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Archived questions from: November, 2009 (see latest in Sex category)

Sex: Help and advice

I feel as if I'm not attractive to her any more as she never wants to make love to me...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5254 days ago

30 November 2009 (M) - Dear reader, I've been with my girl for the past 3 years, we've had our share of problems, like every couple must see. But during the last 3 or 4 months she has not been very interested in sexual contact. When I talk to her about it she always sa...

What can he do to make me climax?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5254 days ago

30 November 2009 (F) - My boyfriend can't make me cum! We're not having intercourse, but we do have oral and he fingers me. I've made him cum dozens of times! It's not hard at all! What he does to me feels amazing and I really like it, but he says that he feels bad for ...

What do girls like the most...???

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5254 days ago

30 November 2009 (M) - I dont mean to sound unromantic about it but i want to know the best way to pleasure a girl, I want to take my girlfriend on a date to her favorite restaurant and then have some fun afterwards on like our aniversary and i want to know what girls ...

I need your help! How can I get my boyfriend to stop having sex with me until we are married?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5239 days ago

30 November 2009 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been together for a year and almost 2 months. In the beginning we completely fell in love with each other and had so much fun together. We first had sex together about 2 and a half weeks after we had started dating. We ...

Super cautious NOT to get pregnant...

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5254 days ago

30 November 2009 (F) - My bf and I just had sex for the second time and he made sure the condom was on, every 5 minutes, and when he was about to ejaculate we took it off then i did oral sex on him, when we were done i checked if the condomwas leaking or anything and ...

His size is affecting our relationship. What should I do?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 5251 days ago

30 November 2009 (F) - This may not sound as important but it is to me. I dated my former boyfriend for almost 7 months. All was well, especially the sex because he was well endowed. We broke up recently then i met someone else who is incredibly small. He's a great guy ...

Unprotected sex with an ex, could I be pregnant?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5250 days ago

30 November 2009 (F) - My ex boyfriend and i just had unprotected sex 3 days ago which was November 28, 2009 the day rite after my period or 2 days after one of the two, im scared because he nutted in me and i know there is a hiqh chance of qetting pregnant ... he ...

Although the sex is terrific, I never orgasm with him. Should I bring this up with him?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5254 days ago

30 November 2009 (F) - How or would you tell a man that although the sex is terrific, you don't have an orgasm with him? With another man, I can climax multiple times, but the sex seems mechanical. With the first guy, I am satisfsed more although I never cum with h...

Sex has grown pointless to me. Do I need help?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5254 days ago

30 November 2009 (F) - I'm wondering if this is normal or not. Everytime I get physical with a guy it never does anything for me. No amount of fingering, oral sex or sex in general feels good to me at all. I've never had an orgasm from someone else and it's just ...

I am in a relationship for 5 months but cannot have proper sex

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5254 days ago

30 November 2009 (F) - Me and my boyfriend are in a comited relationship since 5months.we culdn't hav proper sex as his penis penetrated only half..i don't kno why this is hapening..plz giv sugestions....

Best positions for full penetration??

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5254 days ago

30 November 2009 (F) - I have been in a committed relationship with my boyfrnd for 5 months. Yesterday we had intercourse but only half of his penis penetrated me even although I was lubricated enough. I want to know the reason behind this and why he couldn't penetrate ...

Could someone help me on a couple sex questions?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5254 days ago

30 November 2009 (F) - i would like to know the chances of getting pregnant if the male has had a std for more then 2 months. i dont know all the details because i am doing this for my friend. but i would also like to know how do you know if you are allergic to a condom?...

What do men experience during their 'first time'? How can I help him?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5254 days ago

30 November 2009 (F) - I have a boyfriend who is a year younger than i am. He is 18 and i am ninteen. We have been together for a year and half now and he wants to lose his virginity with me. I am not a virgin, but i really dont know how will i "guide him." We have talked ...

Is casual sex a bad thing? Will I regret it?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5254 days ago

30 November 2009 (M) - I'm 19 and to be honest...really horny. I masturbate probably too much (it may not hurt you but there is a point when its addiction for some people). I've always really wanted to have sex. I'm a virgin. I've tried going out with girls with no ...

He wanted sex and I said no, so he broke up with me. Did I do the right thing?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5254 days ago

30 November 2009 (F) - Hi friends, I need to talk to you,I would like some advice and but I don't want to go into full detail, but hopefully enough for you to help me. I had been dating this guy for 2 months until tonight. He ended things, because we were not havi...

How can this be rape when I'm of legal age? His grandmother says she's going to call the cops!

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 5253 days ago

30 November 2009 (F) - I'm 17. I keep getting caught having sex with my boyfriend by his grandparents. He's 19. Yes he lives with his gparents they need help around the house. His grandmother said tht if we have sex then thts rape. How can this be rape when I'm at a legal ...

