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Archived questions from: September, 2012 (see latest in Sex category)

Sex: Help and advice

I don't like sex. Anyone else?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4217 days ago

30 September 2012 (F) - I just wonder why people can't accept that i dont like sex. Ive never been raped, abused or anything like that, i just dont ever feel the need for it. All my hormone levels r ok. I can watch it on tv, if a sexy scene on a programme comes up but that ...

I really fancy her, and she said she'd want to lose her 'V' to me, but now what?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4220 days ago

30 September 2012 (M) - hi, added this girl on FB a while ago and after a lot of chatting and stuff i managed to get her number (she is 16, i am 19) so we have been texting and flirting hinting to each other that we should meet up and stuff, i went away for the weekend to ...

How do I make her feel comfortable about having sex with me again?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4220 days ago

30 September 2012 (M) - long story short, i pressured my gf into sex because i wanted to catch up to my buddies that had all done it. i felt left out so i pressured my long-time gf (2 years) and she gave in, even though i knew she wasn't ready (hence 2 years without any). ...

I'm confused about becoming aroused from dirty talk on a teen site

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4220 days ago

30 September 2012 (M) - Hey everyone. I recently was on a teen chat room and a guy private messages me. He started talking dirty and at first I laughed but I became aroused. I eventually engaged in the chat and got off on it. After I was done I was shocked and scar...

Why do I feel so sad with this kinky hookup? The sex wasn't that great!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4147 days ago

30 September 2012 (F) - I am confused about my emotional reaction to a lovely guy I recently met by chance. It was on of those rare encounters where the physical attraction is so strong and obvious. We are both in our 30's and turns out to be single. To make a long story ...

Will the man get the yeast infection too?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4220 days ago

30 September 2012 (F) - if a female has a yeast infection and has intercourse with a man, does the man gets it?!...

When does intercourse become less painful for women?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4220 days ago

30 September 2012 (M) - Hi! So, I'm getting married soon and I been reading a lot about sex preparing somewhat for it. My fiancé has told me that she has had 1 sexual partner and they only did it twice the same day she lost her virginity. One worry that she has is our f...

Boyfriend doesn't seem to understand my needs in bed

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4221 days ago

30 September 2012 (F) - First off I just want to say that I love my boyfriend to bits. We've been dating for a little over a year and we both lost our virginity after about 7 months. I don't have issues with how long he lasts and he really does try to do foreplay but it's ...

My boyfriend has exchanged disgustingly sexual emails with girls online and when I confronted him, he said he was "bored" and then accused me of cheating!!

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 3308 days ago

30 September 2012 (F) - okay so i've been dating this guy now for almost two years. I thought he was perfect in almost every way. We're nearly the same person, which may be the reason for some of our heated arguments, but besides those few fights I thought we had a great ...

Squirting issues

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4216 days ago

30 September 2012 (M) - Ok, so my wife and I have a really healthy sexual relationship. We love trying new things. She has came to like squirting as much as me. We was watching some porn and a girl started cumming and white stuff was oozing out of her. We are trying to ...

Her Mom has agreed to keep it secret. But do I tell my new Gf that I had sex with her Mom in the past?

This question has 17 answers - newest was posted 4217 days ago

29 September 2012 (M) - I have been dating a woman for a few months now and all is going really great. Recently she introduced me to her mother and immediately we recognized each other. A few years earlier we were in a bar and started talking to each other. She is was o...

Do I keep it to myself or tell my sister? My sister's husband of nine years told me he is having an affair

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4221 days ago

29 September 2012 (F) - Yesterday was the worst day of my life. My sister's husband of nine years told me he is having an affair,he trusted me enough to tell me, but I feel like I'm betraying my sister. Please help me what should I do????? My sister also has a life treat...

I have concerns about returning to my FWB. What should I do though? He wants to resume, but his past actions concern me

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4221 days ago

29 September 2012 (F) - Hi I realise there is a lot of questions asked about this thank you for any answers in advance I just need some opinions on this situation I have been in a FWB for 18 months now he asked me if it could just be me and him sleeping together and not ...

Is our "sex talk" just healthy acting out, or is it going a little too far?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4221 days ago

29 September 2012 (M) - My wife and I have enjoyed a fantastic relationship for the past 15 years. The problem is, we have been together for 17. The past couple years has been a little more up and down, but hopefully not something that we can't work through. It could be t...

My longterm boyfriend wants to sleep with someone else but doesn't want to cheat. Is a threesome the answer?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4221 days ago

29 September 2012 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been together for almost 7 years, and we have both only been with each other during our relationship. He has suggested him sleeping with another woman, but not wanting to cheat on me, suggesting a three-some. His ex-wife ...

Together 2 years, moving in, talking marriage, and now he hardly ever wants sex!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4222 days ago

28 September 2012 (F) - Hey, I need some perspectives to try and help me understand my boyfriend's reduced interest in sex and how to handle this, please, as at the moment, I just feel stupid and rejected. We've been together 2 years, and are planning to move in together...

