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female
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30-35,
*if3sucks
writes:Hey there,i have a problem that i would really like advice on. My bf and i tend to fight alot and i know why i just dont know how i can fix it, and i take blame for the fights. I try to change him into being the perfect bf that i want, but i know i should because he should be able to deide what he wants to do he is 16 and old enough to make the decissions he wants to but sometimes i dont like the ones he makes, like i get really jealous if he hangs out with girls, and i dont like how he wants to go to parties every once in awhile and get really drunk and not remember have of the night he had, i just i know i cant change him i just want to know what i can do to relax and let him do what he wants to do but yet for me to be happy, i really want to stay in this relationship so please help, thanks so much.
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reader, Emilysanswers  +, writes (21 September 2009):
You have to accept that if you are going to date a teenage boy then he is going to act like a teenage boy.
You can't act like his mother and try and bring him up into a nice young man.
You just have to deal with the fact that at his age, he wants to go out and do stupid things and make mistakes rather than being the stand up young gentleman you desire.
You want him to be more mature than he's ready to be. Just let him be stupid sometimes, it's the only way he'll learn.
Good Luck!! xx
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