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Archived questions from: June, 2017 (see latest in Sex category)

Sex: Help and advice

Is sex so important to my husband?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2483 days ago

30 June 2017 (F) - Hi aunts. I have been married to my husband for 3 years. Our sex life is not good at all. I was suffering from severe dyspareunia for which I didn't seek treatment for a long time as the thought of a doctor doing a over examination used to scare ...

He always manages to bring up sex in a conversation. Is he just horny? Or does he want something from me?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 2479 days ago

30 June 2017 (F) - There is this guy I know. We are friends, but fairly new friends for the past 3 or so months. He is a really nice guy, very easy to talk to. Whenever we talk, he always tells me personal things about himself. I'm talking really personal things that ...

I can't tell if I'm dating a really odd social butterfly or a man whore.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2485 days ago

29 June 2017 (F) - Me and my boyfriend have been dating for about four months. We spend most of our time together. I don't usually feel jealous or insecure about myself. I know I'm pretty and smart etc. So when I do feel insecure I tend to think it's probably ...

Do you think my boyfriend is lying about masturbation or what are your thoughts?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 2486 days ago

28 June 2017 (F) - I'm a model signed to an agency in NY. My boyfriend and I have been together for quite a while now. Unfortunately when we first met, I had some insecurities which I regret mainly from the industry that is so heavily focused on appearance. When my ...

He wants to record us having oral sex and then send it to a friend?

This question has 19 answers - newest was posted 2458 days ago

27 June 2017 (F) - Been seeing a guy right, everything was great.. Until he asked me a few days ago to let him record himself giving me "oral" in the not so usual place..to send to his guy friend! Is this relationship between them normal? Do guys do this with their ...

We had sex nothing came of it but how do I act around him now?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2479 days ago

27 June 2017 (F) - About six months ago, I had sex with one of my close friends. It was pretty obvious that we both liked each other but nothing ever came from it. A couple weeks ago, we started talking again and we spent the night with each other a few times but ...

My partner will not admit that she uses a vibrator and its making me feel inadquate

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 2485 days ago

26 June 2017 (M) - I've recently discovered that my partner if 6 years is secretly using a vibrator when she thinks I'm asleep. This has been ongoing now for 5 months and every time I ask her she becomes very angry and denial sets in. We have a very open relationship ...

I want to seduce my sister's friend

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 2488 days ago

25 June 2017 (M) - My sister's friend has come to stay for a while for studying. The problem is that she beautiful. She is 24 and I am 18. I want to have sex with her when every one goes to work. The problem is that I am afraid to seduce her. What should I do to have ...

Am I masturbating properly?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 2487 days ago

24 June 2017 (F) - I'm 23 years old. I have plenty of confidence and feel sexy too. I have absolutely no clue if I'm touching myself properly because you can't touch my clitoris. Why does it hurt to touch my clit? Even when my ex boyfriend licked my clit it still hu...

My girlfriend doesn't seem that interested in sex

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2490 days ago

24 June 2017 (M) - I have had a GF for almost 3yrs, she is 34 and I'm 50 but the sex has almost complete stopped. If I pursue it she will participate and I make sure she is always taken care of first and normally 2X. And although this is not a proff, she sounds like ...

My girlfriend wants to wait but I'm frustrated

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 2486 days ago

24 June 2017 (M) - My girlfriend doesn't want to have sex until she is married. She is a virgin. I am frustrated telling her how important sex is in relationship and how deeply emotionally we can be connected. She even used to give her ex bf liberty to have sex with...

My man has lost his libido

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2365 days ago

23 June 2017 (F) - Dear Cupid, I have been together with my partner for 6 years now. The problem is my man has gone off sex and I don’t know what to do about it. I have talked this through with him and he just says that it’s not important and he doesn’t feel like...

I feel disappointed by my friends' promiscuity

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2494 days ago

21 June 2017 (M) - I am a gay guys with have two other gay friends, who are extremely sexual and attractive. Every time we meet someone who is remotely attractive they make a b-line for them within minutes. They have slept with or tried to sleep with maybe 85% of the ...

Should I end my it with my cybersex buddy ?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 2486 days ago

21 June 2017 (F) - Hello Dear cupid , I have a issue..... I have a pen pal in another country he is in the U.K. And I'm in the USA we met on Instagram it started out friendly but gradually got flirty and sexual we are both really attracted to each other and have ...