Is it possible that my husband is gay?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5249 days ago

30 November 2009 (F) - I have been married for a year. My husband hasn't slept with me most of that time. We have sex then he gets out of bed and sleeps on the coach. He never comes to bed till it's almost time for me to get up. This just isn't a normal marriage. A ...

How do I tell her that I don't want her to always be the dominant one?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5255 days ago

30 November 2009 (F) - My girlfriend and I have sex often, however she is the more dominate one I think she believes that she should be the only one who touches or gives pleasure,however I am not that kind of lover I too would like to pleasure her I don't know what to do ...

He doesn't want a relationship, just sex!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5250 days ago

29 November 2009 (F) - i like this boy and i would love a relationship with him but we were talking earlier tongight and we got onto the conversation of relationships and he told me he didnt want a relationship, just sex. im still a virgin but im 16. should i go for the ...

What do guys like to have done to them?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5255 days ago

29 November 2009 (F) - What do guys like to have done to them?...

Am I wrong to tell him no?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5255 days ago

29 November 2009 (F) - i have been with my bf for 4 years, if he could he would have sex everyday but for some reason i dont want it as often as we used to, if i say no he gets really angry and i often just give in to keep him happy. Is it wrong for me not to want sex as ...

How do suggest to my girlfriend that I'd prefer it if she shaved down there...?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5253 days ago

29 November 2009 (M) - I was intimate with my girlfriend the other night, it was great. But her it was really hairy down there and i thought it as a turn off. I'd prefer it shaved like, it would feel 'nicer'. But i dont know how to go about asking her. It's no big deal, I ...

Should I get the morning after pill just to be on the safe side?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5255 days ago

29 November 2009 (F) - Last night I got extremely drunk at a party and ended up having sex with one of my guy friends. We used protection, because I remember that I insisted on it, and even when he pulled out we kept the condom on until he came, but i'm worried about what ...

I want a sex toy and I'm only 16..how do I go about that?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5254 days ago

29 November 2009 (?) - Why is clitorial stimulation not enough? I want to stay a virgin but when I masterbate I dont just want clitorial stimulation. I am not old enough to get a 'toy' for not just my clitoris but others(vaginal) So my question is what do I do...

My husband has gone impotent...what happened?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4494 days ago

29 November 2009 (F) - Do some man goes impotent without any cause? Is there always a cause? My husband is 48, and he is impotent, he went to doctors,they didn't find anything wrong with him. They just say, oh every man becomes a bit impotent in their 40 s.Well, I can't ...

I just want to make her feel good!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5255 days ago

29 November 2009 (M) - Latly my girlfriend and I have been really going at it when we make out. Latly we have been dong this thing where we will position ourselves in a way where I put my leg between hers and she locks it there and we kinda "grind" together. She really ...

Why do guys always only want sex?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5255 days ago

29 November 2009 (F) - This might take a while but I really need help, please answer if you can. I'm in my final year at school and I have always thought this guy in my year is really nice, gorgeous and a nice personality. I never even thought about me and him being ...

He's done it all and I want sex but I'm afraid he's too big!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5244 days ago

29 November 2009 (F) - Ok, this guy that I really like is a year and a half older than me. I am a virgin, but he has done everything. I would love to do everything with him and I am ready to give it all up for him. The only problem is I've seen his dick on webcam and it's ...

Good friend I don't want to lose but no physical spark

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5255 days ago

29 November 2009 (M) - Question: Should I still be looking for sex in a relationship? I have been introduced to a very independent lady by a friend. This lady is solvent, lovely, kind, has a caring personality, good job and no children. She was happily married up t...

He got cum all over my stomach, am I pregnant?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5255 days ago

29 November 2009 (F) - Am i pregnant!!! the other night i gave my boyfriend oral he ejaculated over my stomach about 1 minute later i ran to the toilet rubbed water and soap on me then showered the soap off is ther a possibility that i could be pregnant x...

Sex existed before religion, and is the reason for relationships

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5254 days ago

29 November 2009 (M) - Relationship is problem, perhaps most fatal problem. All destructive event like murder to suicide occur from bad terms of relations. It is also true that men cannot live without relating with something or with someone. So, it is quite necessary to ...

She trusts me but wont say she loves me

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5256 days ago

29 November 2009 (M) - well i dont really know where to start. I'm 17 years old, she is 18 years old, we started out friends, then good friends, then two weeks before the end of school last year i finally grabbed her hand and kissed her like 10 minutes later lol. now 6 ...