Should I feel upset that my penis can't bring my girlfriend to climax?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4192 days ago

28 September 2012 (M) - I am currently in my first real relationship with a beautiful more sexually experienced women. we are in our 20's. I am having troubling thoughts about sex, which are kind of driving me nuts! Having lost my virginity to this girl I was hoping ...

I cant orgasm from sex!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4222 days ago

28 September 2012 (F) - okay, well i've been having sex for the past one and a half year but ive never had an orgasam from it ? i can make myself get that feeling but noone else can . is it me or is it them ?...

I am going crazy obsessing over the thought of watching my wife with another woman.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4220 days ago

28 September 2012 (M) - My wife and I have been together for over six years and have a wonderful family and life together. We are deeply in love and I would like to think be together forever. We have a great and fulfilling sex. One of the issues early in our relationship ...

Struggling to forget the threesome she had in the past....

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4217 days ago

27 September 2012 (M) - My girlfriend and I have been dating for about 7 months now and we are still and I hope will always be together. I actually am wanting to marry her some day. In the beginning through general conversion we found out something about each other such ...

Why do I still feel embarrassed about queefing?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4224 days ago

26 September 2012 (F) - Recently, while having intercourse, I queefed. I felt really embarrassed even though I know it's normal for that to happen. Yet my partner didn't seem to know and he actually asked if I farted. I explained to him it was a queef and he said he ...

Is it reasonable that I am wary of my Bf being curious about other girl's sexual preferences?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4225 days ago

26 September 2012 (F) - My boyfriend of a year has recently been coming up with new ideas to spice it up in the bedroom. We've been both having fun with it and enjoying ourselves and our relationship to the fullest. Recently, his best friend has been having relation...

What kind of sexy lingerie should I buy? I feel fat!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4215 days ago

25 September 2012 (F) - i really need help, me and my partner are going away for the weekend to see his family and staying in a hotel. hes paying and the thing is he wants me to wear sumthing sexy well where in the hotel, i dont have a clue what to wear as have never do...

Anal sex makes me feel like I'm being ripped in half!

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 4202 days ago

25 September 2012 (F) - Hey everyone i have a question, my husband and i decided that we want to try anal, we use a lott of lub and go nice and slow but i cant stand the pain it just makes me want to scream. It feels like im being ripped in half, hes being patient with me ...

Boyfriend needs to understand that sex isn't just about what he wants

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4208 days ago

25 September 2012 (F) - hey guys, i am 19 years old and my boyfriend is 16. We've been seeing each other for just over a year and about 6 months ago we had sex for the first time and it was his first time. even though it was his first time, he lasted longer than most and...

How to handle my disrespectful daughter?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4225 days ago

25 September 2012 (F) - Hi all I need some advice on my daughter and I we stay in to it as a child growing up I had no problems out of her soon as she got her period at 14 she started to hate me .Now she is nineteen going out with this young punk he's twenty no job stays ...

Do guys have to feel emotional about every girl they hook up with or is it normal to not feel anything once in a while

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4225 days ago

25 September 2012 (M) - So I met a girl at a party the other day and hung out 2 days later. I think she is cute but I do not feel any emotions at all for her. We made out for maybe over an hour, but I do not feel attached to her. I did not even get an erection. I am c...

B/f doesn't feel comfortable having sex at my house!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4225 days ago

25 September 2012 (F) - okay here is my situation, I am 24 and lost my job. I am living with grandma and my dad since they both sold their house and we now live in 3 bedroom apartment. The current situation is my dad is still not fully done with moving from the old house ...

Is it weird that I call my partner "daddy" during sex?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4225 days ago

24 September 2012 (F) - Hello everyone! I just wanted to know your thoughts on calling your significant other Daddy during sex. Not dad, or father, I mean it on the sexual way. It started with him pestering me to do something, and I ultimately rolled my eyes and sardoni...

Is it ok for a friend to sleep with your FWB?

This question has 17 answers - newest was posted 4225 days ago

24 September 2012 (?) - My very close friend slept with a fwb of mine and has not come out and told me herself. I am so hurt by this, but other people who I have spoken to don’t understand why I should be as bothered as he is only a FWB and therefore he doesn’t mean ...

I feel rejected when wife turns me down for sex because I know she didn't say no to the other man

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4226 days ago

24 September 2012 (M) - Hi, I'll start this off by saying this is most likely not normal. My wife and I seperated for a couple months a few years ago. During that time she got with another man. As we were both certain we wouldn't reconcile at this time, I can't ho...

She climaxed several times yet she says there is no chemistry between us

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4226 days ago

23 September 2012 (M) - I recently started going out with a woman who's quite a bit younger than me (I'm 52, she's 38). The first time we made love was in a hotel room (difficult for us to have time together at either of our houses because of our children). She orgasmed ...

Is it possible that my virgin girlfriend was assexual?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4226 days ago

23 September 2012 (M) - Is this possible for my girlfriend to have been an asexual, she hasn't had sex yet and I asked her why that is (just curious why people don't) and she said she never felt that attraction to have sex with anyone until she came to university. She said ...

