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Archived questions from: 16 July, 2009 (see latest in Sex category)

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Sex: Help and advice

I don't want to be a trophy or a toy to him. How do I know if he feels the same?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 129 days ago

16 July 2009 (F) - I'm kind of stuck in such a classic situation: really like a guy but I don't know if he's feeling the same! It all started when I met Stefan last winter at a job fair organised by the uni he goes to. We flirted a bit but that was it as I was stil...

Does my husband have the Madonna/Whore complex?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 125 days ago

16 July 2009 (F) - My husband of over a decade avoids looking at me when I am undressed and when we have sex. Lately I have let him continue his conversations with me while I change clothes right in front of him just to see how he reacts. I wait in the nude for a ...

Do I miss my ex or just the routine and familiarity?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 130 days ago

16 July 2009 (F) - I was with someone for 9months when he started pressuaring me for sex, I panicked and didn't know what to do. I had been friends with this other boy for years and we got on really well, at about the same time I found out he liked me, he made me ...

Should I have an affair just to get sex?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 130 days ago

16 July 2009 (F) - I need some help. My husband and I have been together for 7 years (married for 2). My husband doesn't want to have sex. I always try but he is never interested. I rarely have the courage to talk to him but when I do he either says he doesn't ...

She tricked me into thinking she's a freak so I'd go out with her!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 130 days ago

16 July 2009 (M) - My girlfriend refuses to be intimate with me. Like when we met she was being all freaky with me and stuff sending me nasty text messages about how she was gonna suck me up and stuff. But as soon as we got together for a serious relationship it was ...

Is it really ED or does he just find me repulsive?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 129 days ago

16 July 2009 (F) - my partner suffers from errectyle dysfuction and for the last 12 months he has not only totally gone of any sexual contact he has also stopped holding or cuddling me and kissing me if i try to get a cuddle or a kiss he pushes me away,he refuses to ...

4 Drinks, 2 Cougars, 1 Pole, and a Baby

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 130 days ago

16 July 2009 (F) - My boyfriend is significantly older than myself. We go to bars together and women significantly older than both of our ages added together usually gravitate to us and begin random conversations. In these conversations, they tend to be overly ...

My boyfriend is an ass, a jerk, inconsiderate and makes me cry

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 129 days ago

16 July 2009 (F) - Okay, same guy if you've read my questions before. Last night me and my boyfriend were doing things sexually, and i couldnt get him off...this has happend a couple times before and hes drunk...its been an hour or more and he still wants me to keep ...

I know he is selfish...how can I get that to change without ruining his self-esteem?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 130 days ago

16 July 2009 (F) - I have had an unsatisfying sex life when it comes to having the act with a male. I have pleasured myself successfully most times and have no problems having an orgasm then within 15 minutes or less. When I am with someone of the opposite sex I ...

What it is that he wants?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 130 days ago

16 July 2009 (F) - I met up with this guy twice. We ended up having sex both times. Due to distance and busy lives we haven't seen each other in a while. He didn't say it, but it was obvious that he just wanted sex, nothing more. Which is completely fine with me, to...

Morning after first time sex and I'm sick! what could it be?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 127 days ago

16 July 2009 (F) - okay so you dont need details so i wont make this too long!.. but yesterday my parents went away and because im an only child, i didnt want to be alone for the first night, so my boyfriend (of almost a year) stayed over. we got a film, pizza etc.. ...

She says she wants to be with me yet wants to lose her virginity to a guy

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 124 days ago

16 July 2009 (F) - Hey I've been with my girlfriend for 3 months. I too am a girl n for her this is her first lesbian relationship yet it is my third. However it is my first sexual lesbian relationship. Were both 17 and I have fell in really deeply and it seems sh...

Why do women place such importance on the emotional side of sex?

This question has 29 answers - newest was posted 124 days ago

16 July 2009 (M) - Okay, I have a question for both men and women. My girlfriend and I have been together for over a year. When it comes to sex, she claims to love it with me and tells me that I make her feel better than anyone has before - physically but then she ...

