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36-40,
*alyov
writes:I dated a guy back in December...started dating on Dec. 1st and dated for 28 days.We knew each other for two weeks before hand.A friend(Brian) of mine from college set us up,Chris went to another college (actually the one I am at now).They were best friends and have been for many years, Brian thought I was Chris's type so he set us up.We first talked online, that is where we met in a multi chat with Brian.Then after two weeks of talking we went on a double date to the movies and the next day he asked me out.Stupid I know...way too soon.I said yes and we started dateing.He would always fill my head with ideas of the future. I went to a 2 year school and it was my last semester and he was at a 4 year..he wanted me there.Well it seemed he wanted things I did not..aka Sex.I thought it was WAY TOO SOON for that, and Im not really all for that. Not before love.I told him that and he started saying 'I love you.' I was like "okay but im still not ready."He talked me into do some things im not really proud of, but I can still say I am a virgin!Well one night things were going and he tried forcing himself on me, I pushed him off and he got mad, but then said it was okay and went to sleep.The next day he broke up with me. (the day after that his college called and said I was accepted)I'm a forgiving person so I had forgave him the night before but I guess I was not what he was looking for.Well we got in a huge argument and I got depressed. He blocked me from yahoo and facebook.Well I am now at his old college and he is now at my old college...weird I know. (at least its cheep here for me and its nice..it was always on my list but not the top place)This was all back in Dec-Jan.Well I just signed into yahoo and received a Friend Request from him!Why after 8 months would he send me a request!?
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reader, anonymous, writes (3 September 2009): Easy, he still holds out hope of getting into your knickers, because he fancies you no end, still thinks about you and fantasises about it going further. He wonders if things might have changed. You are a challenge, an interesting tease. You haven't done it deliberately but you have lit his fire darling!!
You're in his little black book. Men often flick through it when they are short of a shag.!!!
You implied he has a high libido......... it's as simple at that. He probably doesn't want to marry you, he might not even want you to be his full time girlfriend but he sure as hell wants to get you into bed ONE DAY!!!!
Oh, or he's just looking to make as many online facebook friends as possible to make himself look popular like a lot of people do, in which case, he's a sad life and should be avoided at all costs.!!
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reader, LethalInjection-x  +, writes (3 September 2009):
 Because he's manipulative. It's likely he's trying to worm his way back into your life, which you should be very wary of.
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