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Archived questions from: January, 2009 (see latest in Sex category)

Sex: Help and advice

Sex and regrets

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5557 days ago

31 January 2009 (F) - Well, i am a roman catholic. I have been with my boyfriend for about 1 year, 2 and a half months. And today, yes, we had sex. (He is also roman catholic) And now im feeling guilty :/ and a bit .. confused. I always told my self i would wait...

How can I be as hot as a porn star?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5528 days ago

31 January 2009 (F) - How can I be as hot as a porn star? I'm really adventurous in bed, but how can I be really hot? Equally hot as a porn star? I'm not trying to make my bf stop watching (he's not addicted and he's offered to stop, but I don't want to control hi...

My boyfriend's penis smells!!!

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5223 days ago

31 January 2009 (F) - Okay this is really embarrassing but I have a sex problem. I've been going out with my man for close to four years and the sex is good, when we do have it. I want to please him and stuff, I love to give oral sex and have been told I'm very very good ...

I'm scared shitless in case I don't come up to her standards re sex!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5557 days ago

31 January 2009 (?) - Ok this is the problem I'm in, I've been with a girl for 1 year since I was 15. Well now I'm 16 and gonna join the army etc. Well my girlfriend wants to take our relationship up to he next level by having intercourse. I've done the minor stuff ...

Explicit!! Guys: how much do you notice when a girl clenches her abs really hard during sex?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5556 days ago

31 January 2009 (F) - I can never tell the difference when I do kegels during intercourse, but I notice a TREMENDOUS difference when I clench my abs as hard as I can. There is a huge increase in sensitivity and pleasure for me, the female. So, I spend 60%+ of my time ...

I always end up giving my friend oral sex!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4744 days ago

31 January 2009 (F) - I really need some help. For the past year there is this guy that I used to work with. When working together we would run off after work and fool around. Now that I don't work there any more we still talk and I'll go see him on his lunch hour and I ...

I am very confused at the moment, I seem to lack any kind of emotion...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5557 days ago

31 January 2009 (M) - Hi, I am very confused at the moment, I seem to lack any kind of emotion, I have completely gone off sex (with my wife only) I feel a great urge to have sex in massage parlours, on sex chat lines and I seem to want to live out fantasies of the woman ...

Will I bleed the first time we have sex?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5557 days ago

31 January 2009 (F) - I want to have sex with my boyfriend for the first time, but I am scared I'm going to bleed. He has fingered me 2 times, and I use my fingers when I masturbate too. I haven't seen any blood yet. Will I bleed the first time we have sex?...

Infections in having anal sex???

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5556 days ago

31 January 2009 (F) - Today I lost my anal virginity to my boyfriend of 7 months but what I didn't actually know [until today] was that you can't use the same condom/finger/whatever in the anus and vagina.. Is there a chance I could get some sort of infection??? and if ...

How can I experience sex for the first time without thinking about the pain???

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5539 days ago

31 January 2009 (F) - I've been dating my boyfriend for almost a year and a half and we're both really wanting to have sex but I'm always so scared to. I'll decide that I really want to try and then when it comes down to it I get so scared about the pain that I'm getting ...

When should I tell him about my past?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5554 days ago

31 January 2009 (F) - I'd like your advice and i'd be grateful if any male could also give me advice and women :). i'm curently chattin with a guy hes 24 i'm 18. its been nearly a month and we have had lots of arguments mostly my fault and we always make up....but its ...

I'm scared when its time to have sex I'm going to get sick!

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31 January 2009 (F) - In a couple of months i'm due to get married to my faince, we've been together for a long time, haven't had sex justed kissed, (i prefered to get married and have sex so i stuck to my oath) and then he proposed to me so i said yes. But the problem ...

To shave? Or leave it?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 5443 days ago

31 January 2009 (F) - Hi...im a 14 year old girl and i have my first boyfriend now and we have been going out for a couple of months and i think he wants to have sex! i dont know what to do,do i shave off all my pubic hair?? please help...:)x ...

It feels like he just wants to do it and get it over with

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5557 days ago

31 January 2009 (F) - me and my boyfriend have been together for just over a year and we used to have a very active sex life, we used to have sex practically everyday sometimes more than once a day. but in the past month we have hardly had sex at all, i think it's been ...

Did I just experience an orgasm?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5259 days ago

31 January 2009 (F) - I need your help girls. I need to know if this was an orgasm or not... when my bf would finger me on my clitoris I would start getting short breaths and making noises and breathing heavily and very very fast and I would grasp him very very tight... ...

Typical dating timeline?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5557 days ago

31 January 2009 (F) - I have been talking with a guy for a few weeks now. Having never been in a real relationship before I am unaware of the “typical dating timeline.” So far we have made out and done a bit clothes-on fondling, but nothing else. I really want him to ...

