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Archived questions from: June, 2015 (see latest in Sex category)

Sex: Help and advice

How can swingers so easily have sex with someone they don't love?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 3047 days ago

30 June 2015 (M) - I hope this doesn't sound silly. I'm just curious. I know there are people that enjoy sex without love and those that can enjoy sex ONLY with love...or at least feelings for their partner. I'm just curious about swingers. Do you think they can ...

Am I wasting my time even though he claims he wants me?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3215 days ago

29 June 2015 (F) - I've been with my partner for 7 years. We are both divorced, have families, baggage if you like. It hasn't been easy but we have some good times in our social life. The problem is he doesn't want sex, not with me anyway. I have caught him 3 times ...

How do I let my husband know that he doesn't need to hide things from me? I'll always be there

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3215 days ago

29 June 2015 (F) - My husband of 15 years has been having some health issues lately. It all started suddenly. He was feeling tired and his energy levels were low. He went to see our GP and got home disappointed. Apparently she only gave him some basic blood tests and ...

I didn't care for g/f getting heavier but suddenly our sex life has become awesome. Have I conditioned myself to like her body?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 3214 days ago

29 June 2015 (M) - Hi. I'm in a bit of a strange place with my love life and wondered what people thought. I've been with my girlfriend for coming up to six years now, 3 of which we have lived together. I used to absolutely love her slim, toned figure but after we ...

I'm afraid my fetish for watching my lady with other men will ruin our relationship. She doesn't want to do this!

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 3214 days ago

29 June 2015 (M) - Got a difficult question. I have been with my girlfriend for about 4 years but we have different mentalities. She is set on monogamy and I have a bad fetish of watching her be intimate with other males. I don't mean different males every time, I ...

How to deal with sexually abusive wife?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 3199 days ago

29 June 2015 (M) - My wife of a decade will not respond to me sexually at all. She used to be very fit but now she has gained a lot of weight (from 100lbs to maybe 150 lbs). I still think she is sexy, but she says she hates her body. I can understand why she feels th...

How often should I talk about sex with my long distance girl?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3216 days ago

29 June 2015 (M) - Hello friends, I am in a new relationship. ...I have been in a relationship before but this this time I am in a serious relationship. .We are this time in a distant relationship I want to know how often should I talk no about sex with her as she is ...

Ladies: How much pain do you feel during first time sex?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3216 days ago

28 June 2015 (M) - Hi everyone Hope you all are fine. I am gonna marry next month.I had never sex in my life. I just watched some porn videos. I wamted to know especially from female how much pain you feel during wedding night sex!!! my gf told me that she scared ...

How can someone be so casually intimate?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3216 days ago

28 June 2015 (M) - I'm seeing a girl at the moment on a casual basis, whenever were together she's very touchy feely, loves kissing and hugging me and falling asleep on me and all that kind of thing, but insists she doesn't want anythjng serious. I'm a little c...

Is it stupid to be in a FWB knowing its not going to lead to anything serious?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3217 days ago

28 June 2015 (M) - So im fwb with a girl I know, been around 9 months now. We get along really well, have a great sex life but I have a few questions I hope you guys can help me with. 1. Do you think it's stupid to be fwb knowing that it's not leading to anyth...

Mismatched libido. I feel she thinks her needs are more important than mine. I need help. What do I do?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 3216 days ago

27 June 2015 (M) - My wife won't come on to me! We are the same age and for years we've only had sex once a month. I've always been the first one to initiate sex. If I don't initiate the sex we won't have sex. I've tried waiting patiently, I've tried explaining...

After sex: is it even normal to still cramping up for an extended time?.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3218 days ago

27 June 2015 (F) - Okay im going to ask very bluntly about this. When I had sex with my finance and he layed me down an held my legs up while going in he kept hitting something that kinda felt uncomfortable like hurtish . After the sex I started getting cramps w...

