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Archived questions from: January, 2007 (see latest in Big Questions category)

Big Questions: Help and advice

Help! There's yellow, watery stuff coming from 'down there.' What is it?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 542 days ago

31 January 2007 (F) - im 16..and i have a some question that need to be answer plzz!!..i dont know if this is because of sex or not..but i seem to be getting white or yellowish watery stuff comes out..and sometime it smells weird..what is this?..sometime i even think i ...

Do all relationships end up like this... Start of great, then you move in and things fade and you feel like room-mates?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 542 days ago

31 January 2007 (F) - It seems like all my relationshps end up the same way. They start out good, we get along great, we have sex every night, we cuddle, are affectionate with each other; we call e-mail, or text message each other daily. We talk, have fun, and spend ...

My husband is a good guy, but I feel the wrong one for me. I hate the thought of staying with him AND leaving him!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 520 days ago

31 January 2007 (F) - I have been married for ten years. I married the wrong guy; my husband is a good person, he just isn't the one for me. I am a people person, and he is a 'person' person. He only seems to need me, and isn't interested in making friends or having ...

He sometimes makes me cringe when he speaks, and he's in debt... This all makes me feel like a snob... Am I making yet another dating mistake?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 542 days ago

31 January 2007 (F) - I am a 42 year old woman, divorced for 7 years and have 2 adolescent children. I have a PhD and a professional job. I enjoy the arts and theatre and I like to mix in intelligent company. I look a lot younger than my years partly due to good genes ...

Is two years long enough dating before popping the question? And how can I make it special for her?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 542 days ago

31 January 2007 (M) - Dear Cupid, i have been dating a my girlfriend for over two years now and i feel we love each other very much. I want to ask her to marry me but i don't no if we have been going out long enough for me to ask?, if i do ask how can i make it romantic ...

We've split and I've turned to drinking and occupying my time to cope, but nothing works! How can I stop drinking and how do I move on?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 542 days ago

31 January 2007 (M) - Hi, I have been through a very nasty break up with my partner of more than 2 years. I am not going to go into the full story of that as I really don’t want to take much of your time, beside it is a very very sad story anyway. Basically I lov...

What should I do: Stay with my boyfriend and my crappy job... or join the Army and have a great time?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 542 days ago

31 January 2007 (F) - ive been with my boyfriend for 6 months, and we love each other greatly, his the most imporant thing in my life. when we got together, we thought we'd only be together for a month because i was going to go into the army. but i feel in love with him ...

I like this guy and he seems to be showing an interest, but I'm not sure if he's gay or not. How do I get closer to him?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 542 days ago

30 January 2007 (M) - I'm a guy. There is this guy in my photography class. He has shown a lot of signs to being gay, like the way he talks, his movements etc. Even a few of my friends have said they thought he was gay. I've caught him looking at me a few times and ...

If neither of us feel ready for sex, does that mean we don't love eachother?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 543 days ago

30 January 2007 (F) - Hello all! I have bit of a problem, and was wondering if anyone had any advice. You see, I'm going out with someone, my first boyfriend, and I don't know what I'm supposed to be feeling anything. We've been going out for about 6 months but known ...

Guys! Do you like witty girls who can make you laugh or is it not important?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 497 days ago

30 January 2007 (F) - I do have quite a sense of humor. I have always heard that it is something that women find attractive in men....does it work the other way around. Do a lot of guys like a girl who is witty and sees the humor in situations....not at anyone's expense ...

The look the lips the tits the taste... the hair the eye the skin the waist?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 541 days ago

30 January 2007 (F) - What do you think are the ideal measurements for a woman? Such as height, bust, waist hips etc. ...

I took the 'morning-after-pill' but it's been a while and my period still hasn't arrived! I'm beginning to worry!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 531 days ago

30 January 2007 (F) - My last period started on Dec 23rd. My boyfriend and I use a condom and had one split on us over New Year weekend. I took the levonelle morning after pill within 16 hrs and about 10 days later I had some spotting for 4 days, it wasn't heavy enough ...

