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Archived questions from: December, 2011 (see latest in Sex category)

Sex: Help and advice

Please help an inexperienced married man understand sex and relationships

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4496 days ago

31 December 2011 (M) - I was an 18 year old virgin when I met my wife. I had never had a girlfriend or even kissed another girl until one night after a date she just leaned over and kissed me. I waited some months before sleeping with her at age 19. She was 21 and expe...

Is it the new and amazing sex we are having that has caused him to start to commit? Or my honest email?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4499 days ago

31 December 2011 (F) - Hi all. Your opinions would be most welcome. Thanx. I have been with my bf for around ten months. It has,nt been an easy relationship,so over the last month or so, i.ve started to try and detach. I.ve been waiting for him to commit for sometime,but ...

I don't want to taste myself on him. Any suggestions?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4499 days ago

31 December 2011 (F) - dear cupid, my guy absolutely LOVES for me to go down on him. honestly, i think that's even more appealing to him than sex. i don't have any problem with his love of head; i love giving it to him, because i know it turns him on and makes him ha...

Ever since we had sex she is ignoring me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4498 days ago

31 December 2011 (M) - Well im 41 and i've been dating this Irish girl who is 30 for over 6 months, now she was unbelievably shy at first it took her weeks to open up to me and once she did i could see she was crazy I have a succesful business on my hands but it didnt ...

I love my girlfriend but I'm disgusted, jealous and angry about her sexual past with her ex-boyfriends!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4389 days ago

31 December 2011 (M) - My girlfriend is a nice and I really love her a ton and want to spend the rest of my life with her. She's everything I could have ever wanted. She's smart, beautiful, and very kind. But when we first hooked up a friend of mine told me she gave BJs ...

My husband has been impotent for 5 years. Should I stay?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4499 days ago

30 December 2011 (F) - What would you do, if your husband 20 years, suddenly goes impotent , without any any medical cause? He is 50 now, but he was 43, when one day to the next he just lost his erection, and ever since, he is unable to get a normal erection. He also lost ...

Should I let my b/f know I've never had an orgasm through regular sex?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4499 days ago

30 December 2011 (F) - I've never had an orgasm through intercourse and I was wondering if anybody else has had this problem and how they fixed it. I've never told my fiance about it before and I don't know if I should. I think he might get upset. The sex we have is ...

Has my girlfriend deceived me or does the sex with her ex-boyfriend not count?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4497 days ago

30 December 2011 (M) - I am not sure where to start but I do want to document how I feel and explain what has been happening in my relationship. Without going in to too much background detail I want to start with the facts. At the end of March this year my partner walked ...

Our almost non existent sex life....are all these factors adding to that problem?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4496 days ago

30 December 2011 (M) - Dear all, I hope you had a good Christmas and are prepared for the coming year. I need some relationship advice. I am 27 and my girlfriend is 28, we are dating for 1.5 years now and moved together about 5 months ago. We are both in grad school f...

B/f lied to me about the circumstances of him receiving oral sex

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4495 days ago

30 December 2011 (F) - Hi :) my question is quite complex so I'm just going to ask it. I have been with my boyfriend for Eleven months, he told me that he had received oral sex once before and said it was on holiday. However last night he told me that he lied and it was ...

Is it odd that a strong personality like this guy I had a fling with, wanted the woman to take charge romantically/sexually?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4500 days ago

30 December 2011 (F) - I had a fling with a guy (all we wanted from each other) which was around a month long. It was something out of character for me, but I really liked him, so what the heck. Only live once. What was odd was that his bedroom personality and real wor...

Do all women taste the same?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 4500 days ago

30 December 2011 (F) - Hey everyone :) Im abit confused...me and my boyfriend got on the subject last night about givin each other oral. He said that a i tasted amazing :) which is good for both of us because we do enjoy it alot. But my question is... Do all woman tast...

I feel like a closet girlfriend. Is it time to move on?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4492 days ago

30 December 2011 (F) - Hi I'm shy slightly overweight and I've been seeing my bf of 17 months regularly. He comes over between 1 and 3 times a week, lives just 4 miles away and we love each other. I love him because he's attentive in many ways, has a lively personali...

What does it mean? My girlfriend wants sex without a condom

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4500 days ago

30 December 2011 (M) - gf wants sex without a condom, what does this mean? in all relationships i been in never had a girl ask to have sex without a condom, this is first time, bit wierd, does this mean she loves me or wants kids? ...

Is there any way I can politely ask for some foreplay?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4500 days ago

30 December 2011 (F) - My boyfriend always asks me to go down on him, he doesn't go down on me. Sometimes we have foreplay, I would like to have a little more foreplay to happen. Our sex is amazing, I just wish some more foreplay would happen and once in awhile him go ...

I started gagging when I tried oral sex on my Bf, my eyes got watery, I felt like I was gonna throw up. Now my Bf's very upset with my reaction, and doesn't want to try ever again

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4500 days ago

30 December 2011 (F) - My bf and I are both in our first serious relationship, and also inexperienced. I am more shy while hes a bit more adventurous and doesn't mind trying new things regarding physical intimacy. We haven't gone all the way, because I dont want to. But ...

