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Archived questions from: 4 June, 2011 (see latest in Dating category)

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Dating: Help and advice

Can he want me for more than sex?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4715 days ago

4 June 2011 (F) - Is it possible that a guy can originally want you purely for sex and then for some reason want more? or am i just being completely stupid?...

Help with the dating game

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4716 days ago

4 June 2011 (F) - There is this guy, and we both like each other. We're in the new throws of dating, still it's all very new and mysterious. Here's my problem- I tend to give my heart away fast. Im never ouvertly clingy, but I tend to fall really fast and unconsio...

B/f said "I used to have a skinny girlfriend, now I have one with big boobs!"

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4715 days ago

4 June 2011 (F) - I've been with my boyfriend for a little over a year and it's pretty much perfect. He does a lot for me and I know he loves me a lot. Now about my problem; I have PCOS along with a thyroid issue. I don't consider myself obese but I'm not skinny. My ...

Sexy surprise for my b/f who has been away?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4715 days ago

4 June 2011 (F) - Hey, I'm looking for some ideas for a sexy surprise for my bf who gets home tomorrow after being away for a week. He's been on a stag holiday, doing surfing, sky diving, those kind of activities, and has texted me throughout to say he's been missing ...

She's fine, but I'd kinda rather be single

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4715 days ago

4 June 2011 (M) - Hey guys need some help here, me and my gf have been together for about 2 months but I dont know if I should stay with her. I mean I like being in a relationship but I also miss being single. There is nothing wrong with her and she is my first real ...

Is this a trust issue or just PMS?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4716 days ago

4 June 2011 (?) - I need help my girlfriend always thinks wrong. Today i woke up and called her but she wasn't picking up so I kept calling then she finally answered and she was mad because she thought I was talking to another girl because I called her late. Now she ...

I want a guy with drive and ambition -- and he's not looking like that guy

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4714 days ago

4 June 2011 (F) - Ive been with my boyfriend for 3 years (on and off). I have never cheated on him, nor i never would. I would never lie to him either. We met in high school when I was 15 and he was 17. When I first met him, he seemed like the character that would ...

Unattractive, no confidence, how do I talk to girls?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 4702 days ago

4 June 2011 (M) - Basicly i am a very unattractive guy, i have no confidence whatsover in myself or my appearence , i want to change how i look but do not have the guts to do it and i want to know how to talk to girls, and i dont know if i girl is genuinly interested ...

I'm really fond of her. How do I go about this without losing our friendship?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4716 days ago

4 June 2011 (M) - I am 18 and interested in a girl who has joined our friendship group [the same age]. She is quite flirty, especially the second time we all went out together, where she was keen to dance get quite close. Nothing has happened, although I pecked her ...

I love my guy but we fight a lot and he doesn't seem to care. What should I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4716 days ago

4 June 2011 (F) - HI....its wid great pain i type this..my guy and me are in love since a yr and quarter and for recent months we are in frequent fights about him being so careless to me.i talked a lot several times to him but nothin changed.problem is he seems ...

I'm trying to move on from this girl, by seeing her friend. She found out and now she won't talk to me!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4716 days ago

4 June 2011 (M) - I need to know if I am being a jerk her or not. So I been and exchange student for a year and after I came back home I started to have feeling for my female best friend. She had a boyfriend of 1 year at that time. I wanted to surpress my f...

Should I get to know this girl better? Does she like me?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4710 days ago

4 June 2011 (M) - hello, i'll get straight to the point. There's this girl at my school who is known as the slut of sluts and the b!tch of b!tches. Anyways, in the past she has always treated my friends and i badly. She called me a nerd once, and im not, i do two di...

I am so confused about girls!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4716 days ago

4 June 2011 (M) - well i really like two girls. one goes out with my friend and she does flirt abit with me and the other is single like me and we have both told each other that we like each other. i decided to take the girl who likes me outand it was a little ...

We are not blood related. But can we go forward together? It's awkward due to our parents previous affairs.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4713 days ago

4 June 2011 (F) - Hey Aunts! I have a really strange issue on my hands here. I met a guy about a month ago, we have been chit chatting and getting to know each other over the phone etc. His work hours make it challenging for us to meet up too often...but we try to a...

What does this man mean by these questions?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4716 days ago

4 June 2011 (F) - MODERATOR'S NOTE: Two questions from same asker combined. Q1. What does it mean if a guy calls you a piece of ass? A guy I chat with online and text recently called me that. We have only seen each other a couple of times. Have not slept with him...

Ever since I started dressing more like a woman, thus guy I like began looking at me like a sex object. Why??

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4716 days ago

4 June 2011 (F) - Hi people, I've got this stupid problem that shouldn't really be a problem but I don't know..Well, when I was a young girl like..13 I used to dress up, like really take pride in my appearance and people would notice me. One day I heard a bunch of ...

Girl I like was really quiet on our date. What does this mean?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4716 days ago

4 June 2011 (M) - Hi cupid, This girl told me she liked me by saying that as long as I'm at her party than that's all that matters. So because I liked her as well I decided to ask her out. We went to the cinema and for something to eat. She was really quiet whi...

My gf doesn't want to have sex anymore and I am wondering if it is because she had a traumatic experience in the past.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4716 days ago

4 June 2011 (M) - My girlfriend and I have had a very bad sex life lately. It was good at first, but 3 years in she basically stopped wanting it at all. Ever. We talked about it tonight and she said that it's not uncommon for women to want to stop having sex afte...

