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Sex: Help and advice

It seems impossible to satisfy her sexually and it's giving me second thoughts

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 1638 days ago

31 October 2019 (M) - My girlfriend of 8 months is unhappy with the amount of sex in our relationship. Tonight we had (in my opinion) a nice date and then had sex for 30 minutes ~ 1 hour and when I took her home, she just sat in pissed off silence the whole way (30 ...

My boyfriend gets nasty when I don't do what he wants!

This question has 16 answers - newest was posted 1637 days ago

30 October 2019 (F) - My boyfriend gets nasty and angry if I don't spend the night staying over with him every weekend and refuses to come over to see me and take me out for the day because I wont do what he wants which is stayover and have sex all night and day. the ...

Why does a guy have sex with 2 women in two sexual relationships? Has the first dropped the ball? Why is one not good enough?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 1637 days ago

29 October 2019 (F) - I'd like to know why and how a man can have a sexual relationship with two different women concurrently? Why isn't one enough? Does that mean he isn't attracted enough to the first one? Or doesn't love her enough? Or she isn't satisfying him? ...

Husband’s Weight Gain and Lazy, Selfish Attitude is Ruining Our Marriage

This question has 16 answers - newest was posted 1636 days ago

28 October 2019 (F) - My husband and I have been married a little over a year and it has been extremely difficult. When we were dating he was so sweet and so generous, I honestly never imagined we would ever be struggling like we are now. I expected a marriage where we ...

Nowhere to relieve tension living in cramped quarters. What can I do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 1643 days ago

26 October 2019 (M) - My mom, my three sisters and me live in the upstairs of our pastor's garage. People from our church built it into an apartment for us when they found out we were living in a family shelter. That was nice of them but it's got a real narrow kitchen ...

Am I settling to accept deep compatibility and companionship and a medium level of sexual attraction?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 1642 days ago

26 October 2019 (F) - Hi all, I am looking for some advice. Basically, my question is how attracted do you need to be to your partner for a relationship to last? I’ve seen a lot of people asking questions about not being attracted at all versus intense passion, but what ...

On the first date she said she loved me, then made love to me and said she doesn't remember a thing.

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 1648 days ago

23 October 2019 (M) - Would love ya’lls thoughts on the following story. This is part one of 2. I’m currently feeling drained and completely destroyed by a woman. Please help me decipher the type of woman she is and where I went wrong. Me: 38yrs old, above average...

My partner says we should be having sex 4 times a day

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 1651 days ago

18 October 2019 (F) - My partner of 11 yrs told me we should be having sex four times a day. I don't think that's very realistic. Is it time to release him to seek other people who want to spend the time he wants in sexual activity?...

My girlfriend has never had an orgasm in 4 years!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 1651 days ago

17 October 2019 (M) - I realised my girlfriend has never really had much of an orgasm. She never expects one, and doesn’t really let me do much apart from normal sex until I cum. She is very passionate in making out etc. It’s got to a point I need to make her feel co...

I'm having a tough time with my new, older boyfriend.

This question has 16 answers - newest was posted 1656 days ago

11 October 2019 (F) - Hi There is this guy at work and for some time now he has deffinately been trying to chat me up ,the thing is im on work experience. He is probably in his 40's.A few weeks ago we went out and it got more serious and eventually soon after we ended up...

Was I too harsh on my boyfriend when he suggested anal sex?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 1659 days ago

8 October 2019 (F) - I flipped out at my boyfriend for suggesting we have anal sex and now I feel really guilty. Did I overreact? We’re both 17. Last night he was round at my house and we were about to have normal sex but I realised I’d run out of condoms. So instead we ...

Is it ever OK to meet an online contact for sex?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 1659 days ago

7 October 2019 (F) - Is it ever Ok to meet an online date for a hook up? I am not looking for anything serious but have been online dating for about 6 months. This one guy who favourited me and I was messaging gave me his whatsapp and keeps asking me to come over being ...

I jumped in too fast with a not yet divorced man and decided to cool things. Did I make the right choice?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 1665 days ago

7 October 2019 (F) - Woe is me ...not really but kind of- I met an amazing guy about 3 weeks ago while I was visiting family. I used to live in this city and I often consider relocating back so that isn't an issue. He and I hit it off well because we both are sober a...

I had sex before marriage. I don't want my husband to know

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 1663 days ago

6 October 2019 (F) - i'm a 23 years old non-virgin girl. As a teenager i used to do sex with my bf. We are still together. But from past two years we stopped to do sex. But now as a jobless he cannot marry me and my situation is not so good. So i have to marry a ...

How do I tell my boyfriend of 3 years that I've been faking my orgasms?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 1667 days ago

4 October 2019 (F) - Hi. I've been going out with my boyfriend for 3 years. I'm ashamed to admit it but I've been faking orgasms. He has managed to give me real ones periodically but it isn't the norm. I did it because I wanted to keep him happy and make him feel good. ...

My wife says she's bored of sex

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 1649 days ago

1 October 2019 (M) - I’m really annoyed with my wife because she’s pretty much called time on our sex life, saying she’s just bored of sex and doesn’t need it anymore. But I’ve only been sexually active for 8 years and am definitely not ready to call time on mine just ...