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Archived questions from: 11 January, 2007 (see latest in Dating category)

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Dating: Help and advice

I think his idea of 'love' means just convenient sex. What should I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6322 days ago

11 January 2007 (F) - For over 2 years I have been involved with a divorced man my age. We had met a year before that but I was still in a very troubled marriage (5 years, no children)so all we did was talk, like pals, and then I didn't see him again. I had no other ...

Gf is casuinf trouble for me--should I just break it off?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6320 days ago

11 January 2007 (M) - hey im 13 and my girlfriends 16. we recently had a fight because her name wasnt in my msn name. which is perfectly understandable because iv told her that i dont show emotion in msn. so she went and got her couzin to threaten me (which was blatently ...

I'm 40 and I need advice on how how can I meet someone nice without embarassing myself?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6321 days ago

11 January 2007 (F) - How can I find a boyfriend? I'm not a kid - I'm a 40 year old woman! I was married young and very inexperienced. I was hurt very badly by my ex and had virtually no sex life, but stayed together with him for a long time. So I've no idea how to ...

He's spontaneous...I like things planned ahead of time! Is this just a guy thing?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6321 days ago

11 January 2007 (F) - My boyfriend never seem like he's on top of things. I always see him as not knowing how to prepare things ahead of time. Maybe I'm a bit on the organize side. But I like the idea of knowing what to do next. On the other hand, my boyfriend is a ...

I don't want to be like his ex-wife and ask him to stop playing his video games..but it is buggin me!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6319 days ago

11 January 2007 (F) - My boyfriend plays video game as a way to release stress (or for fun too). His ex-wife always had a problem with him playing games and not spending time with her. He's only in his early 20s. He doesn't smoke or drink or go clubbing. Everyone has ...

I want someone I can have a future with-should I break it off with him?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6321 days ago

11 January 2007 (F) - Hey everyone! A very happy new year to you all! I wanted your opinion on this dilemma i'm faced with. I'm 25 and my boyf is 3 yrs n 10 months younger than me. We're very much in love and have been for the last yr n a half. I come from a family wh...

I can't trust her and I need someone reliable! Should I walk away?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5958 days ago

11 January 2007 (M) - My girlfriend and I have been together 6 yrs. 3 months ago she decided to start to flirt with some guy on myspace. It progressed into her playing with herself while she would talk to him on the phone, in my bed. I did some snooping cuz I could tell ...

How do I know he is not just using me as someone convenient?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6322 days ago

11 January 2007 (F) - I am so confused regarding my ex (he is early 20's). He has a brain injury which means he doesn't recall things or doesn't realise the impact he has on people when he communicates or acts in a negative way. He doesn't have the tact and developed ...

My new guy keeps going on about how great I am but it's making me uncomfortable!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6321 days ago

11 January 2007 (F) - Hey, I like this guy, we get on well, he's hot we're dating... but....he really likes me. This may seem like an odd "problem" but it kinda freaks me out that he's just so open about it. He's always overdramatically going on to people about how great ...

Just started a relationship but I am embarrased about the size of my penis!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6321 days ago

11 January 2007 (M) - I have recently gotten into a relationship with what i feel is the love of my life but i am embarrased about the size of my penis and i want to make love, i feel its a good way to show my love to her...i dont know what to do....please help !...

I'm shy, so how do I go about talking to the boy I like? I've not really spoken w/ him before.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6266 days ago

11 January 2007 (F) - hi every1, need ur advice!!HELP i really like this guy we are both 16(he's older). he is in my class. i am kinda unsure if he likes me or not? we don't talk what so ever. although once he was assigned to be seated next to me in class but after a ...

After our discussion about my trust issues w/ her, she acts the same. Is it time to call it quits?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6322 days ago

11 January 2007 (M) - Is it time to call it quits in the relationship when you have a lot of doubts/questions about your girlfriend? We've had talks about my feelings and 'trust issues' before. But, the same things seem to be happening over and over. Is it because I ...

My bf is outgoing in social settings and I'm shy and uncomfortable. This makes me feel bad about myself. What can I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6321 days ago

11 January 2007 (F) - hi! i'm a shy young lady who loves her boyfriend, but has a problem with jealousy and possessiveness. Even though, I know he means well to me, I still feel suspicious towards him and asking annoying questions. Deep down inside I feel that what he ...

He's lying to me about stuff on his computer! How do I tell him I went through it and know he's lying?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6321 days ago

11 January 2007 (F) - m upset because i feel my relationship is going downhill, my b/f lied to me about stuff that i found on his computer i asked him if he had it he said 'no' but i saw it with my own eyes how do i tell him i know he is lying i went through his personal ...