How do you get rid of bum hair?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 102 days ago

30 January 2007 (F) - Hi I have a question. I need to know how to get rid of bum hair. It might sound stupid but I don't know how to remove it. Could someone help me please? ...

We want to have children together as friends - is this a good idea?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 543 days ago

30 January 2007 (F) - So this is a wierd situation. I met my soul mate. We are completely in love. We have the same values and morals. The thing that keeps us from being together is our sex life. It is horrible!!! And when i say horrible i mean it. We do not mix at all. ...

What's the difference between 'friends with benefits' and 'lovers'?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 544 days ago

29 January 2007 (M) - Silly question? I Have seen the term "friends with benefits" being used quite regularly on this site. Can anyone tell me what is the difference between FWB's and lovers?...

Is a piece of very expensive clothing, a much too personal to give someone else's husband?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 543 days ago

29 January 2007 (F) - I am married to a very handsome and successful man. A neighbor, newly single, gave us gifts at Christmas that were larger than I expected. They gifts for me were items for the house (the price stickers were highlighted so I suspect that they were ...

How do I become a bad boy but still maintain my good guy qualities?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 540 days ago

29 January 2007 (M) - How do I become the "bad boy" that women seem to love? I am that steriotypical nice guy that all the girls say they dream about, but in reality they will probably never be with. I am romantic, considerate affectionate and all those traits, but I gu...

Update on the neck cyst! Doctors were not helpful and told me it was just a fatness of some sort. Antyadvice?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 530 days ago

29 January 2007 (M) - this is an up-date to the cyst problem. i have found out its not a cyst, the doctor said its something to do with muscles, but i dnt know what he means as it does not look like muscles, but some sort of fatness on my one side of the neck. th...

Im 14 and 9 Weeks pregnant!!! I want to keep it but dont know how!!!

This question has 47 answers - newest was posted 36 days ago

29 January 2007 (F) - I'm 14 years old and am 9 weeks pregnant. I saw an ultrasound of the baby recently and heard it heart beat. I was wanting to keep the baby but dont know how to do it at my age. If anyone can help me with this it would be appreciated. ...

Not sure if I have done the right thing or not by dumping him!?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 544 days ago

29 January 2007 (F) - Hi and thanks to everyone who responded to my question posted on 10th Jan about naked pics of my boyfriend on his phone. Sat I asked him about it straight out and he admitted (eventually) that he sent them to an ex girlfriend whom he says he hasn't ...

Im confused... What could he possibly be thinking about!?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 544 days ago

29 January 2007 (F) - Alright, my ex and I have been broken up for about 3 months. We talked this weekend which mainly included me crying and explaining how I viewed the break up. He had broken up with me. He said that he wanted to think about a few things and for me ...

Is there any way to get rid of neck cysts?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 543 days ago

29 January 2007 (M) - dear cupid i would like to know is their any other way to get rid of a cyst in one part of the neck to even out both necks. i am self concious and do not know how the cyst happened, but when i ask my family they say their is nothing there. e...

How do I trust again??

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 544 days ago

29 January 2007 (F) - I have been single for three years, and have met the most amazing man. Or have I? I have been in one bad relationship after another, and my last relationship resulted in my infant son dying. My question is, he told me loved me and i love him to, but ...

Satisfied with my relationship but still dream about my ex of 20 years ago!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 545 days ago

29 January 2007 (F) - Last night I had an incredibly intense dream about an ex-boyfriend, and it is still disturbing me many hours later. The dream was so full of LONGING for this person, and in the dream we were figuring out how to leave our current spouses in order to ...

I can easily spend the day talking to people who aren't there...am I going crazy? What's wrong with me?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 544 days ago

28 January 2007 (F) - Ok this is going to sound completely insane and i'm embarrassed writing this but I'm 22 and I talk to myself! Its like you know when your a kid and you just play little games and you have imaginary friends? Its kinda like that. I dont know if its ...