I offered to have sex with my gay friend to "turn him straight"! What now?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5279 days ago

31 January 2009 (F) - I'm going to be 16 soon. I've known this gay friend for years now and we're really good friends. I tell him everything and vice versa. A while ago, he was really depressed because the guy he likes for a long time finally decided to tell him the ...

I love him but I didn't want to have sex

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5542 days ago

31 January 2009 (F) - im a 22yrs old and i lost my virginity last month to my bf of 11 months. i was saving my self for marriage b\c its part of my religion. my bf pressured me into doing it but i started to cry during it and he stopped. the next day he tried again and i ...

Had drunk sex with a friend is there still a chance?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5556 days ago

31 January 2009 (F) - Ok this is a really confusing and complex situation and I need some guys point of view on this but ladies feel free to help ;) I've been friends with this great guy for about a year now and we went to college together. We're both pretty much...

She's inexperienced. How can I teach her?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5558 days ago

31 January 2009 (M) - ok so my lover and i are very much in love we make out every time we see each other we have not had sex yet but we are joanzing to! i do alot of things to her like foreplay and oral but she is new at this and doesnt know how to do anything and i ...

Do guys know if you're a virgin when you have sex for the first time?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5556 days ago

31 January 2009 (F) - When you have sex for the first time, is there a different feeling for guys like do they feel you a virgin or the feeling is the same to when you are not one? Like how people say I'm tight and you loose? Is that really true?...

Masturbation...

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31 January 2009 (F) - I was reading about masturbation recently and I just wondered how to do it properly because some times I don't reach orgasm. I don't really want a toy yet so I just use my fingers to stimulate my clitoris, but I don't really know how to do it ...

Is he using me? What should I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5558 days ago

30 January 2009 (F) - Ok I lust for this boy in my health class and we started talkin for about 2 months and I decided to give him my virginity which I now regret.after we stopped talkin to each other after we had sex I realize that he used me .a month later he called m...

Please help! I don't know what is happening

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5557 days ago

30 January 2009 (F) - This is yet another annoying teacher-student-love question. But really, this is getting out of hand for me. I had this teacher in year 7 (Mr S I'll call him) and by the end of that year obviously I started 'fancying' him. I had him the next year as ...

Is my boyfriend trying to bribe me into having sex with him?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5558 days ago

30 January 2009 (F) - Is my boyfriend trying to bribe me into having sex with him? We had that talk last night and I said, "I wasn't ready." It was cool. But this afternoon he text me something like... a co-worker told me that his wife text him '911 I want sex' And he...

I can't tell my friends what I am doing

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5557 days ago

30 January 2009 (F) - hi im not really sure if there is a question in this, im so confused, i think i just needed your opinion on my situation as i cant talk to friends about it i have a best lad friend who i trust with my life and everything in it, we began fooling...

Penis preference - a poll!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5555 days ago

30 January 2009 (M) - The questions is, if you had a choice between three people who were exactly the same, both in character and in looks, except for the size of their penises, one big - in this case big would mean the maximum that you can take without causing any pain ...

Submissive and wants my permission to masturbate!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5557 days ago

30 January 2009 (F) - I met this guy online, cute, successful, seemed absolutely normal. We have seen each other twice each time for 24 hours straight and have talked on the phone for probably the past month. Extremely physically attracted to each other as well. Have ...

How do I make my boyfriend more sexual with me?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5543 days ago

30 January 2009 (F) - I'm 14 and me and my boyfriend are the perfect couple but he not as sexual as I want him to be. How do I loosen him up? And I also want to give him oral. should I?...

Should I have sex with a boy I lust for if I already have a boyfriend?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5558 days ago

30 January 2009 (F) - Ok well Im 14 and I had sex with this boy that I was talkin to for 2 months and I always liked him the first time I saw him, and also we have health class together. anyways after we had sex a couple of days later I didn't talk to him for like a ...

He says if we're not 'intimate', he won't introduce me as his girlfriend?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5558 days ago

30 January 2009 (F) - My boyfriend and I had the 'sex' talk last night. He's been making comments, jokes about us having sex, so I set him straight and said, 'I'm not ready.' He was respectful and we continued on... We're all lovey dovey. But he did say, "I want to ...

What are some hot, sexy party games we can play?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5558 days ago

30 January 2009 (M) - hey i am having a get together with my lover and some of our friends and was wondering does anyone have any ideas for some hot party games sexy, kinky, sweet or otherwise plz and thank you...

I would love to give him oral too...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5558 days ago

30 January 2009 (?) - My boyfriend gives me oral sex but he never asks me... but I really want to do it. What should I do? I'm afraid of what he might think of me if one day after he gives me oral I just bend down and give him oral, what do you think?...

Still haven't had my cycle yet and I'm beginning to fear I'm pregnant.