Am I his Booty Call?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4500 days ago

30 December 2011 (F) - So how do you know or ask a guy if this relationship is going somewhere and that I am not just a botty call? He says he worries about me and when we fight that he misses me a lot, and gets worried if anything happened to me. I want to know if this ...

He only likes Oral sex! Is this normal?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4501 days ago

30 December 2011 (F) - Hi I'm in my late thirties and been with my husband for 16 years but he wants oral sex most of the time (or anal which he says he doesn't like but he tries because I like it, I've told him I don't). He gets oral a lot but I would like a change. He ...

He's my ex. I still love him. Why does he keep me as his FWB? How do I heal myself?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4500 days ago

30 December 2011 (F) - Hello, I will make this brief. I am a 23 year old female, who just got out of a relationship with a 22 year old male. We'll call him K. He and I had a lot happen between us that was mainly my doing, I was not ready for a relationship since I had ...

I'm 20 weeks pregnant and my boyfriend will not tell his parents. What should I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4500 days ago

29 December 2011 (F) - Dear cupid. Im 20 weeks pregnant with a baby girl. my bf of 2 years. still has not told his parents and I dont know what to do. I gave him option to leave if he wanted and he decided to stay but is still making no effort. His parents need to know ...

He cheated with me, now I am paranoid about people finding out

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4501 days ago

29 December 2011 (F) - Well i met this guy the other night and the first time we met we connected like he was the one to say this too me and that we couldn't stop looking at each other... The next night him and his girlfriend who is one of my good mates came around to m...

Would it be safe for me to meet this guy I met on a site?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4501 days ago

29 December 2011 (M) - I met a guy on the website camtogays.com ; it is a sex webcam site that works like chatroulette. he is 3 years older than me (i am 18 in high school and he is 21 in college). he goes to a college very close to my house. i did not show him my face or ...

My friend made a move on me. I pushed him away. How can I still be friends but still be clear that his move on me was not ok?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4501 days ago

29 December 2011 (M) - My best friend made a move on me a while back and i sort of freaked out at the time and pushed him away. I regret my actions at the time but he did sort of scare me. We have been friends for years but since that incident he avoids me. I still want ...

Toys for a lesbian couple?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4501 days ago

29 December 2011 (F) - what toy is best for a lesbian couple?...

I'm not sure I am doing the smart thing with this older boy ...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4501 days ago

29 December 2011 (F) - Hey. I am a freshman in highschool. This junior and I have been texting on and off for a few months now. He doesn't really talk to me in school. We just smile the casual hey what's up but not a real conversation. I really like him and I know he ...

Can I get pregnant if he only puts it half way in?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4501 days ago

29 December 2011 (F) - Hi everyone well I have this sex situation well here it is I have a boyfriend that I been with for 1 year and 3 months we only had half way in sex 4 times that was on april 1st and on and we used lubrication for some reason it feels good when he ...

I want to know how to get my wife to change her mind

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 4501 days ago

29 December 2011 (M) - My wife used to hesitantly perform fellatio. A few years ago she quit. There is no discussion. Just to bring it up pisses her off. I feel like I am worthless because she will not do this for me. I am not a kid, I am over fifty. How do I cha...

I need tips on how to give a sexy surprise!

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29 December 2011 (F) - Guys... Some advice pls.. I've been with my man 6 months and only in the last 2 months have we started sleeping together, until now I've been quite shy.. Well when I say shy I mean like its all kissing touching and then straight into it. I'm ...

Deep throating without gagging?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4502 days ago

28 December 2011 (F) - Looking to hear from fellow females on the subject of deep throating. I have been trying to do it for my man but end up gagging within seconds. Is there a good way to do it without gagging? I heard if you lay on a bed with your head hanging over the ...

She wants to wait until we're married

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4502 days ago

28 December 2011 (F) - my girlfriend wants to wait to have sex when were married, how can I control my sexual desire to her and release sexual tension without masturbating...

Why do perfectly decent guys have one night stands?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4499 days ago

28 December 2011 (F) - Two questions: 1) why do I feel like my brother is betraying me by dating the girl my ex cheated on me with? 2) why do perfectly decent guys choose to have one night stands? I turned 18 on boxing day but a month before I found out my bf cheated on...

We haven't had sex for 4 months, but b/f watches porn 4 times a week

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4477 days ago

28 December 2011 (F) - ok you all saay don't worry about the porn, it took a while and l have excepted that this man of mine will watch porn till he die, ok what do l do about he can watch pron all day or about 3 to 4 times a week, but l have not had sex for about 4 ...

After 1.5 years boyfriend wants sex but I want to wait till I'm married

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4502 days ago

28 December 2011 (F) - Me and my boyfriend have been going out for a year and a half now and he told me that he wants to have sex now, but i feel like i want to wait until im married how can i still make him feel loved without going on to have sex...

Is masturbation okay if you're saving your virginity for marriage?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 4498 days ago

28 December 2011 (F) - I am certain on not having sex before marriage as I am a christian, but I masturbate... I know its dirty and i shouldn't do it but I just love it and I can't stop, I maybe do it at least once a week. Will god forgive for masturbating since I am ...