Does size matter? I think he's going to be too big.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4225 days ago

23 September 2012 (F) - I met this gentle loving person. However, when we got close I saw that his was way too big and wide. Now I do not know how to tell him that we cannot work out and best to part as I do not think I could take it, it is too big. ...

Sex isn't fun anymore because he only lasts 20 seconds!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4227 days ago

22 September 2012 (F) - Hey everyone. So my boyfriend and I have been together for 13 months and our sex life is like non existent compared to how it used to be. For the first 6 or so months, we had sex literally like 4 or 5 times everyday, it was great. But for the past...

I am very confused about my feelings for boys/girls and not sure what I am

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4220 days ago

22 September 2012 (F) - Hey,sorry for my English,i am not born in England. I have big problem and i have ocd,hipohondria and panic attacts. I am 16 year old female and i questioned my sexuallity since 12 year.Am i str8,lesbian,bisexual,bi curious?Please help,don't be me...

Who can I show my boyfriend in a special way that I'm ready to have sex?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4219 days ago

22 September 2012 (F) - I have a very important query for you all. I'm 17, and have been with my boyfriend for almost four years. I have a feeling I will be with him for a great deal more. He was 18 yesterday, and I am 18 on Wednesday next week. When we first got together...

Despite his flaws I can't get my ex out of my head

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4228 days ago

22 September 2012 (F) - So I have a new boyfriend and he is the most amazing guy I have everrrr been with personality-wise and I really LOVE who he is, because he is caring and he supports me (even as far as going to auditions just to help me have the guts to follow my ...

I need to get over him. I need any ideas you can suggest to help me get over him completely

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4219 days ago

22 September 2012 (F) - Hi I need Advice here is the case: before 4 years my BF and I were together for about a year then I got pregnant. That time he didn't have job I have a job, he told me we gonna be together and he will do his best to get a job, a give birth and af...

Why wont my 59 year old boyfriend make love to me?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4228 days ago

22 September 2012 (F) - why wont my boyfriend make love to me? im 56 and he is 59, we have been together now for a year. i care about him deeply and hope that we can spend the rest of our lives together. we get along great other then this one thing. he wants other sexu...

Am I causing her trauma? I am a disabled man. How does a Prostitute feel when she has paid sex with a disabled man?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4228 days ago

22 September 2012 (F) - I am a disabled person and I started visiting prostitute for paid sex. I am very nice to her and I always give her some extra money. She is also very kind to me, she helps me undress my self and later putting clothes back. She alway seems to be gl...

Is he worth it? Part of me wonders if I should just give him a chance!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4216 days ago

22 September 2012 (F) - I met this guy over the summer and we got on pretty well, but as far as I was concerned we were just friends. However, he started sending me really dirty text messages and basically wanted to hook up with me. I am a virgin and have never had anyone ...

I want him to really miss me and forgive me for what I've done!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4229 days ago

22 September 2012 (F) - Hi its abit long but Basically I really liked a guy who's in the army we used to speak everyday and always kept in touch and got on really well we could talk about everything. He asked to take me out 2years ago and went on a date, I dint sleep wi...

Why is it that only penetrative sex does it for me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4229 days ago

21 September 2012 (F) - So this is a sex question, I was wondering if anyone could help me understand why I can't orgasm from anything other than vaginal sex and very rarely clitoral stimulation with fingers. Basically I've been with my partner for 3 years and we've ...

Why can't I enjoy oral sex?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4228 days ago

21 September 2012 (F) - This is an embarrassing question but I'd like to know why I cannot orgasm from stimulation of the clitoris, either by myself or from oral sex. I can sometimes orgasm from vaginal intercourse, or during masturbation when I clench my pelvic floor ...

Scared to talk about sex with my boyfriend...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4229 days ago

21 September 2012 (F) - I've just met the man i love and he's working away and comes back on weekend. I'm ready to have sex with him and i'm sure he wants it but we're both scared to start the topic. I so wish i could have sex with him. I don't know where to start. Should ...

I'm ashamed of my sexual past and worried about STD's....

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4132 days ago

21 September 2012 (F) - When i was 11 years old i lost both my parents and i had to live with my granny. She waz very stingy and 2 much strict and she abused me and my little sister because she doesn't love our father's family. At the age of 15 i startf drinking alchohol ...

Is his recent interest in seeing me with another woman a sign he's losing interest?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4229 days ago

21 September 2012 (F) - My husband and I have been together over a year and have a great sex life. He used to be very against porn and the idea of girl on girl or threesomes. Now he looks at porn every day (even after we just had sex) and brings up wanting to see me with ...

My threesomes have come back to haunt me

This question has 21 answers - newest was posted 4223 days ago

21 September 2012 (F) - I am really in a bind and I don't know what to do. A little over a year ago I met my now fiancé. When we met we clicked instantly and became an item right away. He is charming, intelligent, attractive, educated and an all around great guy. About...

Did we have sex too early in the relationship?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4229 days ago

21 September 2012 (M) - My girlfriend and I have been dating for about 2 years now and we began having sex about 5 months into our relationship. The problem is it seems like the sex isn't interesting to either one of us anymore. I mean she says she enjoys it, and maybe sh...