A
male
age
41-50,
*ame
writes:hi‚ i,ve been this relationship for 9 yrs and we live together .I was in an accident 4 yrs ago ,i almost lost my life she's been helping me with everything because i'm in a wheelchair ,I have to learn to walk again but she been there for me.She told me she's not happy because i'm not showing any attention,she work 2 jobs and college while i babysit 14yr old and 12yr old when she get home weekends her school buddies want her to go out so she can release some stress ,I let her go .We just moved to a smaller house and my hospital bed can't fit,so the bed that we have isn't good for me cause of the accident .I sleep on the couch because it's more comfortable two days in new house now she's angry because i'm not sleeping in the bed with her.She tell me 2 weeks ago she meet a guy over her brothers and they been talking about each others relationships,now the guy is hitting on her,he's fresh out a divorce and she think he's nice they been talking for 2 months behind my back.I have never cheated on her.
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 September 2009): I feel that most people (NOT ALL) might mess up during a relationship. If she didn't feel something, she wouldn't be angry about your not sleeping with her.
You should not ignore this affair, however. Doing so would only convey the message that it is OK. Going out with her friends habitually is not fair.
I know you are in a wheel chair, but you need to put your foot down and show her you can be independent. I don't always suggest counseling, but I think it might be helpful in this case.
My question: Did the accident impair your ability to have sex?
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