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writes:i have been with my husband for 7 years i had left my whole family for him ever since i have been touch with my family on and off for the past few years over the fone iv not seen them i give up for a couple of years then ring them again for 4givness, my family want me to leave my husband and go back home and i cant do that, i havent spoken to any of my cousins or my sisters for years just got the net 2 weeks ago and i decided i will go on facebook i heard my sis is on it i go on it and also find my cousin bro on it they dont no who i am i am using different user name ny cousin mailed me i have told him i wana speak to him and there is sumtin he need to no my husband is not happy me bein on facebook he say he trusts me then he tells me he thinks im guna run off with my cousin bro he dosent want me doin n e thing that involves my family watever i havdun is for him look how he repays me he never says no he givs the hint he says if im guna run of with sum 1 i shud of told him time ago its so not true im on facebook to reuite with my family do i giv up wat do i do????
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reader, Starlights +, writes (27 September 2009):
 You really need to sit down and have a heart to heart about this with your husband. You have come this far and your marriage is worth working at.
Regardless of what he says or anyone else thinks the fact remains this is your flesh and blood, and you will always love them and remember them despite the fact they disowned you.
You need to remind your husband kindly that you left them all behind to be with him but you would like to keep contact with your cousin bro as friends and nothing else.
You husband is worried you may return back to your family and leave him. Its his fear, and until you reassure him this issue wont go away. Your in a difficult situation although if your husband truly loves you he wont intefere with your relationship with your family.
Hope this helps!
Good luck!
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