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female
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41-50,
anonymous
writes:ive been in dysfunctional relationship. the problem is with myself already. i am financially dependent on my partner. he always betray me, he always cheated on me. i cant move forward or i cant get out in this relationship. i always tried to escape from this dysfunctional relationhip for 2 to 3 weeks then i will come back with him whenever i feel lonely, whenever i dont have money. so its already routine. i am dependent with him already in terms of emotionally, physically, and financially. how can i change? i how can start? its been a long time that ive been hurting myself because i am so week. all my needs in life is depends on people surround me. i am a weak person. i am stupid. i really need help...
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reader, sunnycomet  +, writes (12 September 2009):
 You are not stupid so stop telling yourself that. You need to get some more self esteem and get this jerk out of your life once and for all.
Can you go to your family or friends for support?
As for the money, make a plan, you can even safe up money to leave him and spend your money very carefully. You need to learn to be dependent on yourself. Once you do and have him out of your life then you will feel so much better and be happy.
You don't deserve this jerk in your life break the routine!
Good Luck!
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