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Archived questions from: 6 May, 2013 (see latest in Dating category)

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Dating: Help and advice

Why does my boyfriend's ex constantly tell him how happy she is with someone new!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4013 days ago

6 May 2013 (F) - My fiancé and I have been together for 4 and ½ years and his ex drives me nuts! For the first 3 and ½ years all she did was cause trouble. She could call him all the time, text him all the time, she’d text me saying they’re together, she’d tell our ...

Is she taking me for a ride? Does she want the best of both worlds?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4014 days ago

6 May 2013 (F) - Me and this girl have been sleeping together for about 6 months now... She has a gf, she says she's only with her as it's easier to stay with her and then break up with her when she leaves for travelling in a few months. She says things would be ...

The girlfriend of my boyfriend's best mate is trouble and I don't know what to do about it

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4014 days ago

6 May 2013 (F) - I'm not trying to judge here, but my boyfriend's best mate's girl really bothers me. She is a big time flirt and tries to get with all the guys which includes her flirting around with my boyfriend. Like they say harmless flirting isn't a big deal...

Is he reluctant to marry me?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4011 days ago

6 May 2013 (F) - Hi aunts and uncles:) I am needing some honest advise here about my boyfriend. We dated for one year and have been living together for almost another year this coming June. So we have been together for almost two years now. I was married in t...

When do I tell someone I am dating that I cannot ever have children.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4013 days ago

6 May 2013 (F) - I am an 19 year old female, I have just met a guy who I have started dating, we have been on 1 date, but been talking for months. Last year I found out that I can never have children, when should I tell him this? I have been thinking I should tell ...

Is this a problem what happened when I had sex with my girlfriend last night?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4011 days ago

6 May 2013 (M) - MOD NOTE: English is not the first language of asker. Dear sir.. I am 27 years male. I do have habit of hand shaking my peninsula.(masturbating). When I do so that lequid comes out.(I ejeculate when I mastubate). Last night I had sex with my g...

I Have been seeing my ex-husbands brother ever since my divorce 4 yrs ago

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4014 days ago

6 May 2013 (F) - I was married for 15 yrs. my ex cheated on me with his best friends wife. I was a very loyal wife when I was married to him. After my divorse I fell head over heals in love with his brother. we have been seeing one another in secret for 4 yrs now. ...

If 20% of the relationship is bad, and 80% is good, is it worth it?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4014 days ago

6 May 2013 (F) - Hypothetical situation, curious what everyone's tolerance level is. If in a relationship, 20% of the time, you and your partner were either fighting, not speaking to each other, or "sad" with each other and the rest of the time, 80%, is perfectly ...

I discovered she doesn't shave her legs and it bothers me!

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 4014 days ago

6 May 2013 (M) - Hello! Well I kinda have a problem. I met this girl online about 3 weeks ago and we've hung out a lot. We decided lastnight that we would be together. Today she ran a marathon and she wore shorts which she hasn't at all since I've known her but I ...

Should I assume that he is dating someone else? or is stressed at work?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4012 days ago

6 May 2013 (F) - I met and have been going out with this guy for three months now and we did not have anything other than a flirtatious relationship up until one month ago. The first time we slept together was amazing and we had great chemistry. The next night af...

Should you be worried if your partner says they don't know why they love you?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4014 days ago

6 May 2013 (M) - So I hear recently from a radio advice guru on love that it is always important to ask your partner WHY he or she loves you. If they can't tell you...then it's a cause for concern. The reason he said that is that often infatuation is mistaken for ...

Am I too short to find a boyfriend?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4014 days ago

6 May 2013 (F) - I'm 17 now, and throughout my childhood I realized I grew much slower than the others. I used to be the shortest among my (same-age) friends, and basically I felt like I've stopped grwoing in these 2 years. So now I'm only 4'11, 90 pounds. ...

I feel the need to pay him back but don't know how to give hand jobs or blow jobs

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4014 days ago

6 May 2013 (F) - HI! I'm starting with a guy that I really really like!! i will move to another country in Europe at the end of June, so Iknow there's not that much time to be with him. I like him a lot and he likes me too and the other day we started kissing and he ...

Is seeking comfort and intimacy online normal?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4015 days ago

6 May 2013 (F) - I knew my boyfriend was on online chats. He always denied it, but I know it was him. Last weekend, he found out that some friends had been talking about him behind his back (because of some lies he got caught on). He is very ashamed/hurt/wha...

My boyfriend has a crush, but it isn't on me!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4015 days ago

6 May 2013 (F) - my bf of 8yrs has a crush. He hasnt told me but he wont stop singing the praises of a girl in his pub. His friends joke that he is in love with her (ha ha). ive noticed he gazes at her even when im there. she is apparently not into him. do i stay ...

Is this relationship worth fighting for?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4014 days ago

6 May 2013 (F) - Oh, dearcupid, I had to turn to you... Thank you for taking the time to read this. It has just kept repeating in my head and I am left wondering if I was just too hasty. I was dating a guy, who I really liked, quite a bit. We have fun togethe...

Online dating. I'm interested. What should I say in my message?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4014 days ago

6 May 2013 (F) - I asked for advice on using dating sites a few days ago. Now I have a more specific question. There's a guy I'm interested in someone on OKCupid. Should I message him? Why or why not? And if so, what should I say? I'm a bit shy and embarassed about ...

Break up after miscarriage, where do I go from here?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4014 days ago

6 May 2013 (F) - Hi me and my ex boyfriend broke up 8 weeks ago after i had a miscarriage we had know each other years before we got together i moved in found out i was pregnant we were so happy then i miscarried he started arguing with me he avoided me i went out ...

How do I tell my family member about my interatial relationship?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4015 days ago

6 May 2013 (F) - I am 18 years old and I live with my grandmother who doesn't approve of mixed race dating. I am Caucasian and my boyfriend is Dominican. We have been dating for 6 months and he treats me very good. I have not told my grandmother about him because of ...