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anonymous
writes:Ok I really need some major advice.First things first, I met my currently fiance of 9 years online when I was in my early teens, and we used to have a good relationship, we moved in when I was still young, and now live up north. Well we started getting into bad arguments, we'd both get into physical fights sometimes, but then we'd always make up and things would be okay.Well I lost my job and became very stressed last year and met another guy online, and met him in person (we didn't have any intentions to do more then hang out as friends) and well we ended up sleeping together. He is technically the 2nd guy I've been with in my life... Well since then we've seen each other often, and had plans for me to leave my fiance for him, however we've had some major setbacks... (keep in mind i am the first girl both guys have slept with)... the new guy got drunk at a family member's house and another girl talked him into having sex with her (saw the texts on the bill, she did spam him until he said ok)... well after we got back together he blew her off and has been waiting for me to move out again... but I'm so scared he'll hurt me and I'll ruin my fiance an I's relationship for nothing... I'm so confused and don't know what to do..I love my fiance, but only because he's been around so long and has taken care of me despite the arguments and fighting...However I feel madly in love with the new guy, to the point I'm scared to be without him... even though he had sex with the other girl...Please help me!
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