Is my gf cheating on me?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4608 days ago

4 June 2011 (M) - Basically what I want to know, is whether or not my girlfriend is cheating on me. After a bad break-up my fiancee and I got back together, against many friend's wishes.. But lately she is texting ALL the time when she's with me, it's either ...

Should I try to rekindle an old love or just stay in my comfort zone?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4716 days ago

4 June 2011 (?) - Warning: it's kind of a long story/soap opera..... I have this ex boyfriend. He's Jamaican...like, he was born and grew up in Jamaica, and he's older than me, two things that made my mother very suspicious and disapproving of our friendsh...

Is it ok for my bf to still talk and remain friends with someone he has slept with?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4716 days ago

4 June 2011 (F) - So today my bf got a text and I asked who it was just curious and he was, like, what's it matter. And then he told me. It wasn't nothing but a simple "hey" but it was a girl he has had sex with before didn't date or anything just wanted some I ...

Was Shy and Diffident - now Strong and Confident: Can a guy outgrow his past with someone that knew him then?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4716 days ago

4 June 2011 (M) - I am a very careful person when it comes to relations , I dont wanna date anyone until im married because i believe in pure relationships . There was a girl whom i knew 2 years ago in highschool she is definitely the woman of my dreams everything i ...

How do I get my man to be more romantic without outright telling him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4716 days ago

4 June 2011 (F) - Is it bad to have a list of things in your head that you wish your man did?? Like i wish he gave me foot massages and brought me flowers out the blue and things like that, but my thing is i don't want to have to mention to him and then he does it ...

Our relationship was built around drugs - now we are clean we don't know what to do.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4717 days ago

4 June 2011 (F) - I have a very serious issue that has been on my mind for a long long time now, When me and my Boyfriend first got together for the first 2 years we both did Drugs together and then when he finally went to jail for 6 months and he got out we both ...

How can I sweep this guy off his feet and away from his girlfriend?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4716 days ago

4 June 2011 (F) - I have this cute neighbor who lives beside me. He is so cute and handsome. I like hardly ever see him. The other night I was going out with some girlfriends of mine and he was waiting at the elevator with a female who I thought was his friend. I was ...

Too scared to say "I love you"

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4717 days ago

4 June 2011 (M) - Dear People who may possibly help, I have known this girl for a long time... Its easy to say that I love her, but she doesn't know that, she said she liked me.... But now she thinks I hate her for not showing any thing back.... Im just to damn shy ...

If something develops will it ruin our friendship?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4716 days ago

4 June 2011 (M) - hi people. i need some help. there's this girl i really like that's in most of my classes at school. we are really good friends and we text each other and talk on facebook a lot. i asked her out a few times but i never got a straight answer. i ...

Boyfriend help please...my boyfriend has a lot of girlfriends. What should I do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4716 days ago

4 June 2011 (F) - Boyfriend help! My boyfriend doesn't get along with men/guys well. So he has alot of "girlfriends." I usually, am a jealous girlfriend, not overly jealous, but average jealous for a girlfriend. However, recently, one of his "girlfriends", h...

Tremendous sexual tension with this guy at work, we got together against all odds, and now his dominating ex (who he broke up with, for me) claims she's pregnant. He's back with her, says I was just a shoulder to cry on!

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 4714 days ago

4 June 2011 (F) - Hi, all and any advice will be greatly appreciated as I've gotten myself into a bit of a emotional pickle. In May last year I started a new job. In September a flirtation began between a colleague and I, one who unfortunately was in a 3 year rela...

Every time we speak to one another I feel like the past two years have been wasted. Can our relationship be saved? Or should I end it, before it gets even worse?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4717 days ago

4 June 2011 (F) - Alright. I've never really been one to make my personal problems public (even on the 'Net), but I'm really at the end of my rope, here. Maybe it'll be better, asking it with this Internet sort of animosity, but I really feel like I need another's ...

I hate myself for letting someone get close to me after doing fine being single for ages... Grrrr!!!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4716 days ago

4 June 2011 (F) - I hate my ex (not because we split) but the way he was with me before we split. The last two weeks he avoided me (apart from texts) I eventually invited him round one night (to have it out with him),said I wanted a chat with him, he came (but said ...

Should I pay my boyfriend or should he work for free?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 4716 days ago

4 June 2011 (F) - I have been dating my boyfriend for a year and six months. He has a handyman business. I need electrical and plumbing work done should i pay him to do the work?...

I don't know really how to have sex and I know she's wanting missionary!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4716 days ago

4 June 2011 (M) - I have a couple problems I hope to get help with. Me and my girlfriend for a year now are in a log distance relationship and our only means of sexual pleasure is phone sex we use to do it all the time now very little but she will always tease me and ...

He doesn't want to have children or get married, but this is my dream

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4716 days ago

4 June 2011 (F) - Okay so my boyfriend and I have been together for a year this month I'm 21 years old and he is 10 years my senior. We don't live together or anything but as he's told me I am THE woman for him I thought it was time we had the talk about ...

Third time lucky?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4716 days ago

4 June 2011 (M) - Here's the story; I was going out with this girl last year, and throughout our relationship I had felt small feelings towards one of her best friends. When we broke up, a couple of days later I told her best friend that I liked her, and that I had ...