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writes:My boyfriend and I have been together for almost two years .. Sometimes the way he looks at me makes me feel like he isn't attracted to me anymore .. I feel that way because I have noticed him looking at a few females and he really doesn't look at me like thatPlease help me becuause it feels hurtful for him to behave like this.
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reader, Warm-Inspire  +, writes (11 December 2012):
 I don't completely agree with anonymous's answer, but i do agree that you should make your voice heard and state what is unacceptable to you morally in a relationship.Copying his behaviour is probably a more childish approach to your suituation and more likely to end up in conflict.By copying him it gives him the signal that you're okay with doing it so gives him the go ahead to continue to disrespect you. When you do it to annoy him, hes doing it for visual satisfaction, you will only end up going around in a vicious circle and end up getting hurt twice as bad.Men will glance at other women, and not a lot of men will look at their partners in the same way after a while for the sad fact of, they're used to looking at us.If it's more of oggling than glancing then you need to tell him its an annoyance to you and stand your ground and say it needs to STOP.If he continues i suggest you rethink your relationship with this man, on the reasoning of you deserve the same respect as you are giving to him.Best of luck.X
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reader, anonymous, writes (9 December 2012):
Tell him how you feel, explain that you find his staring at other females degrading to your and his relationship. Because honey it is.. Okey it's natural for all male/females to notice opposite sex but not when we're with our other half's that's just plain rude and not on..
If he does not change his behaviour, then when he does it, tell him to knock it off.. Or say do you want me to go get her phone number for you..
If this doesn't work start looking at all the gorgeous males and say ooe isn't he hot and look at his pecks butt whatever just to get up his nose.. Yes this will cause a bit of a do.. But you can add after it well that's what you do thought I'd just play along and smile sweetly at him, be light about it , ... I mean you can't play the game if you don't know the rules and now you do..
Relax sweetie, you can soon get him to fix it.. Just try the above..
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