Can't arouse boyfriend fully

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3220 days ago

26 June 2015 (F) - We have been dating a year now and have always had sexual problems. First he always kind of laid there and did nothing, he said it was because he didn't want me to feel uncomfortable. Second, he never touched me or initiated anything with me, he ...

She says she will not sleep with anyone while we are "actively working on our relationship" How am I supposed to trust her ?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3220 days ago

25 June 2015 (M) - A little background on my marriage, we've been together for 10 years and married for almost 5 and we have an almost 6 year old son. Before this we had only ever been intimate with each other. Back in December my wife and I seperated. I was...

Dating for three years and no sex despite my efforts to initiate! Why isn't he interested?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3219 days ago

23 June 2015 (F) - Hi. I have a question about my relationship with my bf. We've been together for almost 3 yrs now and we rarely ever get sexually active. We haven't had sex yet. Neither one of us has had it before and when we try we don't get very far. He is 27 and ...

Has he got a compulsive addiction? Dating him for 4 years. My bf's unusual obsession is joining free dating sites.

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 3222 days ago

22 June 2015 (F) - I have been in a relationship for more than 4 years. This has been held back by my bf's unusual obsession with joining free dating sites. It had been a good few months and I really thought he at last had learned his lesson. Clumsily he ac...

My friend says it's emotional blackmail. My mother says breakup with him. He's my first ''proper'' relationship. What should I do?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 3223 days ago

21 June 2015 (F) - So I've been in a relationship for 2 years, I just turned 17 and I have known him for goodness knows how long, we went to primary together and I know people say going out with you best friend never work but I genuinely thought we did, until the last ...

Why did my husband react so strongly to my remarks? Is there more going on that I'm not seeing?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3225 days ago

20 June 2015 (F) - My husband and I went to his brothers house for a small family cookout, and of course they were drinking. That was not a problem. My problem was that he was in the corner with his nephew and his nephew girlfriend and they were talking about going to...

My current Bf claims my vagina is too loose and accuses me of cheating. What else would make it feel loose to him?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 3221 days ago

19 June 2015 (F) - I had my daughter at the age of 14 through a c-section.. i have had several of sex partners in the years since then and no one has ever complained about my vagina except my current boyfriend. He believes i'm cheating on him cause he say my vagin...

We've been seeing each other for 3 weeks and I'm feeling pressured to have sex. I'm disappointed

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3226 days ago

19 June 2015 (F) - I have been seeing my boyfriend for 3 weeks and have just passionately kissed and cuddled. He is 10 years older. We met online and I feel am still getting to know him. We are going to a wedding reception at a neighbours next weekend and he has ...

What is wrong with my boyfriend temper tantrums? Does he just want me for sex?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3218 days ago

19 June 2015 (F) - I've known this guy from 2013, but he only told me that he had been trying to ask me out this year. So almost 2 months ago we officially started dating. He kept asking me to move in with him, talking about the number of kids he wants to have with me ...

Are there men out there willing to use condoms?

This question has 19 answers - newest was posted 3226 days ago

17 June 2015 (F) - I'm having a bit of an issue with birth control and I'm looking for some advice. I have tried so many types of birth control over the years: the injection; the implant and 4 different types of pill, and each of them have played havoc with my ...

I told him not to treat me like an ONS

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3227 days ago

17 June 2015 (F) - I met a guy in February. We met twice and got along so well but due to work we hardly met up as I work weekends . He recently messaged asking to take me out and I agreed. We spent quality time and he told me his deep secrets and we got so close In ...

What is a better option ? Freezing eggs now or wait for ivf with the right guy?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3228 days ago

16 June 2015 (F) - Hi I'm just trying to prepare for my future and I really want a baby in the next 5 years maximum no later than that. Having not met my soulmate yet im thinking is there any point to freeze my eggs now? Or i heard that ivf works great a few of m...

Why was my wife so good to her cheating ex partners but I have to beg for sex?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 3227 days ago

16 June 2015 (M) - My wife and I are very happily married. However, in the past she was involved in very emotionally abusive relationships in the past where she put up with a lot of cheating and verbal abuse. She told me that she always tried to give more of herself ...

