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Sex: Help and advice

I love him but I want intamacy!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5390 days ago

27 July 2009 (F) - have the best man in m life, caring thoughtful, gentle, fabulous BUT he doesn't or is not interested in making love. We love each other dearly but i am missing the intamacy. we have been together for just over a year and propbably have sex or make ...

I can't feel a thing during sex! What is wrong with me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5390 days ago

27 July 2009 (F) - I can't feel a thing when i have sex. I've been with my boyfriend for nearly a year and we have regular sex. I have tried everything, different positions, toys, getting him to touch my clit where it feels good when i do it but it doesn't work. ...

She always wants sex! I don't get anything from it

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5390 days ago

27 July 2009 (M) - Im in love with this girl and were going out but she always wants to have sex and im not too keen on sex but i do it anyway for her. also i dont enjoy and i dont feel anything from it. Is the something wrong with me? How can i tell her to lighten u...

Missed two pills! Was I fertile when we had sex?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5390 days ago

27 July 2009 (F) - me and my bf had sex last week and i am on the pill and i missed two days of it and i took one on the day but i dont know whether i was fertile he pulled himself out before him... and i am scared he cummed in side me i am due on my period in a week ...

I love him but he shuts down when I mention sex!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5390 days ago

27 July 2009 (F) - I'm not really sure who to turn to so I guess I came here. I'm 21 years old and I have been married a year and a few months, but I have been with my husband a year before. So about 2 1/2 years together total. When we first got together we just...

What would you do if you found your 40 husband in bed with a girl age 18-21? Help me

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 5390 days ago

27 July 2009 (F) - What would you do if you found your husband who's 40 in bed with a girl between the ages of 18-21? The girls blonde, young everything he would like and i even found texts on his phone where he told her she was hotter than me, and would prefer h...

I fear my husband isn't attracted to me anymore and is having an affair! Is anyone like me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5390 days ago

27 July 2009 (F) - I'm a housewife since our son was born 5 years ago. Taking meds to get preg for 2nd baby.I'm tired most of the time(due to medicines i think)I'm overweight and I know my husband is not attracted to me though we have sex twice a week. I'm scared o...

I care for him so much but he talks to Rachelle about sex!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5389 days ago

27 July 2009 (F) - There is a boy a year older than me named "Nick", and he is Orthodox Christian like me, and he is godsiblings to my cousin "Cecily." When we were all younger, his father, a priest, had an affair and he was disrobed and he and his wife divorced. ...

I can't sleep with her because of what he did to me

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5389 days ago

27 July 2009 (F) - I've been in a bad relationship (he would push me and force me to do thing i didnt want to do) i got out of it 1 year ago and since then i have got a new partner and she is great but she want to sleep together i try and make up excuses but she is ...

How long should I wait before sleeping with a guy?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5390 days ago

27 July 2009 (F) - when you meet a guy what is the time frame you should wait to go to bed I don't want him to think im easy or slutty...

What will happen to my boyfriend if I get pregnant?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5390 days ago

27 July 2009 (F) - Ok..I am 14 and I have a 17 year old boyfriend..and all last week I was over his house and half of the time while I was there we had unprotected sex but everytime he is about to "bust" he take it out for awhile and we start again, while we were ...

So why did my period come early?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5390 days ago

27 July 2009 (F) - I have a boyfriend. We have sex right after my menstrual cycle finishes everytime. The last time we had sex was on 07-11. Two weeks later, I felt horny that I decided to finger myself until I came. The next day, I started to bleed for no ...

I'll be 16 in February, he's 21, is he too old for me? And is a bj a bad idea?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5389 days ago

27 July 2009 (F) - I'm 15 turning 16 in feb. And is he's 21. Is he to old for me? Oh, and is it a bad idea if I gave him a bj?...

Should I confront her about this or not?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5390 days ago

27 July 2009 (M) - Hello there, Ive been dating my girlfriend for over a year now. Lately im getting more worried that she doesnt love me like she did. First of all we did not have sex yet, she is 16 and i am 18. But lately her sex drive has been lower than usual...

How can I get better at sex?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5390 days ago

27 July 2009 (F) - I think im bad at sex it doesn't feel good when i do anything I cannot make myself come or my partners cant get me to come I think i suck at it. Like i can get myself going and what not but I just cannot come somebody help mee! ...

She's 17, nearly 18 and pregnant - we're so worried about her mother and brother's reaction!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5390 days ago

27 July 2009 (M) - Hello Aunts and Uncles, Me and my partner had sex about a month ago and the condom split when using tingle durex condoms. My partner has been worried ever since and we decided to get a pregnancy test 4 days after we had sex. The test came back a...

How can I change myself so that he desires more intimacy with me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5378 days ago

27 July 2009 (F) - Dear Cupid I am in a relationship with a man in his late 40's and I am in my late 20's. The question is about our sex life. He does not do much foreplay, when we do have sex and outside of this act, casual hugging and kissing is just not his cup...

Sibling sex

This question has 16 answers - newest was posted 4250 days ago

27 July 2009 (F) - Hi, i read a post about a brother and sister having sex, at first i thought it was wrong but a lot of the replys where people that have had sex with there siblings and enjoyed it, and didn't have any long turm negative effects from it. Now i can't ...