Pregnancy scares!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 127 days ago

16 July 2009 (F) - I'm 16 and i have had sex twice, i have used protection both times but im scared i could be pregnant. My period is only 2 days late, i have had cramp and sore breasts but i dont know if thats just my periods. My mum said to me you look like you have ...

I am 15 with a diaper fetsh, and a mom that wants me to get rid of it! Help!

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 100 days ago

16 July 2009 (M) - ok im 15 and i have a diaper fetish. i told my mom, and she keeps trying to break me out of this like its some sorta phase. i dont wanna try to get rid of it, but i dont know how to tell her. whats your oppinion on it? should i try to break my ...

Did he take advantage of me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 130 days ago

16 July 2009 (F) - Almost a month ago I had a one night fling with this guy we will call him "M", well we talked over the phone about our "fling" we both agreed that things would go back to the way they were between us. Well, last Saturday he just calls me out of the ...

Questions about masturbating....

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 131 days ago

16 July 2009 (F) - Don't judge me cuz I'm young I haven't done anything yet and I was wonder bout fingering Ive been feeling werid in the croch area and want to maybe start fingering is it normal which finger do I use I'm young and have no idea wat I'd be doing or is ...

Any tips to make me more comfortable during sex?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 129 days ago

16 July 2009 (F) - I know a lot about sex and im been sexually active just havent had intercourse i came close a few times.But im just worried about my body being exposed and my friends think im the bravest and the wildest but its like when it come to focusing on just ...

New at getting blowjobs....

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 130 days ago

16 July 2009 (M) - Hey.. Me and my gf are both new to sex and stuff. She wanted to gve me a bj. She did. It felt amazing but I think it could be better. But I don't know what to tell her to do. She swallowed on our first time tho! Which shocked me. But I'm not going ...

I have been faking an orgasm for 2 years -- now what?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 130 days ago

16 July 2009 (F) - I have been faking an orgasm for 2 years now! My boyfriend is VERY unexperienced. I was his first everything. For the first 3 months of having sex with my boyfriend, it only lasted 2 minutes (on a good day!), so...it was expected that i didn't get ...

Is he just using me and I should end this?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 130 days ago

16 July 2009 (F) - I met this guy a month in a half ago, and we have been hanging out since then. At first it was a really nice date, we did things together and then at the end we made out. We have been going to this park and hooking up, and he told me he liked me. So ...

Ideas for bedroom fun that doesn't involve intercourse?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 128 days ago

16 July 2009 (F) - Recently when my man and I are messing around, he asks "what do you want me to do to you?"... I've come up with a couple replies but I need more!!! * Sidenote were trying to postpone intercourse until later on in the relationship so thats kinda o...

Falling for my son's coach, even though he's married ...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 131 days ago

16 July 2009 (F) - I had a fling with my sons baseball coach, here recently and he was married, im a widow, he came onto me and i cant stop thinken about him, we had alot of fun together, and we had sex 4 times, and we really connected together also, but i know i did ...

I told him to wait, then I freaked out ....

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 131 days ago

16 July 2009 (F) - I told my boyfriend that I was going gave him virginity on his birthday. He isn't a virgin and waited for me since I wasn't ready yet. He started pressuring me unintentionally, he kept telling me he wait until his b-day and I sort of felt like I had ...

Am I a slut for continuing to have sex with my ex?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 130 days ago

16 July 2009 (?) - My ex and i broke up about 5 months ago. Although we broke up were still having sex. I feel used but i dont really mind it because he is great in bed. Is it slutty of me to think that?...

I just want to have sex and have fun, is it wrong?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 131 days ago

16 July 2009 (F) - Ok so i went to school with this guy i realy liked then he turned out to be a bit of a perv. he trasfered schools and after him i havnt had a relationship or had sex and honestly i kinda liked that he realy wnted to have sex w/ me and next year we ...

Feeling left out and thinking of having a one night stand...

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 126 days ago

16 July 2009 (M) - I am fed up that I am the only one im my group of friends that has not been laid yet. Does anyone have any tips on how to have a one night stand or find girls that are willing to do it with me? Its sad and pathetic at my age that I have not kissed ...