My cousin has now totally blanked me. Should I persist in trying to talk to him about our night of passion together?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3229 days ago

16 June 2015 (F) - Advice needed please. So Saturday night I invited my Cousin over for a chat and a catch up as I'm staying in the area while another family member is in hospital. My cousin and I are not close and although we've met a few times and went to the ...

Going to University in September. Will people think I'm strange if I'm wary of random hook-ups and the club scene?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3229 days ago

15 June 2015 (F) - I will be going to University in September but I am really worried about the whole club scene. I am a pretty girl but I don't want people to come up to me and expect certain things. I will never have sex with anyone randomly and I have to be in a ...

Am I justified in feeling really worried that this secret will get out?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3230 days ago

15 June 2015 (F) - The other night I fooled around with this guy who has a gf and I feel so guilty. I don't even fancy him at all i was sooo drunk I know it's not an exuse but I never usually get that drunk and I'm absolutely disgusted in my self now and can't stop...

What does this tell you about her? I'm confused. Does she have feelings for me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3232 days ago

13 June 2015 (M) - So my friend has 3 best friends in order of S, J and L, I'm J but lately my friend who is in a lesbian relationship with L, told me she prefers me over S and L then asks if she's a bad person, I had sex with her once, and I don't know if she li...

What is he really playing at? He says he's working there. I think he has had a baby with another woman

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3231 days ago

12 June 2015 (F) - Six month's ago I found a new fb page of my current bf, which said in a relationship with someone else, when I confronted him he denied it and removed the account saying his brother made it. Anyway I kept the girls name and every now and then I g...

I don't know how tell my bf after five years together that I'm not satisfied with our sex life!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3233 days ago

11 June 2015 (F) - My bf and I have had some rough patches but the past two years have been great. The only thing is: I don't want sex with him anymore....I love kissing him, being held by him and its bliss to hug him but not sex. I used to be very okay with it and ...

My boyfriend has become self centered and doesn't put forth any effort sexually

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3234 days ago

11 June 2015 (F) - So I've been with my boyfriend for a year now. At first it was going good and then it got shakey...long story short we became homeless. After we got out of the situation we moved in to a place he started being self centered about himself and doesn't ...

How do I tell my wife her vagina is loose without hurting her feelings?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 3234 days ago

11 June 2015 (M) - We have been married for around 15 years and have had a good sex life. I'm around 42 and my wife is 40. I have started facing this problem - I find my wife's vagina very loose now. I do not get the same feeling in my penis now as I used to get ...

What sort of a relationship is it where insults and sarcasm are common?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3235 days ago

10 June 2015 (F) - I feel so upset/down and uncared for at the moment, it's been building for a couple of days now. My partner hasn't really been as talkative the past few days or affectionate, she gets like that sometimes so basically all I asked was if she was o...

Are we just wasting our time by staying together?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3235 days ago

10 June 2015 (F) - Dear Cupid, Let me start by saying I love my man. Love him, very much in love with him, and I don't doubt he has the same feelings towards me. We just don't have sex, which hurts on so many levels. Allow me to offer some background infor...

How do I stop obsessing over my married ex who would like to have sex with me?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3236 days ago

8 June 2015 (F) - Hi.I feel really embarrassed writing this but I feel like I need to vent and maybe get some advice. I used to be involved with this guy. I lost my virginity to him (he doesn't know) and ended up really falling for him. It never turned into a ...

Should I end my relationship with my current boyfriend? I feel guilty that I still think of my ex every day

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3237 days ago

8 June 2015 (F) - Just under a year and a half ago me and my ex broke up. I thought he was going to end things with me as he had stopped telling me he loved me, but this turned out not to be the case he was just struggling as we had gone into a long distance ...

My love life is falling apart again! My boyfriend seems to have lost his sex drive and I have a dear friend flirting with me making me feel desirable! What do I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3238 days ago

8 June 2015 (F) - My love life is falling apart. I have a fantastic boyfriend who I love dearly. He is kind and sensitive and I really am the centre of his world. The issue is that for the past two months we haven't had sex. It's making me insecure. I've got issues ...