How can I keep my jaw from hurting so fast when I give him oral sex?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5253 days ago

29 November 2009 (F) - Ok so I'm seventeen and have a nineteen year old boyfriend, we have sex a lot and use protection. I feel that our love life is missing something. He does oral sex real good and I think that I suck! I don't know how to make oral sex fun for him. ...

I am ready to move on to the next stage with my girl

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5255 days ago

29 November 2009 (M) - So me and my girlfriend have been together for about a year and 3 months now, but we havent gone any further than making out without shirts. We talk openly about topics like sex and such but not about US doing that, and im sure she wouldnt do that ...

I hurt when I pee...how can I prevent this?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5255 days ago

29 November 2009 (F) - I'm seventeen and have sex with my boyfriend who's 19 I hurt alot when I pee and I always have utis what can I do to prevent this ??. ...

My boyfriend wont sleep with me, but keeps me dangling.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5255 days ago

29 November 2009 (F) - I am good at giving advice to others but when it comes to myself; I am useless. Anyway my problem isn't a complicated one but does need insightful advice. I've been with my partner for four months but have known him as a friend for two years an...

Who "popped the cherry"

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5256 days ago

29 November 2009 (F) - hi everyone...I have sort of a dumb question to ask but here it goes. Well about a month ago me and my boyfriend had sex, I'm not a virgin and neither is he. I'll explain more. My first time was over the summer, after a few times..more then a few; ...

I kept it all in the familiy and slept with his brother

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5255 days ago

29 November 2009 (F) - I slept with my current Boyfriends brother about 3 years ago, at the time I had broke up with my boyfriend because a)he moved in with his pregnant gf b)he hit me with my daughter(his 1st kid)in my arms, c)cheated on me with 3 different girls. ...

Am I just a booty call?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5256 days ago

29 November 2009 (F) - Ok, here goes I am recently divorced after 14 years of marriage. The last 2 years of my marriage were really hard and I clocked marriage then. I have a crush on my next door neighbor and it has been going on for about 1 year. Recently he has been ...

Until it stinks!!!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5253 days ago

28 November 2009 (M) - Can anyone tell me why a vagina might smell after sex?...

I'm tormented by the fact that she's had a 'bigger' man than I

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 5253 days ago

28 November 2009 (M) - My girlfriend has just recently told me (because my dum ass ask) that she was with a guy so thick she felt pain and once had to see the doctor. to me is like (lucky bastard) i guess i think that's like every man's dream to be able to just do that to ...

Will my feelings for my boyfriend change after an FFM threesome?

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 5198 days ago

28 November 2009 (F) - So I was WONDERING, if my boyfriend and I end up having a threesome, with another woman, whats the likely it'll bring us closer? Or I wont feel the same about him?...

I don't trust my girlfriend now she wants to video us having sex...

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 5256 days ago

28 November 2009 (M) - My Girlfriend has been insisting on to video tape us having sex....I refused. She is kind of mad now. Yeah I asked her why....she said just for memory. I didnt buy that idea. After a couple of months or years I might be on porn sites. pls if u have ...

How do I act when my girlfriend gives me a blow job?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5255 days ago

28 November 2009 (M) - My girlfriend wants to give me head or bj (i think there the same thing but whatever) because she wants to make me "happy" and she is persitant about it so when she does how am i suppose to react?...

Sex with husband is just getting bad and he won't change his technique!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5253 days ago

28 November 2009 (F) - [Mod note: I'm guessing this person is not actually 14.] I'm not enjoying sex with my husband and this is getting worse over the past 5 years. It is not that I don't enjoy sex (I have had some other 'engagements') or that I don't love my husband....

Sex in the car didn't feel right to him...what's going on?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5239 days ago

28 November 2009 (F) - ok, so heres alittle backround..i have been with him for two years, and we had sex for the first time a year and a half ago. We have never had problems with it, and it has never interfered with our relationship. However, we have done it in ...

My virgin girlfriend doesn't want to have sex. What do I do now?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 5255 days ago

28 November 2009 (M) - I have a girlfriend and she is a virgin and i want 2 hav sex with her but she refused.so i don't know what 2 do....

What are these small lumps and pimples?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5256 days ago

28 November 2009 (F) - hello,im embarrass already but since recently these little lumps keep showing up on my vagina(vulva)and trust me they are very painful.yes sexually active but i have always practiced safe sex so i dnt think its a std moreover,when ever i shave these ...

Used for sex - what do I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5256 days ago

28 November 2009 (F) - hi, im 19yrs old and i met this guy on campus. at first i jus liked him as a friend untill we started going out often,then kissing and touching alot. i developed feelings for him. he gave me signs that he liked me back and told me that i could be is ...

I know guys do, but do girls cum too?

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 5248 days ago

28 November 2009 (M) - Why and how do girls cum? I know us guys can but gals?...