The possibilities of sex with a bigger person?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4500 days ago

28 December 2011 (F) - So I never had a boyfriend who is quite larger than me , I'm 1261bs and 5'3 I have some fat on me but my boyfriend is 280ibs and 6'0 feet we have been dating for month and half to two months and i want to have sex with him but I'm nervous ! I never ...

I'm worried about my friend dating this creep!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4502 days ago

28 December 2011 (F) - A good friend of mine just told me she has a boyfriend. The more she told me, the worse my gut feeling got. He's been pressuring her for sex, and she's turned him down each time so far. She also says the way he talks is "too smooth" at times, like ...

B/f will not have sex if I initiate it. Is this a control issue?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4503 days ago

27 December 2011 (F) - My partner of three years does not let me initiate sex. Our sex life used to be ok but in the past year he never will have sex with me if I initiate it. we still sometimes have sex but only if he is the one to start it. I have tried everythi...

Should I see this other man? I don't want to hurt my FWB!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4503 days ago

27 December 2011 (F) - Hi everyone a bit of a complicated question here I am in a fwb sort of thing with a man I would like more with but he doesn't feel the same way being going on for 9 months now just recently I met one of my 5 brothers friends who keeps flirting with ...

Sex before a relationship? Yes or No?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 4503 days ago

27 December 2011 (M) - whats everyones thoughts on having sex before relationship? yes or ney? is it lust or love? does a girl who wants sex before relationship love that person? inputs?...

He wants a BJ but I backed out of giving him one

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 4500 days ago

27 December 2011 (?) - Hey ok i promised my Boyfriend I'd give him a BJ for the first time but when I got to his house and he *whiped it out* i paniced and said "i don't want us to get caught" he said i broke his promise now he is consently saying "u gonna back out of ...

B/f wants to have video sex

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4502 days ago

27 December 2011 (?) - My boyfriend wants to have video sex but i'm nervous and don't know what all to do in video sex Can anyone describe the feeling of having video sex??? and What all can a girl do in video sex to please her man???? ...

I'm the bread winner in the relationship, couldn't my b/f at least be good at sex?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4502 days ago

27 December 2011 (F) - Back in high school, my boyfriend was the quintessential nerdy fat kid whereas I was the shy punk chick. Now a days, he is still a bigger fellow compared to my still smaller physique. He's 6'1" and 250 lbs whereas I'm 5'3" and 115 lbs. But he is the ...

My wife has decided all sense of affection between us is over as well as our sex life

This question has 17 answers - newest was posted 4500 days ago

27 December 2011 (M) - My wife has decided all sense of affection between us is over as well as our sex life. 8 years ago, after the birth of our 3rd child, she convinced me to have a vasectomy so we would not have any more children. Immediately afterwards, my wife's ...

I'm really confused. Do I stay with my BF or go to this other guy? And how will it affects the kids?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4503 days ago

26 December 2011 (F) - Need advice please. I have been with the father of my kids for six years now. We have had our up and downs. We have even split up a few times and got back together within days. About 1 1/2 years ago I started my job unknowing at the time that this...

Do I throw away my FWB 1.5 year relationship?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4503 days ago

26 December 2011 (F) - I've been seeing.. Well, more like a FWB to a man we'll call J for about a year and a half. I care a lot about him but our relationship has never really gotten deeper than sex. Well for J it seems. I've mentioned that I would like us to be more, but ...

18 year old virgin getting married don't know anything about romance

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4503 days ago

26 December 2011 (F) - hello , im 18 years and 6 months from now im going to get married I don't know anything about sex I never had sex and I know how to have sex but I don't what man and wife doing in bed before having sex do they talk or laugh or i dont im still a ...

My Bf thought I was a virgin, because I lied. But someone sent a pix to him disproving that. How do I fix this?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4502 days ago

26 December 2011 (F) - Please don't judge me, I know what I did was wrong. But when I meet my current boyfriend I couldn't believe having found such a lovely guy. Having been used by guys in the past, my previous relationship were just sex. No love at all. But this guy ...

How do I hide that I'm no longer a virgin?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 4501 days ago

26 December 2011 (F) - I am deeply in love with a boy.one day i mate((sex) with a condam) with his at that time my hyman was broken and bleeded. now he doesn't have any interest in me so can i get marry another person? if so can that person know about my virginity? what i ...

Should I tell my mother that I have a boyfriend? I'm not sure she can handle the truth without flipping out

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4501 days ago

26 December 2011 (M) - I am bi sexual and I have a boyfriend. My parents dont know. I don't know if I should tell my parents, because my mother flipped out when my sister told hert she was bi-sexual i dont know what to do....

I want to have the courage to say to him that I want to be able to introduce him as my boyfriend and not my cousin.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4504 days ago

26 December 2011 (F) - Me and my cousin have always been close but just recently we were celebrating a family birthday, so we were both a bit drunk and when we were finally alone he kissed me and I didn't pull away. That night we ended up making love and it was the b...