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5558 days ago

30 January 2009 (?) - Hello I'm 14 years old and I had sex with my boyfriend on January 15 2009 and today is January 30 2009 and I still haven't had a cycle. I'm starting to feel a little different. I really believe I am pregant. Yes I have told my boyfriend and he is ...

Have I advertised "I want sex ASAP" because I talked about birth control?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5558 days ago

30 January 2009 (F) - To start off- I'm 19 and a virgin and my boyfriend is 25 and not. We were talking last night about contraception and I told him that I've just started the pill perscription to be on the safe side but want to use a condom as well. He was a bit odd ...

How can I stop feeling pressured about sex?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5558 days ago

30 January 2009 (M) - I'm in a new relationship that is going well, however he keeps bringing up sex. He says he has a high sex drive and would like to have sex everyday but that he doesn't have to. I myself have a lower sex drive and i tend to shy away from talking ...

Will having sex make me feel any better?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5559 days ago

30 January 2009 (M) - i recently went through a pretty rough breakup with a girl i had been dating for nearly 3 years (she was my first)... and every once in a while it still hits me pretty hard... i have been getting involved with someone in a "friends with be...

I think he's ready for sex but I'm a virgin and not sure I'm ready!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5558 days ago

30 January 2009 (F) - im kinda nervous about this but i need to know.My boyfriend may be ready to have sex,and hes told me he has before.Im still a virgin and I was wondering if i should or not.Ive heard its gonna hurt really bad and i hate pain but im not sure.Any ...

We're too young for sex...how can I make her orgasm?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5548 days ago

30 January 2009 (M) - im 15 years old and i have been dating my girlfriend for a few months, i dont want to have sex yet cause we are too young, wat would be the best way i could give her an orgasm without intercorse?...

When can I talk to her about sex?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5559 days ago

30 January 2009 (M) - me and my gf have been together 4 2weeks and 4days.when do i talk to her about sex? by the way im 14 and she15...

I think my mum is just trying to scare me to put me off having sex too soon.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5559 days ago

29 January 2009 (F) - hey, I'm 16 and thinking about having sex with my boyfriend. I'm on the pill and we're going to use a condom. The thing is my mum has made me really paranoid about having sex. We had a talk the other day about Sex and she said knowing my family's ...

I'm not going to let him have his way, I want him to take me serious.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5559 days ago

29 January 2009 (F) - What the heck?!? My boyfriend of a few days kept joking around and making comments about having sex. So, I figured that I should mention 'no sex' yet. I want to get to know him better and not rush into it! Basically, I'm not ready yet. His respo...

How do you know if your cherry has popped?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5558 days ago

29 January 2009 (F) - I am a virgin and I had to wear tampons for swimming. I also have been fingered a couple of times. I don't know if my cherry popped or not. How do I know?...

I don't want to give blowjobs but it seems like a problem.

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 5558 days ago

29 January 2009 (F) - Every time I make out with a guy they always go down on me or should I say oral sex but I feel bad because they lay back expecting me to do the same thing to them which I can never do because it seems disgusting!!! I know it's unfair for them but I ...

I never think about having sex with my boyfriend, or I am NEVER in the mood.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5557 days ago

29 January 2009 (F) - I have a HUGE problem! I'm a 22 year old Nursing student... I'll be 23 Feb 28th and I never care to have sex. I am healty, 5'1'' 140lbs, work out regularly and I am usually a very sexual person, and always think about looking sexy or feeling sexy. ...

Does Pineapple Juice Make it Taste Better?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5270 days ago

29 January 2009 (M) - Ladies, does drinking pineapple juice and eating fruits really make a man's semen taste better?...

Do guys really like when a girl sticks fingers or toys up the males bum?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5559 days ago

29 January 2009 (F) - Do guys really like when a girl sticks fingers or toys up the males bum? I have a few guy friends that say they like it around but not in. I have another male friend that says to help my boyfriend out with the whole anal thing but I feel ...

Why don't I want to have sex any more?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5559 days ago

29 January 2009 (M) - Me and my girlfriend have been dating for over a year. At first I wanted to have sex all the time and loved it. Now I don't feel like doing it that much and she thinks that I don't lover her. I do. What's with my decreased sex drive. ...

I was wondering is there a chance there could have been sperm on his penis from the first round?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5558 days ago

29 January 2009 (F) - Me and my boyfriend were having sex today, we used contraception and I'm going on the pill when my next period is due but anyway we were having sex and he came and everything that was round one. Round two we were having sex and the condom ripped ...

My molers get in the way when I give him oral sex!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5559 days ago

29 January 2009 (F) - Okay so I have a problem! My boyfriend loves oral sex but that is a big problem. You see my boyfriend has a very large penis. Not only is it long but it is fat but you see my teeth get in the way because he is so big. Not my front teeth my my back ...