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My boyfriend begged me to end things because he has feelings for someone else, but now he wants to give things another go!

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Question - (3 September 2009) 4 Answers - (Newest, 9 September 2009)
A female United Kingdom age 36-40, anonymous writes:

my boyfriend and I have been together for 14months.we've had our ups and downs like every couple but we both love each other.however he has meet this girl through a friend a couple of times and has admitted that he has started to like her.yesterday he had no idea what to do because he knows he loves me but these feelings he has for this girl is on his mind.neway he begged me to break up with him last nite,he was crying uncontrollably and punching walls so we finished.this morning though he says he really wants to give things ago and will try anything to make it work. i really dont know what to do its hurting me so much.help!

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (9 September 2009):

what does he want .......another chance to break your heart???

you deserve better and just ignore him. you gave him what he wanted and now what?

in life it is said, becareful what you wish for..it might just come true. his wish came true, now he wants you back - HELL NO!

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A reader, anonymous, writes (3 September 2009):

Don't give it another go because if you do, it gives the impression that you are expandable and he that he can leave you, get with other girls and come back to you. He can't make your relationship a secondary priority to some other chick and since he did, you need to tell him to hit the road. Don't let the sobbing and wall punching cloak the one true fact; he was willing to ditch you for another girl. Nah you're worth waaaay more that girl, he don't deserve you.

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A female reader, PLAYFUL United States +, writes (3 September 2009):

PLAYFUL agony auntI think You should forget him after he did that to you... Dont for get all the pain he made you feel when he was out haveing his fun you dont need a guy or man like that you are a women not a toy to be push to one side for a new women No dont do it... fine you someone that will love you not play with you or yor heart...good luck xoxo

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A female reader, AlexCM United Kingdom +, writes (3 September 2009):

if you really want to give it another go, then give him another chance. but its unlikely your going to trust him and that will lead to a break up anyway! so you have a choice.

do you really think things could work?

or do you think it would save the hurt and break up in the future?

good luck hun x

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