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Archived questions from: 6 October, 2013 (see latest in Dating category)

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Dating: Help and advice

Deletes all his texts from girls. Is he hiding something or am I crossing the line?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3859 days ago

6 October 2013 (F) - My boyfriend deletes all the texts from other girls. Well he knows that I am jealous and I have confronted him for flirting with his colleague and knows that I sometimes go through his phone. (Please don't judge). Now he deletes all the texts with ...

Are trust issues the problem? He says if I want to talk about it I have his number

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3860 days ago

6 October 2013 (F) - The other day when I was talking to my boyfriend, he was texting someone else at the same time. He made a mistake and sent it to me and was telling me that he was texting his nephews son who by the way only in the 4th grade that has his own cell...

Are my trust issues the key? Can I get past these feelings since I resumed a relationship with my ex?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3859 days ago

6 October 2013 (F) - Some of you know my relationship history with the long distance relationship. Well it has been over since July, and I'm happy to say I don't feel stressed anymore. On another note. I have let my ex husband move back in with me and we are trying t...

How do I come to terms with celibacy and life as a single person?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 3843 days ago

6 October 2013 (M) - How do I come to terms with celibacy and life as a single person, continuous search just makes me unhappy, and distracts me from leading a fuller life in other ways. I've spent the past twenty years bringing up two girls on my own, they've rec...

Do I put up with the pain? See a Dr? Need advice on how to stop sex hurting so much

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3860 days ago

6 October 2013 (F) - Hello just needed some sexual health advice My ex boyfriend and I have just got back together. Completely in love with him and we have tried sex in the past but never been able to do it properly as it hurts me too much. I really want to do it...

Should I wait or call for an answer? Are we or aren't we broken up?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3858 days ago

6 October 2013 (F) - After my non-acceptance or being able to make sense of the sexy, lets see where this will lead communication between my boyfriend and his old colleague... he still has not contacted me. NOR has he broken up officially. Is his silence an indicati...

Guy A or guy B? Why do I think of one when I am with the other? What should I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3858 days ago

6 October 2013 (F) - Hello. Two different guys that i both met a month ago, same age, have been checking me out. They both show interest of dating me. I'll call them guy A and B. So thing is guy A is so sweet, sexy, cute and a bit shy. Whereas guy B is physically s...

My friend just became single again but wants to move. What should I do next?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3861 days ago

6 October 2013 (M) - I have had feelings for a close friend for a number of years and we are both in our late 40's, I have not on my feelings as she was in a relationship with another friend, in May this year the split up after he had an affair, since then we have ...

Older guy for younger women?!?!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3861 days ago

6 October 2013 (M) - Hi I'm a 41 year old, good looking single guy who only really gets on with girls aged between 18 - mid 20's. I just find them more fun and I seem to have so much more in common with them than women my own age. Do you think this is normal??...

I feel bad that he earns and spends more than I do

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3861 days ago

6 October 2013 (F) - Hello! I am currently a twenty year old college student. Up until recently, I had no idea what I wanted to do with my life and I usually focused on other things, like relationships and family.It's only now that I've focused on schooling/wor...

Should I leave my boyfriend? I think I deserve better?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3861 days ago

6 October 2013 (F) - Should I leave my boyfriend? I think I deserve better? Well here is our story so you can understand my situation. I met him three years ago. Since day one I knew he had a daughter but he was not with the mother. At the beginning we only...

Is it normal or healthy in a love relationship for your girl or guy to frequently mention some other guy or girl's name?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3859 days ago

6 October 2013 (M) - is it normal or healthy in a love relationship for your girl or guy to frequently mention some other guy or girl's name? my girl seems to mention this one guy's name every time we conversate. i once asked her and she said he was just a collegue and ...

I am beginning to think that my boyfriend either wants out of this relationship or is trying to emotionally abuse me as a form of control

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3862 days ago

6 October 2013 (F) - Hello Aunties/Uncles! Okay this may seem like an unusual problem, my boyfriend of 3 years has started to nit pick and in my opinion pick at problems that are simply not there. For example the current problem is, he accused me of being "too happ...

I told him I wanted to hear from him at least once a day while he was travelling -- is it reasonable to be angry when he doesn't contact me?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3862 days ago

6 October 2013 (F) - Hello so my boyfriend left a week ago to visit his family for his brothers wedding in india and I made it clear I wanted to hear from him at least once a day even if it was something like "I am going to bed goodnight" he is 10:30 min ahead of me. ...

It almost sounded like he was trying to convince himself when he said ILY

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3862 days ago

6 October 2013 (F) - This may sound silly but: My boy friend of one year usually says "love ya" or "love u" either to me or in response to "I love you" from me. He said it first after six months by the way. However, tonight I kinda jumped on the bed, straddled him all ...

Is my boyfriend's behavior a reflection of his love for me or does it speak more about his impulsiveness or lack of responsibility?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3861 days ago

6 October 2013 (F) - I want to tell you the story of my relationship/love affair and am hoping that someone could give me their thoughts on the situation. I have been in a long distance relationship with a man for about 3 months. Our relationship started off as s...

How long afer meeting should I text? Or should I at all?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3861 days ago

6 October 2013 (F) - I am a gay female, in needs of friends, of course id like to eet somene but new friends are important I've met someone recently from an online dating/friendship site, we have been messageing online for a few weeks, they are just looking for frie...