Why do I keep getting these mean thoughts?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 545 days ago

28 January 2007 (F) - When i first met this guy i like. I noticed something about him and i guess the first thing in my mind i thought "man boobs" even though they arn't even that big and i still like him but i keep obsessing over it just because i thought since i ...

Sometimes, I feel nothing when I kiss my bofriend. What could be missing?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 542 days ago

28 January 2007 (F) - I love my boyfriend very much; he’s so caring, loving and sweet. I really don’t know what else more I can ask for. However, some times when I kiss him I not sure that I feel any thing why is that? What could be missing? ...

Giving my wayward cousin advice about her messed up life has got me thinking---am I a hypocrite? Any advice?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 545 days ago

28 January 2007 (F) - Dear Cupid I have a cousin named Dee..she's 2 years older than me (28) and she has always bounced from place to place..but first let me give you some background.. :) She quit school 3 weeks before graduation and ran off to marry her BF, after r...

He says that we are too emotionally dependent on each other and hes not ready for that. He moving..should I go too?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 546 days ago

27 January 2007 (F) - I moved states for my bf. After 2.5 years he tells me he is moving away and if I come or not is my decision. He says that we are too emotionally dependent on each other and hes not ready for that. He cries everytime he talks about it and it ...

My lesbian fantasy has me greatly disturbed! How do I deal with it?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 546 days ago

27 January 2007 (F) - I'm a 57 year old divorced woman, mother of three children. Something happened 2 days ago that took me by complete surprise and I am still numb over it. My ex husband is younger than I am (50) and left me 3 years ago. I am still depressed, and were ...

I address my boyfriend as "sir" he seems to like this but everyone thinks he's controlling me. What do you think?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 546 days ago

27 January 2007 (F) - Everyone thinks he over-powers me and tells me what to do, but that's not true! I call him 'sir', but that's of my own will. He'll call my name from the next room and I'll obnoxiously and jokingly answer 'Yessuh' or 'Sir.' and they look at me like ...

I give good advice, so why are my ratings bad?

This question has 21 answers - newest was posted 512 days ago

26 January 2007 (F) - Dear agony aunts, I am feeling a bit down at the moment. Why? Because like you I am an agony aunt but unfortunately my ratings have been going down and it makes me feel well (excuse my French)…“sh***y.” I don’t think I give bad advice so I don’t ...

How do I tell my fiance he should only invite close friends to our wedding?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 547 days ago

26 January 2007 (F) - Ok so I am engaged and in the process of planning my wedding. I am working on the guest list and I am having some disagreements with my fiance. My fiance comes from a small town where everybody kinda knows everybody. He used to date this girl for ...

Can we be more than just friends?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 532 days ago

26 January 2007 (F) - i kinda like this guy, the problem is hes 4 years older than me.And i dont know if hes into me.he knows my deppest thoughts and i know his,we have talked about our problems and i told him my deppest darkest secret,and he also trusted me and told me ...

I just want to know, what is love?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 547 days ago

26 January 2007 (M) - I just want to know, what is love? I am sorry if this may sound like obvious to many people, but I don’t know any more what love means. I lost hope of love!! I thought I did know that, when I spent close to 2 years with my ex-partner, even...

How can i tell if my gf is faking it??

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 231 days ago

26 January 2007 (M) - Hi I've been seeing a girl for a few months now and have been enjoying a mutually very fulfilling sex life with her. Then, one day she told me that she used to fake orgasms with previous partners and regarded herself as a pretty good faker. I asked ...

How do you know when you're ready for sex?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 133 days ago

25 January 2007 (F) - How do you know if you are ready for sex? Because i want to and i feel like im ready but i have a really big problem with a fear of pain! ...

