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The father of my child has left me for another woman, what do I do now?

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Question - (3 September 2009) 2 Answers - (Newest, 3 September 2009)
A female South Africa age 30-35, anonymous writes:

i have a question i love this guy very mutch we have a daughter of 3 and wer together for 8 years. his with someone for 3 months now. we had sex 3 times while his with this woman . she dropped him but now his back with her. what do i do now.

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A female reader, icelordess United States + , writes (3 September 2009):

icelordess agony auntI know this has to be very painful for you, but remember that you deserve to be loved and cherished. Make up your mind that you deserve to be treated with love and respect, and give the man an ultimatum..you, or the other woman..but NOT both! He's in heaven right now with 2 women..and he'll continue seeing both of you as long as he is allowed to do so. Burst his bubble, and make him chose.

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (3 September 2009):

Lucky man, he's getting sex with you and with her. Things aren't great in either camp then?!

If you really love him you could offer him the ultimatum: Me or Her and then if you find him cheating end it.

He's one of life's confused types.

Don't let him mess with your head. This could go on for years.

Your child is still young enough to adapt to the split.

Your child can still see him. You don't have to.

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