Is this guy interested or not?!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2487 days ago

20 June 2017 (F) - I met this guy about a year ago now-we met online and met up, we got on well and had a laugh, he didn't push for sex or anything like that, he was really respectful, I had a boyfriend at the time but the relationship was on its way out due to him ...

Should I break up with my husband so I might be able to be with his friend?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 2487 days ago

20 June 2017 (F) - Hello! I'm 25 and I've been married for 3 years, and I have been relatively happy until now, when I suddenly realized (or suddeny admitted to myself) that I am not in love with my husband any more, and I don't think I have been for almost our whole ...

I can't have sex too often because its so painful but my partner feels unattractive because of this

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 2492 days ago

19 June 2017 (F) - I am 28 and have been with my partner for nearly nine years now. I get cystitis almost every time we have sex. I have had extensive tests to find out why without conclusion. It has been happening for six years. We have also tried everything to ...

Girl friends 'very low sex drive' and says she never feels horny

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2492 days ago

17 June 2017 (M) - My girlfriend and I have been dating for 1 and a half years now give or take and we had allot of sex in the beginning now in te last 6 months it has slowly been declining it's down to about once or twice a month now. I know she is not cheating on me ...

What goes through a man's head when he sees his wife having sex with another man?

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 2484 days ago

17 June 2017 (?) - To make it short my husband and I are into guys joining us for sex . But husband has always joined for sex until recently when at a party when a black guy paid attention to me more than normal. So at husbands request I invited him home for a ...

Boyfriend wanted to use an old tube of lubricant during sex but I got upset because he's used it with previous partners. Am I being silly?

This question has 16 answers - newest was posted 2492 days ago

16 June 2017 (F) - Hi Everyone, So I have a bit of an awkward question, but genuinely don't know if I'm overreacting and too embarrassed too ask friends/family. So my boyfriend of 1 year has had a tube of lubricant in his drawer for a while, I noticed it a whil...

Both my partner and I cheated on each other. Back together now and I'm pregnant but he keeps using my cheating past as a way to justify all his wrong-doings

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2492 days ago

16 June 2017 (F) - I have been with my boyfriend now for 8 months Within the first month of our relationship I found out his ex was still in the picture messaging eachother and she told me they had had sex. When I found this out I thought I was going to leave h...

How do I tell my girlfriend that I'd like her to be my first sex partner?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 2492 days ago

16 June 2017 (M) - I have been dating my girlfriend for 5 months now. I’m defiantly into her. We do a lot of fun things together. I have not had sex yet. She has told me that she has. I would like her to be my first sex partner. I think she is smart, cute, beautiful, ...

Worried he will drop me if I don't go further

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 2500 days ago

14 June 2017 (F) - I am 14 and i have been in this relationship with this boy we have been dating for 3 months and i really like him. The thing is normally we would shift and kiss and all that but he said that he wants to top me this means to take off my shirt and ...

We meet just once a month for sex. This isn't a healthy relationship, right? Should I let him go?

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 2495 days ago

14 June 2017 (F) - I've been dating this guy for about 9 months and he works full time. I only see him once a month and when I do see him it's only for sex. I understand that he has a crazy work schedule but once a month? We've had problems before because he was ...

Why would a man decide, at the last moment, to not use a condom in this way?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 2491 days ago

13 June 2017 (F) - my partner and i was about to have sex and he went to get a condom. When he got it he was playing with the packaging for a few seconds and put the condom to the side. why? After having sex he started to play with that condom again before putti...

I didn't cheat so why do I have crabs and my husband?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 2502 days ago

12 June 2017 (F) - I'm married I found crab louse on me I'm not Committing adultery my husband doesn't have any of those things on his body how can that be?...

Am I too sexual for him? Our sex life seems bland.

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 2496 days ago

10 June 2017 (F) - Hi need some advice on my sex life. So I've been in a relationship for two years and I love my bf very much. The problem is that our sex life is quite bland. I am quite adventurous and kinky I love to go down on him but he doesn't reciproc...

What can I do? How should I handle this? Her sexual past and her ex who was her FWB are issues that are making me feel insecure.

This question has 22 answers - newest was posted 2496 days ago

10 June 2017 (M) - Ok so me and my gf have been going out for about 8 months. And I've been struggling with her sexual past a lot recently. She's slept with about 10 people before me, they were all ons apart from one friends with benefits she had just before we start...

