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writes:I need help. i have a crush on my step sister, She is older than me and we didnt grow up together, but i also class her as a sister. i enjoy talking to her and asking advice from her, but i decided to tell her my true feelings the other day and now i feel i have ruined something good between us. She said its only normal to feel that way, but i feel wierd for having these feelings for her. i dont feel confident talking to her any more and i am now scared to see her or be myself around her just in case i come across flirty. What should i do to repair my sister relationship with her and get rid of my crush on her?
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reader, anonymous, writes (3 September 2009): it feels more than a crush though. and now i feel that she shouldnt trust me. i hate it so much because she means more to me as a sister and i feel i have destroyed are relationship.
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reader, anonymous, writes (3 September 2009): The best thing you an do is move on to another relationship. When you're seriously involved with another girl, there will no longer be any tension between you and your step-sister. At a minimum you'll be able to put it behind you; at best one day you'll be able to laugh about it.
In the meantime, while you're still crushing even a bit, it's probably best to keep your distance. You won't be able to BS her -- she'll know if you're over it or not.
It's not a big deal, it happens all the time, and the relationship can be fixed. Chalk it up to experience, and chill.
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