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Archived questions from: 9 December, 2012 (see latest in Dating category)

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Dating: Help and advice

Am I responsible for my B/f sleeping around? Did I drive him to do it?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4160 days ago

9 December 2012 (F) - I am 24 and my boyfriend is also 24. We have been together for four years on and off after meeting while working in the same bar. I was at uni at the time and after i became pregnant, i left my final year with the hope of going back to university ...

Something feels off - should I trust him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4161 days ago

9 December 2012 (F) - hi, everyone, just sumthing im worried about but in a way not that worried... about just over to yrs ago i met a guy off plenty of fish the dating website, and kinda just hit it off from texting and ringing anyway last early december we finall...

How can I get my girlfriend to be more accepting of my cannabis use? She's gone from being a nice loving woman to a total nag!

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4161 days ago

9 December 2012 (M) - I am 28 and have been with my girlfriend for 4 years. I recently made new friends and they have introduced me to smoking cannabis again. This is something I have not done since I was about 18. My girlfriend hates it though and has gone from a nice ...

Is this a trust issue for me? Or should I just accept and trust that he is just friends with her??

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4158 days ago

9 December 2012 (F) - I have been in a relationship with a guy who lives an hour away for almost 4 months now..and for the last month or so we have been getting in fights every week. sometimes a couple times a week. The main problem is that I have had trust issues...

What can I do about my hairy butt? Because I'm worried my Gf will be grossed out by it.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4161 days ago

9 December 2012 (M) - My gf wants to do things to my butt. but i am really conscious because its hairy. What do i do , I dont want to stop her from doing it because it'll be embarassing, but it will be even more embarassing if she gets grossed out when she actually sees...

My boyfriend was never really there for me, he lied to me and gave me reasons to doubt him and now I think I'm in love with his friend

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4161 days ago

9 December 2012 (F) - Am 20 and my boyfriend is 26. We've been together for 1 year. He was my first sexually. sure we do have our issues but we make sure its resolved by the end of the day. just about 3 months in the relationship, he confessed that he does have a 4 year ...

Over my head or out of my league?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4161 days ago

9 December 2012 (M) - Here's my question: Is it ever appropriate between a first and second date (which I asked for) to ask the other person if they've met someone new? She has already rescheduled the second date from a Saturday night to a Tuesday night, and her ...

Am I setting myself up for being cheated on?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4161 days ago

9 December 2012 (F) - Dear aunts and uncles, I've been in a relationship for almost two years now. And last night my boyfriend decided to open up and tell me I'm his 19th girlfriend. With his last girlfriend he said it wasn't working out so he cheated on her with a wo...

Girlfriend pressured me to throw out all things from my past but she lied and didn't do the same!

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 4162 days ago

9 December 2012 (M) - After 6 months I bowed to constant pressure and threw away all my old photos, holiday photos the lot (except the ones of my son). My girlfriend was adamant that they belonged in the past, was nothing to do with "us" and told me she had thrown all ...

How do you get a bartender's attention and have them ask you out?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4162 days ago

9 December 2012 (F) - I’m almost 25 and yet to really date anyone. I live very strick and traditional asian family. Plus til recently I’ve never really always the enjoy the single life. I notice when im out the pub with best friends, to listen to the local band, somehow ...

I thought a couple of hours in a hotel would be ok, he wants more. Am I wrong for feeling silly?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4162 days ago

9 December 2012 (F) - Iv been seeing this man for a while now it's become sexual,but because we are both divorced with young children we dont have sex in our houses because we are not comfortable with that just yet.Anyway I suggested to my boyfriend that we should book ...

How can I ask my girlfriend to have anal sex with me?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 4160 days ago

9 December 2012 (M) - Hi, i need some advice from the ladies. I have a wonderful girlfriend and we love each other very much. I love her to bits and she is super hot. I would like to have anal sex with her, i noticed that when i touch her, or lick her there, it arous...

Do you think moving in together without an engagement is a good idea?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4162 days ago

9 December 2012 (F) - I wanted to get your take on being engaged before moving in together. I've been with my significant other (SO) for almost 4 years. I am 24, just finishing up my last year of University. He is 28, finished college two years ago and is still str...

Is it that he is no longer attracted to me the way he used to be? I find it very hurtful.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4160 days ago

9 December 2012 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been together for almost two years .. Sometimes the way he looks at me makes me feel like he isn't attracted to me anymore .. I feel that way because I have noticed him looking at a few females and he really doesn't look...

Why would a guy just disappear? What did I do to make him lose interest when he never even got to know me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4162 days ago

9 December 2012 (F) - I met a guy at a bar a few weekends ago and we ended up making out. I went back to his place but I told him I didn't want to have sex (I'm not opposed to one night stands but I had my period and I don't like having sex until it's over). He was fine ...

My B/f snores at night and I cant sleep!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4161 days ago

9 December 2012 (F) - Does anyone have any advice for my situation? I have been with my boyfriend only a few months. I am 23 he is 27.His an amazing guy and we get along like a house on fire. My problem is, he snores at night and i cant sleep! His a bit overweight a...

In the beginning he would not listen to my 'no'. But now I think he's cheating and telling lies. What should I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4163 days ago

9 December 2012 (F) - I have been with my boyfriend since High School, we broke up and became friends during my last two years of High School so we started dating other people. When i started my first year in college he was not going to school so he would come to my ...

What can you suggest? I'm faithful always, but I feel like she holding my sex life hostage.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4162 days ago

9 December 2012 (M) - I'm 29 and my girlfriend is 27. We've been together for 5 years, lived together for 4. Our relationship is and has been going well in most respects. We rarely argue and suit each other nicely. Unfortunately we have fairly different sex drives...

I have some regrets about my LDR. I think I give too much. How can I overcome these feelings?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4156 days ago

9 December 2012 (M) - Im in a ldr with a wonderful girl and we love each other very much. When i met her i was pursuing my dream job, having job interviews etc. When things got serious and we became exclusive she had to go back to her country to complete school ...