Why can't my wife understand my need to cross-dress? Why is she so upset that I wore her clothes?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 2505 days ago

10 June 2017 (M) - My wife knows I am a crossdresser so why was she so angry at me when I came home the other night. I was completely dressed, with a full make over, my eyebrows plucked super thin with a high arch in them and my ears pierced. She said she knows t...

I advised the male friend that jacking off is normal, but telling me all about it is not. How should I deal with this issue when I raise it with my Bf?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2504 days ago

9 June 2017 (F) - Hello, I've been here historically and your answers have really helped me so I am hoping you can help me with something else as I honestly don't know how to talk to anyone about this or if I should. Before I get into it I need to point out that I...

Male FWB wants me to finger him and I don't want this. Am I being over sensitive?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2496 days ago

9 June 2017 (F) - I just got into a casual fling type relationship with a guy at uni, he's in his final year and leaving this summer so its only for a few months. We haven't had sex yet but have been making out etc. When we were making out last night with undies ...

My husband has me earn lovers by performing painful or degrading acts with him

This question has 17 answers - newest was posted 2496 days ago

8 June 2017 (F) - Hi I'm a bit lost and in need of help. I have been married for 20 years to a man I have always loved. He has always had strange sexual practices and I have always played along, I have always looked up to him and always felt that he was better t...

My husband and I are struggling to move on. Any suggestions on how we can resolve this?

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 2496 days ago

7 June 2017 (F) - Hi. I am a married mom mid thirties. My husband and I have been together for 20 years, married for 13 years. We have 5 children together. We have had a wonderful marriage up until recent. Back in Feb 2015 my husband started to receive texts fr...

My husband doesn't like blow jobs! Am I doing it wrong?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 2496 days ago

7 June 2017 (F) - I know this may sound odd, but my husband hates blowjobs. We've been together 8 years now, married for 2 and it's always been the same since I've known him, he's never enjoyed me going down on him. I have only ever gave 1 guy a blowjob before h...

Is it possible for a virgin to contract a PID?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2507 days ago

7 June 2017 (M) - Hello, I'm in my thirties and I got married about two months ago and my wife is 27. My wife told me she's a virgin,that she didn't have sex in her previous relationships but I opened up to her that I've had sex before. On our first night, she...

My FWB wants me to stay the night while his GF is away. Does my FWB expect something different? Or the same?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 2496 days ago

6 June 2017 (F) - So I've been seeing a FWB guy since we were both 17ish. Its been nearly 10 years and its a continuing thing, never stopped for either of us. But we have both in and out of relationships and we still do it on the DL. Just wondering i guess if...

Feeling confused. What is happening to me? I had sex with him and I'm not over him yet. Even though my feelings for him are fading.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2509 days ago

5 June 2017 (F) - Hello, I'm 17 going on 18 and I am a little confused about my feelings towards a guy. In a nut shell, we've been friends for a while, things got flirty, he hung out a few times, I lost my virginity to him, we decided to stay friends to avoid th...

Is it bad to be 17 (nearly 18) and never had a BF but have had sex? Will that be an issue in the future?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2511 days ago

4 June 2017 (F) - Hi, is it bad to be 17 (soon 18) and never had a boyfriend, but have had sex? I've had guys attracted to me lots in the past (not trying to sound self-centred just being honest), but I've never let things escalate with them because I wanted t...

Recently, my girlfriend starts to bleed everytime she orgasms. What could be wrong with her?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 2501 days ago

2 June 2017 (M) - Hello all, I've been with my girlfriend for around seven years. We are our firsts in pretty much everything. Love her to bits still. No fights, good sex life, nothing wrong really. However, something has occurred in our sex-life which I...

Have I the right to feel narked?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 2514 days ago

1 June 2017 (?) - I have met someone and seen him a few times. I knew it was his birthday coming up weeks ago. I have asked him if he wants to come over the day before his birthday which he has said he would love to do. I mentioned my daughter working at a race ...

I'm worried saying yes to sexual experiment will affect our friendship!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2506 days ago

1 June 2017 (M) - My best friend of 15 years last night was telling me how he's curious to try things with a guy and he went on about it a lot. He kept asking if he could give me head and in all honesty I wanted to say yes but I just didn't want to risk my ...

Should I tell my friend?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 2503 days ago

1 June 2017 (M) - My best friend started dating a girl from our college. But I've had 3some with that girl before. Should I tell him this?...