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Archived questions from: 25 July, 2009 (see latest in Sex category)

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Sex: Help and advice

I guess what I'm asking is... what are the chances that I'm pregnant?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 122 days ago

25 July 2009 (F) - Hey Guys, I know ur gonna think i'm rather idiotic having done this but please could you answer this question and hopefully set my mind at rest. Serveral weeks ago i had sex with my boyfriend however i let him put his penis inside me without ...

I haven't had sex for a long time, but my girlfriend won't sleep with me. Please help!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 122 days ago

25 July 2009 (M) - I've started dating a girl. We both know that our relationship can't last because we're both going back to university at the end of summer. Because we don't have time to get to know each other, she says she won't have sex with me... But it's been a ...

Will guys mind if I have a weird looking vagina?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 109 days ago

25 July 2009 (?) - This is a little embarrassing, but I'm really worried. I have a really weird looking vagina, like quite long lips that kinda hide my clit, I think it looks weird but no one I've slept with have said anything, but I'm really scared about the way it...

My ex mentioned he'd kill another guy if I was with him!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 122 days ago

25 July 2009 (?) - A while ago me and my boyfriend broke up and we decided to be mates with privileges, it was all good until we actually had sex, he got like half way through it and then said “what are we?” and I said “mates?” and he stopped? Eh, don’t think he’s got ...

We've been having sex for 2 years but now he has problems maintaining an erection. What could be the reason?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 122 days ago

25 July 2009 (F) - hi, my boyfriend and i have been having sex for about two years now. Its always has worked out perfectly. I just got off my period, so we went to go have sex again after not doing it for i guess like a week, and he couldnt stay hard. Neither of us ...

Is it unlikely that I'm pregnant because I'm on meds?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 120 days ago

25 July 2009 (F) - I've had a urinary tract infection for about a week. I went to the doctor on monday and got medicine for it. It is now saturday. Yesterday my boyfriend and i had sex, but we didn't use a condom because he forgot to bring one and i didn't have any.. ...

My first sexual experience and I came almost straight away...Do I have some kind of sexual 'defect'?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 122 days ago

25 July 2009 (M) - Hello to all. I am 27 years old had sex for the first time. I manage doing foreplay for more than 25 Min's but the bad experience is that i cum with in 4-5 movements after putting my pe... into her cu.. Can any body suggest me out whether is it a ...

Will she make a particular sound if she has an orgasm?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 122 days ago

25 July 2009 (M) - During intercourse last night my girlfriend gasped several times and then released a deep sigh.This was the 1st time she'd been vocal.Afterwards I asked if she'd orgasmed .She said no but now felt the need to express the pleasure of feeling my ...

We weren't in a relationship, so why say he needs to move on?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 122 days ago

25 July 2009 (F) - I really need some advice. Have been seeing this guy casually for about 5 months. We always met up once a week to hang out and sleep together as we were friends with benefits and we both did not want a relationship. He used to text me around 3 times ...

Is it fair to say women can't be bad at sex?

This question has 23 answers - newest was posted 120 days ago

25 July 2009 (F) - Hey This is going to sound like a silly silly question, but oh well. So many answers about sex say women don't have to do much during sex (obviously more is better but...), is it then fair to say women can't really be bad at sex? :S...

Do guys care about a girl after a one-week hookup?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 122 days ago

25 July 2009 (F) - Just out of curiousity... I had a guy take advantage of me (sorta) and, naively, I went along with it and hooked up with him for a week, thinking he actually liked me. His feelings for me were superficial but he did start to like me. And then, ...

Boyfriend tells me I am loose "down there" what am I supposed to do?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 121 days ago

25 July 2009 (F) - Before my bf i had little sex. When we started to have sex he would always say how it made him feel good that i was so tight it made him happy i didn't sleep around. Now, 2 years later i am not so tight anymore. We have sex quite a bit. He is ...

How can I make sex enjoyable for an older woman?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 122 days ago

25 July 2009 (M) - I have come to really like an older woman. She is 12 years older than me. despite our age difference is it ok for us to have sex? How can I make sex enjoyable for an older woman? Ladies who have any experience with younger men please give advice. ...

He bumped my cervix and now I'm having bad cramps!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 123 days ago

25 July 2009 (F) - Ok yesterday me and my boyfriend spontaneously made love to each other. I felt him bump my cervix a few times (not sure if this has anything to do with it). But now ever since like an hour after wards I've been having really bad cramps behind my ...

Food play during foreplay!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 121 days ago

25 July 2009 (F) - Ok this may sound like a silly question... but; my boyfriend (of 2 years) and I want to introduce food play to our love making but are unsure of how to go about such things. For example; we want to feed each other grapes during foreplay but we ...

FWB how can I tell if he wants more?

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 53 days ago

25 July 2009 (F) - I have a friend w/benefits, and we've been getting together about once a week for the past 4 months. A couple of weeks ago we were like attached at the hips for about 6 days and we did it at least once a day and he stayed the night with me a couple ...

I just can't come out with "what are we doing?" because we've never talked about it!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 120 days ago

25 July 2009 (F) - What should i do? Ok so I no now that I’m bi, I have been with girls be4. I started to fancy this girl for a wile but one night there was three of us in a bed after a night of drinking, I started to play with her arms and back. She didn’t sto...

We're both heading off to different schools so she decided there will be no sex, Is it worth continuing this relationship?

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25 July 2009 (M) - I'm home from university and I've entered into a relationship of some sorts with a local girl. We've been seeing each other for a few weeks and we're having a nice time, but unfortunately we both know that this will all have to come to an end in a ...

I'm not planning to have sex anytime soon, I just want to understand the timing of the cycle!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 123 days ago

25 July 2009 (F) - i'm not currently sexually active, and i saw something somewhere about what time during the cycle or whatever. so what time during the cycle is the best time to have sex ? even with protection, and what if you took birth control, would you do it ...