel I taught him things he didn't know before I was his girl, and now those things ...

My ex's brother won't be in a relationship w/ me even though the break-up was a year ago! I don't want to give up on him - what should I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6049 days ago

26 September 2007 (F) - Please help me! I was in a bad relationship for 3 years and even lived with my ex's family for about a year and in that time I fell for my ex's younger brother. Since my ex was hardly ever around and his brother was, we found out we had more in ...