My gf moved in and we tried to blend our families. Then she moved out b/c her son wasn't happy. I feel very empty now. What should I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6320 days ago

11 January 2007 (M) - My girlfriend and I have been together for over two years now. About six months ago we decided to move in together and try to blend our families. I have a 15 year old daughter who lives with me and two boys ages 13 and 9 who live with me on the ...

I saw that a woman emailed my husband about spanking him! I'm devistated but don't want to end it b/c of an email!!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6321 days ago

11 January 2007 (F) - I put this one on other place and I have never done this before but I need help. So public I need your advise. Here we go. I have been happily married for 12yrs. been together for 15yrs. We don't have children. We have always done things t...

My fiance emailed women from dating sites and turns everything we say into an argument! How can we stop this petty squabbling??

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6322 days ago

11 January 2007 (F) - Hi I wonder if you can help me......I have been with my boyfriend for nearly 3 years, lived together for over 2 years and plan to marry next year. When we are getting on, things are great but when they arnt, they are very bad and we seem to be ...

I slept with my best friend's brother, but I really have feelings for her!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6322 days ago

11 January 2007 (F) - i really need help! i have a bf and recently i lost my virginity 2 him. my relationship with him was bad enough because he is my best friend's younger brother. however for quite a while now i have been having incredibly strong feelings for the best ...

She said she wanted to meet w/ her ex and I said I didn't like it. Now she's ignoring my calls and sending me abusive texts!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6321 days ago

11 January 2007 (M) - Am i right to be concerned??? AGAIN !!! See yesterdays post. Thanks for advice...but now what do I do? After telling me that she wanted to meet her ex on Tuesday afternoon I simply said that my instant reaction was that I was not happy. I had to ...

We split after 8 years last April. Then he dated and split w/ the girl after 2 months. We've been getting along, but now she's back!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6322 days ago

11 January 2007 (F) - OK - I really need some advice here. I have been in an 8 year relationship with great highs and terrible lows. Unfortunately my partner developed severe back problems, such that he was bed bound and unable to stand for very long. After 6 years ...

Can friends with benefits bring you and your ex back together?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6322 days ago

11 January 2007 (F) - Can friends with benefits bring you and your ex back together? I was just wondering cuz my ex and i are friends with benefits and he doesnt want a gf or a relationship right now. We have been friends for a good while before we started dating t...

My fiance called me and said he's leaving! What do I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6322 days ago

11 January 2007 (F) - I just got a call and my soon to be husband told me to have my daughter at my mothers when he gets off work. I asked him why and then I asked why are you leaving me and he said yes, that we rushed into this and that he never lived on his own. We ...

I'm 12 and feel ready for a bf, then when I actually have one I freak out and dump him!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6322 days ago

11 January 2007 (F) - Hi..... well im a 12 yr old girl 13 this yr and ever since ive started secondary school i've only had one bf but i dumped him the next day cuz i totally freaked out:S:S and the same happend in junior school. i had a bf but i couldn't talk to...

Our sex life is non-existant. I even get the feeling she'd be happy if I left her and the kids. How do I save our relationship?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 6319 days ago

11 January 2007 (M) - My girlfriend of 6 years and I have 3 beautiful kids. I love her and used to think she did too. However, she just won’t have sex with me. It went downhill after our first baby but that was OK – she just needed time right? Now our youngest is 16 ...

We haven't been getting along for the past year - is it our age difference?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6322 days ago

11 January 2007 (M) - problem , i"m 41 and my girlfriend is 28,we have been together 7 yrs and for the most part its been the best ever relationship i've been in, (two previous relationships)for the past twelve months the relationship has slowly been going wrong, clashes ...

My ex is sleeping w/ me...and others! What if they're not using protection?! And how can I get her back w/ just me?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6321 days ago

11 January 2007 (M) - My Ex Girlfriend and myself r doing great everything going great no problem's where best friends who sleep with each over and it's never werld 1 bit. last night she came up we had something to eat we made love. and everything was going great. ...

My ex's grandmother made plans to visit me for a few days! How can I politely tell her no?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6322 days ago

11 January 2007 (F) - Hi cupids Here it goes my ex and I broke it off 3yrs ago we have a son together who turned 9 this year, we had an on/off rship for almost 10yrs during this time I got very close to his family and friends and the same went for him we were hoping t...

Do I stay with my new faithful guy, or go back with the old one who dated other girls while we were together?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6322 days ago

11 January 2007 (F) - im in a situation that is confusing me i have just meet a great guy and we get on really well.. there has been no drama he texts me and is the cutest guy in the whole wide world. Things were going along really well until a flame from my past the one ...