My Girlfriend never let's me finish when we make love. Am I doing something wrong?

This question has 18 answers - newest was posted 3232 days ago

7 June 2015 (M) - This is my first time every doing anything like this, because i can usually solve problems myself, so please bare with me. But, this is different for me. My question is Ive been seeing this girl for almost 2 years it's crazy how we met but she's...

Is it reasonable that I was shocked that my Bf made a video of himself masterbating?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3238 days ago

6 June 2015 (F) - So I accidentally found a video on our lap top of my boyfriend masterbating. It really shocked me and made me upset. He says he made the video because he's curious about his body and he never sent the video to anyone. We've been together almost 2...

I'm feeling a little guilty about the fantasy of who I think of when I masturbate, but should I be feeling so guilty?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3239 days ago

6 June 2015 (M) - I've been happily married for a number of years and the sex life with my wife is great. However, I cannot stop masturbating with my wife's sister as the fantasy. My sex life with my wife is not suffering because of this, I have a very high sex dr...

I'm 23. Why is my mother so reluctant to meet my boyfriend?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3230 days ago

6 June 2015 (F) - Why doesn't my mom want to meet my new boyfriend? I was in a really bad relationship with my now ex boyfriend, he treated me like shit. My mom though was ok with meeting him and supported me with whatever decisions I had made, including stayin...

It's unsettling for me. Is it odd that he rarely makes eye contact when we're having sex?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3238 days ago

5 June 2015 (F) - Is it odd for a man not to look at you while you're having sex? My boyfriend rarely makes eye contact while we're having sex. I've discussed this with him and also his preference for wanting to have sex in the dark. If the lights are on he...

What to do if the sex still sucks after 2 years? She doesn't seem to be into me...Nor into sex in general

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3240 days ago

5 June 2015 (M) - I'm not feeling like I'm sexually wanted by my girlfriend of now 2 years. I'm 25 and she's 28 and we've been, as said, together for 2 years. In the start we had debates about this and eventually it settled to sex when I wanted to have sex b...

Pregant and in a love triangle with a guy who lives with his Gf. What can I do to resolve my issues?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3240 days ago

5 June 2015 (F) - i have kids from my previous marriage and the kids live wit dad. im now in a love triangle and pregnant. he lives with his first love about 60 km in the next town. the other lady is awre of my relationship with her partner. he will call her to f...

How do I begin to get over this?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3241 days ago

4 June 2015 (F) - Alright, so, this might be a little long of a story, and I'm sorry for anyone who doesn't like to read. Okay, so, I met this guy about 7 months ago and we hit it off pretty nicely. We texted like almost everyday. About everything and anything. Fi...

Is the pill alone enough?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 3241 days ago

3 June 2015 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been together for 2 years. We live together, and we are very much in love. I am on the pill, and I'm very faithful about taking it every day. We haven't used condoms since about a month or two into our relationship, we have ...

How do I stop X, (B’s father) having sex with me?. Don't want B (my Bf) to find out

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3240 days ago

3 June 2015 (F) - I am a 34 year old woman and have been living with my boyfriend, C, since I divorced my husband fifteen years ago. Both C and I love having sex and we have at least twice a day. C's widowed father, X, 57 years old, lives with us. In January ...

Do men see ''love'' and ''future'' differently?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 3242 days ago

2 June 2015 (F) - Do men have different opinion of “love” and “future”? I have been seeing a guy for almost three years. He is constantly telling me he loves me, but lately if feel there is something not right, that I might not be more than a friend with benefits...

Why family should not offer idealised sex education, and instead offer realistic, non-rose-tinted sex education

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3225 days ago

2 June 2015 (F) - I was brought up by my happily married parents. Although my Dad is more awkward, my mum has always been pretty candid about sex. There was no big "talk" when I turned thirteen. More simply, as a child I was always able to ask whatever I wante...