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writes:hiI'm having a trouble with my relationship right now..because we both study at same school..and we're batch mates..but even though the case is like that.we're having lack of communication.we don't talk and everything.we just talk more or less once every two weeks but it's just a 5 minute talk or less..i don't know what to do.but i love him so much.and he told me that he still loves me..but i don't feel the love his love right now.i don't know what happened but since June it started.and it's really hard for us to communicate..i don't know why.I'm being hurt so much.what should be the step I'm taking right now?please help me.. Reply to this Question
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reader, purple_butterfly  +, writes (4 September 2009):
i agree with honeysoul but it would also be the case that he no more cares. coz being in the same school and talkin once in 2 weeks is really sad when youre in a relationship. I am afraid that he might even turn down your proposition of going out or spending private time.You know what? get busy for a while..and concentrate on other things. Do not contact him. let him contact you. when he can show you that youre not one of the top priorities in his life, show him the same. And if he asks you y you have bveen ignoring him or acting strangely recently, you shall know that it bothers him or he actually cares. If he doesnt bother callin you and making any plans, kool , act like it doesnt bother you and keep ignoring. I know its hard but this always confuses the guy.we girls sumtimes in love go way too far to show our feelings and are extremely nice about it. Sometimes its good when we give our guys a reality check ( even though we dont want to ) and show them that you can be without them too like they can be without you. I hope it helped.-Loads of love
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reader, honeysoul  +, writes (4 September 2009):
 well its obvious you are in a silent relationship, the thng is you need to change the environment that you guys spend time at because when you see each other at school you begin to act like school mates and not lovers........ so in shot get a nice privete place away from school and bond with your man before the flame dies out.
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