My husband isn't intrested in a sexual relationship!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5389 days ago

27 July 2009 (M) - Hai, I am Mrs. V. MY husband is not interested in sexual relationship but he is a very good person He likes me very much. Out of great dfficulty I have a son ,he just comes to me very rarely, above all he is perfectly well at his health what should ...

Should I ask her if she slept with the other guy when drunk?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5382 days ago

27 July 2009 (M) - Right, this is my "dilemma" I basically met a girl about 5 weeks ago at a party. From day one we've got on unbelievably well, to the point where we've never felt uncomfortable with eachother in anyway at all. We've been seeing eachother 3 or 4...

We rarely have sex and it's been this way since day one. What should I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5390 days ago

27 July 2009 (F) - My problem is my boyfriend, ever since we've started dating he hasn't been interested in sex. We're lucky if we do it once every 2 or 3 months. We've been together for almost 3 years now, and this is something I've been trying to resolve with him...

My girlfriend gave up prostitution for me but I think she's gone back to it! What should I do?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5390 days ago

27 July 2009 (F) - She use to walk on the streets and her mates did it to. but when we started dating she said she would stop and she did and it was fine until she ask me to sleep with her but i didnt want to and we had the fight about how she was giving up everything ...

Why does she keep turning me down after claiming that she wants sex with me?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5390 days ago

27 July 2009 (M) - im so confused about this girl im seeing!!! Ive startd seeing a girl the last few weeks that has really fancied me for about 2 years. Anyway the thing is we havent had sex yet but have had plenty of oppertunities to, but she keeps making excuses...

How do I tell my mom I want to go on birth control?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5390 days ago

27 July 2009 (F) - Okay so im 16 and thinking about having sex for the frsit time. i wanna get on birth control. i just dont know how to tell my mom becuase i dont want her to think its for sex when im going to be safe. condoms and everything. how do i t...

Have I lost my 'physical' virginity?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5390 days ago

27 July 2009 (F) - I am 15 years old, and though sex is not intended between my boyfriend and I we are... sexually active. If that is the right way to describe it. Well recently, ever since he returned from his trip to Orlando he has been more and more attracted to me ...

Is there something more to the shemale porn he watches?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5170 days ago

27 July 2009 (F) - my partner of 5 years, who i have two young children to, watches hardcore shemale porn and only she male porn. when we have sex, he has trouble getting his penis up. it seems it only comes up when he plays with my anus. he loves anal sex and i ...

He whispered another woman's name during sex

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5390 days ago

27 July 2009 (F) - My husband had been sleeping soundly for several hours when I came to bed late. He initiated sex and during the course of having sex he whispered another woman's name. I think he was having an erotic dream. I didn't recognize the name, when I a...

Want to have sex but am afraid of getting caught

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5389 days ago

27 July 2009 (F) - Ok, so my boyfriend and I have been dating for almost 2 years. we're both college students and during the summer its hard to find places to have sex. Sometimes we try to have sex late at night after everyone in the house is in bed ( poor college ...

Relationship ruined because of a picture of his parts??

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5390 days ago

27 July 2009 (M) - Okay. Here is my situation. My girlfriend and I have been friends for almost 3 years now. In those 3 years we have been the type of friends who talk about their relationships with one another. This is my situation. Before we started dating I...

He goes too quick and sometimes I just want sex!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5389 days ago

27 July 2009 (F) - So my boyfriend cannot last during sex at all. I can tell if he kept going for like a good 15 minutes I would probably be able to finish and be satisfied, but he can only last about 30 seconds! He doesn't finish after 30 seconds, but we have to stop ...

Is it just a case of nerves? Why does it hurt so much?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5391 days ago

27 July 2009 (F) - Hi everyone, When my boyfriend fingers me it hurts. I am a virgin and i feel its such a tight space as he goes in - i get so uncomfortable. I have never done it with my own fingers. And when he does it, he goes in slowly, with one finger and o...

Woman on top?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5391 days ago

27 July 2009 (F) - I'm a BBW plus size woman. My man is tall but he's not heavy. The first time he asked me to get ontop during sex, we had a hard time trying to get his penis inside of me. He usually has a soft erection until he enters me and gets started so "we" ...

I want rough sex!

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5023 days ago

27 July 2009 (F) - Me and my boyfriend have been dating for awhile. I want him to be really rough me with during sex. Hes a really sweet guy and I wasn't sure how he would react to me asking him to be rough with me. So we've been having sex this for ahwile and he ...

Taking our bedroom secrets to the webcam!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5391 days ago

27 July 2009 (F) - hi all, I don't know where to start. My husband (of 3 yrs) wants us to take our bedroom secrets to webcam. I'm confused about it all, I used to think its all wrong but now its like a big question mark. Let's say if I was to do it how many people ...

My boyfriend told me he fantasizes about other girls all the time!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5391 days ago

27 July 2009 (F) - my bf told me he thinks about having sex with other girls all them time. He said he would never go with them or leave me. He said he loves me very much and wants to be with me forever. He said he sees girls everywhere and thinks about having sex ...

This 22 year old virgin wants this guy SOOOOO BAD!

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5376 days ago

27 July 2009 (F) - I've had this friend for two years. We get along well and have a lot in common. Last year we had met up with another mutual friend and were talking about dating. He had stated that relationships are just not for him and that he just can't do the ...