He says he doesn't have a phone. Not even a home phone! Am I right to be suspicous?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 548 days ago

25 January 2007 (F) - I met this guy about a month ago, We've already had sex probably two weeks after meeting eachother. I've been on a few dates with him, he usually calls me everyday to say hello and see what I'm up to. Well, I like him alot but the only thing that is ...

How can I leave my abusive bf w/out sparking his temper and threats?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 548 days ago

25 January 2007 (F) - My boyfriend of 16 months has a very bad temper. He never HITS me but does shove and pull me around sometimes. Whenever I want to leave him he cries and begs and threatens suicide. I don't want to risk him really doing it so i stay. I really do love ...

I don't know if I slept with anyone but I think I might be pregnant. Help!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 529 days ago

25 January 2007 (F) - i've dug myself a hole too deep... this year i started dating a hockey player, he's a really sweet and caring guy and i loved him to death. About a week ago him and a few of his buddies were threw a party and naturally he invited me. We cranked ...

Girls! What foundation could I use to cover up my pimples? It's so embarrassing!

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 540 days ago

25 January 2007 (F) - i get big spots around my chin and find them really embarasing. When i try to cover them up with foundation as it just seems to look worse, does anyone know any amazing makeup that would look like i have no spots at all or anything that would get ...

Im jealous that my ex has someone new, I really want someone new but its not happening!!!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 548 days ago

25 January 2007 (F) - im jealous my ex boyfriend has moved on and im still single even though it was me that broke up with him. i really would like to meet guys but since starting college and doing a child care course i havent met anyone i really thought it would be a ...

I'm a 16 year old virgin. How do I show my 19 year old boyfriend that I'm ready for sex?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 548 days ago

25 January 2007 (F) - I'm nearly 16 and i have an older boyfriend who is 19, nearly 20. I'm still a virgin and he is very understanding of that and never pressures me into anything that i don't want to do. We've been together for 6 months, i trust him with my life, and i ...

How do I find out if they're divorced?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 548 days ago

25 January 2007 (F) - how do i find out if someone is divorced or not...

Ive got a crush on my cousin(s) I dont know who to talk to or what to do ?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 504 days ago

25 January 2007 (M) - my cousin is 16,i am 18, n i got a crush on her,.what do i do? i have some outher cousins i have crushs on too.the outhers are,17yr old.and 19yrs old. i just dont know who to talk to about this...

Is there really any point to trying at a relationship if there is no trust ?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 548 days ago

25 January 2007 (M) - hey guys thanks again. i was just curious as to what u guys thought about trust. i was with a girl and we are now on a "break". and during this time she is talking to any guy that looks at her. now i hear that she "likes" one of them. if hell ...

My GF gets upset thinking im bored of her as my job is making me so tired... What can I do as I really need this job but dont want to lose her!!! ?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 548 days ago

25 January 2007 (M) - Sorry about the long question, but I've got to get some help with this. My girlfriend and I have been dating for almost a year and a half now, and while we've had our ups and downs, recently we've been having an increase in arguments and fights, ...

He said he wasnt ready for a relationship, am I wasting my time hoping he will change his mind ?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 548 days ago

25 January 2007 (F) - my bf dumped me because he says he just isnt ready for a relationship and doesnt want to hurt me. Am i wasting my time hopeing he will chage his mind? And is it possiable to still be good friends, im scared ill always want more?...

She said she just now wants to be friends, but I want to give it another go, any ideas what I can do ?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 548 days ago

25 January 2007 (?) - just before xmas i asked this girl out. she said she doesn't feel the same and she just wants to be friends now. i still love her, i talk to her everyday on msn. could i casually ask her out on valentines day? i just wanna give it another go. any ...

She said she loves me but cant be with me, as it hurts to much.. Whats going on ?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 549 days ago

25 January 2007 (M) - I was with this girl for 16 months, and had just returned from a month long trip to china, and back into her arms, i slept over at her place for the next week, we fought a lot but no more than usual, we have a fight the day after i get back to my ...