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writes:hi everyone! i've known my husband for 6 years and have been married to him for 3 years. when i first met him he had just moved in with his friend and there was no problem with that as we were still just dating. we married when he was still living with his friend and he kept promising that we'd move soon till we relocated to another cointry. his friend has relocated as well and they managed to find each other again. he was in an accomodation fix so he asked to move in for a month or two while he sorted out his issues. he has been in my house for over six months now. bear in mind that he has a wife and 2 kids who are a nightmare living with us and an aunt who has come visiting forever. these people have invaded my space and are straining our relationship. i am expecting baby number 1 and the stress is really uncalled for. i spoke to my hubby several times about this but he says they are his friends, why can he not listen to me, these people need to go, they're kids are unruly and are causing damage to my property, they do not have anything in the house but a bed. i cannot stand this anymore it's either me or them, he doesn't understand that we need to build our own future and that two women cant be under the same roof! help me am so stressed out and living like a tenant in myy own house! Reply to this Question
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reader, jc2008  +, writes (20 September 2009):
Do you own this house? if you do i'd advise them to take a trip to the nearest estage agents and you will even help them choose a new place. In the UK you could write them an eviction letter and give it to the local councils housing office. You need to stand your ground with your husband and remind him there are two people in this relationship. You need somewhere to bring up your child and have a family life. Once the baby is born hopefully it will be a screamer and the "guests" will soon disappear!
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reader, califnan  +, writes (20 September 2009):
 Your husband does not seem to care about what you think about this and I think this is Important! I do not know what he would say if you said: it is either them or me.. I hate to see you be put in a possition as to have to leave your own home .. This has been going on too long, you are pregnant, and too many people...To me, this is a marriage breaker.. I think if your husband does not ask them to leave - then all of them should leave - husband and all..
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