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writes:So i have this gf i been with for 8 months. I love her so much but its scary at the same time. from the begging i never planeed to stay with her this long. I heard she was real easy and yea she was, but i never been able to break up with her. yea she was kinda aho before but it wasnt her fault, she doesnt even liek to have sex, she just lets people use her like that. she had a hard life, n i was always kinda ashamed of her past but that barly bothers me anymore.plus we been together for a very long time n been through a bunch of shit. I no her she no men we even almost had a baby together. All the problem is little compared to our relationship, but IDK if i want to be with her forever, and its like if i dnt break up now i never wil. wat should i do, cuz i got no clue
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reader, sunnycomet  +, writes (23 September 2009):
 You didn't explain before that she wasn't giving you attention. All you said was that she was easy and you didn't know if you want to spend the rest of your life with her. Talk to her about it. Explain how you feel and see if you can work out something that makes you both happy. For now if you love her my advice is to stay with her. Breaking up with her because you are afraid if you don't you will be stuck with her is just running away. You CAN break up with her later if things don't work out. Good Luck
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reader, Alfredo1400 +, writes (23 September 2009):
Alfredo1400 is verified as being by the original poster of the questionits not like that. only reason weve even lasted this long is cuz ive boosted my feeling for her even more than they already is. I shower her with attentin everyday, but she doesnt fo the same for me. its like shell do stuff like wear a bunch of clothes with my name andon her stuff, but at the same time is like she puts a wall around herself and i dont no if she even cares about me sometimes, cuz she hates acting like it, she mad wierd. but that aint the problem, its like i do lover her n do want to stay with her, but at same time if i stay wit her now we probobly never break up, weve brokeen up and end up together again befor 24hours. its crazy i dnt no if thats the girll i want to spend rest of my lfe with
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reader, sunnycomet +, writes (23 September 2009):
Wow, you sound like a jerk. You sound ashamed of your girlfriend even though you know she had a hard life and allowed people to use her. I feel bad for her and hope her life gets better.Do you love her? Do you want to stay with her?If you say no to even one of them then break it off with her. She deserves better then you. Talking this way about her...really you should be ashamed of yourself. Life was not easy on her. She needs to have attention, love, and feel like a valued person. Then she will shine and be happy. She should not be ashamed of, disrespected, or unloved.I hope your girlfriend will be happy and I hope you realize what a wonderful person she is regardless if you stay with her or not.
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